FabSwingers.com forum: Best place for a 1st meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Club, bar, hotel. All have pro's & con's but what are your preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer clubs these days. At least if they don't show or mess you around you can still have a good night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer clubs these days. At least if they don't show or mess you around you can still have a good night."

I think I'm with you, but can be a bit of pressure if that's the 1st place you plan to meet in person!

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

bar or café for 1st meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer clubs these days. At least if they don't show or mess you around you can still have a good night.

I think I'm with you, but can be a bit of pressure if that's the 1st place you plan to meet in person!"

if you are both comfortable in the club scene then it could be a fun evening. otherwise i would suggest not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Costa. Never done the club thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fairly local pub at lunchtime for a social.

If he don’t show we just have some lunch the. Go home for an afternoon fuck.

Won’t arrange to meet in clubs because of expectations especially with the high entrance fees for single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bar/hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bar or café for 1st meet "

Always a social first.

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By *acko452Man
over a year ago

maldon

"Club, bar, hotel. All have pro's & con's but what are your preferences?"

I’d meet you anywhere you like… so sexy

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I prefer clubs these days. At least if they don't show or mess you around you can still have a good night.

I think I'm with you, but can be a bit of pressure if that's the 1st place you plan to meet in person!"
I won't meet anywhere else... I think its the least pressure environment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to like meeting at mine for the first meet. Have a chat and get to know each other.

But after a bad experience i’ve realised a cafe is the best place for the first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally Costa or drinks

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By *ARKblondeCouple
over a year ago

london

Deserted wasteground...

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Quaint little tea rooms

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Really simple most hotels have bars so meet in the bar,if you like go fuck each other if you don't few beers something to eat and go to your room to enjoy alone or with your partner You're welcome Xx

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Certainly recommend clubs. No pressure, plenty of choice, lots to watch and safe.

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By *om_Sub69Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Hot tub or a bar in town where we would enjoy ourselves anyway. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bar and hotel for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Costa, spoons anywhere like that is good. Definately a social first makes for a better time in the bedroom if it gets there of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it's a social first meet a nice pub or coffee shop somewhere neutral

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you do a hotel who pays the bill??

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I find bars best being mutual ground

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"If you do a hotel who pays the bill??

Split or whoever planned the meet

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I've met in a cocktail bar, outside a church, over breakfast, in a museum... I've never been to a club and suspect I'd be terrible in one, so for me THAT would be the highest pressure environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Costa. Never done the club thing!"
+1 for Costa

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Coffee shop x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Behind the bike sheds

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

somewhere for a drink, either coffee shop or bar/club.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

A large pub like a spoons is good.

Anonymous, nobody is going to notice a couple meeting up.

Made the mistake of meeting up with a couple in my cosy local and felt very much the centre of attention.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Pub for chicken and chips

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Pub for social met for know talk and see if is chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs that ways she can bring friends for support

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

If we get chatting with a couple to the point of wanting a social then we're usually at the point of visiting a club with them. We'll meet in a bar near to the club we've decided to visit together. Have a few drinks, see if we like each other and then move on to the club.

We have had a really nice walking social with one couple. Coffee to go and a long, leisurely walk along the waterfront in Liverpool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is normally a bar or cafe or the bar area of a club if we're in one.

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