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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" Not if you enjoy it and would rather she danced naked on top of them. That’s what most of us here would prefer. | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" Have you agreed with her that this is what you both want? | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" what difference does the colour make? | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" No if its just dancing. If she wants more it's time for a chat first. | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?what difference does the colour make?" Exactly this, and no it’s called enjoying yourself. If you don’t like it I think you’re in the wrong lifestyle | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" I’m guessing she loves the bbc then | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?what difference does the colour make?" Exactly this | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" general query here do you go out to the nightclub with her. do you dance with her or have you been told this ? | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" So its alright if its white .... | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" Where does she go out... I would dance with her and no its not cheating as its just dancing | |||
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"Nope i dont like seeing her with others but i saw her twerking on guys black only " I'm genuinely confused OP. If you don't like seeing her with others, what are you doing here? | |||
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum" Love to hear more | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating? general query here do you go out to the nightclub with her. do you dance with her or have you been told this ?" I do dance with her when we go together she doesnt dance with others when am there but i done it twice without her noticing i was there | |||
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"Who cares!! Get on with the black lads!!" I havent got nothing against them i am asain but just sounds weird she gets attention from them | |||
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum" Seems like you've got some serious trust issues to be going out and spying on her mate. Regardless of what she does you'd likely find an issue | |||
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum" If you have followed her then you dont trust her. Both of you can have your own time out as a single person as much as a couple can. Yeah we can all dance with others, It all depends on if it involves kissing or maybe more. Then it becomes an issue. | |||
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum" That is not healthy you followed her with her knowledge that’s creepy and you are on here talking about her and sharing her pictures. The old saying of the cheat will always accuse the non cheating partner | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" Have a word with yourself fella!! You’re no saint being on here! | |||
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"Is she rubbing her arse against their groin area?" Yes | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" Only one way to find out when she comes home lay her down and have a sniff | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating? Only one way to find out when she comes home lay her down and have a sniff " I do its wet | |||
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum" Sounds like shes for the streets my man. Time to move on | |||
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"I dont understand you all whats with the bad opinions " OP; you think it's OK for you to look for pussy but are disgruntled at your girlfriend flirting with guys. | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating? Only one way to find out when she comes home lay her down and have a sniff I do its wet" Most are wet after dancing it's a bit like the forehead | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?what difference does the colour make?" Thank you | |||
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"It's not cheating if she did it with black guys but if it had been blue boys...oh boy" Them goddamn smurfs | |||
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"It's not cheating if she did it with black guys but if it had been blue boys...oh boy Them goddamn smurfs" Could have the Blue Man Group XX | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?what difference does the colour make?" I was wondering that too. What a bizarre comment from the OP. | |||
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum Seems like you've got some serious trust issues to be going out and spying on her mate. Regardless of what she does you'd likely find an issue" This | |||
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"Haven't read the whole thread but yes of course it is. For God's sake, really?! " Thank you | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" dude you are on here??? | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" Why is the word black in this question ? If a girlfriend dances with another man is it cheating ? depends , if dance moves are including his dick rubbing her pussy from behind , her touching him n him her I wouldn’t be very impressed . Does she wants to shag him ? Is she hiding it ? If she is hiding something then is cheating … whatever it is … I used to be in dance floors with thousands of people I would be fucked if I got jealous of my Julie dance with other man . If is just raving or party is not cheating . Is raving . Is dancing . Hiding something then is . Would u feel like cheating on your bird cause u have another sexy bum n pair of hot tits in your face dancing with you ? I never did . I just rave and drink . I get to the sex part with my girl later , If I don’t get to d*unk to fuck Fuck cheating . See no point at all . I understand a trapped lady in a miserable marriage …. Some men don’t give three attention at all . I’m a Samaritan and I have a lot to give . Now … if a guy is decent n good to her n loves her , I feel sorry for him and I can’t do it . Cause that shit hurts . And I refuse to give to the next one what was given to me in 97 Could never do that . | |||
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"Nope i dont like seeing her with others but i saw her twerking on guys black only " She might want the black cock | |||
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"Nope i dont like seeing her with others but i saw her twerking on guys black only She might want the black cock " yh could be right | |||
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"Why would dancing with someone be cheating? " exactly and he's on here | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" Wait... is this a real question? What does the colour of skin have to do with it? Weird. And why TF are you on a swinger site if you can't even cope with dancing? | |||
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"Just found my partner has been messaging a old bouncer on snap...his name in her phone was rach and they have exchanged messages but I can see what I see 1 saying no filter hah hahaha when quizzed she didn't know why I was blocked and couldn't remeber the messages they sent ....help what do u think ?" I think: 1) Start your own thread 2) Start your own thread 3) Don't go through your partner's phone 4) Start your own thread | |||
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum" End the relationship. Seriously. You two should not be together. YOUR behaviour is extremely alarming. What does she think of your fab profile, btw? | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating? Only one way to find out when she comes home lay her down and have a sniff I do its wet" Oh...... Now I get it and it's easy: you posted this in the wrong section. It belongs in Stories and fantasies. Btw, how does she feel about your profile? And photos?! And apparent BBC fetish? | |||
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"She doesn't mind it but when u have a gut feeling like feeling something is wrong it usually is ...was just asking for help sorry" if you're on fab and she knows she can dance with other people. 2 way street | |||
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"She doesn't mind it but when u have a gut feeling like feeling something is wrong it usually is ...was just asking for help sorry" I wasn't asking you. Was the repeated 'start your own thread' mot enough?! | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating? Only one way to find out when she comes home lay her down and have a sniff I do its wet Oh...... Now I get it and it's easy: you posted this in the wrong section. It belongs in Stories and fantasies. Btw, how does she feel about your profile? And photos?! And apparent BBC fetish? " Great minds | |||
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"It's not cheating if she did it with black guys but if it had been blue boys...oh boy Them goddamn smurfs" Hahaha this cracked me up, what about yellow banana man is he just as bad OP your on here as a single bloke so I don't see you as being any better than your accusing your GF of. Time to have an open discussion with her | |||
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"Now she has deleted her chat ....she's fucked up and she knows it ....right?" Glasshouses and stones spring to mind | |||
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"Why can't you go to the club and have fun all together?" Most likely because none of this ever happened | |||
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"The colour of the person she's dancing with doesn't matter but if she's going out and dancing with guys and flirting then she's not exactly loyal " Thank you i agree | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" No, it's fantasising. | |||
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"Seems a few issues here. 1. You are here as a single guy, looking for women? Does your gf know you are here? Does she have your permission for her pics being shown? 2. You have followed her and spied on her. How would you feel if she did this to you? Maybe checked your phone and found this account? 3. Skin colour. We are all just people, skin colour is irrelevant to this conversation. I'd suggest a mature and open, honest conversation needs to be had to understand where your relationship goes next. Wish you well OP. " I think youre looking too deeply into this Hes just having a wank | |||
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"Seems a few issues here. 1. You are here as a single guy, looking for women? Does your gf know you are here? Does she have your permission for her pics being shown? 2. You have followed her and spied on her. How would you feel if she did this to you? Maybe checked your phone and found this account? 3. Skin colour. We are all just people, skin colour is irrelevant to this conversation. I'd suggest a mature and open, honest conversation needs to be had to understand where your relationship goes next. Wish you well OP. I think youre looking too deeply into this Hes just having a wank" Judging by the arrow it's not deep | |||
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"Is this a follow on from your post in stories and fantasies?? The green arrow is so good on here! " So is reverse image search lol. Seems his post isn’t the only fake thing | |||
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"Is this a follow on from your post in stories and fantasies?? The green arrow is so good on here! So is reverse image search lol. Seems his post isn’t the only fake thing " So are all 3 of his pictures fake? We've never used reverse image search? | |||
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"Is this a follow on from your post in stories and fantasies?? The green arrow is so good on here! So is reverse image search lol. Seems his post isn’t the only fake thing So are all 3 of his pictures fake? We've never used reverse image search? " Profile picture deff is! The cock picture probably is his lol | |||
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"Is this a follow on from your post in stories and fantasies?? The green arrow is so good on here! So is reverse image search lol. Seems his post isn’t the only fake thing So are all 3 of his pictures fake? We've never used reverse image search? Profile picture deff is! The cock picture probably is his lol" dont u have something better to do | |||
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"Is this a follow on from your post in stories and fantasies?? The green arrow is so good on here! So is reverse image search lol. Seems his post isn’t the only fake thing So are all 3 of his pictures fake? We've never used reverse image search? Profile picture deff is! The cock picture probably is his lol dont u have something better to do" No too many fake profile on here | |||
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"Is this a follow on from your post in stories and fantasies?? The green arrow is so good on here! So is reverse image search lol. Seems his post isn’t the only fake thing So are all 3 of his pictures fake? We've never used reverse image search? Profile picture deff is! The cock picture probably is his lol dont u have something better to do" Ha ha ha, called you out has she? | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" If she goes to their place and fucks them after without consent. Of course she is cheating. | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" Nope. Only if they stick their cocks in her | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" 1. This is a joke! Right? 2. You are aware of the type of site you are on aren't you? ie you "don't like seeing her with anyone", yet here you are? 3. Does she know you are on here? 4. Just because a woman goes out a lot and dances having a good time doesn't mean she's cheating regardless of colour! | |||
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"More like cheating, having a profile here that your gf knows nothing about. js" There is no girlfriend | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" Are they naked or dressed? Because this could influence my answer. | |||
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"yes, it is cheating if your gf did not communicate it with you from the beginning. " Dancing with other people is never cheating because dancing isn't a sexual act! Doing something your partner doesn't like isn't automatically cheating | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating? Are they naked or dressed? Because this could influence my answer. " dressed | |||
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"She needs a new boyfriend, maybe she's already looking." Maybe that's why she's going out clubbing without him | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" Don’t be daft it’s just dancing ! | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" I've decided this is a wind up, registered as a man, with a couples username, with what I'm assuming(could be wrong (highly unlikely)) female profile pic.....something isn't adding up! | |||
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"Green arrow" Yep, definitely Green Arrow..... I would say this also belongs in the fantasy section and question whether the "girlfriend" actually exists | |||
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"Green arrow Yep, definitely Green Arrow..... I would say this also belongs in the fantasy section and question whether the "girlfriend" actually exists" Jealous much | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating? I've decided this is a wind up, registered as a man, with a couples username, with what I'm assuming(could be wrong (highly unlikely)) female profile pic.....something isn't adding up!" You still replying | |||
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"Green arrow Yep, definitely Green Arrow..... I would say this also belongs in the fantasy section and question whether the "girlfriend" actually exists Jealous much" Not jealous at all..... just calling you out | |||
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"Green arrow Yep, definitely Green Arrow..... I would say this also belongs in the fantasy section and question whether the "girlfriend" actually exists Jealous much" What could they possibly be jealous of? An imaginary girlfriend | |||
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"Green arrow Yep, definitely Green Arrow..... I would say this also belongs in the fantasy section and question whether the "girlfriend" actually exists Jealous much What could they possibly be jealous of? An imaginary girlfriend " Once these fantasists have been caught out via the green arrow and reverse image highlighting stol3n pictures on the profile they really should be banned for the good of the site imo KJ | |||
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"Green arrow Yep, definitely Green Arrow..... I would say this also belongs in the fantasy section and question whether the "girlfriend" actually exists Jealous much What could they possibly be jealous of? An imaginary girlfriend Once these fantasists have been caught out via the green arrow and reverse image highlighting stol3n pictures on the profile they really should be banned for the good of the site imo KJ" Been reported | |||
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?" It’s probably bad dancing, never met a black man yet that has rhythm | |||
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"yes, it is cheating if your gf did not communicate it with you from the beginning. Dancing with other people is never cheating because dancing isn't a sexual act! Doing something your partner doesn't like isn't automatically cheating " no, doing something your partner is not okay with IS cheating. Where is the communication? no communication and doing things behind your partner's back is cheating and is a red flag. Period. | |||
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