FabSwingers.com forum: Travel for the right people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Happy new year all you lovely sexy people. We have made a new years resolution not to let location stop us meeting people we are very attracted to. A few hours in the car is no big hardship for an amazing sexual experience.But what do you all feel? Would you travel for the right people and why?

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By *opking99Man
over a year ago

Wales

Yes - would travel and meet up. Maybe not after a few messages.

I did travel and meet up with a lovely lady from Bristol once and stayed over with her.

We met up a couple of times again after that

If you don’t make the effort…

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm from Leeds and I have had two very enjoyable meets in Peterborough and Nottingham, with men where we were meeting half way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s quite hard to get meets local so I would definitely travel if I was confident the people I was meeting were genuine

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

I travelled to Niagara once for a meet, via Boston to pick someone up. We drove up, spent most of the journey with my hand in her knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting one. In theory yes. I've done a couple of 5 hour each way runs and they were amazing if bloody tiring.

But one or two gals have made a long pilgrimage here and with about 1/2 the click just wasn't there when we met in the flesh.

So it's a risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I travelled to Niagara once for a meet, via Boston to pick someone up. We drove up, spent most of the journey with my hand in her knickers."

Did you get cramp in your fingers after six hours ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to travel as I don't like to meet locally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would,besides all the hot guys are down South

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We happily travel anywhere for the right people/person

Just a great excuse to book a hotel and make a night away out of it

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

I have travelled a few hundred miles in the past to meet sexy fab friends, and a couple I used to meet regularly was about 150 miles round trip for an evening of fun.....I actuary have on my profile that I would rather travel for the right person than have the wrong person on my doorstep. My regular playmate has an hour and half on the train to visit and I drive an hour to take her home, but she is worth it

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"Happy new year all you lovely sexy people. We have made a new years resolution not to let location stop us meeting people we are very attracted to. A few hours in the car is no big hardship for an amazing sexual experience.But what do you all feel? Would you travel for the right people and why?"

Yes I would travel for the right person and I have done so with no regrets

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"I travelled to Niagara once for a meet, via Boston to pick someone up. We drove up, spent most of the journey with my hand in her knickers.

Did you get cramp in your fingers after six hours ?"

Only 6 hours? Surely it takes longer than that to get to Niagara from Lincolnshire?!

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I live in London so the furthest I've ever travelled for sex in my entire life is 15 miles. Basically just going from south to north.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Only 6 hours? Surely it takes longer than that to get to Niagara from Lincolnshire?!"

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes we would definitely travel. An overnight stay in a hotel, full English breakfast and great sex, what's not to love. Distance is only an issue if you allow it to be.

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By *heklumpsCouple
over a year ago

crawley

"Yes I would,besides all the hot guys are down South

I concur

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"I travelled to Niagara once for a meet, via Boston to pick someone up. We drove up, spent most of the journey with my hand in her knickers."

Didn't your fingers get pruney after six hours

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No I wouldn't unless they were prepared to make a similar effort and meet halfway.

I've travelled 3 hours each way before and because I did it once there was an expectation that I would do it again and again and almighty drama when I refused.

I won't travel more than an hour now.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" An overnight stay in a hotel, full English breakfast and great sex"

Cumberland sausage mmmmmm

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No we won't travel too far. If someone is really interesting and the feeling is mutual we would consider meeting half way socially. A lot of people insist that they'd be happy to travel hundreds of miles and stay in a hotel to meet us for a social but we never encourage it

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We won't travel to meet people and we're not comfortable with people travelling a long way to meet us.We always have a social first and there is no guarantee that we'll play with anyone so we don't think it's fair on the parties involved.

M and M

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

I have no problem travelling. I love driving anyway. If the messaging is going well then a couple of hours is fine with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had too many socials with no spark. I wouldn't travel to meet because I wouldn't want to feel pressured to do something with someone I wasn't massively keen on.

G x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Would you travel for the right people and why?"

Yes. I’ll be doing a lot of that this year.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I prefer to keep it fairly local ... it's just logistics as I no longer drive

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Keep saying I won't anymore. But had 5 meets last year that were at least 2 hours away.

So I'll likely be at it again this year.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't to be honest ,

The amount of no shows here shows why ,people travel for miles to be blocked etc.

I'd only travel a fair way for someone I already knew and trusted,so there's less chance of a no show.

I only meet socially first anyway and most don't want to travel too far for a brew and chat.

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Only 6 hours? Surely it takes longer than that to get to Niagara from Lincolnshire?!

Lincolnshire? I went there once, great on the bike, it's flat

like really flat

If I remember, Manchester to Boston, that was less than 6 hours I think. But Boston to Niagara yeah, that was a long journey. Interesting though, autumn through new England. Ah, when we were young

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I always have traveled for the right woman

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

"I wouldn't to be honest ,

The amount of no shows here shows why ,people travel for miles to be blocked etc.

I'd only travel a fair way for someone I already knew and trusted,so there's less chance of a no show.

I only meet socially first anyway and most don't want to travel too far for a brew and chat.

That is a good point. I've never had a meet direct from this site and wouldn't travel over a hundred miles if I didn't know them. Guess that's asking to be messed around with by a time waster.

Did recently make a long trip for just a coffee and a chat. But we've known each other for almost 2 years.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Due to personal circumstances I am unable to travel longer than a hour to hour and a half and I am unable to do overnight stays or accommodate so for me it’s club or spa meets.

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By *obby!2Man
over a year ago

York

I love to travel for meets, it's all part of the build up. I've travelled up to the borders and down to Norfolk for meets before now. Let's hope 2023 brings some more

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By *bizzleMan
over a year ago

Witham

More than happy to travel. It’s a pretty small country so why let distance ruin the fun!

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By *reamers13Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Yes absolutely

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes definitely would travel for a great meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would, but we would make a thing out if it, ie hotel, little break away etc. Then if we were let down, we still have a little break anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelledsome long distances for meets and never regretted it.

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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk

I'm happy to travel a fair distance for a meet and have done in the past

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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk

"We would, but we would make a thing out if it, ie hotel, little break away etc. Then if we were let down, we still have a little break anyway

That's what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done when with partner, it is not hard to have a pklan b in case you let down. Either another meet or just a good night out in a new place.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Being on the south coast, I generally have too travel. Generally stick to the south-east though, out of sheer laziness.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

furthest we have gone for somebody special is a 120 mile round trip.

I guess it depends on who the meet is with as to how far we would travel.

We are sort of out in the sticks a bit so we accept if we want to meet new people we will have to travel a fair way.

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By *ark69x_glosMan
over a year ago

Cirencester

Hell yes. I've travelled over 3 hours before and had an amazing experience. It's a risk, especially as it involved an overnight so could have been am expensive waste of money, but sometimes you just have to say..."fuck it".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would travel quite a distance as a couple for the right people for sure, although it’s hard to arrange as requires suitable childcare and hotel arrangements.

Rosie will probably go up to an hour or two on her own but not the most confident driver. It’s about connection and attraction for her so willing to put that bit of effort in to find the right guys.

We do tend to insist on a first social meet with her being somewhere local to us she’s comfortable with though, which s out the non-serious folk.

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

I have travelled and I’m happy to travel. But I do get freaked out when people say they are willing to come to me, it’s 250/300 miles away and more, and it’s their first message.

I always feel they either just want a way in to see more pics, otherwise that’s a pressure and kinda scary when they don’t know me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’d travel for the right people

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"… otherwise that’s a pressure and kinda scary when they don’t know me at all "

What about after spending plenty of time getting to know you though?

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

I am happy to travel, just a pain when you travel a fair distance and they dont show.

But these bad times are far outweighed by the good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I travel all over the country for work. For me, car time is nothing. I wouldn't travel at first message. But when we are WhatsApp ing and getting on, and I mean all 3 or 4 then yes. Life is just big long string of decisions. I need a very good reason to not go meet someone against my own instinct. If my boss to me to drive 250 miles to meet someone (which he does) I just go.....

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I've travel midlands London as far as Southampton and Scotland if you have made a trueconection then its worth the travel there and back .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I'm super lazy and prefer to comfort of my own home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to travel as I don't like to meet locally."

Yes that’s our new year resolution certainly will travel for the compatible fabs, too many nosey people around us and we are quite well know in the area and surrounding towns x

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By *ertcamembertMan
over a year ago

Reading area

"Due to personal circumstances I am unable to travel longer than a hour to hour and a half and I am unable to do overnight stays or accommodate so for me it’s club or spa meets."
I have no problem travelling for club and spa meets but would not risk driving any distance for a home meet unless we already knew each other

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By *unRunFun7965Man
over a year ago

Pittsburgh

In the past I traveled a crazy far distance to meet someone and it was completely worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely "

Wow we would love to travel use it as a weekend break in a nice hotel xxx

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

No issues travelling for people here but the distance does create some problems of its own. Accommodation, calendars, pet/child sitters etc. Local would be much easier of course but that's rarely the case is it?

LvM

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By *amhorniestMan
over a year ago

Surrey

Definitely,

Couldn't think of a better reason to travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" An overnight stay in a hotel, full English breakfast and great sex

Cumberland sausage mmmmmm"

Nice our favourites sausage xxx

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope the most I will travel is about 40 mins when I am doing new meets. There is no one I would travel far for as I'm not into one off meets usually and I don't have enough time spare to be traveling far for meets. Plus I do a social first anyhow so I will stick closer to home.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We have travelled to Devon, Carlisle and Newcastle from Cheshire so quite a distance, although we had a couple travel to Spain to meet us which kind of trumps us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love more long distance contacts, more hot people to meet x

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I would but if I’m in the area like I wouldn’t drive a couple hours for like an hour or 2

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No will only meet local x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would yes …. I think if you have the chance I’d something special even be it mind blowing sex you need to act on it, if all else fails it’s a road trip and adventure….. I think turning the negatives to positives is the best way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah

make a trip of it. a weekend away why not?

come up here if you want

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

I’ve travelled over 7 hours to spend new years with friends off here… And I don’t regret any of it

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We have always said we would travel for the right people. For us connection is key. We did an 2 hour journey for a social and no regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have travelled and would again for the right people

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Yes I have travelled and would again for the right people "

Fancy a halfway trip

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over a year ago

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Have also met people half way once met woman from Kent in Leicester for a 3 day meet .then went back to Kent with her just cause if never been before we when to Leeds castle . then I traveled all the way back to Yorkshire .

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Would consider travelling up to 90 mins or 80 miles for the right person/persons but they would have to be really special and wouldn't do it more than once every couple of months

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

sure, i would. and have done before

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By *abluesbabyMan
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

Have even travelled abroad for the right meets

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I tend to work on basis around 90 min max driving most of time.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I’m absolutely happy to travel for the right people, I travel all over the U.K. to do other things I enjoy, so why shouldn’t this be any different?

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I’m in the unusual situation of living abroad, so any meets involve significant travel, so I haven’t done much over the last year, but I really want to try to do more, and meet more. I’ve been in the U.K. for the last few days staying with a fab friend which has been great, and I hope that I can find people who might want to make a trip over to spend a few days with me too, but I know that takes a lot of trust.

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

"… otherwise that’s a pressure and kinda scary when they don’t know me at all

What about after spending plenty of time getting to know you though?

Now that’s something I’m totally down to arranging

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Ive travelled a few hours for first meets before... and done it all again when they led to further meets

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Now that’s something I’m totally down to arranging

See you soon, lady.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

I love going on my travels, this is mostly for club visits but have had a few out of town meets which have been great

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

Unfortunately we have had to implement quite a strict "one hour rule". Char suffers from fatigue and pain issues as long term side effects of chemotherapy. Means she can't travel more than an hour as she'll need to sleep for four hours afterwards!

She also always runs the risk of having a bad turn and having to cancel a meet with an hours notice - we'd feel awful if someone was three hours into a four hour journey and had to turn back.

It's limiting, but it is what it is.

(Bry)

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Travelling is great. More variety, discretion and excitement!!

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