FabSwingers.com forum: Over 50s block out..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

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By *akes coupleCouple
over a year ago

Ambleside

Hasn’t happened to us yet.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

It hasn’t happened to me either, on here or in the “normal” world

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Hasn’t happened to us yet. "

Having a vagina makes a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hasn’t happened to us yet.

Having a vagina makes a difference. "

You say that but does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

Cheer up Easy Rider ...........it’s Christmas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily...some of us are looking for 50+ (this is not an invitation to message btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What age are the people are you looking at, for this to be an issue?

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

"...this is not an invitation to message btw

Oh dear...but you know 1 thousand people never even read that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d better make the most of the next few months then.

Though I’d suggest it’s not age that’s the problem.

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

Nah, you're just a young whippersnapper, I just passed 60, completed my first ironman, and still plenty of wonderful ladies to spank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not necessarily...some of us are looking for 50+ (this is not an invitation to message btw

Noted.

I never message Welsh Fabsters at the moment as I know the country is still in mourning over the World Cup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What age are the people are you looking at, for this to be an issue?"

50 apparently!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hasn’t happened to us yet.

Having a vagina makes a difference.

You say that but does it? "

It’s easier to pee sitting down with a vagina

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

Stay at 49

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

I do fine in Fab, maybe it’s geography?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

It’s not always about the age, but having said that, I better bring up my game for the next few months I have left on here.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Compare replies here... With the other similar thread started by a woman.

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By *ityguyMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

Since I hit my 50s I've had several meets youngest being 34 yr old cuckold couple.

Was on an old account that can't access now as been off for a few years.

If there's hope for me there is for any older guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree, different but not obsolete. We still have loads of fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn’t for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

Don't be down hearted

To an extent we all become less visible as we get older. There's no magic trick to turn this around and accepting it is difficult sometimes (as a single man on here I'm afraid you won't get much sympathy either) but you can make yourself more visible by putting yourself out there in a positive way. It's very easy for couples and single women to say they don't have a problem... because they aren't in the majority on here.

Good luck op, I hope 2023 brings you success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Compare replies here... With the other similar thread started by a woman."

Well the ratio of men to women and or couples on Fab will distort any response to similar questions posed by those in the minority.

That said I do think that most men on Fab will be excluded from certain sections of the Fab VoxPop because they will chase anyone in a skirt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

Don't be down hearted

Good luck op, I hope 2023 brings you success

Less visible.........so very true. I noticed around the Xmas dinner table how the effluxion of time erodes opinions and involvement.

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

50? I (Sean) thought 40 was bad! Do you mean it gets worse?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

come on theres some great lookers 50 plus

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

Not for women

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Stop worrying. Get down and naked with the in crowd. 50 is the new 30, but with less wankerness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I hope I can still participate xx

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

i dont think its a age problem i think for guys its a too many guys in competition ...there are loads and loads of over 50s on this site that do very well

#justmyopinion

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It only happens if you let it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on Tune in and drop out ............over 50s are ..........very careful and polite.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

Not to us it doesn't. Have ye faith my friend

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By *.J West YorkshireMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

Put some different socks on Cowboy there's Approx 7 Billion people on our beautiful planet.... of course in such a confined environment that is swinging there will be those that like you and those that don't even care to consider liking you... As well as many that will gladly Sexplore things with you.. keep on keeping on my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

Tbh mate, your attitude by writing this post is why you are struggling in this and other areas of life. I'm 55 and buzzing along.

It must be a mindset for you and you alone to conquer

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

I am 60 and not in the skip yet. Lol

Managing expectations is a good life skill.

Be grateful for what comes your way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it funny how people who block out older men are happy to watch them on cam...

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

We haven't noticed it, been rather busy lately.

Maybe it's more about how you present yourself than the number of years you have attained?

Just my thoughts on it.

Lizzie x

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We aim for couples 50 plus is our outright preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number you could be a fit over 50 and an unfit in your 30s I know which I would choose

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Not necessarily...some of us are looking for 50+ (this is not an invitation to message btw

Noted on both points

50 here for info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is just a number you could be a fit over 50 and an unfit in your 30s I know which I would choose

In there 40s and fit. Lol

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

50? I (Sean) thought 40 was bad! Do you mean it gets worse?

No don't worry, life gets fun after 50 lol

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Age is just a number you could be a fit over 50 and an unfit in your 30s I know which I would choose

I do ironman triathlons, I'm never going to win anything, but one of lifes great pleasures as a 61 year old is leaving people half my age crying at the side of the road

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Age is just a number you could be a fit over 50 and an unfit in your 30s I know which I would choose

I do ironman triathlons, I'm never going to win anything, but one of lifes great pleasures as a 61 year old is leaving people half my age crying at the side of the road

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nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

Damn. I wondered why I hadn't had a shag for 13 years.

Oh, hold on........

Winston

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I meet some lovely people.

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By *iptoptottyWoman
over a year ago

Watford, Herts

I’m 61 and enjoying myself more now than I did when I was younger. Definitely better when you are older.

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I’m 61 and enjoying myself more now than I did when I was younger. Definitely better when you are older. "

Unless you’re a guy…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn’t for me

Some good lady friends

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Hasn’t happened to me, quite the opposite x

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

"It hasn’t for me

Some good lady friends

Hello gorgeous x

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

For starters you must have positive thoughts, negative thoughts will get you nowhere both here on Fab and also in real life.

I joined Fab 10 years ago at the ripe old age of 72, I managed quite well until Covid brought things to a standstill.

Sadly however old age and health issues since then mean that the only activity I have on here now are the Forums which can be really entertaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

Not with us!

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Once you’ve had a dinosaur there’s no going back. Apparently

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By *ub... girlWoman
over a year ago

worcester

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

Are you saying I need to get my fill now before my 50th?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possibly different for a woman but I don't like feeling used so I'll admit this is probably my final fling, dalliance or whatever you'd like to call it x

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"We haven't noticed it, been rather busy lately.

Maybe it's more about how you present yourself than the number of years you have attained?

Just my thoughts on it.

Lizzie x"

This! Whilst we're not actively looking for older folks, age wouldn't factor into anything at all if everyone got on swimmingly and the attraction was there x

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

At least your honest about your age

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Hasn't stopped me.

Maybe as some get older they get fussier

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Not for us it isn't. We're looking for guys who are 40+ so maybe you just need to check out a few more profiles. Old fashioned stuff like personality matters far more to us than age.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

OP just change your age to 49

I’m sure it’ll make a hugeeeeeeeee and you’ll need a PA for your inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It hasn’t for me

Some good lady friends

Hello gorgeous x"

Hello beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your messages. Clearly there are many very successful 50+s and I'm doing something, probably many things wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hasn't stopped me .but i know what you mean m8.but to be honest there is a lot of good looking single women and couples on here who prefer guys 50 and older.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Thanks for all your messages. Clearly there are many very successful 50+s and I'm doing something, probably many things wrong

It's a mind thing. If you think you're old and past it it becomes self fulfilling prophecy. Get to a club, drop your keks and have a laugh. Good for your soul

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By *inglesam28Man
over a year ago

ipswich

Haven't had the pleasure of a 50+ women yet, I think age is just a number I enjoy older women compared to 20 years plus

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Like most things in life you become surplus to requirements once you hit 50 ..noticeable on here too

I do fine in Fab, maybe it’s geography?

What's your secret mate. I'm nearly the same age as you but can't even get a reply to a message on here, never Mi D a meet.

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