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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya all fellow fabber's we have been on this site for awhile now nd although we are generally happy with the site we do have a few frustrations with it that we'd like to share nd find out if anyone else feel the same. We have found with the majority of peoples profile the pic's vertualy always seam to be pic's of the women with hardly any pic's of the male WHY ? surely if your a couple looking to meet other couples you'd want to see some nice decent photo's of the guys just as much as the girls (nd not just a cock pic) would love to hear from people nd find out if it's just us happy fabbing beck & dave xx

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just ignore the ones you dont like and move onto the next profile. It will make things less frustrating for you.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Ask if they've got any pics of the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have a pic on our public profile showing us both, but as we only meet single guys our pics tend to be just of me...as hubby usually takes all the pics etc .

I agree tho that when we ask for a pic of someone who has messaged us and they send a pic of a cock it tends to be boring, we like to see what the guy looks like first so know where you are coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both on. We do tend to think that sometimes there are no male pictures because they aren't very photogenic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are both on. We do tend to think that sometimes there are no male pictures because they aren't very photogenic!"
too right im pig ugly, its the missus wh is the good looking one,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours used to be mostly of Jayne but more because I am the one that takes the photos although we have tried to add more of us both of late, but we guess the main reason that there are more of the woman and less of the men has more to do with the fact that for most couples who take there own photos, its more a part of for play and they may start off with the man taking the dominant role behind the camera organising his partner into poses and them both enjoying there roles in the game that any thought of taking photos leaves there heads in a short period of time and gives in to sex lol and we all know that after that men are far from impressive and really dont want to be photographed like that pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are both on. We do tend to think that sometimes there are no male pictures because they aren't very photogenic!"

In our public album we only have Ju, but in our private album it's the pair of us. This is mainly because as part of our fun Ju likes to pose and I like to take pics so we a have a ready supply of her. However I feel slightly ridiculous posing and am a bit camera shy.

This will probably be rectified soon with the help of a few Christmas sherrys I shall pull my best poses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends what your 'target audience' is?

If a couple is just looking for guys then it makes sense (unless the male of the couple is bi/curious) to have the majority of the pics of the fem.

If couples are seeking couples then unless you're keen on the concept of 'blind dates' or 'taking one for the team' - then I guess pics of both would be a good idea!

As for those couples seeking the elusive bi-fem, I often think one of the reasons they may struggle is that they are trying to attract interest with just pics of the female half of the couple, rather than both. Having perved, sorry - browsed - a fair few profiles in my time, those that have the most success looking for both couples and single females (guys are lets face it, easier to source!) tend to be those with clear shots of both!

Just the thoughts of a humble single guy - but one that pays a lot of attention to profile pic content and style!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well our public pics only show her, I am in the private ones with face etc..

This is going to sound really bad.. But i think it is true..

Its almost advertising, Show the best of what is on offer haha which is usually the female half.

Most couple profiles you see tend to aim more for the Bi fem side, Almost like we will take you as a couple if we have too hahaha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've never understood this either especially if they are looking for couples, do people think that women will just have sex with anyone as long as the guys are happy with the women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

think they must do we think it's very strange like a lot of people on here but glad to know we ain't the only ones who think the same

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Only 20% of your pics are of the hubby (including ones with wife in them) so while you have lots of pics another couple who might have one hubby pic and 4 wife pics has 20% too. Amazing what you can do with stats lol.

We don't play with couples so have more wife pics for the single guys out there . Have fun and don't let it bother you too much there have been a few threads on this subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On your profile.(op) out of over 30 pics you have around 5 of the male and a couple of you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only reply to cpls that have pics of both partners on their profile as its essential we r BOTH visually attracted to any cpls we may go on to swap with !

Though as we also meet single guys we have more pics of the Missus than me to show them how hot she is !

however our friends only pics show equal numbers of us both together and seperately but r only for those playmates we both find a connection/lust for !! X

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By *ndi2Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We've just put some photos up and there all of Sam. part of reason is that Im usually the one who takes pics and even on holiday Im only ever in a few.

also she's a lot hotter than me .

Were going to get some up of me soon though because i think its only fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its a male dominated thing most of the fab emails may be answer by the man so he just looking for tits and arse.x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I dislike couple profiles where the lady is bi but all the pics are of her. Dorry but as a single bi fem if your a couple wanting to meeta lady to play with both of you then show pics of both of you. Sorry but I need to kniw the profile isnt all about the lady. I want to see the man too. Men can have some lovely pics too.

I get messages from couples with just a pic of the Mrs included!! What good is that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are guilty of the above, male pics never seem to attract any attention or comment so leave them in private and send if interested, there are both, alot if couple profiles mainly with cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have face and body pics of both of us - for friends only

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Even though I am bi I look at the male pics first as I am iften attracted to the lady but often not as much as the man even though I hope to be sexual with both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pics of us both here, but face pics in private xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Think its a male dominated thing most of the fab emails may be answer by the man so he just looking for tits and arse.x"

Not with us, I (f) answer most of the messages we get on behalf of both of us but we both get annoyed if people address just one of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the ones you dont like and move onto the next profile. It will make things less frustrating for you."

Best bit if advice you are going to receive.

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