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By *antric bliss OP   Man
over a year ago

London and elsewhere

Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? "

Strange post?

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

No, it's not based on money, I can voucher. There some are some younger women who like older men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely like older men based on them being older. Not for anything else however everyone is free to do as they please as long as it’s consensual and both parties are happy.

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By *alwholikes2watchWoman
over a year ago

solihull

I’ve never dated a man the same age of me or younger, only ever older. 12 years between us and I am naturally attracted to older.

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By *alwholikes2watchWoman
over a year ago

solihull

I’ve never dated a man the same age of me or younger, only ever older. 12 years between us and I am naturally attracted to older.

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

Like older guys, based on many things (which also mean I don’t solely like older) but definitely not based on money. I’m not planning on marrying them or running away with them!

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

I’m an older guy being in my forties and women have never shown much interest! Hopefully when I’m older I’ll have a better chance!

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? "

I used to love much older guys but now I'm old myself so...

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Morning all as a 56yr old it has been on my mind that i may be to old for this site now, but glad to here there are some ladies that do prefer a mature man x

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By *edgirlWoman
over a year ago

Berkhamsted

Being straight up and honest here, u are in the upper age range on this site. U should definitely vet people quite closely to be sure of their intentions.

But equally u say you're sub but your interests don't include SM or spanking. These are the clues that someone is kinky, seeing as there isn't any other option to specify that.

It might be worth expanding your profile.

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By *antric bliss OP   Man
over a year ago

London and elsewhere

Thanks, a useful tip.

I'm not into being whipped etc.

However, lying on a bench, legs up in stirrups being anally probed by a mf couple was most enjoyable.

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

She much prefers older guys, maybe the odd younger one occasionally but more towards the maturer guy.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Currently involved with a woman almost half my age, who probably earns more than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't give a toss about money, got/make my own. Just like them older, as it's my kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently in the flirting stage with a 40yr woman (19yrs younger than me and not on fab) who I've known for years. Most her past partners been older than her, so she definitely likes the older guy.

Also know she's not interested in a relationship, more friends with occasional benefits.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Mature rather than old, if you don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older men are more respectful, better in bed.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I am old & I don't care I will fuck anybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to think money doesn’t enter into it!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men both young and old are able to project a sense of power and success and hold themselves with great confidence

This can be attractive to women both young and old.

It’s hard wired into our monkey brain.

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By *odg123Man
over a year ago

southampton

Old man here lol

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

Available on both counts!!!

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

I am a young looking 50 year old but feel i am too old for this site so i say its not true

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

age is just a number, it really depends on the individual, I'm in my 50s but feel and act like someone in my 40s. But with age comes experience and some people prefer an older person because of that. For me it's not the age of someone that's important, but if I'm attracted to them physical and mentally.

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

I have always gone for older men as I see them as respectful and to have maturity, my M is 9 years older than me but my fwb’s on fab are all around 16 years younger than me ! So go figure that one ! Rane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always gone for older men as I see them as respectful and to have maturity, my M is 9 years older than me but my fwb’s on fab are all around 16 years younger than me ! So go figure that one ! Rane"

Definitely a juxtaposition.

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By *antric bliss OP   Man
over a year ago

London and elsewhere

I would agree on this.

We are more caring and tender. Not just enjoying a rampant fuck.

I don't cum by fucking any more.

Prefer to pleasure the female with my tongue and then be sucked or wanked and finish myself off over her body.

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By *armale69Man
over a year ago

warrington

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like an older man. Usually more mature, know what they want and how to get it the right way.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

We have years of experience in making decent cups of tea

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I like an older man. Usually more mature, know what they want and how to get it the right way. "

Telford isn't that far.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like an older man. Usually more mature, know what they want and how to get it the right way.

Telford isn't that far..... "

Ninja.........would you walk 500 miles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like an older man. Usually more mature, know what they want and how to get it the right way.

Telford isn't that far..... "

Haha what from Scotland

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? "

The younger women I’ve met were definitely all about the kink of a Dom/sub ‘Daddy’ roleplay……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The downside to older men is they tend to only offer ‘oral for hours’ etc. But then that seems to be a trend across all ages now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status?

Strange post?"

Perfectly good question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older men. Though like anything there’s more to it than age. It has to be about attraction too.

For example, if there were two muscular guys (my type) and one was 30 and the other was 50, I’d be way more likely to go for the older man.

I don’t know why. It’s just what I prefer. Much sexier in my opinion.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

My 22 year old FWB seems to enjoy spending time with me and I’m 56

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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago

Headington, Oxford

I’m not exactly young, but I generally prefer older married men. I just find they make more effort to give me pleasure than most younger guys.

And yes, I have seen men in their 80s when I was in my 40s and enjoyed myself. I think a lot of the attraction in those cases is the naughtiness of being with someone that society says is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither we have a 20 year age gap. For me it was his personality and the confidence.

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

Yes, certainly. I've known a few.

Especially when your hobby is spanking.

Not many ladies want to be spanked by a boy younger than they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status?

The younger women I’ve met were definitely all about the kink of a Dom/sub ‘Daddy’ roleplay……"

You ranggggg?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to both. I get more interest, in the real world, from younger women and I am not minted by any means.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"My 22 year old FWB seems to enjoy spending time with me and I’m 56 "

I hear you. I have FWB outside fab and she is 29. She enjoys my company and holistic energy and I'm 49.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I like an older man. Usually more mature, know what they want and how to get it the right way.

Telford isn't that far.....

Haha what from Scotland "

A mere commute

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status?

The younger women I’ve met were definitely all about the kink of a Dom/sub ‘Daddy’ roleplay……

You ranggggg? "

Ahh, but I’m a baldie living outside of SE Wales….

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Wife likes old men as its taboo and dirty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fwb round my own age or older please

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Wife likes old men as its taboo and dirty."

Now THAT, I like!!

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I’m not exactly young, but I generally prefer older married men. I just find they make more effort to give me pleasure than most younger guys.

And yes, I have seen men in their 80s when I was in my 40s and enjoyed myself. I think a lot of the attraction in those cases is the naughtiness of being with someone that society says is wrong."

I think a ride out to you in the spring would be lovely! xx

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status?

The younger women I’ve met were definitely all about the kink of a Dom/sub ‘Daddy’ roleplay……

You ranggggg? "

Although it's pretty common in the kink world; in fairness it's not just brats. One girl I used to play with was a uni student and she just preferred older men for a number of reasons (nope, not just financial).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wife likes old men as its taboo and dirty."

What makes older men taboo and dirty according to your wife?

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? "

. Probably just me but on dating sites it seems the majority are only interested in me with regards to money and wanting a arrangement

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By *r and Mrs minionCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

There is a age difference between us. I fell for Mr M because of his personality and the way he makes me feel everyday ??

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By *gfbMan
over a year ago

thorne

Dads bod here

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Our conversation is better and more insightful

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I'd like an older man for the same reason I'd like any man - if I'm attracted to them and their company is pleasant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The downside to older men is they tend to only offer ‘oral for hours’ etc. But then that seems to be a trend across all ages now. "

Bit of a generalisation. Personally spending hours dining at the Y seems excessive?

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

Older guy here and I can genuinely say that I receive very little interest (zero) from younger women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Older guy here and I can genuinely say that I receive very little interest (zero) from younger women."

Would you want to be of interest to younger women? I see no attraction in the younger woman as for me there has to be a connection of mind and body?

I can only imagine the post coital conversation...............no actually I can’t!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older guy from older couple. Love the vibrancy a young woman brings to our fun relationship. Sexy, confident, massive sexual energy. Perfect. Don't care what you look like, what you weight. Just happy energy. Contact us please xxx

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? "

Being older doesn't necessarily mean staus and wealth.

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status?

The younger women I’ve met were definitely all about the kink of a Dom/sub ‘Daddy’ roleplay……

You ranggggg? "

Saw you in the cam rooms earlier, some of the requests were cringeworthy

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"The downside to older men is they tend to only offer ‘oral for hours’ etc. But then that seems to be a trend across all ages now. "

Yep see this a lot. Yaaawwnnnn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The downside to older men is they tend to only offer ‘oral for hours’ etc. But then that seems to be a trend across all ages now.

Yep see this a lot. Yaaawwnnnn"

It it not beyond the realms of good communication to, rather than yawn, inform the purveyor of cunnilingus that you are done and to put the kettle on for a brew?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"The downside to older men is they tend to only offer ‘oral for hours’ etc. But then that seems to be a trend across all ages now.

Yep see this a lot. Yaaawwnnnn

It it not beyond the realms of good communication to, rather than yawn, inform the purveyor of cunnilingus that you are done and to put the kettle on for a brew?"

Or just say what you want doing. Flexibility is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like an old man on the scene these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The downside to older men is they tend to only offer ‘oral for hours’ etc. But then that seems to be a trend across all ages now.

Yep see this a lot. Yaaawwnnnn

It it not beyond the realms of good communication to, rather than yawn, inform the purveyor of cunnilingus that you are done and to put the kettle on for a brew?

Or just say what you want doing. Flexibility is the key "

What you want doing!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"The downside to older men is they tend to only offer ‘oral for hours’ etc. But then that seems to be a trend across all ages now.

Yep see this a lot. Yaaawwnnnn

It it not beyond the realms of good communication to, rather than yawn, inform the purveyor of cunnilingus that you are done and to put the kettle on for a brew?

Or just say what you want doing. Flexibility is the key

What you want doing!"

Down boy. Ladies suggestions open

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status?

The younger women I’ve met were definitely all about the kink of a Dom/sub ‘Daddy’ roleplay……

You ranggggg? "

Hotlisted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The downside to older men is they tend to only offer ‘oral for hours’ etc. But then that seems to be a trend across all ages now.

Yep see this a lot. Yaaawwnnnn

It it not beyond the realms of good communication to, rather than yawn, inform the purveyor of cunnilingus that you are done and to put the kettle on for a brew?

Or just say what you want doing. Flexibility is the key

What you want doing!

Down boy. Ladies suggestions open "

Perhaps whilst us oldens are snoozing down at the Y we can write a list of what wants doing?

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Being straight up and honest here, u are in the upper age range on this site. U should definitely vet people quite closely to be sure of their intentions.

But equally u say you're sub but your interests don't include SM or spanking. These are the clues that someone is kinky, seeing as there isn't any other option to specify that.

It might be worth expanding your profile. "

That's you told then fella. Get on with it then.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"The downside to older men is they tend to only offer ‘oral for hours’ etc. But then that seems to be a trend across all ages now.

Yep see this a lot. Yaaawwnnnn

It it not beyond the realms of good communication to, rather than yawn, inform the purveyor of cunnilingus that you are done and to put the kettle on for a brew?

Or just say what you want doing. Flexibility is the key

What you want doing!

Down boy. Ladies suggestions open

Perhaps whilst us oldens are snoozing down at the Y we can write a list of what wants doing?"

Yeah, I snooze off and need a nap half way through

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

See this is plainly where I'm going wrong , seeking older ladies/couples but being older my self I'm on a hiding to nothing.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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For some younger women, I'm sure the attraction of an older man is perceived status/wealth. Me personally? If I want something or to do something, I'm more than happy paying for myself (and others). I'm not going into generalisations like older men are more attentive/better lovers. That's bollocks. It's more individualistic than that. But I like the attitude. The general appearance. It's hard to explain but someone's money rarely factors in to it as long as they're not wasting mine.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"For some younger women, I'm sure the attraction of an older man is perceived status/wealth. Me personally? If I want something or to do something, I'm more than happy paying for myself (and others). I'm not going into generalisations like older men are more attentive/better lovers. That's bollocks. It's more individualistic than that. But I like the attitude. The general appearance. It's hard to explain but someone's money rarely factors in to it as long as they're not wasting mine."

That's good. I ain't no sugar daddy

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By *.J West YorkshireMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? "

I guess it's a father figure in my experience of young uns taking a shine with me which needless to say I would never allow intimacy into this equation... not until I've had my mothering from mature woman...

Desirability comes In many different guises I guess as long as its not exploited who cares if it floats your boat and its acceptable in a legal/Moral sense fill your boots

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? "

On a swinging site where sex is pretty much NSA I doubt women interested in older men would be concerned about the guys bank balance.

My wife has always had a thing for older men and since she was a teenager and nothing tondo with money

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

i am not age ist

i love young and old alike

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

Older here and don’t seem to attract younger women to make a comment x

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By *HE DILF GILFMan
over a year ago

In LA LA LAND

I can vouch for this couple, this young lady does indeed enjoy old men situations, but be warned vanilla is not a favourite flavour, you have to have imagination and creativity

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By *1876Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I love ladies of all ages, but have been lucky enough to enjoy the company of some lovely younger women

If there are any younger ladies in the Dudley area who are looking for an older gent, then please feel free to PM me

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By *HE DILF GILFMan
over a year ago

In LA LA LAND

As a “much older” gentleman (despite what my profile age says) of seven decades plus, there those who seek arrangements, sugar da%%ies, there are those who want gifts, there are those who use fab to promote their “business.” There are also out and out rinsers.

I have experienced them all on here, and yes I have experienced genuine young females who genuinely want to have the experience of a much older and wiser man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 58 on Saturday, so I bloody well hope so

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By *HE DILF GILFMan
over a year ago

In LA LA LAND


"I can vouch for this couple, this young lady does indeed enjoy old men situations, but be warned vanilla is not a favourite flavour, you have to have imagination and creativity"

It would seem that I failed to say who, so this is the couple

https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/_ouple2play

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"I’m 58 on Saturday, so I bloody well hope so "

I have wondered in the past whether honesty with one's age is the right policy on this site. This thread has gone a little way to persuading me that it is. The stories of some younger ladies' preference for older gents without treating them as sugar daddies are also encouraging.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I’m 58 on Saturday, so I bloody well hope so

I have wondered in the past whether honesty with one's age is the right policy on this site. This thread has gone a little way to persuading me that it is. The stories of some younger ladies' preference for older gents without treating them as sugar daddies are also encouraging."

Always be honest. If they don't like it, fuck em, they're not worth it

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"The downside to older men is they tend to only offer ‘oral for hours’ etc. But then that seems to be a trend across all ages now.

Yep see this a lot. Yaaawwnnnn

It it not beyond the realms of good communication to, rather than yawn, inform the purveyor of cunnilingus that you are done and to put the kettle on for a brew?"

You assume I'd let it get that far!

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"As a “much older” gentleman (despite what my profile age says) of seven decades plus..."

Why put an age that is at least 25 years younger than you really are and then say you don't like fakes?

Is it so you can contact people whose age preferences exclude you?

I detect a strong whiff of hypocrisy and downright dishonesty!

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Is 54 considered an older man?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is 54 considered an older man? "

It is to a 30 year old…..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"As a “much older” gentleman (despite what my profile age says) of seven decades plus, there those who seek arrangements, sugar da%%ies, there are those who want gifts, there are those who use fab to promote their “business.” There are also out and out rinsers.

I have experienced them all on here, and yes I have experienced genuine young females who genuinely want to have the experience of a much older and wiser man"

And yet, by misleading people with your profile age, you could be missing out on many more younger ladies…..

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By *HE DILF GILFMan
over a year ago

In LA LA LAND


"As a “much older” gentleman (despite what my profile age says) of seven decades plus, there those who seek arrangements, sugar da%%ies, there are those who want gifts, there are those who use fab to promote their “business.” There are also out and out rinsers.

I have experienced them all on here, and yes I have experienced genuine young females who genuinely want to have the experience of a much older and wiser man

And yet, by misleading people with your profile age, you could be missing out on many more younger ladies….."

Not when the younger females have limitations on their age preferences

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By *idsguySY1Man
over a year ago

shrewsbury

My ex was 24 I’m 47 and can confirm after 9 months I realised it was money

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"As a “much older” gentleman (despite what my profile age says) of seven decades plus, there those who seek arrangements, sugar da%%ies, there are those who want gifts, there are those who use fab to promote their “business.” There are also out and out rinsers.

I have experienced them all on here, and yes I have experienced genuine young females who genuinely want to have the experience of a much older and wiser man

And yet, by misleading people with your profile age, you could be missing out on many more younger ladies…..

Not when the younger females have limitations on their age preferences"

The younger "females" would run a mile from an obvious liar if they've got any sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've always been more attracted to older men. Within reason though, not looking to share their pension or anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to see my mrs with older men

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

There is hope for me yet at 50 then

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"As a “much older” gentleman (despite what my profile age says) of seven decades plus...

Why put an age that is at least 25 years younger than you really are and then say you don't like fakes?

Is it so you can contact people whose age preferences exclude you?

I detect a strong whiff of hypocrisy and downright dishonesty!"

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By *ort_AdmiralMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"As a “much older” gentleman (despite what my profile age says) of seven decades plus, there those who seek arrangements, sugar da%%ies, there are those who want gifts, there are those who use fab to promote their “business.” There are also out and out rinsers.

I have experienced them all on here, and yes I have experienced genuine young females who genuinely want to have the experience of a much older and wiser man

And yet, by misleading people with your profile age, you could be missing out on many more younger ladies…..

Not when the younger females have limitations on their age preferences"

Limitations are there for a reason. You show zero respect by lying. If a younger woman is interested she will make contact, regardless of what age you use. There are many women in here who cut off their preference a year younger than I am. Them’s the breaks. I won’t lie just to chase them down. They’re human beings, not prey.

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By *irthy-HornMan
over a year ago

dronfield

there is always a hidden side to that story

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By *antric bliss OP   Man
over a year ago

London and elsewhere

Thanks for all your replies. Good to know that so many women like older men.

I remember at the old Kestrels / Abfab, there was a lady in her 20s who always went with me first for a massage and some oral stimulation which finished with me cumming on her. She would cum herself and then leave our locked room to play with people of her own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have met older guys and never let the side down i do enjoy a bit of mature now and again lol

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By *1876Man
over a year ago

Dudley


"have met older guys and never let the side down i do enjoy a bit of mature now and again lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about the sexually confident older Woman, experienced, looking for pleasure… mostly fun… they know what they like and what they offer .. super sexy

Most amazing time you will ever have is with a mature sexy woman … they know all the skills and how to please a man and most importantly themselves …

Nothing better than to wake up and feel used and abused an older, mature .. sexy Hotwife ??

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

nope they dont like older men we are fucked,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s classed as older?

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"have met older guys and never let the side down i do enjoy a bit of mature now and again lol"

And that's why you've been on my hot list for ages! X

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By *BW TV JadaTV/TS
over a year ago

North West

Prefer older than me but there is a limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older man here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? "

You got louis vuitton money op?

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By *otdave75Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford


"What’s classed as older? "

What’s classed as older? If your older than the girl you are with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s classed as older?

What’s classed as older? If your older than the girl you are with

"

yes but a day older is classed as older if that’s what’s ur saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well. my wife loves an older cock or two

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Gentle, and make an effort( i thought), thats why I have mature men in my age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean? I’m an older guy and wondered if I’m missing out lol

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By *antric bliss OP   Man
over a year ago

London and elsewhere

More than 10 years your senior.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

My profile age shows 4 score years and 2 (82),and that is what I am, I see no point in trying to deceive people by shaving a few years off.

If people pass me by then so be it, that is their prerogative, not a big issue for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def the older you get in my opinion it becomes harder to meet, I have a rule..nobody younger than my kids, 31,32 so I have made my own life difficult

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Like a good _ed wine, if one takes care of him/herself, years make us more exquisite and intense.

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By *umshootistMan
over a year ago

Sapcote

I’m 58 now and especially enjoy meeting older couples

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

There's a lot of old man threads right now. Guys, stop worrying, get naked and live life

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I genuinely like older men based on them being older. Not for anything else however everyone is free to do as they please as long as it’s consensual and both parties are happy."

Great profile and pics.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yeah I find older men more mature and can work their way around a women without the rush to just get off! And then go! They make time and effort but for me it's all about attraction and personality aswell its really hard to get a good mix of it all though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Away from FAB and the world of swinging, I think status and money definitely could come into it but not on here.

John

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By *ullSocialRobbiesWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status?

I used to love much older guys but now I'm old myself so..."

agree ...nowadays most men are younger ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old fart here

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’m not attracted to men over 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our type of fun now we're older

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

They are. It’s very common just like some younger men like older women.

I do much better with younger women because the completion - younger men - are so bad. But with older women I struggle because the same competition - younger men - I can’t match. Figure that out !!!

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By *od2016Man
over a year ago

cardiff


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status?

The younger women I’ve met were definitely all about the kink of a Dom/sub ‘Daddy’ roleplay……"

Definitely this is true of some. Had quite a few younger FWB that loved the D/S DD/LG dynamic. I get off on delivering somebody’s kink so win win

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By *entlemanlyStud30Man
over a year ago

london

I haven’t found many younger women who like men my sort of age I must admit.

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By *aystay66Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Can get a few messages off younger lady's

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I hope there are some!

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? "

I think that some women visually filter out by age (speaking as an older guy) and that’s fine, we all have preferences.

Personally I just love women…any age is fine, and just sitting in the pub with mates I find that of those women that look at me, you can always tell an ‘interested’ look from a casual glance. Not sure how to explain it and for me at my age it’s rarer than it used to be but I can still spot it.

Specially around closing time

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Two or three months ago, completely out of the blue, I was contacted by not just one, but two young ladies in the space of a week...

....it was highly flattering to have attracted their attention - both were in their 20's, and seemed genuinely keen to meet and play...

....unfortunately, nothing came of either approach - despite extensive message exchanges with one in particular...

....but it gave this 62 year-old renewed hope that I'm not only fit for the knacker's yard just yet!

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I have always preferred older women but as I have got older myself (now 53) my tastes have changed and am now interested in ladies in their 20s and 30s. If only one or two would message me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always preferred older women but as I have got older myself (now 53) my tastes have changed and am now interested in ladies in their 20s and 30s. If only one or two would message me..."

Wow..........desperate ain’t init

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By *pinningfasterWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

If someone is well presented, mature and vibes well, thats much more important than money!!

I'm not into men really, but I'm definitely not looking for someone's money!! I have my own (not much of it lol but it comes in regularly and its enough!!)

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By *979Man
over a year ago

Doddington

Im 43 and I’ve recently been with a few younger girls in their 20s, they definitely like an older guy


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go for older men because they usually have their heads screwed on better than younger guys. And I have found the sex to be infinitely better. I couldn't care less if I was with a guy without a penny to his name as long as he was genuine and lovely.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Two or three months ago, completely out of the blue, I was contacted by not just one, but two young ladies in the space of a week...

....it was highly flattering to have attracted their attention - both were in their 20's, and seemed genuinely keen to meet and play...

....unfortunately, nothing came of either approach - despite extensive message exchanges with one in particular...

....but it gave this 62 year-old renewed hope that I'm not only fit for the knacker's yard just yet!"

Not wanting to burst your bubble but were they actually genuine?Unfortunately it isn’t unknown for fake profiles to engage in message exchanges, but when it comes to arranging a meet they suddenly go quiet or avoid answering the question.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Not wanting to burst your bubble but were they actually genuine?Unfortunately it isn’t unknown for fake profiles to engage in message exchanges, but when it comes to arranging a meet they suddenly go quiet or avoid answering the question.

"

I'm quite confident that one of them is - the other, I'm wasn't so sure...

....I've been around long enough to generally be able to suss out most fakes - some quite quickly, sometimes it takes a little longer...

....but it's not just fake profiles who wind up and string people along - that sort of thing happens with verified ones too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife 30, since turned 30 has agreed to try alot ot things but of we do guys 60 +

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"They are. It’s very common just like some younger men like older women.

I do much better with younger women because the completion - younger men - are so bad. But with older women I struggle because the same competition - younger men - I can’t match. Figure that out !!!

"

I think the delight of non monogamy, polygamy - or however we choose to describe it - is that we can have both isn’t it?

If I meet a man in his early thirties (wouldn’t look for younger than that) his appeal is usually physical attractiveness, youthful vigour/ardour and enthusiasm. He also needs to be good fun and able to hold a conversation.

With a man 40 to 55 I’m willing to forgo some of the athleticism for intelligence, worldly wisdom/knowledge and a certain sophistication more common in mature people.

What I’m saying is - I consciously look for different attributes in different age groups. I think many people do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a man 40 to 55 I’m willing to forgo some of the athleticism

Thank you for being so considerate............very magnanimous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife 30, since turned 30 has agreed to try alot ot things but of we do guys 60 +"

Again thanks for being so benevolent for “doing” 60+ guys. Very kind.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"With a man 40 to 55 I’m willing to forgo some of the athleticism

Thank you for being so considerate............very magnanimous."

I thought so too!

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon


"With a man 40 to 55 I’m willing to forgo some of the athleticism

Thank you for being so considerate............very magnanimous.

I thought so too! "

Just because a man is 40-55. Does not mean you have to forgo some of the athleticism.

I am doing alright for 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a man 40 to 55 I’m willing to forgo some of the athleticism

Thank you for being so considerate............very magnanimous.

I thought so too! "

I am happy to forgo the same athleticism but would want the counterpart to be made up of some intelligence and articulacy.

If you able to have a chat on the 5k run in the morning happy to explain.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

who is this guy,,

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"With a man 40 to 55 I’m willing to forgo some of the athleticism

Thank you for being so considerate............very magnanimous.

I thought so too!

Just because a man is 40-55. Does not mean you have to forgo some of the athleticism.

I am doing alright for 50 "

You are indeed my lovely. Far better than I am. ??

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

im 57 and doing ok thanks

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By *inglesam28Man
over a year ago

ipswich

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By *inglesam28Man
over a year ago

ipswich

I'm a 28 year old male and genuinely sexually attracted to the more mature lady nothing to do with money or anything else. Just find them hot! major turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? "

In my younger days this was the case. The better things in life....helped make the guys even sexier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too many people in their 70's on here, but mostly men. I think there is a limit that people will consider. Clyde is good for his age, but most girls when swinging tend towards younger and fitter (but not every girl is like that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? In my younger days this was the case. The better things in life....helped make the guys even sexier! "

I hope not I’m just a regular hardworking guy, no status whatsoever and don’t want a goldigger

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"Are some younger women genuinely sexually attracted to old men?

Or are their motives based on money and status? In my younger days this was the case. The better things in life....helped make the guys even sexier!

I hope not I’m just a regular hardworking guy, no status whatsoever and don’t want a goldigger"

Hear, hear. Any hint of gold-digging is a red flag.

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Age is only a number

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By *addy bareMan
over a year ago

lakeside

In am older guy and I've found most younger girls are genuinely into older guys.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"In am older guy and I've found most younger girls are genuinely into older guys."

Now that's interesting. How big has your sample been, to coin a phrase, to arise at that conclusion?

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Freudian slip there - it should be arrive...

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By *r ShenanigansMan
over a year ago

Lancing

I'm 60 and currently playing with a lady not much older than my daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife loves older men shes 50 and wont say no to guys in their 70s sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, some are. It can't be based on money or status as I have neither. Nor do I consider women younger than my children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 20 years younger than my husband. I also have multiple friends that have partners 20 years older. We been together for 12 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50,s happy dad bod here available

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By *irebrand 1263Man
over a year ago

near you

Younger appeals but some older ladies are really hot too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH is 25 years my junior

They out earn me three fold

Our relationship isn't based on financial benefit

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By *atangMan
over a year ago

bolton

Prefer men over 60

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By *andyh78Man
over a year ago

manchester

Seen two women lately 23 and 22 who seem genuinely into a 50 year old.

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By *acer962Man
over a year ago

Wokingham

67 and all working as it should

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

70 and currently having sex with 39 year old

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By *ensman100Man
over a year ago

Hounslow


"70 and currently having sex with 39 year old"

Respect! Nice one!

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