FabSwingers.com forum: How surprised would your family and friends be if they found out you swing?

By *unRunFun7965 OP Man
over a year ago

Pittsburgh

Mine: Very very very very very very very very!

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

Of their nut!!!!

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

They know, my parents did it first

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Not very surprised at a all we guess.

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
over a year ago

goffs oak

Probably shocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my friends and family know I'm bi...but dont think they quite grasp the things I've done lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Very surprised, we're quite discreet as well as being horny

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My family ( the mr ) not shocked at all, swinging is nothing compared to some of the shit I’ve done. The mrs however her dad would probably shake my hand and her mum would be mortified.

The mr

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

They all know at various levels of detail!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Some know, some don't. We're not bothered about them knowing but neither is there burning need to share it with everyone we know. I doubt anyone who knows us and our libertine and loving nature would be surprised.

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Some very surprised, some probably not !!!!

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Very

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Very surprised. They think I am sweet and innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not all that surprised tbh!

I don’t think anyone would guess but I don’t think they’d be shocked haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some already know

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Not surprised at all they have there throughts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They know, my parents did it first

Sounds a bit worrying.

Why didn't they keep it secret from their kids?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very surprised, we're quite discreet as well as being horny

Ps. This woman has the most perfect pert tits you'll ever see, folks!

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By *espectfulBusinessManMan
over a year ago

Essex and London

Some already know and know what I’ve done

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not at all, I've only got my Mom now but each club visit we do, I call her the next day and give her the juicy details lol. She's never done swinging but she's open to people doing whatever they want along as they're happy.

Matts family though... I've no idea what they'd think but I drop hints on social media with "date night" pics of saucy outfits to clubs, pineapple emojis and alsorts lol

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

They’re be shocked and horrified

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Honestly, seeing as my wife and gf have been pretty out as being poly and swingers for years.

And seeing how many of my friends have fet life accounts, probably not surprised at all.

My family. We're not close.

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By *hepherdsbush29Man
over a year ago

shepherds bush

Ain’t it weird that there’s so much stigma yet so many “normal” couples cheat or are just existing with no spark or anything

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Ain’t it weird that there’s so much stigma yet so many “normal” couples cheat or are just existing with no spark or anything "

I follow 'Kinky History' on Insta.

Interestingly, there has been a big jump in interest/acceptability of alternative relationship models (polyamory, ENM, Open Marriages etc.) but also a big jump in people not liking cheating.

So the take away is that people are increasingly happy with people having sex with other people so long as it's something that's agreed on. Which also explains the explosion in kink, swinging and hook-up apps

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Most friends know, some are mildly intrigued, others vicariously live through us! A small number have joined us!

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

Four of Dee’s best friends have known we are a cuckold couple for a long time.

I think society is more accepting of lifestyles that aren’t seen as the norm as long as everyone is safe and enjoying themselves, what’s the problem ?

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By *espectfulBusinessManMan
over a year ago

Essex and London

"Four of Dee’s best friends have known we are a cuckold couple for a long time.

I think society is more accepting of lifestyles that aren’t seen as the norm as long as everyone is safe and enjoying themselves, what’s the problem ?"

Do they ever ask about joining you guys? When a friend found out me and ex was he was so keen to play because he’s always fancied my ex

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Two of my mum's friends who I subsequently became friends with are swingers, who I'm now friends with on here haha!

She's had her suspicions but I played it off, I think others would be surprised but not shocked necessarily.

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By *eteranSwingersCouple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol, Spain

They already know, so no big deal at this point

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Who knows?

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By *espectfulBusinessManMan
over a year ago

Essex and London

Mum and sis know what I’ve done in that sense but don’t know about the site

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