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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies how did your first MMF go? Im a single fem so don't have the joy of having one of the guys being a friend/partner

It's a massive fantasy turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies how did your first MMF go? Im a single fem so don't have the joy of having one of the guys being a friend/partner

It's a massive fantasy turn on!"

I wouldn't do a MMF if I didn't know one of the guys first....always felt it was more comfortable and safer.

Maybe worth getting to know a guy that would be happy to have MMF fun?

My MMF have all been bi guys with my ex fb....all were very horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first mmf was a bit of a disaster... d*unken internet search. Took him an hour to find the house... and then bf couldnt get it up... the lad came went and then bf got a hard one... we banged for hours after..

Subsequent ones we had lots of fun in... but i always disappointed as the men came and went and left me high and wet.... so it was up to bf to sort me out. Ive had more fun in recent couples meets. So advice would be to know the men so at least you can be satisfied. They can be horny if thwy know what they doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have always wanted to try MMF. Fantasy of mine. Like getting to know someone first so i know what turns each other on.

Just take your time i guess. Get to know individuals and your fantasy may come true.

Good luck x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

just get 2 decent lads that wont take the piss and youll have a ball .. or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first was really hot, my bf and i had never been with anyone else since we fell in love, and he was the first man I have been faithful to, so we were scared it may change our feelings for each other, but in the end had to totally trust each other and gave in to a pushy horny guy, not my type at all, lol, but breaking so many tabboo's all at once was hot as hell, me and bf fucked each others brains out 24/7 for weeks with that meet in mind!

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

Don't rush into anything!

Ideally find 2 guys who regularly play together as a team, they will be more comfortable, and there won't be any awkwardness. There are quite a few of these about, and they are often mates rather than having an MM profile on here.

Best to get a recommendation from another woman you know if possible, who has similar tastes. If not then do meet for a drink all together and make sure there is chemistry.

Good luck, and Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds like the best advice, we have had a few but the best was with an old friend who was bi.

Sometimes it seems like these things are rushed, prehaps we all need a little more time, just to make sure that the atmosphere, chemistry etc are ok.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

playing first time with 2 guys - you dont want them to know each other .. mostly because they will be quite hot to handle and probably have a game pplan in advance.

You will be on the back foot for them off as they will have control, something which you want to give up during the night not right from the off.

Get two guys - with good veris.. they will each want to explore rather than them both knowing what their strentghs are.

Itll be cool - just more wetness than you can handle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find MMf works better if the guys know each other, ive dont a few with guys who had been looking for a woman as a pair and also with two single guys who i have found separately, and i have found that when the guys know each other it just works better than having 3 total strangers in a room, theres a few MM profiles on here looking for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was fabulous, although i was nervous i was soon put at ease, Pork and ukmale421 made a very good tag team lol. And we will be together again New Years Eve at Xastia, very much looking forward to having lots of fun again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"playing first time with 2 guys - you dont want them to know each other .. mostly because they will be quite hot to handle and probably have a game pplan in advance.

You will be on the back foot for them off as they will have control, something which you want to give up during the night not right from the off.

Get two guys - with good veris.. they will each want to explore rather than them both knowing what their strentghs are.

Itll be cool - just more wetness than you can handle

depends what kind of woman you are, i wouldnt go to a house with two guys as i think on their turf they have more control, i always use hotels for meets like this where its neutral ground and i feel more secure about having my say, not everyone will agree with this but i feel in other peoples homes i should show a little respect where as in a hotel i dont, im the type of person who will make sure things go my way and if i met two guys who tried to control the situation i would stand up for myself if it wasnt what i wanted

But i think in general if your not the type of women who can have your say you really shouldnt be doing this, i know a few women who just go along with things because they are to timid to speak up when things they dont like happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key is that all 3 involved are relaxed and comfortable with each other

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

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By *ootballPaulMan
over a year ago

Manchester

All my mmf's have been in clubs where ive got chatting to a couple and its escalated from there. Id go to a club so you can checkout and chat to the lads and then take your pick im sure you'll get plenty of eager volunteers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies how did your first MMF go? Im a single fem so don't have the joy of having one of the guys being a friend/partner

It's a massive fantasy turn on!"

get 2 guys together that you have already played with and go from there when we hold gb we only have regulers there that way they already know us and have already played with Jane and on the plus side all our regulers know each other now so even better fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's worked well for us. But think its better if you know at least one of them. Easy for us because we are a couple. Perhaps having another women with you might help ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't rush into anything!

Best to get a recommendation from another woman you know if possible, who has similar tastes. If not then do meet for a drink all together and make sure there is chemistry.

Good luck, and Enjoy! "

The problem with this, is that the "mate" connection is very strong too, I would not trust this situation, guys make eye signals behind yer back and over yer head, meet guys you trust to treat you as you want them too, if you are too lazy to put the effort into the search, then you will get exactly what you should get!

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