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Is it wrong to be both?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it weird to enjoy being both submissive and dominant (obviously not at the same time)? Almost got told off on here because I wasn't strictly one or the other..personally, I don't see why you should limit your enjoyment..Am I alone in thinking this way?

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

it is called being switch......and no there's nothing wrong with it....any D or s should understand that....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Varies for me. Sometimes from minute to minute.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Is it weird to enjoy being both submissive and dominant (obviously not at the same time)? Almost got told off on here because I wasn't strictly one or the other..personally, I don't see why you should limit your enjoyment..Am I alone in thinking this way?"

Isnt that called 'switch'? I thought it was quite usual.

Maybe its just the people who have Dom or Sub lifestyle rather than just dabble that wouldnt agree.

I dont see why not myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol what do you mean is it 'wrong'??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And for me too .. Depends what mood I'm in

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

for me it depends who I'm with but I would never describe myself as truly submissive in any situation anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't like either, im not dom or sub so if i can dislike both cant see why you cant like both you can have my share

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Nope its not wierd.

Its BRILLANT

to be both. Its also challenging.

You can apprecate things much better, and in my mind, greater understanding leads to greater pleasure for you and whomever your doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wrong at all, it's a lot of fun being a switch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be better for both parties. You have a good idea of what both a sub and a dom want in a situation. S&M is cerebral, and as such it pays to understand both sides.

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