FabSwingers.com forum: Couples meeting couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How easy or difficult have you found it to meet another couple you are both happy with?

We think it is not that easy.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Very difficult

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We go to club and have generally found it easy enough on a busy night.

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By *renchy19Man
over a year ago

Heathrow

It can be very difficult. I used to play as a couple and was amazed how tricky finding compatible couples was. Problem is all issues are magnified by 2 for example you now have 4 ppl who need to fancy each other instead of 2. You have to want to do similar things agree on boundaries etc (eg use of condoms or not).

We got to the point that we found meeting at clubs was a much better way of meeting couples as if you get a no show or there is no spark the evening or day isn’t a complete bust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be a challenge.

Half the couples on Fab don’t even have a picture of the male half.

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By *lipandSlide777Couple
over a year ago

Bideford

Very difficult finding couples that all 4 of you connect with. Harder for the bi female as she has to click with both.

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By *aloo42Couple
over a year ago

preston

We've been very lucky met with some very nice couples both home and abroad

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Very very difficult, so much so we haven't met another couple.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not brill on here. Either I'm to easy or everyone else has a mega list of things they want

Club is better

Mrs C

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By *ewcouple200Couple
over a year ago

dublin

We've met some nice people but it's been difficult to find a couple for play..

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we found it very hard to find it very hared to get 4 people to all gel we have had fun with a few couples and still good friends but we now look for men as we seem to get more luck that way and we both like mfm

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Meeting guys us the easy part,?. Finding a couple with same interests as us very hard!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

On Fab it's not easy to meet other couples.

We don't really use Fab for meets, we prefer clubs as that works well for us. There's also the opportunity for group sex, voyeurism and such which are difficult to arrange otherwise.

Nita

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By *omethingfun96Couple
over a year ago

greater london

We have found that Clubs are the best place to meet couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relying on here, it's really difficult. Clubs and social events are the way forward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like many others on here we do exactly the same and meet in clubs. It does work for us.

In an ideal world we would like to meet another couple that we could share a meal and drinks, flirts and laughs with and see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How easy or difficult have you found it to meet another couple you are both happy with?

We think it is not that easy."

We’re finding it impossible at the moment

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"How easy or difficult have you found it to meet another couple you are both happy with?

We think it is not that easy."

It is definitely not easy for a variety of reasons

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By *anPsurreycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Very difficult but always on the look out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Super difficult!! But…. Always on the lookout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult.

Would be easier if couples didn’t just put up pics of the lady.

Then there’s the issue of getting on.

Then playing to the same boundaries.

We have met some great couples on here but only a few.

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By *oupletobewatched99Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Not brill on here. Either I'm to easy or everyone else has a mega list of things they want

Club is better

Mrs C "

Think it’s always easier in the heat of the moment whereas messaging you’re trying to find the perfect match for everything you all want to do rather than just doing a bit of something.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's not easy at all. We've met some great couples but do find it easier to meet single men

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Extremely hard , so we mainly do threesomes or solo in club , enjoy parties more as wife tends to get more fun with fems for bi fun in group play , and if we are both playing with different partners we are not to far apart ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never met a couple, aside from looks making sure everyone is happy, it's making sure everybody is doing what they want too. 4 people's expectations is a lot harder to manage.

Maybe one day though

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By *leo and LeoCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I agree with the majority here in saying it is very difficult. It’s the 4 way attraction part.

We don’t “take one for the team” so to speak, we all have to get along and that can prove difficult.

Even in a club setting, although easier, can still prove to be a little tricky.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

"How easy or difficult have you found it to meet another couple you are both happy with?

We think it is not that easy."

We were shocked after the initial giddy rush of enthusiam just how difficult it waas and remains so.

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

As many have said it’s not easy, particularly on FAB. Social and club events are the way forward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It would probably be easier doing a "come dine with me" for couples and see if there was a spark by the end of the week. if not there should be good food and a laugh

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Very difficult on here. Everything has to align. Bounderies, the sexual click, then there's the availability of all four ppl at the same time,. Can be a nightmare. All the time we've been here only managed to meet with one cpl and we still are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can certainly be difficult, the first couple we met was from here and that was great, we now find it much easier to just go to clubs which is a great, we would love to meet a couple we could do other things with though, nights out weekend away etc

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Personally we have found it really difficult!!

Different for everybody I’m sure, but it’s so hard to find a couple we both like!

And when we do, they don’t like us, or don’t message back!!

Oh well…..it’s still fun looking!!

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Love this idea. Lol

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

@ sweetchillipeppers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to be honest. Find it really difficult to find a couple because most women want bi play....and i lus live cock....and snogging women....lol.oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be a challenge.

Half the couples on Fab don’t even have a picture of the male half. "

We've mentioned this a few times.

Bit like putting out the special offer on the shelf and hiding the rest of the deal

In our experience it's more being able to find mutually available times that is the biggest difficulty. Oh and a slightly weird looking beardy semi-Viking looking guy in the couple has a limited appeal. I'm sure if I cut my hair and had a shave I'd have a more universal appeal but bad bitch loves me so I will stay as I am

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Guess we have been lucky as we have met some gorgeous couples and made life long friends with some, been on many holidays and adventures with fab friends over the years

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Just about impossible:

The couples that message us, we don't seem to fancy, or they end up asking if just the guy can visit us.

Those that message that we do fancy tend to be straight and that doesn't work for how we play.

The couples we fancy, we're too shy to message.

We're too shy at clubs to approach couples because of how we play and needing the female half to be bi.

And even getting over all those hurdles, couples seem to think they don't need to read profiles and are incredibly poor at keeping a conversation going.

What with all that and constant let downs by guys, we're on the verge of giving it all up.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very tricky alot of the time we would play with the women but not the guy.

Clubs are the best place On a busy night.

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By *iJandJCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"How easy or difficult have you found it to meet another couple you are both happy with?

We think it is not that easy."

Hard for us because we are not looking for mf swop

We want MM and FF fun and not that many other couples who don’t want MF swop

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

It’s like herding cats or filling buckets with steam

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"It’s like herding cats or filling buckets with steam "

Or platting fog

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By *nicornExplorersCouple
over a year ago

north east

We lean to clubs more now to meet or arrange as far to many time wasters...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples meeting Single Guys .. the Holy Grail ??

Couples so defensive and cautious, understandably… but we’re here for fun and new experiences, if only a little easier ??

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we've been fortunate

a few times.

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

"It can be very difficult. I used to play as a couple and was amazed how tricky finding compatible couples was. Problem is all issues are magnified by 2 for example you now have 4 ppl who need to fancy each other instead of 2. You have to want to do similar things agree on boundaries etc (eg use of condoms or not).

We got to the point that we found meeting at clubs was a much better way of meeting couples as if you get a no show or there is no spark the evening or day isn’t a complete bust."

This

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We’ve found it incredibly difficult, so much so that we haven’t had a meet yet! We tried clubs to begin with and we’ve had a couple of experiences there, then we thought we would organise meeting others at clubs but it just hasn’t ever worked out. We’re now hoping to arrange a hotel meet in the new year. It is really tough though, we’re lucky to have even one night a month off together so trying to line it up with two other schedules is a logistical challenge and that’s after you’ve managed to find a couple where there’s some degree of attraction between all of you.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incredibly difficult. Almost impossible given what our preferences are when it comes to couples. Most we’ve spoken to in person have turned out to be quite unpleasant too once they’ve realised we don’t do what they’re looking for x

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

"It’s like herding cats or filling buckets with steam

Or platting fog"

Good one

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By *iJandJCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"We’ve found it incredibly difficult, so much so that we haven’t had a meet yet! We tried clubs to begin with and we’ve had a couple of experiences there, then we thought we would organise meeting others at clubs but it just hasn’t ever worked out. We’re now hoping to arrange a hotel meet in the new year. It is really tough though, we’re lucky to have even one night a month off together so trying to line it up with two other schedules is a logistical challenge and that’s after you’ve managed to find a couple where there’s some degree of attraction between all of you.

C x

C x"

Or those who have similar interests are several hundred miles away x

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By *nsatiablebutfussyCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

Definitely pretty rare

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By *unLovingSavagesCouple
over a year ago

South London

Really difficult..club meets are deffo the way forward. Then you can mingle and find a couple you click with.

Also... profiles consisting of just pictures of the lady, or only cock pics of the chap. WTF is that all about.

I'm no oil painting, and my Mrs is deffo considerably more attractive than me. But... I've put some pictures of me on.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and we find it v hard ,I'm straight & many are not looking for partner swapping it seems ,more the elusive ffm .

When we do find a straight couple or one who are happy playing straight we have to factor in four way attraction and then of that's there availability of 4 people.

We have taken a bit of a break with covid & my other halfs health issues but when we start up again,we will probably just use a club if we fancy a meet together.

This is why we kept our single profiles as we met here & already had them.

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By *a_fun_30_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We’ve been really lucky with our experiences from fab so far. Most couples we’ve spoken to have said they find it really difficult but we’ve met with a few couples from here for drinks etc and almost always ended the night going back to the hotel for some fun. We do tend to plan a week or two in advance though and have a good chat beforehand on here or WhatsApp so everyone is fairly confident that there’s a good chance everyone will click. Have met in clubs too but, touch wood, haven’t had any issues with meets we’ve arranged on here so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess we have been lucky as we have met some gorgeous couples and made life long friends with some, been on many holidays and adventures with fab friends over the years

We made very good friends with the first couple that we met here, but have struggled to get our schedules to coincide since early summer. We don't see it as a sprint though and it'll be another great event when we do align again.

Just be nice to add some more friends to our lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding compatible couples that there is a mutual four way attraction, is very difficult…. But then again we are a pair of fussy fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's much easier in a club setting, as it's even difficult getting 4way conversations on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's much easier in a club setting, as it's even difficult getting 4way conversations on here. "

Absolutely concur with this, the club setting does make it much easier x

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By *om_Sub69Couple
over a year ago

Derby

We are in Derby, would be great to meet for a drink and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult. Just so much distrust around. Makes everything Difficult

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It depends what you are looking for…going to a club and then playing alongside another couple and then having things progress is a lot easier.

But a lot of people don’t want that.

We are wanting a couple that we can meet with fairly regularly so we can build up trust and get on well with in and out of the bedroom.

A four way attraction, the guys getting on and then everyone wanting the same things, getting 4 people talking, having guys pictures (and not the standard dick pic) on a couples profile…it’s pretty much impossible.

But we live in hope…

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

We've had mixed results most through party meets although we've met some lovely folk on fabs .. always looking

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

We got to the point that we found meeting at clubs was a much better way of meeting couples as if you get a no show or there is no spark the evening or day isn’t a complete bust."

Absolutely THIS

The vast majority of our meets with couples have been with people we initially met at clubs or parties. Most of our meets with single guys have been via the different websites we have been on over the years.

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By *est kept secretsCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Must be a challenge.

Half the couples on Fab don’t even have a picture of the male half. "

Completely agree with this. Just don't get how you can attract couples when only 50% is visible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends what you are looking for…going to a club and then playing alongside another couple and then having things progress is a lot easier.

But a lot of people don’t want that.

We are wanting a couple that we can meet with fairly regularly so we can build up trust and get on well with in and out of the bedroom.

But we live in hope…

Look no further

We go to clubs in Leeds quite alot and both enjoying being with couples.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"How easy or difficult have you found it to meet another couple you are both happy with?

We think it is not that easy."

More Challenging than it would appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think the only way this situation would come about Is a chance meeting.

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By *b750Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Easy to find single male couples difficult

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We found it quite hard as we are only looking for bi couples so all 4 people need to have a connection .

We changed the way we meet people we only meet people through group socials we become good friends and the connection grows.It’s not ideal for people that want to do instant meets but it’s ideal for us and we’ve met loads of great couples who are also our friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be a challenge.

Half the couples on Fab don’t even have a picture of the male half.

Completely agree with this. Just don't get how you can attract couples when only 50% is visible "

I am in nine of the twenty four public gallery pictures which is a higher than average percentage I think.

Maybes why we don't get so much contact from couples.

In my mind it's better to put people off from the start than that awks moment when you send the males picture and it goes all tumble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very difficult yes..hopefully not impossible

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By *poolfunswingcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We have made some very lovely friends through the lifestyle but these have normally come about from meeting at clubs. There have been times when we have got talking to a couple at a club, not played initially, but we have made future plans to meet up.

We have sadly had some bad experiences with meeting up with couples for the first time, outside of the club scene and this has been due to last minute cancellations or people not being honest about themselves (their ages were in exceeds of 20years more than stated).

However, when you get to make friends, the future meets can be amazing as everyone is that much more relaxed!

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