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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I prefer a social meet before fun. If we get on well socially, it will hopefully transfer to the bedroom. I would be nervous playing without meeting the lady or couple beforehand. What do others prefer?

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

We don't have much time for meeting, so we prefer to play on the first meeting. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have much time for meeting, so we prefer to play on the first meeting. X"

Same, or social then play if feeling is right. We don't mind travelling to meet but 100 miles for a coffee becomes difficult lol

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Social first.

I don’t enjoy disappointment. Being slightly disappointed while wasting an hour or so over coffee is definitely preferable to having disappointing play or having to refuse play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But will if desire is strong enough xx

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By *ocopops1962Man
over a year ago

Glasgow / Lindon

I once had a social with a woman in a motorway services , we talked about a lot of things , her life , her pastimes ( she had many ) her work , her fantasies ( they were wild ! ) - at the end of the meet we kissed ( it was long and passionate and there were other people about ) in the car park and she said that she had shared more of herself with me than on any other meet .

So yes a social is a big part of it for me

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By *renchy19Man
over a year ago

Heathrow

Depends on how the conversation goes beforehand. If it’s an evening meet at a hotel bar I will check the availability of rooms or book a room if things become naughty!! Why not if you both want it.

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We prefer a social 1st to see if there is a connection, it’s difficult to get that feeling from pictures and FAB messages.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I prefer a social meet before fun. If we get on well socially, it will hopefully transfer to the bedroom. I would be nervous playing without meeting the lady or couple beforehand. What do others prefer? "
I will normally chat a short while with people in a club first.. in fact one of the main reasons I don't play with a guy in a club is because he didn't even think saying hello first was the done thing

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By *axim3840Man
over a year ago

Hackney

I don’t mind either way but I think a social first is best.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Always a social first.We just can't know if we want to get naked with people and have sex with them until we've met them.No amount of messaging and chat is a substitute for a quick social.

M and M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs P always socials first. Helps filter out a lot of the less serious meets and gives her chance to see if she’s genuinely attracted

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I'm always up for a social but have had a few first meets that were play. We had both chatted for a while before, and had a good idea of what to expect from each other, so why not dive right in??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to meet somewhere social first but if the night goes well we've played on the first night xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer this. Social and see. Some have been left at socials, some progressed and were more.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I only do socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have much time for meeting, so we prefer to play on the first meeting. X"

Yes, us too

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I do prefer to do a social first due to some past bad meets where I felt obliged too have sex, I won’t do pity fucks anymore. I like to get someone first , unless at a club or party that’s a different vibe

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By *etsGo11Man
over a year ago

burton

Do prefer a social or a face call first

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By *usty KnightMan
over a year ago

Istanbul

I have enjoyed social meets without expectations, however I much prefer meeting at a club , enjoying the spontaneity of meeting and where laughs and lust flow naturally.

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By *etsGo11Man
over a year ago

burton


"I do prefer to do a social first due to some past bad meets where I felt obliged too have sex, I won’t do pity fucks anymore. I like to get someone first , unless at a club or party that’s a different vibe "

Nail on the head with this comment!

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