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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was messaging a new local profile, about 4-5 messages into conversation they are deleted from the site. I know I'm not blocked because when blocked you can still see the old messages. Abrupt.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably overwhelmed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep had quite a few this week probably guys but also some get overwhelmed by messages can't cope with the volume pity really spoiling the site.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Probably overwhelmed "

Agree I did this when I joined the v first day ,no pics and not much text and loads of messages that increased constantly.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

The amount of mail a new woman's profile gets is ridiculous I know when I joined I had a blank profile and within minutes messages started to pour in. I admit I deleted my that profile within a couple of hours as it freaked me out that so many were messaging and some were so pushy and rude.When I came back and it happened again and quite a few from the same people who either told me I was stunning (I still had a blank profile)or were telling me to chat to them and ignore those others who were just preying on newbies and were not safe to be chatting to and I should trust them instead.

It can be overwhelming and I'm not surprised people delete quickly. I found my filters fast the second time though and set them tight and it's been grand ever since.

But I would say whoever you were chatting to OP just thought nah it was too full on getting so many mail. Especially if they didn't find their filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was same deleted my first profile within hours, had hundreds messages and blew my brains lol.

Soon added filters alot easier now.

Being single female still get alot, but learnt to be ruthless and not respond back if not for me.

You send a no thanks back and then get bombarded. Block button gets used alot also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted my first solo profile very quickly. Our couples profile had been active for a few years so I thought I knew what to expect.

I didn’t. It was overwhelming.

This time I hid my profile for the first few hours whist I added photos and txt.

Once I’d unhidden it I didn’t even attempt to answer all the messages, just took it at my own pace.

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