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By *lueFire OP Couple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

Any other ladies get frustrated at the fact that women are expected to dress up but men can just either turn up in what they want or stay fully clothed in clubs??? Men seem to think it is ok to walk around clubs fully dressed but women are expected to show everything??

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope and while from what I have heard dress down is encouraged it's not a necessity either and to be fair if it was then people could just not attend that club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some it’s just like going to the pub I’m happy to dress down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been to a club so I wouldn’t know but how would you like men to dress? Suits or topless or in their boxers?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If you don't want to show everything, don't. I don't do pressure and if something is expected of me that I'm not comfortable with I don't do it or I don't go

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By *lueFire OP Couple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

"I’ve never been to a club so I wouldn’t know but how would you like men to dress? Suits or topless or in their boxers? "

Well....joggers and football tops are a turn off

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

ive not been to a club.. dress down is this naked or towel round you something along those lines,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never been to a club so I wouldn’t know but how would you like men to dress? Suits or topless or in their boxers?

Well....joggers and football tops are a turn off

Yeah that is really casual. I only wear joggers at home or the gym. Jeans or chinos out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do clubs actually accept sports wear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any other ladies get frustrated at the fact that women are expected to dress up but men can just either turn up in what they want or stay fully clothed in clubs??? Men seem to think it is ok to walk around clubs fully dressed but women are expected to show everything??"
Maybe some form of dress code should be brought in by each club. Until everyone has settled in and the chat started flowing, only then should the attire start coming off. I'm not saying it should be your fanciest garb, just smart/casual. More school reunion than meeting the King type of stuff.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

At the end of the day any club we've been to has a social area where you can dress down or whatever your comfortable with. If you feel pressured, it's not the club for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only been to one club but yes this is something that puts me off. I don’t wear lingerie etc, and I’m a top/into role reversal so I want men to look hot for me. I’m not really into this idea that women have to be the “pretty ones” but men don’t make as much of an effort. I’d love to go to a club where the men swan around coquettishly, showing themselves off.

The one time I went to a club it was an LGBTQ night and I wore a suit. When I go to fetish clubs I crossdress (in a jock & harness). I’d love to go to a swing club and see the guys dressed in jocks & harnesses, like at lgbtq clubs.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Personally, I prefer dressed clubs over dressed down. After a week in work clothes it's nice to wear something decent, smell nice and generally feel like a respectable person! I think most women would prefer blokes to be well dressed instead of strolling around in grotty boxers or the dreaded fluffy white towel!!

As for women, there's no rule to dress up or have everything on display! I think the dresscode for women (in dress down clubs too) is more lenient than for guys!

I do think though that more clubs should be a bit more stringent about dresscode though, if guys are turning up like they just got off the sofa!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

When I meet someone, I do like to make an effort and try to look reasonably presentable, I would expect a guy to do the same x

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It’s after Christmas. My boxers don’t have holes in anymore so my clothes can come off in a club

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"When I meet someone, I do like to make an effort and try to look reasonably presentable, I would expect a guy to do the same x"
i agree,

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By *lueFire OP Couple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

"It’s after Christmas. My boxers don’t have holes in anymore so my clothes can come off in a club

Lol new smart ones

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"It’s after Christmas. My boxers don’t have holes in anymore so my clothes can come off in a club

Lol new smart ones "

Branded smart ones. Now I’ve said that my inbox will be overflowing

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