FabSwingers.com forum: Women who don’t masturbate

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Happy new year

I’m sure there are many that don’t and I never judge anyone.

Having said that, I’ve always found it a bit odd to find out when a woman says they don’t masturbate. I know many say they’re getting so much sex they don’t need to. I get that.

Just a thought. Wondered what you all thought.

As you were….

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Why do you find it odd?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do you find it odd?"

Not like 3 heads odd. More unusual I guess. Suppose as those I know seem to enjoy it Dom ice and in fact it’s a fundamental part of their sex like, the comparison to those who never have the need to indulge is just one I find interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do you find it odd?

So much not Dom ice #typo #mustcheckbeforesending

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

I do not play with myself unless i am asked by my partner to. I have done it for videos we have in our private file on here. But as a rule i never have masterbated. I get enough off my partner so do not feel the need to.

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By *tsalwaysthequietonesCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

I can only relax enough to play with myself when i'm home alone, but as a Mum of 2 that rarely ever happens, so i'm always a stressed out, uptight ball of nerves and frustration

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"I can only relax enough to play with myself when i'm home alone, but as a Mum of 2 that rarely ever happens, so i'm always a stressed out, uptight ball of nerves and frustration

Same here. But if the sex is good at home masterbation is last on my list of things to do sexwise. Never required to do it if i am honest. Joanne

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By *haz46Woman
over a year ago

Stockport

i masterbate at least once a day

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I can only relax enough to play with myself when i'm home alone, but as a Mum of 2 that rarely ever happens, so i'm always a stressed out, uptight ball of nerves and frustration

You need to find another way to relax

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By *tsalwaysthequietonesCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

"I can only relax enough to play with myself when i'm home alone, but as a Mum of 2 that rarely ever happens, so i'm always a stressed out, uptight ball of nerves and frustration

You need to find another way to relax "

Wine helps

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

My ex wife didn’t, but then again had no interest in sex so I shouldn’t have been surprised.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can only relax enough to play with myself when i'm home alone, but as a Mum of 2 that rarely ever happens, so i'm always a stressed out, uptight ball of nerves and frustration

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yeah I’ve heard this a lot also. Hard enough finding time for sex as opposed to masturbating.

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By *assie101Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm hopeless at it. Unless it's part of playing with another I can't concentrate enough, my mind just wanders off half way through.

It really is a rare thing for me to get off when alone.

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I just do it as and when so that could be all day long, every few days or once in a month, probably getting laid once a week at the mo but have very limited free time so works for me! No set amount, just whatever and whenever I feel like doing something. I need to be fairly relaxed and I’m a stress head most of the time!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I don't think it's strange, each to their own.

I cant go more than a few days without indulging, nothing to do with how much sex I have or don't have... guess we are all very different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just do it as and when so that could be all day long, every few days or once in a month, probably getting laid once a week at the mo but have very limited free time so works for me! No set amount, just whatever and whenever I feel like doing something. I need to be fairly relaxed and I’m a stress head most of the time! "
this sums me up. from a full day at times or nothing for months. depends on how much free time alone maybe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can only relax enough to play with myself when i'm home alone, but as a Mum of 2 that rarely ever happens, so i'm always a stressed out, uptight ball of nerves and frustration

Know that feeling girl!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I haven't for around a year unless it's mutual masterbation, I just don't get the urge to these days, and as said above having small kids around isnt a relaxing environment.

Mrs

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The only time I masturbate is with hubby or playing...

He loves to watch, but otherwise I never think about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went through a low phase where I didn't for about a year. Didn't phase me at all.

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't need to with Logan around

It feels so much more fantastic when he touches me

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By *lirtwithmeWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

This is a really interesting thread to read. So many different points of view

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Some women genuinely don’t masturbate even when they aren’t getting regular sex.

C x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I never used to, at all. It wasn't something people talked about when I was growing up, didn't really experiment until I was late 30s.

Still don't much even now.

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By *tsalwaysthequietonesCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

On the odd occasion I do it, if the stars allign and I have the house to myself, I always feel bad / guilty about it afterwards, like i've done something terrible and abit ashamed of myself, I never get that when im not alone though.

I think im broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely do it nowadays, it's probably once every 3 months or something like that. I just don't feel the need to do it. I think my sex drive peaked at 30 though.

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By *wixtMan
over a year ago

preston

My wife never masturbates and won't even use toys on herself unless I use them on her. She had a religious upbringing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once caught an ex masturbating she was angry that I saw and demanded I leave that day

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Men and women are different though.

Paraphrasing the great Micky Flanegan “Boys wake up at 12years old and decide “I’m gonna have a wank” and after that they never stop” and “if the wife goes out for the day, the first thing men do is run upstairs and have a wank, then the rest of the day is their own!”

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

"i masterbate at least once a day"

Love to give you a helping hand

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Unfortunately my wife doesn’t ever, doesn’t use any toys I bought her in the past !

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Definitely once a day, night just before I go to sleep is good for me, other than that whenever I get time alone

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

At least once a day

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By *bonyGoddessNyxWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Although I can get myself off I don't find it particularly fulfilling so won't bother 99% of the time, not into toys either

I just like playing with other people in whatever form that may be. There's no comparison for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a true story

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Younger women seem way more likely to be bashing out more than older types I find from discussing this with my female friends.

Most of my female friends are between 18-28 with a few 40+

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By *litterbugWoman
over a year ago

Spain

I love my toys. In fact.... That's a great idea

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Although I can get myself off I don't find it particularly fulfilling so won't bother 99% of the time, not into toys either

I just like playing with other people in whatever form that may be. There's no comparison for me"

This is the same for me, I was starting to think I was a bit odd not being particularly into toys, glad to see I'm not the only one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I masturbate but it’s not hugely fulfilling, more perfunctory and when I do it’s like a genital sneeze to clear the head (if that makes sense). As I’m more top-inclined these days I find it less & less interesting having a solo session, than I do using a guy to get myself off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what the OP means. I had a gf that had a lady wank daily, she would text me when she had finished. Another gf brought out a rabbit on our first night in bed and put on a show fof me, she then told me that she regularly frigged herself off several times each week. Another gf told me she never masturbated and could I not mention it again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In her 20s my wife would masturbate alone on the odd occasions but then came along the children and her new job and it completely stop, now it only happens when we are together. I guess with home life and work, along with the stress and just being tired it’s not something she thinks about anymore, which is totally understandable. It doesn’t bother me because together she will play and finds it more pleasurable with me.

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