FabSwingers.com forum: Any women that love asian men?

By *aychdot OP Man
over a year ago

Wondering where all the women are that love there Asian men?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *hino96Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not many on here that do

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Wondering where all the women are that love there Asian men?

Love mine so much I married him

Mrs

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering where all the women are that love there Asian men?

Love mine so much I married him

Mrs "

Good on you

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Messaged a load on here and as soon as you send a pic conversation ends.

Was speaking to one recently and she didn't want to exchange pics but happy to chat. Then she decided she wanted to meet because she liked my profile and enjoyed chatting to me. So she sent hers I sent mine and that was it. No more contact, bizarre.

So good luck mate lol

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Prefer Asian women tbh

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

i dont see skin colour i just see hot guys

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *eedsasiansCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Wondering where all the women are that love there Asian men?

Love mine so much I married him

Mrs "

Well said

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is quite difficult

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve find it very difficult on here to find someone that likes Asian Guys. Soon as you mention your Asian the lights goes off.

There are a very few that like to talk to me but nothing more, hence why I’ve hidden my profile and given up.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Colour does come into it as it's how they treat you from cultural perceptive and the physical attraction of darker skin etc. For me it's a definite no go

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ayden_82Man
over a year ago

corby

This has always given me a complex, being mixed Asian I was always not Asian enough for one side of my family and too Asian for the other half, stuck in a limbo of what my identity truly is.

I find it the similar on here too, get some really nice converstions regardless of skin tone and then you also get a message saying oh you’re hot but I wish you weren’t Asian cos I don’t meet them.

I get that everyone has a preference but having a preconceived assumption of a person by their skin colour doesn’t seem to sit right with me.

So for me i can’t change what others think of me, what I can do is keep being myself, be kind and respectful to anyone that I come across.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

The thing is on here you are just a profile with a unknown person behind it. You may be genuine or not, it's a gamble for the person reading it. A lot of fakes, badly behaved gents makes it difficult for the genuine blokes on here.

Now if you are Asian, all that is a plus. You also have to understand that most folks are ignorant because they don't know anything about the culture and lifestyle other than what's read or seen in the media.

I am sure in the real world you will not have a problem with the opposite sex.

Keep your chin up, stay positive, honest profile, decent pics and just be a gent and keep trying. I have had 3 meets on here and they all went well.

Just recently was talking to a lady for over a week and she seemed really keen. Wanted it as a blind meet then when we decided to swap pics the day before the meet and guess what, it went stale and dead lol.

All the best mate.

This is my opinion from my point of view and experience of fab. Each to their own taste and preferences.

Have a good day happy new year

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Colour does come into it as it's how they treat you from cultural perceptive and the physical attraction of darker skin etc. For me it's a definite no go "

I can’t believe someone would post something so ridiculously racist and not be challenged.

It doesn’t help that many of the Asian guys responding themselves assume that they don’t don’t stand a chance with white women. That kind of negative mental attitude is likely to put women off, even if they were/are physically attracted to them.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

"Colour does come into it as it's how they treat you from cultural perceptive and the physical attraction of darker skin etc. For me it's a definite no go

I can’t believe someone would post something so ridiculously racist and not be challenged.

Ignorance WTF

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *illyandjamesCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Lily absolutely adored Korean men!

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

A hot guy is a hot guy.

The women above certainly don’t speak for the majority of us

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ack1HoffMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"A hot guy is a hot guy.

The women above certainly don’t speak for the majority of us

We need more of this type of energy

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"The thing is on here you are just a profile with a unknown person behind it. You may be genuine or not, it's a gamble for the person reading it. A lot of fakes, badly behaved gents makes it difficult for the genuine blokes on here.

I am sure in the real world you will not have a problem with the opposite sex.

Keep your chin up, stay positive, honest profile, decent pics and just be a gent and keep trying. I have had 3 meets on here and they all went well.

All the best mate.

This is my opinion from my point of view and experience of fab. Each to their own taste and preferences.

Have a good day happy new year "

More likely to be she just didn't find you physically attractive.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Colour does come into it as it's how they treat you from cultural perceptive and the physical attraction of darker skin etc. For me it's a definite no go

I can’t believe someone would post something so ridiculously racist and not be challenged.

Tbf, I know and met many people from all different races and I am attracted to their attitude, physical appearance and personality. You can't be just attracted to them just because they are a certain race. If you are, it's pretty shallow response. But if I don't like them, don't I have the right to decline? Just because they want sex and asked me on fab? Don't I have the right to decline? This is the attitude that gives men a bad reputation, expecting every woman they see on fab as easy and will sleep with them just because they want them... it's ridiculous as in real life, it just wouldn't happen like that?! Btw added information, I dated two asian men in the past and yes it was terrible experience. (I met alot of Asian men and have female asian friends too.) But you can say that about any man, regardless of their race, having terrible experience with. Challenge me

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Our first threesome was with an Asian guy it was his first time too. Perfect gentleman we enjoyed several more meets trying different positions and scenarios.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"This has always given me a complex, being mixed Asian I was always not Asian enough for one side of my family and too Asian for the other half, stuck in a limbo of what my identity truly is.

I get that everyone has a preference but having a preconceived assumption of a person by their skin colour doesn’t seem to sit right with me.

So for me i can’t change what others think of me, what I can do is keep being myself, be kind and respectful to anyone that I come across. "

Yeah I get that too.. but I don't let that define who I am.. Still, it's quite hilarious when people can't get it right though.. I've been called Spanish, Greek, Italian, at one stage I was mistaken for a Samoan.. that was a first lol

But end of the day.. you are you..

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Colour does come into it as it's how they treat you from cultural perceptive and the physical attraction of darker skin etc. For me it's a definite no go

I can’t believe someone would post something so ridiculously racist and not be challenged.

Left me a bit confused tbh. You give the old, “I have lots of Asian friends line”, but also say that you had bad experiences with Asian men.

Then mention that could happen with any guy, but then also mention that’s also the reason why you wouldn’t date Asian guys?

It’s probably better to say you don’t like Asian guys. I agree with you there. I personally appreciate that kind of honesty and block those people too from further communications

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Prefer Asian women tbh"

Same

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

"Colour does come into it as it's how they treat you from cultural perceptive and the physical attraction of darker skin etc. For me it's a definite no go

I can’t believe someone would post something so ridiculously racist and not be challenged.

Left me a bit confused tbh. You give the old, “I have lots of Asian friends line”, but also say that you had bad experiences with Asian men.

Then mention that could happen with any guy, but then also mention that’s also the reason why you wouldn’t date Asian guys?

It’s probably better to say you don’t like Asian guys. I agree with you there. I personally appreciate that kind of honesty and block those people too from further communications "

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was based in India for five years and developed an interest in local guys.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was based in India for five years and developed an interest in local guys.

"
wow where did you live in India?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I was based in India for five years and developed an interest in local guys.

wow where did you live in India?"

. Just changing the subject slightly mate, but you have been on Fab for 3 months and have 5 meet verifications. I've been here 6 months and can't even get a reply to a message. I think I need to delete my profile and leave.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was based in India for five years and developed an interest in local guys.

wow where did you live in India?

Dont worry mate, its not you, there is something in Sheffield/ Doncaster air , where everyone seems to be rampant

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking

I feel that Asian men have pretty eyes.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was based in India for five years and developed an interest in local guys.

wow where did you live in India?

Mate I do struggle to get meet in fab but go and attend socials and club meets. It helps people to see you in person and opens up opportunities for further meets.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel that Asian men have pretty eyes.

Not showing my lashes now! Have made women go jealous before

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking

"I feel that Asian men have pretty eyes.

Not showing my lashes now! Have made women go jealous before

Lol exactly

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

"Wondering where all the women are that love there Asian men?

Love mine so much I married him

Mrs "

Great response and likewise

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

[Removed by poster at 04/01/23 08:07:45]

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Colour does come into it as it's how they treat you from cultural perceptive and the physical attraction of darker skin etc. For me it's a definite no go

I can’t believe someone would post something so ridiculously racist and not be challenged.

Left me a bit confused tbh. You give the old, “I have lots of Asian friends line”, but also say that you had bad experiences with Asian men.

Then mention that could happen with any guy, but then also mention that’s also the reason why you wouldn’t date Asian guys?

It’s probably better to say you don’t like Asian guys. I agree with you there. I personally appreciate that kind of honesty and block those people too from further communications "

Correct, they're fine as friends and i known plenty in the past but would never date or have sex with one again. My choice and the issue I have is people pull the race card out when I say it because they don't like what i say. But I can choose who i want to be with. So think it's none of their business if that's my opinion.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *old HoopsWoman
over a year ago

Near Chester

You can have your opinion as its based on your experience. Just understand that tainting a whole race of men can and probably will be seen as racist.

Also, a man would have had his arse handed to him if he came into an appreciation thread for, say skinny women, or redheads and said. "don't like them, total no-go for me".

It was unnecessary and to make out that any pushback is because people don't like that women have choice is gaslighting.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

You can have your opinion as its based on your experience. Just understand that tainting a whole race of men can and probably will be seen as racist.

Also, a man would have had his arse handed to him if he came into an appreciation thread for, say skinny women, or redheads and said. "don't like them, total no-go for me".

It was unnecessary and to make out that any pushback is because people don't like that women have choice is gaslighting.

Yeah sorry op for trying to ruin your thread. Maybe I just wanted other Asian men to read my comments and block me from messaging me as I constantly get messages every day from asians. Never mind, I tried.

Anyways, hope op finds some fans and lovers as I'm sure there's plenty of women who do like, like other asian women etc. Good luck OP

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have your opinion as its based on your experience. Just understand that tainting a whole race of men can and probably will be seen as racist.

Also, a man would have had his arse handed to him if he came into an appreciation thread for, say skinny women, or redheads and said. "don't like them, total no-go for me".

It was unnecessary and to make out that any pushback is because people don't like that women have choice is gaslighting.

Anyways, hope op finds some fans and lovers as I'm sure there's plenty of women who do like, like other asian women etc. Good luck OP"

Just put the usual no Asians or blacks (delete where appropriate) that way, your ignorance will be much clearer rather than mess up the threads on here as you’ve alluded too

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even Asian women and couples do the same, as soon as they see you are Asian. They stop responding.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

You can have your opinion as its based on your experience. Just understand that tainting a whole race of men can and probably will be seen as racist.

Also, a man would have had his arse handed to him if he came into an appreciation thread for, say skinny women, or redheads and said. "don't like them, total no-go for me".

It was unnecessary and to make out that any pushback is because people don't like that women have choice is gaslighting.

Anyways, hope op finds some fans and lovers as I'm sure there's plenty of women who do like, like other asian women etc. Good luck OP"

Now the troll is gone. Shall we start again this thread

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have your opinion as its based on your experience. Just understand that tainting a whole race of men can and probably will be seen as racist.

Also, a man would have had his arse handed to him if he came into an appreciation thread for, say skinny women, or redheads and said. "don't like them, total no-go for me".

It was unnecessary and to make out that any pushback is because people don't like that women have choice is gaslighting.

Thank you for putting words to what I was thinking !

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also married mine x

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like what they like.

Some do and some don’t but now someone has played the race card and it’s shaming time.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *amiebajwaMan
over a year ago

Maidenhead

"Also married mine x"

This is why because the women that like Asian men went and married them x

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People like what they like.

Some do and some don’t but now someone has played the race card and it’s shaming time. "

What races cards that? Care to explain?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Lily absolutely adored Korean men! "

I can understand that, what's not to love!

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Some East Asian men are breathtaking.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

You can have your opinion as its based on your experience. Just understand that tainting a whole race of men can and probably will be seen as racist.

Also, a man would have had his arse handed to him if he came into an appreciation thread for, say skinny women, or redheads and said. "don't like them, total no-go for me".

It was unnecessary and to make out that any pushback is because people don't like that women have choice is gaslighting.

Anyways, hope op finds some fans and lovers as I'm sure there's plenty of women who do like, like other asian women etc. Good luck OP

Just put the usual no Asians or blacks (delete where appropriate) that way, your ignorance will be much clearer rather than mess up the threads on here as you’ve alluded too"

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"I met alot of Asian men and have female asian friends too"

It's common practice that a lot of those who use the "I'm not racist...I've got black/Asian friends" are some of the worst racists going.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

[Removed by poster at 18/01/23 09:09:53]

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"People like what they like.

Some do and some don’t but now someone has played the race card and it’s shaming time.

What races cards that? Care to explain?

You know full well but now you’re also trying to bait people.

Get a life and stop seeking desperate attention.

You make a sweeping and entitled statement about how you feel ethnic minorities should behave in the face of racist views and you have the gaul to respond like that? Pathetic, honestly. "

And they lack the ability to debate, can't even offer proof of their claims and show their true colours and prejudices by brushing it off with "you know full well" etc...

As I stated above, it's also the worst racists who accuse others of "playing the race card", yet can't give reasons why.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my entire life I have Never been able to spot racism, I only see stupidity.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"People like what they like.

Some do and some don’t but now someone has played the race card and it’s shaming time.

What races cards that? Care to explain?

You know full well but now you’re also trying to bait people.

Get a life and stop seeking desperate attention. "

You don’t have guts to explain and shame who

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have your opinion as its based on your experience. Just understand that tainting a whole race of men can and probably will be seen as racist.

Also, a man would have had his arse handed to him if he came into an appreciation thread for, say skinny women, or redheads and said. "don't like them, total no-go for me".

It was unnecessary and to make out that any pushback is because people don't like that women have choice is gaslighting.

This comment was perfection, *chefs kiss*

For the guys who get ghosted after sharing a picture, that must be frustrating. I would recommend having a face pic in your open profile. For me, I find it quite jarring when I've been chatting to someone a while and then their photo does not at all match the mental image I had developed - for that reason I now only talk to guys when I can see their face from the start.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s a good point I agree. I’ve spoken to someone and then provided a face pic and of course everyone has their tastes and the convo MIGHT stop.

They’re most likely not racist, but just didn’t fancy me!

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

It’s all about chemistry, vibes, no matter what skin color x

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"It’s all about chemistry, vibes, no matter what skin color x"

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"It’s all about chemistry, vibes, no matter what skin color x"
Spot on!

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *amiebajwaMan
over a year ago

Maidenhead

"It’s all about chemistry, vibes, no matter what skin color x"

Yessss well said

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately