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How far would you travel for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So then. How far is too far? Would you stay overnight just to meet someone for fun. Or do you prefer local?

Me - undecided - depends on who it was

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

If it was someone really interested in us and really hot probably about 90 mins or 75 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I don’t drive, probs an hour by public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About an hour or so honestly depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person, if I've met them before... generally an hours travel is no bother for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time me and the Mrs met I traveled 2 hrs 30 mins to see her. Normally I would never do that.

Before that 25 mins to the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hourish

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By *_weadenMan
over a year ago

Near Hull

Made the 4 hour 200 mile journey to London for one meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to stay local

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Local

Ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average 2 hours. Everything here is far apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ll travel just under an hour it seems.

We don’t like anyone to travel further than that either as there can then be expectations.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

If it was good weather, on my motorbike, 50 to 100 miles.

But they'd have to unzip my leathers for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to arrange my meets around family visits etc but normally it is no longer than an hour to an hour and a half from where I am x

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Before. I would travel all over london, but, now I dont really have the time, so it would just be local

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By * o yWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I was North West UK

he was Marbella Spain. Great weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour and half or so I reckon but only been local so far. Driving is no bother for me.

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

Argentina

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By *exySwitches203Couple
over a year ago

Felixstowe

When i was on my single profile max 2 hours, but now max 1 hour unless we are going to a club/party or well known friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on person or persons but 90 mins drive.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I travel about 130 miles every couple of weeks to spend a long weekend with a fab friend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will travel any distance for the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would anywhere for the right person tbh

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

I travel the country for work so in theory have no real issue with travelling long distance for meet but it all depends on the person in question, there would have to be a good connection beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will travel any distance for the right person. "

Well you’re not that far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the moon and back

Hope this line get read by a desperate woman x

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

I’m ruling out Russia just now!

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I'm based in Dublin. I've travelled to Belfast, Chester and Lincoln. I do have family and friends in the UK so travel over fairly regularly anyway so try to arrange a meet, even if its a first meet for a coffee.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Unsure as it would depend upon how well we've clicked but I believe maybe a 2,3 hours journey and spend the night or two if not busy by both

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we've gone from pembs to neath a couple of times, but it was for somebody special to us.

Not sure these days, would have to be worthwhile I guess because travel is so expensive.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'd drive any distance for the right person.

XX

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I don't have transport so unfortunately it's up to the guys if they want to come seem me

As they have to, I always make it worth their time

Furthest was about 120 miles, from Wales, I stayed in a hotel with him overnight & it was Incredible.

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

London to the south of France and it was brilliant

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London


"So then. How far is too far? Would you stay overnight just to meet someone for fun. Or do you prefer local?

Me - undecided - depends on who it was "

Furthest was about 50 miles by train but now I prefer local meets and, generally, won't meet a guy unless he picks me up in his car and returns me home.

Also I will not stay overnight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d prefer a local meet but happily travel for the right person if things align

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anywhere that has decent club nights

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By *inkn12Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I live in Newcastle and have family in London, I also use to follow Arsenal up and down the country to all the away games so travelling isn’t that bad of an idea to me as it’s normal.

If it’s a first time meet I wouldn’t want to travel too far but I’ve been know to take last min 4 hour train rides to meet a fwb, spontaneity over long distance can definitely work! Different strokes I suppose

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By *ayden_82Man
over a year ago

corby

Once drove from London to Liverpool for a meet.

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By *arryandAnnCouple
over a year ago

Hereford

Went to Scotland for a night it was something exceptional. Ended up staying a week.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

For me, if it’s the right person, there’s no such thing as too far.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

As I don't own a vehicle, and live in a rural village where the public transport is a horse and cart, I accommodate only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, if it’s the right person, there’s no such thing as too far."

See folk say that?... But let's also be realistic? If you're prepared to pay the flight to rocket to the moon & back for a 'shag'?... You could possibly pick someone up in your local spoons for a tenner if they were obliging

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Anywhere that has decent club nights "
this for me too

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Depends how hot

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By *asygoingcouple2022Couple
over a year ago

The moon

I traveled 400 miles for one x

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By *asygoingcouple2022Couple
over a year ago

The moon


"I traveled 400 miles for one x "

Was worth it I moved in the next day x still married 22 years later x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to travel a fair distance, I love a sexy weekend away.

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I'm happy to travel a fair distance, I love a sexy weekend away."

You best get in your car then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to travel but only if everything has been planned

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"For me, if it’s the right person, there’s no such thing as too far."

Luton airport waiting, still waiting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local for me. I don't stay out overnight because of the dogs,they can stay at mine though

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

Happy to travel especially if I can do an early morning dog walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I would walk 500 miles and I would walk 500 more just to be the man that walked 1000 miles to give some bird my pork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We travel all round the country! Depends though, if we get on well and they’re far away we book a hotel and go there for the Saturday night. Dirty weekend away you might say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet the right people, I’m happy to drive as far as necessary;)

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends how well you get on with said person. I mean there’s people on my street i wouldn’t even walk to. But I’d happily drive to Devon if the mrs really wanted to.

The mr

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By *aughtyone81Man
over a year ago

wirral

I've travelled 20 miles for a meet 2nd & 3rd meet with same person I stayed over all other meets have been local to where I lived

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By *rEfoxMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I went to Benidorm for a meet. Twice.

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

My most recent meet was 2 hours drive. From our chats the odds were it was going to be worth the effort, and it was.

Also it pays to travel more in hope than expectation generally.

I also live literally in the middle of nowhere on a mountain, so the chances of anyone coming here for a first meet are slim to none.

You just have to make the effort.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"For me, if it’s the right person, there’s no such thing as too far."


"Luton airport waiting, still waiting! "

Oh god, have you been there all night? You must be freezing, you poor thing.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"For me, if it’s the right person, there’s no such thing as too far.

Luton airport waiting, still waiting!

Oh god, have you been there all night? You must be freezing, you poor thing."

Yep, looking hopefully towards any and all easy jet flights in from Glasgow

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Yep, looking hopefully towards any and all easy jet flights in from Glasgow "

You know you’re going to have to message me one day if you want this to actually happen …

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

If I knew them any distance. If they were a stranger not very far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthest was 2.5 hours for my first Fab friend (in Norwich), before that I had a lover in Ipswich, so for three years I travelled 80 miles to see her (just an hour and three quarters). Now my favourite Fab friend is within 20-30 minutes drive.

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By *ewforestguyMan
over a year ago

England


"I will travel any distance for the right person. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right meet I would travel upto to 2 hours.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Can't afford to travel, so has to be local.

If I was away somewhere anyway then I'd consider looking to meet someone in that area.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I prefer to accommodate, but I'm not a hotel, meaning no overnights, at least not until we got to know each other a bit. Also, as I prefer somewhat regular fun to one-offs, I'm not interested in meeting people who need to travel for hours to mine. 1h or 40 miles is about as far as I'd allow.

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By *_nwMan
over a year ago

northwest

Once did an 8 hour round trip ! Totally worth it and I’d do it again

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As other have said it all depends on the person and how we get on prior to actually meeting so as long as I can drive there distance isn't really an issue

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"For me, if it’s the right person, there’s no such thing as too far."


"See folk say that?... But let's also be realistic? If you're prepared to pay the flight to rocket to the moon & back for a 'shag'?... You could possibly pick someone up in your local spoons for a tenner if they were obliging "

It’s not about money though, is it? And it’s not a ‘shag’, it’s a person (or people).

I’ve made good friends on here (probably because of forum chat, let’s be honest) and when we want to get together, I’ll make the effort.

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