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"Some good points here. Not sure about the “giving back” not met one single guy who could dominate Hoodoo Man . We’re looking for single guys and women who understand pleasures and not egos. We have found that women are far more in touch and naturally more connected and comfortable with this dynamic than men. " most of the messages from guys we get go straight to talking about fucking a "married female". I always think thats a secret need to feel like they're cucking the husband - L. | |||
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"i think men are not all the same surprise surprise and i think there will be several reasons why too many men get lumped in one category i dont think ive ever met 2 men the same let alone loads op if you dont feel right meeting men now your attached then maybe dont meet them ? or make sure from the beginning via messages that your meeting the right guys for you ... but all men are not the same in fact in my eyes there are far more good men than sometimes this scene portrays each and everyone will have there own agenda and not all are bad .... thats my view anyway " Thanks for your reply. I can see this working in your relationship and completely understand why your experiences as an attached female have developed these opinions and feelings. However we are not looking for a cuckold situation for the simple reason that Hoodoo Man is in no way a Cuck . He’s masculine. Commanding, confident, strong and packing. He’s ex military and experienced many different situations I can’t even imagine being in. Our issue is, why does every single guy who contacts us think he is Bull or Alpha even when our desires are explained. We both want to experience and share different people together male and female within our boundaries. It’s not about anyone feeling superior, if anything it’s about our love, kink and relationship together. Anyone who doesn’t respect that doesn’t get past the second message. | |||
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"Some good points here. Not sure about the “giving back” not met one single guy who could dominate Hoodoo Man . We’re looking for single guys and women who understand pleasures and not egos. We have found that women are far more in touch and naturally more connected and comfortable with this dynamic than men. It’s a real shame especially when it’s not what you’re looking for. Hoodoo laughs about their insecurities lol most of the messages from guys we get go straight to talking about fucking a "married female". I always think thats a secret need to feel like they're cucking the husband - L." | |||
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"i think men are not all the same surprise surprise and i think there will be several reasons why too many men get lumped in one category i dont think ive ever met 2 men the same let alone loads op if you dont feel right meeting men now your attached then maybe dont meet them ? or make sure from the beginning via messages that your meeting the right guys for you ... but all men are not the same in fact in my eyes there are far more good men than sometimes this scene portrays each and everyone will have there own agenda and not all are bad .... thats my view anyway Thanks for your reply. I can see this working in your relationship and completely understand why your experiences as an attached female have developed these opinions and feelings. However we are not looking for a cuckold situation for the simple reason that Hoodoo Man is in no way a Cuck . He’s masculine. Commanding, confident, strong and packing. He’s ex military and experienced many different situations I can’t even imagine being in. Our issue is, why does every single guy who contacts us think he is Bull or Alpha even when our desires are explained. We both want to experience and share different people together male and female within our boundaries. It’s not about anyone feeling superior, if anything it’s about our love, kink and relationship together. Anyone who doesn’t respect that doesn’t get past the second message. " i was not answering from a cuckold point of view that was a general view the problem is alot of men just dont know how to be they get attacked for everything they do so they are dammed if they do and dammed if they dont .... i think it all to do with the chat before hand and telling them what you expect .. | |||
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"Some good points here. Not sure about the “giving back” not met one single guy who could dominate Hoodoo Man . We’re looking for single guys and women who understand pleasures and not egos. We have found that women are far more in touch and naturally more connected and comfortable with this dynamic than men. It’s a real shame especially when it’s not what you’re looking for. Hoodoo laughs about their insecurities lol most of the messages from guys we get go straight to talking about fucking a "married female". I always think thats a secret need to feel like they're cucking the husband - L." Yeah we totally get what you mean. for us we feel like the ones that say about it feel like they must be the exception. - L. | |||
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"i think men are not all the same surprise surprise and i think there will be several reasons why too many men get lumped in one category i dont think ive ever met 2 men the same let alone loads op if you dont feel right meeting men now your attached then maybe dont meet them ? or make sure from the beginning via messages that your meeting the right guys for you ... but all men are not the same in fact in my eyes there are far more good men than sometimes this scene portrays each and everyone will have there own agenda and not all are bad .... thats my view anyway Thanks for your reply. I can see this working in your relationship and completely understand why your experiences as an attached female have developed these opinions and feelings. However we are not looking for a cuckold situation for the simple reason that Hoodoo Man is in no way a Cuck . He’s masculine. Commanding, confident, strong and packing. He’s ex military and experienced many different situations I can’t even imagine being in. Our issue is, why does every single guy who contacts us think he is Bull or Alpha even when our desires are explained. We both want to experience and share different people together male and female within our boundaries. It’s not about anyone feeling superior, if anything it’s about our love, kink and relationship together. Anyone who doesn’t respect that doesn’t get past the second message. i was not answering from a cuckold point of view that was a general view the problem is alot of men just dont know how to be they get attacked for everything they do so they are dammed if they do and dammed if they dont .... i think it all to do with the chat before hand and telling them what you expect .. " | |||
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"As said in first response, we do and yet the guys still only interested in being the dominant one and their own fantasies. They never get past the second message, hence why we prefer to play with couples than singles. However we both do want threesome, moresome with other singles. Much easier to get males involved yet most are just time wasters and guys who think the female isn’t satisfied and easy lol . I have my bull we want experiences now not egos. i think men are not all the same surprise surprise and i think there will be several reasons why too many men get lumped in one category i dont think ive ever met 2 men the same let alone loads op if you dont feel right meeting men now your attached then maybe dont meet them ? or make sure from the beginning via messages that your meeting the right guys for you ... but all men are not the same in fact in my eyes there are far more good men than sometimes this scene portrays each and everyone will have there own agenda and not all are bad .... thats my view anyway Thanks for your reply. I can see this working in your relationship and completely understand why your experiences as an attached female have developed these opinions and feelings. However we are not looking for a cuckold situation for the simple reason that Hoodoo Man is in no way a Cuck . He’s masculine. Commanding, confident, strong and packing. He’s ex military and experienced many different situations I can’t even imagine being in. Our issue is, why does every single guy who contacts us think he is Bull or Alpha even when our desires are explained. We both want to experience and share different people together male and female within our boundaries. It’s not about anyone feeling superior, if anything it’s about our love, kink and relationship together. Anyone who doesn’t respect that doesn’t get past the second message. i was not answering from a cuckold point of view that was a general view the problem is alot of men just dont know how to be they get attacked for everything they do so they are dammed if they do and dammed if they dont .... i think it all to do with the chat before hand and telling them what you expect .. " Agree 100% about egos. Everyone satisfied fully, equally or nobody happy. Xx | |||
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"Believe it or not, but the same shit happens to attached men. Not that I am at the moment. I can walk to a pub, clubs or other social environment's on my own and no woman would battered an eyelid. However, if I walkend accompanied in the same places with a woman, all of a sudden women look at me. I don't get it and I never understood why? I just let let go over my head and not get involved in the nonsense what i witnessed. " The acknowledgement that a woman finds you attractive is a good initial safety net for a woman. But just because a man is with a woman, I wouldn't find them ALL attractive. Lol | |||
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"Do you feel mr hoodoo is perhaps expecting guys who contact you to jump through unrealistic hoops?" | |||
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"I’m not a fan of the Alpha thing, a real Alpha doesn’t need to posture or have titles, it’s almost as though it’s known but doesn’t need saying, plus there are many forms of alpha depending on what it is you are after. As a single woman on here of course you didn’t have any trouble, the reality being that you guys hold all the power, it doesn’t happen without your say so, there are laws about men being the original alpha male stereotype. As for now it just sounds like you haven’t met the right third wheel " | |||
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"I don't think they actually do prefer being with attached women. It's a numbers game and single women are a rare find in this game, couples are a lot easier to reach and connect with." | |||
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"I like the sound of your partner, he's holding other men accountable, he knows what men are like and can see straight through them. They might be able to keep up the facade with women, but not him." | |||
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"Hold out until you meet the right person, it's equally a hard as a single woman. Like you say, lots of interest, but low quality!" I think it sounds like it's hoodoo that will decide who's the right person | |||
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"Hold out until you meet the right person, it's equally a hard as a single woman. Like you say, lots of interest, but low quality! I think it sounds like it's hoodoo that will decide who's the right person " | |||
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"I know we both will decide and this is another difficulty in couple. Both have to be happy, Hoodoo has suggested plenty of guys, we have discussed in detail and he has been very positive and eager, yet I was the one who said no. I think you may be projecting your own relationship or experiences onto Hoodoo which says more about you than it does Hoodoo Hold out until you meet the right person, it's equally a hard as a single woman. Like you say, lots of interest, but low quality! I think it sounds like it's hoodoo that will decide who's the right person " I don't even know what you're on about now | |||
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"Perhaps you need to relax a bit. You talk of egos but everything about how you come across is egotistical. It feels like you're making it all into some great big pissing contest. You talk of people respecting your relationship but respect is a two way street. Treating the men you hope to meet as a third wheel (your words) is really disrespectful. You get out what you put in and maybe a good place to start is treating others as equals " pretty much this. No one should be a third wheel or have to jump through hoops to prove they are worthy of a meet. If it's not mutual pleasure and respect for all involved then it shouldn't happen. No one should be made to feel they are there to be a plaything in someone else's fantasy.
Yes it can be hard to find the right person but treating them as a third wheel you'll just get people who won't care about anything bar getting a fuck,any decent guy who respects himself and others would walk away if they are treated like that. Decent guys have more respect for themselves than to jump through hoops. I bet your partner wouldn't so why expect others to. | |||
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"Perhaps you need to relax a bit. You talk of egos but everything about how you come across is egotistical. It feels like you're making it all into some great big pissing contest. You talk of people respecting your relationship but respect is a two way street. Treating the men you hope to meet as a third wheel (your words) is really disrespectful. You get out what you put in and maybe a good place to start is treating others as equals " | |||
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"Perhaps you need to relax a bit. You talk of egos but everything about how you come across is egotistical. It feels like you're making it all into some great big pissing contest. You talk of people respecting your relationship but respect is a two way street. Treating the men you hope to meet as a third wheel (your words) is really disrespectful. You get out what you put in and maybe a good place to start is treating others as equals
pretty much this. No one should be a third wheel or have to jump through hoops to prove they are worthy of a meet. If it's not mutual pleasure and respect for all involved then it shouldn't happen. No one should be made to feel they are there to be a plaything in someone else's fantasy.
Yes it can be hard to find the right person but treating them as a third wheel you'll just get people who won't care about anything bar getting a fuck,any decent guy who respects himself and others would walk away if they are treated like that. Decent guys have more respect for themselves than to jump through hoops. I bet your partner wouldn't so why expect others to. " | |||
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"Many thanks for your input and we are glad how well you are doing with journey. However looking at your verifications and experiences especially the as it appears just the female half of the relationship is getting the attention is the exact opposite of what we are looking for. No need to relax, it’s easy to find single men who just want to fuck and feel more confident when the male partner is just watching. This would not work for us as Hoodoo will never come second to anyone. Yet the single guys who contact us assume this or hide it as part of their agenda. Your experiences are yours but not what we are looking for. Nothing to do with jumping through hoops, it’s about fitting our dynamic, if you don’t fit then you will feel you have to jump through hoops or feel the third wheel. This is what we want to avoid not create. Perhaps you need to relax a bit. You talk of egos but everything about how you come across is egotistical. It feels like you're making it all into some great big pissing contest. You talk of people respecting your relationship but respect is a two way street. Treating the men you hope to meet as a third wheel (your words) is really disrespectful. You get out what you put in and maybe a good place to start is treating others as equals "I think you maybe didn't read our verifications very well. My partner has never just watched. In fact, with only a couple of exceptions, we play together. Everyone involved. My partner doesn't come second and I think it's an incredible jump that's brought you to that conclusion. Or wilful ignorance. Again, I'd suggest if you softened the air of arrogance you might fare better. | |||
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"Couples reply more than single women profiles. Most aren’t bothered if single or not as long as no drama. (Obviously not speaking for all of making presumptions- just based on all my single male friends comments and being here years!) It’s all a numbers game. Single male profiles are more likely to get replies from couples than they are single females purely cos there’s more of them. Also answers why you think they treat your partner like a third wheel- cos they don’t care and just want the women. " As a bloke it's this in a nut shell | |||
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"Some good points here. Not sure about the “giving back” not met one single guy who could dominate Hoodoo Man . We’re looking for single guys and women who understand pleasures and not egos. We have found that women are far more in touch and naturally more connected and comfortable with this dynamic than men. most of the messages from guys we get go straight to talking about fucking a "married female". I always think thats a secret need to feel like they're cucking the husband - L." | |||
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"Couples reply more than single women profiles. Most aren’t bothered if single or not as long as no drama. (Obviously not speaking for all of making presumptions- just based on all my single male friends comments and being here years!) It’s all a numbers game. Single male profiles are more likely to get replies from couples than they are single females purely cos there’s more of them. Also answers why you think they treat your partner like a third wheel- cos they don’t care and just want the women. " | |||
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"Many thanks for your input and we are glad how well you are doing with journey. However looking at your verifications and experiences especially the as it appears just the female half of the relationship is getting the attention is the exact opposite of what we are looking for. No need to relax, it’s easy to find single men who just want to fuck and feel more confident when the male partner is just watching. This would not work for us as Hoodoo will never come second to anyone. Yet the single guys who contact us assume this or hide it as part of their agenda. Your experiences are yours but not what we are looking for. Nothing to do with jumping through hoops, it’s about fitting our dynamic, if you don’t fit then you will feel you have to jump through hoops or feel the third wheel. This is what we want to avoid not create. Perhaps you need to relax a bit. You talk of egos but everything about how you come across is egotistical. It feels like you're making it all into some great big pissing contest. You talk of people respecting your relationship but respect is a two way street. Treating the men you hope to meet as a third wheel (your words) is really disrespectful. You get out what you put in and maybe a good place to start is treating others as equals
I think you maybe didn't read our verifications very well. My partner has never just watched. In fact, with only a couple of exceptions, we play together. Everyone involved. My partner doesn't come second and I think it's an incredible jump that's brought you to that conclusion. Or wilful ignorance. Again, I'd suggest if you softened the air of arrogance you might fare better." | |||
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"Granted I don’t read them fully more a quick glance. However glad you have raised that my attention and now I have taken a more in-depth look. Not sure what any others might think but all I see is K and further down Molly mentioned very little about Mr. I really don’t think I got it wrong at first. Whilst you clearly deny it, it doesn’t make it true. Think you need to put Cuckolding on your interests. Poor Cuck doesn’t even know he’s being Cucked. No wonder you’re such an adversary for single guys lol. This is the what as a couple we are talking about. The BS and justification people tell you rather than just being honest. We mainly play together, pull the other one love lmfao Many thanks for your input and we are glad how well you are doing with journey. However looking at your verifications and experiences especially the as it appears just the female half of the relationship is getting the attention is the exact opposite of what we are looking for. No need to relax, it’s easy to find single men who just want to fuck and feel more confident when the male partner is just watching. This would not work for us as Hoodoo will never come second to anyone. Yet the single guys who contact us assume this or hide it as part of their agenda. Your experiences are yours but not what we are looking for. Nothing to do with jumping through hoops, it’s about fitting our dynamic, if you don’t fit then you will feel you have to jump through hoops or feel the third wheel. This is what we want to avoid not create. Perhaps you need to relax a bit. You talk of egos but everything about how you come across is egotistical. It feels like you're making it all into some great big pissing contest. You talk of people respecting your relationship but respect is a two way street. Treating the men you hope to meet as a third wheel (your words) is really disrespectful. You get out what you put in and maybe a good place to start is treating others as equals
I think you maybe didn't read our verifications very well. My partner has never just watched. In fact, with only a couple of exceptions, we play together. Everyone involved. My partner doesn't come second and I think it's an incredible jump that's brought you to that conclusion. Or wilful ignorance. Again, I'd suggest if you softened the air of arrogance you might fare better."What you see is verifications from socials. Nights out. Not play meets. And yes for the most part I go to Meet & Greets on my own with my Fab girlfriends. Not always, but mostly. When it comes to meeting others for sex, that's something we do together in the majority of cases and our verifications show that quite plainly. They also show that we both have had solo meets. Not just me. You're choosing to not see that because you've already decided that you know our sex life better than we do. You've seen my name mentioned more in our verifications and presumed them to be play meets. You've decided we're into cuckolding and that my partner is a cuck based purely on the fact I go to more M&Gs with friends than he does. Not only that, you've mocked it. But in a way, by doing that and in how you've responded, you've illustrated exactly what I was talking about in my first reply...you get out what you put in. | |||
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"Granted I don’t read them fully more a quick glance. However glad you have raised that my attention and now I have taken a more in-depth look. Not sure what any others might think but all I see is K and further down Molly mentioned very little about Mr. I really don’t think I got it wrong at first. Whilst you clearly deny it, it doesn’t make it true. Think you need to put Cuckolding on your interests. Poor Cuck doesn’t even know he’s being Cucked. No wonder you’re such an adversary for single guys lol. This is the what as a couple we are talking about. The BS and justification people tell you rather than just being honest. We mainly play together, pull the other one love lmfao Many thanks for your input and we are glad how well you are doing with journey. However looking at your verifications and experiences especially the as it appears just the female half of the relationship is getting the attention is the exact opposite of what we are looking for. No need to relax, it’s easy to find single men who just want to fuck and feel more confident when the male partner is just watching. This would not work for us as Hoodoo will never come second to anyone. Yet the single guys who contact us assume this or hide it as part of their agenda. Your experiences are yours but not what we are looking for. Nothing to do with jumping through hoops, it’s about fitting our dynamic, if you don’t fit then you will feel you have to jump through hoops or feel the third wheel. This is what we want to avoid not create. Perhaps you need to relax a bit. You talk of egos but everything about how you come across is egotistical. It feels like you're making it all into some great big pissing contest. You talk of people respecting your relationship but respect is a two way street. Treating the men you hope to meet as a third wheel (your words) is really disrespectful. You get out what you put in and maybe a good place to start is treating others as equals
I think you maybe didn't read our verifications very well. My partner has never just watched. In fact, with only a couple of exceptions, we play together. Everyone involved. My partner doesn't come second and I think it's an incredible jump that's brought you to that conclusion. Or wilful ignorance. Again, I'd suggest if you softened the air of arrogance you might fare better.
What you see is verifications from socials. Nights out. Not play meets. And yes for the most part I go to Meet & Greets on my own with my Fab girlfriends. Not always, but mostly.
When it comes to meeting others for sex, that's something we do together in the majority of cases and our verifications show that quite plainly. They also show that
we both have had solo meets. Not just me. You're choosing to not see that because you've already decided that you know our sex life better than we do. You've seen my name mentioned more in our verifications and presumed them to be play meets. You've decided we're into cuckolding and that my partner is a cuck based purely on the fact I go to more M&Gs with friends than he does. Not only that, you've mocked it.
But in a way, by doing that and in how you've responded, you've illustrated exactly what I was talking about in my first reply...you get out what you put in. "Fair play for responding in a classy way to what quite frankly was a rude, condasending and belittling post that exposed the worst of the OP. Many would have fought back against such a venomous attack but you rose above them x  | |||
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"i think men are not all the same surprise surprise and i think there will be several reasons why too many men get lumped in one category i dont think ive ever met 2 men the same let alone loads op if you dont feel right meeting men now your attached then maybe dont meet them ? or make sure from the beginning via messages that your meeting the right guys for you ... but all men are not the same in fact in my eyes there are far more good men than sometimes this scene portrays each and everyone will have there own agenda and not all are bad .... thats my view anyway " Thank you x | |||
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"Granted I don’t read them fully more a quick glance. However glad you have raised that my attention and now I have taken a more in-depth look. Not sure what any others might think but all I see is K and further down Molly mentioned very little about Mr. I really don’t think I got it wrong at first. Whilst you clearly deny it, it doesn’t make it true. Think you need to put Cuckolding on your interests. Poor Cuck doesn’t even know he’s being Cucked. No wonder you’re such an adversary for single guys lol. This is the what as a couple we are talking about. The BS and justification people tell you rather than just being honest. We mainly play together, pull the other one love lmfao Many thanks for your input and we are glad how well you are doing with journey. However looking at your verifications and experiences especially the as it appears just the female half of the relationship is getting the attention is the exact opposite of what we are looking for. No need to relax, it’s easy to find single men who just want to fuck and feel more confident when the male partner is just watching. This would not work for us as Hoodoo will never come second to anyone. Yet the single guys who contact us assume this or hide it as part of their agenda. Your experiences are yours but not what we are looking for. Nothing to do with jumping through hoops, it’s about fitting our dynamic, if you don’t fit then you will feel you have to jump through hoops or feel the third wheel. This is what we want to avoid not create. Perhaps you need to relax a bit. You talk of egos but everything about how you come across is egotistical. It feels like you're making it all into some great big pissing contest. You talk of people respecting your relationship but respect is a two way street. Treating the men you hope to meet as a third wheel (your words) is really disrespectful. You get out what you put in and maybe a good place to start is treating others as equals
I think you maybe didn't read our verifications very well. My partner has never just watched. In fact, with only a couple of exceptions, we play together. Everyone involved. My partner doesn't come second and I think it's an incredible jump that's brought you to that conclusion. Or wilful ignorance. Again, I'd suggest if you softened the air of arrogance you might fare better.
What you see is verifications from socials. Nights out. Not play meets. And yes for the most part I go to Meet & Greets on my own with my Fab girlfriends. Not always, but mostly.
When it comes to meeting others for sex, that's something we do together in the majority of cases and our verifications show that quite plainly. They also show that
we both have had solo meets. Not just me. You're choosing to not see that because you've already decided that you know our sex life better than we do. You've seen my name mentioned more in our verifications and presumed them to be play meets. You've decided we're into cuckolding and that my partner is a cuck based purely on the fact I go to more M&Gs with friends than he does. Not only that, you've mocked it.
But in a way, by doing that and in how you've responded, you've illustrated exactly what I was talking about in my first reply...you get out what you put in. " | |||
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"Errr presumed because what couple who meet mainly together yet the female part of the couple goes to M&Gs majority without her partner and with female friends? Some of these are weekend aways. As for they also show errr not really, have to be honest 95% are about you on your own without partner. No assumptions here just following patterns. So as stated in my first response to you, we as a couple are not looking for the dynamic you having, we suggested cuckold which you strongly denied yet we’re sticking with our initial assumption regardless how you dress it up. K or Molly you clearly rule the roost and all the best to you. We’re looking for a different dynamic that’s all. As for you get out of what you put in, we couldn’t agree more unfortunately the single guys we have interacted with haven’t put it in . Certainly not like we have to our relationship, desires and expectations. Yet couples and single women are far more in tune and invested in the intimacy and connection. Have to be honest your verifications show why you have a hard time understanding this. Especially being on your own the majority of the time yet somehow mainly play with your partner mmmmmm strange is all we’re saying, nothing more. Granted I don’t read them fully more a quick glance. However glad you have raised that my attention and now I have taken a more in-depth look. Not sure what any others might think but all I see is K and further down Molly mentioned very little about Mr. I really don’t think I got it wrong at first. Whilst you clearly deny it, it doesn’t make it true. Think you need to put Cuckolding on your interests. Poor Cuck doesn’t even know he’s being Cucked. No wonder you’re such an adversary for single guys lol. This is the what as a couple we are talking about. The BS and justification people tell you rather than just being honest. We mainly play together, pull the other one love lmfao Many thanks for your input and we are glad how well you are doing with journey. However looking at your verifications and experiences especially the as it appears just the female half of the relationship is getting the attention is the exact opposite of what we are looking for. No need to relax, it’s easy to find single men who just want to fuck and feel more confident when the male partner is just watching. This would not work for us as Hoodoo will never come second to anyone. Yet the single guys who contact us assume this or hide it as part of their agenda. Your experiences are yours but not what we are looking for. Nothing to do with jumping through hoops, it’s about fitting our dynamic, if you don’t fit then you will feel you have to jump through hoops or feel the third wheel. This is what we want to avoid not create. Perhaps you need to relax a bit. You talk of egos but everything about how you come across is egotistical. It feels like you're making it all into some great big pissing contest. You talk of people respecting your relationship but respect is a two way street. Treating the men you hope to meet as a third wheel (your words) is really disrespectful. You get out what you put in and maybe a good place to start is treating others as equals
I think you maybe didn't read our verifications very well. My partner has never just watched. In fact, with only a couple of exceptions, we play together. Everyone involved. My partner doesn't come second and I think it's an incredible jump that's brought you to that conclusion. Or wilful ignorance. Again, I'd suggest if you softened the air of arrogance you might fare better.
What you see is verifications from socials. Nights out. Not play meets. And yes for the most part I go to Meet & Greets on my own with my Fab girlfriends. Not always, but mostly.
When it comes to meeting others for sex, that's something we do together in the majority of cases and our verifications show that quite plainly. They also show that
we both have had solo meets. Not just me. You're choosing to not see that because you've already decided that you know our sex life better than we do. You've seen my name mentioned more in our verifications and presumed them to be play meets. You've decided we're into cuckolding and that my partner is a cuck based purely on the fact I go to more M&Gs with friends than he does. Not only that, you've mocked it.
But in a way, by doing that and in how you've responded, you've illustrated exactly what I was talking about in my first reply...you get out what you put in. "Sweet baby jesus. So now we're a cuckold couple because we're capable of socialising separately? And yep some are weekends away. Shock horror! You know nothing of our commitments, our work schedules or any other number of factors. Isn't it marvellous though that as well as having fabulous sexual & social encounters together we can BOTH socialise separately without either feeling threatened by that. It's actually laughable now because you're obviously ignoring what's plainly obvious because it doesn't fit your narrative | |||
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"Sorry my mistake the main reason people are on this site is for friendship. Meets to make friends nothing more no other interest, situations, stimulation and intoxicants can possibly change that, especially over a weekend . Socials for socials sake nothing more. It’s hurting my head now if people really believe human nature is that honest and innocent. Agreements between people fine understanding and respect no worries. But behaviour and patterns that are duplicitous to that. That’s the difficulty we’re having. Why go without your partner and with presumably single women (because we know very few couples unless cuck who would do this so these female fab friends aren’t all attached if any) if you’re not acting as a single women and part of the gang you came with . These socials and weekends aren’t like a day shopping with the girls. But hey you’re right we’re obviously confused and don’t understand sticking your head in the sand and ignoring the obvious whilst wearing a different mask to others. I think you're confusing meets and plays just reading through the couples veries " I go - and we go - to have fun and a bit of craic with friends we've made over the years & to meet new people. We talk, we laugh, we dance. A huge part of this lifestyle for some IS the friendship & community aspect. We go to socials with no agenda other than to have a good night out. I'm sorry that is incomprehensible to you or that you don't believe that. But that's totally on you. You said "these socials aren't like day shopping with the girls"..they kind of are. I'm not really sure what you're imagining goes on but I fear you might be way off  | |||
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"Errr presumed because what couple who meet mainly together yet the female part of the couple goes to M&Gs majority without her partner and with female friends? Some of these are weekend aways. As for they also show errr not really, have to be honest 95% are about you on your own without partner. No assumptions here just following patterns. So as stated in my first response to you, we as a couple are not looking for the dynamic you having, we suggested cuckold which you strongly denied yet we’re sticking with our initial assumption regardless how you dress it up. K or Molly you clearly rule the roost and all the best to you. We’re looking for a different dynamic that’s all. As for you get out of what you put in, we couldn’t agree more unfortunately the single guys we have interacted with haven’t put it in . Certainly not like we have to our relationship, desires and expectations. Yet couples and single women are far more in tune and invested in the intimacy and connection. Have to be honest your verifications show why you have a hard time understanding this. Especially being on your own the majority of the time yet somehow mainly play with your partner mmmmmm strange is all we’re saying, nothing more. Granted I don’t read them fully more a quick glance. However glad you have raised that my attention and now I have taken a more in-depth look. Not sure what any others might think but all I see is K and further down Molly mentioned very little about Mr. I really don’t think I got it wrong at first. Whilst you clearly deny it, it doesn’t make it true. Think you need to put Cuckolding on your interests. Poor Cuck doesn’t even know he’s being Cucked. No wonder you’re such an adversary for single guys lol. This is the what as a couple we are talking about. The BS and justification people tell you rather than just being honest. We mainly play together, pull the other one love lmfao Many thanks for your input and we are glad how well you are doing with journey. However looking at your verifications and experiences especially the as it appears just the female half of the relationship is getting the attention is the exact opposite of what we are looking for. No need to relax, it’s easy to find single men who just want to fuck and feel more confident when the male partner is just watching. This would not work for us as Hoodoo will never come second to anyone. Yet the single guys who contact us assume this or hide it as part of their agenda. Your experiences are yours but not what we are looking for. Nothing to do with jumping through hoops, it’s about fitting our dynamic, if you don’t fit then you will feel you have to jump through hoops or feel the third wheel. This is what we want to avoid not create. Perhaps you need to relax a bit. You talk of egos but everything about how you come across is egotistical. It feels like you're making it all into some great big pissing contest. You talk of people respecting your relationship but respect is a two way street. Treating the men you hope to meet as a third wheel (your words) is really disrespectful. You get out what you put in and maybe a good place to start is treating others as equals
I think you maybe didn't read our verifications very well. My partner has never just watched. In fact, with only a couple of exceptions, we play together. Everyone involved. My partner doesn't come second and I think it's an incredible jump that's brought you to that conclusion. Or wilful ignorance. Again, I'd suggest if you softened the air of arrogance you might fare better.
What you see is verifications from socials. Nights out. Not play meets. And yes for the most part I go to Meet & Greets on my own with my Fab girlfriends. Not always, but mostly.
When it comes to meeting others for sex, that's something we do together in the majority of cases and our verifications show that quite plainly. They also show that
we both have had solo meets. Not just me. You're choosing to not see that because you've already decided that you know our sex life better than we do. You've seen my name mentioned more in our verifications and presumed them to be play meets. You've decided we're into cuckolding and that my partner is a cuck based purely on the fact I go to more M&Gs with friends than he does. Not only that, you've mocked it.
But in a way, by doing that and in how you've responded, you've illustrated exactly what I was talking about in my first reply...you get out what you put in.
Sweet baby jesus. So now we're a cuckold couple because we're capable of socialising separately? And yep some are weekends away. Shock horror! You know nothing of our commitments, our work schedules or any other number of factors. Isn't it marvellous though that as well as having fabulous sexual & social encounters together we can BOTH socialise separately without either feeling threatened by that. It's actually laughable now because you're obviously ignoring what's plainly obvious because it doesn't fit your narrative " | |||
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"Sorry my mistake the main reason people are on this site is for friendship. Meets to make friends nothing more no other interest, situations, stimulation and intoxicants can possibly change that, especially over a weekend . Socials for socials sake nothing more. It’s hurting my head now if people really believe human nature is that honest and innocent. Agreements between people fine understanding and respect no worries. But behaviour and patterns that are duplicitous to that. That’s the difficulty we’re having. Why go without your partner and with presumably single women (because we know very few couples unless cuck who would do this so these female fab friends aren’t all attached if any) if you’re not acting as a single women and part of the gang you came with . These socials and weekends aren’t like a day shopping with the girls. But hey you’re right we’re obviously confused and don’t understand sticking your head in the sand and ignoring the obvious whilst wearing a different mask to others. I think you're confusing meets and plays just reading through the couples veries I go - and we go - to have fun and a bit of craic with friends we've made over the years & to meet new people. We talk, we laugh, we dance. A huge part of this lifestyle for some IS the friendship & community aspect. We go to socials with no agenda other than to have a good night out. I'm sorry that is incomprehensible to you or that you don't believe that. But that's totally on you. You said "these socials aren't like day shopping with the girls"..they kind of are. I'm not really sure what you're imagining goes on but I fear you might be way off " | |||
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" But yeah you’re definitely cuckold he just doesn’t know it, no matter how dress it up and protest. Unless you never played with others on those (more than one weekends away ) cause he certainly didn’t, he wasn’t there. Remind me to look the definition of socialising and cuckolding. I don’t mean to attack you it’s just at first you said this, then modified it, then challenged to look into verifications, now you go to swingers meets with your female fab friends who in noticed you didn’t confirm attached or single, so going single and now it’s not just a weekend away but appears regular weekends away whilst pretending you’re relationship is similar to ours. We called you out from day one. Just as we do single guys. See how after a while you get to the truth!! No judgement just didn’t compare your experiences with single guys to ours. We’re clearly not on the same page nor looking for the same things. Errr presumed because what couple who meet mainly together yet the female part of the couple goes to M&Gs majority without her partner and with female friends? Some of these are weekend aways. As for they also show errr not really, have to be honest 95% are about you on your own without partner. No assumptions here just following patterns. So as stated in my first response to you, we as a couple are not looking for the dynamic you having, we suggested cuckold which you strongly denied yet we’re sticking with our initial assumption regardless how you dress it up. K or Molly you clearly rule the roost and all the best to you. We’re looking for a different dynamic that’s all. As for you get out of what you put in, we couldn’t agree more unfortunately the single guys we have interacted with haven’t put it in . Certainly not like we have to our relationship, desires and expectations. Yet couples and single women are far more in tune and invested in the intimacy and connection. Have to be honest your verifications show why you have a hard time understanding this. Especially being on your own the majority of the time yet somehow mainly play with your partner mmmmmm strange is all we’re saying, nothing more. " You're actually just being incredibly insulting now. And no, I don't play at socials. Because a) they're socials and b) I've little to no interest in playing without my partner as difficult as you find that to believe As to whether my female friends are single or attached the answer is both. I know! Mind blowing, isn't it! But hey, look I'm glad you two found each other. You seem perfectly suited. Stop busting single guys balls, there are some great ones out there. Don't melt your head trying to figure out the wrong ones and put that energy into seeking out the right ones | |||
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"Some good points here. Not sure about the “giving back” not met one single guy who could dominate Hoodoo Man . We’re looking for single guys and women who understand pleasures and not egos. We have found that women are far more in touch and naturally more connected and comfortable with this dynamic than men. " What has ‘giving back’ got to do with dominating Hoodoo Man? It means that because you are already in a relationship a single guy can fuck you and leave you without having to worry about the relationship side of it because you’re already in a relationship. Also, in your opening message you say that the men make the conversation all about you and your pleasure so why are you now saying you can’t find a man who understands your pleasure? | |||
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"i think men are not all the same surprise surprise and i think there will be several reasons why too many men get lumped in one category i dont think ive ever met 2 men the same let alone loads op if you dont feel right meeting men now your attached then maybe dont meet them ? or make sure from the beginning via messages that your meeting the right guys for you ... but all men are not the same in fact in my eyes there are far more good men than sometimes this scene portrays each and everyone will have there own agenda and not all are bad .... thats my view anyway Thanks for your reply. I can see this working in your relationship and completely understand why your experiences as an attached female have developed these opinions and feelings. However we are not looking for a cuckold situation for the simple reason that Hoodoo Man is in no way a Cuck . He’s masculine. Commanding, confident, strong and packing. He’s ex military and experienced many different situations I can’t even imagine being in. Our issue is, why does every single guy who contacts us think he is Bull or Alpha even when our desires are explained. We both want to experience and share different people together male and female within our boundaries. It’s not about anyone feeling superior, if anything it’s about our love, kink and relationship together. Anyone who doesn’t respect that doesn’t get past the second message. " So an ex military man can’t be a cuck then? A confident man can’t be a cuck? You could just say he’s not a cuck without listing all his personality traits that in your mind define why he’s not a cuck. He’s not a cuck because he doesn’t enjoy being a cuck, it’s got nothing to do with how masculine he is or any of the traits you listed. Where do you explain your desires regarding being with single men? All you say is that you don’t want single men to message you and make it quite clear that you aren’t interested in talking to single men. You’re expecting single men to message you with a full understanding of what you’re looking for from single men but your profile doesn’t say anything about what you’re looking for from single men. | |||
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"Exactly this. All singles responding to this post should look at this from a couples perspective and not a singles. We’re not being overly specific/dramatic etc far from it. We are also as our profile states not a hot wife/ cuckold etc couple. We’re looking for fun with others be it singles, couples or more. It’s just funny how couples and single females seem to understand our dynamic and it is far easier for us to enjoy those interactions giving enjoyment to all than it is single guys. Perhaps we are something different that doesn’t fit into the demographics of fab. But I very much doubt that. It’s most probably because we have stated what we are looking for and prepared not to sugarcoat it, half the time being labelled as fake etc. Yet when Hoodoo tests their validity not overtly or harshly but honourably and consistently to our relationship and goals , their character weakens and the reality of why this single male wants to meet with us becomes apparently clear and it couldn’t be further from our aspirations . Yet couple’s and single females have a different mindset. From our non sugarcoating experiences anyway . Some good points here. Not sure about the “giving back” not met one single guy who could dominate Hoodoo Man . We’re looking for single guys and women who understand pleasures and not egos. We have found that women are far more in touch and naturally more connected and comfortable with this dynamic than men. most of the messages from guys we get go straight to talking about fucking a "married female". I always think thats a secret need to feel like they're cucking the husband - L." What is it about your dynamic that you seem to think single man are unable to understand? Don’t forget that men in relationships were once single and single men have been in relationships so do you think their ability to understand your dynamic changes the day they start a relationship or the day they become single again? From what I can gather from your profile, Mrs is sub, Mr is Dom and you’re looking for similar couples so both men can Dom both females together. You don’t state what you’re looking for from single women or single men. You say when you test the validity of single males their aspirations become clear and they’re always different from your aspirations yet you have never once told us what your aspirations are regarding being with a single male. And why have you come on here criticising all single males just because their aspirations aren’t the same as yours? Why are you arrogant enough to think all single males are wrong and you’re right. | |||
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"i think men are not all the same surprise surprise and i think there will be several reasons why too many men get lumped in one category i dont think ive ever met 2 men the same let alone loads op if you dont feel right meeting men now your attached then maybe dont meet them ? or make sure from the beginning via messages that your meeting the right guys for you ... but all men are not the same in fact in my eyes there are far more good men than sometimes this scene portrays each and everyone will have there own agenda and not all are bad .... thats my view anyway Thanks for your reply. I can see this working in your relationship and completely understand why your experiences as an attached female have developed these opinions and feelings. However we are not looking for a cuckold situation for the simple reason that Hoodoo Man is in no way a Cuck . He’s masculine. Commanding, confident, strong and packing. He’s ex military and experienced many different situations I can’t even imagine being in. Our issue is, why does every single guy who contacts us think he is Bull or Alpha even when our desires are explained. We both want to experience and share different people together male and female within our boundaries. It’s not about anyone feeling superior, if anything it’s about our love, kink and relationship together. Anyone who doesn’t respect that doesn’t get past the second message. So an ex military man can’t be a cuck then? A confident man can’t be a cuck? You could just say he’s not a cuck without listing all his personality traits that in your mind define why he’s not a cuck. He’s not a cuck because he doesn’t enjoy being a cuck, it’s got nothing to do with how masculine he is or any of the traits you listed. Where do you explain your desires regarding being with single men? All you say is that you don’t want single men to message you and make it quite clear that you aren’t interested in talking to single men. You’re expecting single men to message you with a full understanding of what you’re looking for from single men but your profile doesn’t say anything about what you’re looking for from single men. " Being a Cuck is a choice just not his. Yet those single males we have conversed with think that, and it soon comes out. Whilst you may have never met two men the same I’m sure you have met several men with similar attitudes. Given the messages we receive we certainly have. And very few of these single men want to converse with Hoodoo. First few messages sure but after that their true intentions come out. It’s simply not what we are looking for. There may be guys out there we’re not saying they’re not. We’ve just to discover them yet out of our experience of a mountain who are. i think men are not all the same surprise surprise and i think there will be several reasons why too many men get lumped in one category i dont think ive ever met 2 men the same let alone loads | |||
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"Do you think your man is acting as an unreasonable gatekeeper? Setting the bar impossibly high and keeping you in a gilded cage? If no man meets his exacting standards then they'll never be a threat? And the reason that women and other couples "get it" is because he allows them to? Because doesn't see them as a threat? Not at all. I don’t think for one minute he is threatened by others. As for controlling he’s the one looking more than me. His confidence, strength and masculinity shows without him even saying a word. He took me out for our anniversary the other year, we went for a meal and drinks where he lives. Everybody knew him saying hello and stuff drinks kept flowing all night until end and he asked for the bill. £ 20 that was it. We had flowers on our table champagne three course meal everything. He never asked for that nor expected it. It’s just the respect people who know him give him. As he does for them. As we walked to his house he was quite embarrassed about it saying that was really nice of people but unnecessary, I was in ore of it. So no I very much doubt he’s acting gate keeper or sees anyone as a threat. He just expects the same respect from single guys on this site which is difficult for us to find. Anybody who knows him would never accuse him of that. Just a different perspective..." | |||
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"Exactly this. All singles responding to this post should look at this from a couples perspective and not a singles. We’re not being overly specific/dramatic etc far from it. We are also as our profile states not a hot wife/ cuckold etc couple. We’re looking for fun with others be it singles, couples or more. It’s just funny how couples and single females seem to understand our dynamic and it is far easier for us to enjoy those interactions giving enjoyment to all than it is single guys. Perhaps we are something different that doesn’t fit into the demographics of fab. But I very much doubt that. It’s most probably because we have stated what we are looking for and prepared not to sugarcoat it, half the time being labelled as fake etc. Yet when Hoodoo tests their validity not overtly or harshly but honourably and consistently to our relationship and goals , their character weakens and the reality of why this single male wants to meet with us becomes apparently clear and it couldn’t be further from our aspirations . Yet couple’s and single females have a different mindset. From our non sugarcoating experiences anyway . Some good points here. Not sure about the “giving back” not met one single guy who could dominate Hoodoo Man . We’re looking for single guys and women who understand pleasures and not egos. We have found that women are far more in touch and naturally more connected and comfortable with this dynamic than men. most of the messages from guys we get go straight to talking about fucking a "married female". I always think thats a secret need to feel like they're cucking the husband - L. What is it about your dynamic that you seem to think single man are unable to understand? Don’t forget that men in relationships were once single and single men have been in relationships so do you think their ability to understand your dynamic changes the day they start a relationship or the day they become single again? From what I can gather from your profile, Mrs is sub, Mr is Dom and you’re looking for similar couples so both men can Dom both females together. You don’t state what you’re looking for from single women or single men. You say when you test the validity of single males their aspirations become clear and they’re always different from your aspirations yet you have never once told us what your aspirations are regarding being with a single male. And why have you come on here criticising all single males just because their aspirations aren’t the same as yours? Why are you arrogant enough to think all single males are wrong and you’re right. " Hoodoo here. Thank you for your response. The difference with our dynamic is Honour and Respect. I would add Bravery but I will get onto that later. Honour a person who is true to themselves and believes and carries their actions and achievements with those beliefs. Not a guy who just wants to get his dick wet and feel he can fuck someone’s wife/ girlfriend better. I don’t mean to brag but I can fuck well, can still learn a few things but bet more will learn from me than I learn from them. Respect understanding and protection of others ensuring their way of life is maintained and enhanced by your actions. Sorry most single guys I’ve communicated with don’t even understand that statement. Yet couples and funnily enough single women do. Bravery: to put others and beliefs first before thought for yourself and be prepared to come to harm to protect others. Well this is a given son. Single guys come with nothing, have an attitude of nothing, only self gain. To me Hoodoo they are the opposite of Brave but cowards. Risking nothing yet have the potential to cause destruction (Sti’s) I’m talking. Again I don’t see much of this trait in couples unless cuckold (I stay away from this due to my experiences of seeing some horrendous things in my services) and also don’t see much of this trait in single women. It’s interesting how you accuse of tarnishing all single guys. I’ve read this thread and not once has Kitty or I said yet. Is that a psychological slip unconsciously from yourself as an omission of guilt? I’m only seeing people attacking us (mistake civilians don’t even know what an attack is) yet not one person has provided any counter evidence. We are happy to learn. Please message us separately. As far we haven’t said what we want. Look at every profile you see son, ours is quite reserved but if you read between the lines (subtext) it’s the start. Single guys can’t read between the lines. Kitty deserves more than an uneducated, lazy coward. so when the questions are asked it goes into the to hard basket. For all those who you need to relax etc etc etc. no we don’t you guys open your legs, relationships etc to whoever you want, as long as you’re urges are met. No judgement we’re looking for true honour and respect which we at the moment are only finding with couples and single women. Guys cry your eyes out all you want. Please stop sending dick pics and saying nice tits ffs Hoodoo out. | |||
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"Again we don’t treat them as a third wheel. I can understand how this is difficult for a single woman on here to understand being on this site and all the attention being directed only to you. Relationships require attention to all in the relationship . The issue is after a few conversations the single men start treating Hoodoo as the third wheel, which is laughable at best because when Hoodoo gets involved in the conversation their bravado disappears and they ghost us. Not because WE are rude or unfair, because they don’t care about Our desires and are emotionally immature not ever being in a committed relationship. " I also have a couples profile so ah ye I do understand perfectly well. Thank you though for the ever so subtle snub on your reply though . 
And the minute someone acts like that in messages why are ye continuing to chat anyhow. The fact you say when hoodoo joins the bravado goes sounds like he treats the men like they are beneath him. You say you want men to treat ye respectfully well that works best if all involved are treated with respect.
Mind you after reading your replies on here it's seems you are one of those couples who demand respect while having absolutely zero respect for others.
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"Again we don’t treat them as a third wheel. I can understand how this is difficult for a single woman on here to understand being on this site and all the attention being directed only to you. Relationships require attention to all in the relationship . The issue is after a few conversations the single men start treating Hoodoo as the third wheel, which is laughable at best because when Hoodoo gets involved in the conversation their bravado disappears and they ghost us. Not because WE are rude or unfair, because they don’t care about Our desires and are emotionally immature not ever being in a committed relationship. I also have a couples profile so ah ye I do understand perfectly well. Thank you though for the ever so subtle snub on your reply though .
And the minute someone acts like that in messages why are ye continuing to chat anyhow. The fact you say when hoodoo joins the bravado goes sounds like he treats the men like they are beneath him. You say you want men to treat ye respectfully well that works best if all involved are treated with respect.
Mind you after reading your replies on here it's seems you are one of those couples who demand respect while having absolutely zero respect for others.
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"Have any other wives or girlfriends experienced this. Before meeting Hoodoo Man I was single on here. I could always find fun if I wanted to being a single lady. Now as a couple account we have received so many messages from single men wanting to meet we’ve had to block them. My question is ladies, Why do single men love being with attached women? I sometimes feel Cheated as if I’m not the main or only reason these guys want to meet whilst they make the conversation all about me and my pleasure. Does anyone else have any thoughts on this? Kitty " Are you saying you get more begging messages now you are in a couple profile than you did as a single? | |||
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"Again we don’t treat them as a third wheel. I can understand how this is difficult for a single woman on here to understand being on this site and all the attention being directed only to you. Relationships require attention to all in the relationship . The issue is after a few conversations the single men start treating Hoodoo as the third wheel, which is laughable at best because when Hoodoo gets involved in the conversation their bravado disappears and they ghost us. Not because WE are rude or unfair, because they don’t care about Our desires and are emotionally immature not ever being in a committed relationship. I also have a couples profile so ah ye I do understand perfectly well. Thank you though for the ever so subtle snub on your reply though .
And the minute someone acts like that in messages why are ye continuing to chat anyhow. The fact you say when hoodoo joins the bravado goes sounds like he treats the men like they are beneath him. You say you want men to treat ye respectfully well that works best if all involved are treated with respect.
Mind you after reading your replies on here it's seems you are one of those couples who demand respect while having absolutely zero respect for others.
Some men in couples are so incredibly arrogant and rude. Often identical to the single men they despise, the only difference being they have a woman to use as sex bait. "You obviously missed the part about honour and respect. Or perhaps you just didn’t understand. Just cause it’s a sex site doesn’t mean we all have disregard our standards snowflake | |||
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"Have any other wives or girlfriends experienced this. Before meeting Hoodoo Man I was single on here. I could always find fun if I wanted to being a single lady. Now as a couple account we have received so many messages from single men wanting to meet we’ve had to block them. My question is ladies, Why do single men love being with attached women? I sometimes feel Cheated as if I’m not the main or only reason these guys want to meet whilst they make the conversation all about me and my pleasure. Does anyone else have any thoughts on this? Kitty Are you saying you get more begging messages now you are in a couple profile than you did as a single? " Given that we are more active now than I ever was when single then yes I would say so. Is that shocking to you??? | |||
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"Again we don’t treat them as a third wheel. I can understand how this is difficult for a single woman on here to understand being on this site and all the attention being directed only to you. Relationships require attention to all in the relationship . The issue is after a few conversations the single men start treating Hoodoo as the third wheel, which is laughable at best because when Hoodoo gets involved in the conversation their bravado disappears and they ghost us. Not because WE are rude or unfair, because they don’t care about Our desires and are emotionally immature not ever being in a committed relationship. I also have a couples profile so ah ye I do understand perfectly well. Thank you though for the ever so subtle snub on your reply though .
And the minute someone acts like that in messages why are ye continuing to chat anyhow. The fact you say when hoodoo joins the bravado goes sounds like he treats the men like they are beneath him. You say you want men to treat ye respectfully well that works best if all involved are treated with respect.
Mind you after reading your replies on here it's seems you are one of those couples who demand respect while having absolutely zero respect for others.
Some men in couples are so incredibly arrogant and rude. Often identical to the single men they despise, the only difference being they have a woman to use as sex bait.
You obviously missed the part about honour and respect. Or perhaps you just didn’t understand. Just cause it’s a sex site doesn’t mean we all have disregard our standards snowflake "However we are pleased you acknowledged the single men’s traits whilst still protecting your opportunities to meet lol. So funny and see through Hoodoo | |||
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"Again we don’t treat them as a third wheel. I can understand how this is difficult for a single woman on here to understand being on this site and all the attention being directed only to you. Relationships require attention to all in the relationship . The issue is after a few conversations the single men start treating Hoodoo as the third wheel, which is laughable at best because when Hoodoo gets involved in the conversation their bravado disappears and they ghost us. Not because WE are rude or unfair, because they don’t care about Our desires and are emotionally immature not ever being in a committed relationship. I also have a couples profile so ah ye I do understand perfectly well. Thank you though for the ever so subtle snub on your reply though .
And the minute someone acts like that in messages why are ye continuing to chat anyhow. The fact you say when hoodoo joins the bravado goes sounds like he treats the men like they are beneath him. You say you want men to treat ye respectfully well that works best if all involved are treated with respect.
Mind you after reading your replies on here it's seems you are one of those couples who demand respect while having absolutely zero respect for others.
Some men in couples are so incredibly arrogant and rude. Often identical to the single men they despise, the only difference being they have a woman to use as sex bait.
You obviously missed the part about honour and respect. Or perhaps you just didn’t understand. Just cause it’s a sex site doesn’t mean we all have disregard our standards snowflake "You should ask someone to explain what those big words mean. | |||
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"Have any other wives or girlfriends experienced this. Before meeting Hoodoo Man I was single on here. I could always find fun if I wanted to being a single lady. Now as a couple account we have received so many messages from single men wanting to meet we’ve had to block them. My question is ladies, Why do single men love being with attached women? I sometimes feel Cheated as if I’m not the main or only reason these guys want to meet whilst they make the conversation all about me and my pleasure. Does anyone else have any thoughts on this? Kitty Are you saying you get more begging messages now you are in a couple profile than you did as a single? Given that we are more active now than I ever was when single then yes I would say so. Is that shocking to you??? " Not at all. Some men assume that couples swing because the man is shit in bed. They are merely offering their cock as a kind gesture, so the woman in the couple can have a decent shag. | |||
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"Hoodoo .. i think its time you come clean and admit its been you talking the whole time Writing as kitty your voice and opinion have been the same as when you identify as a man The only alternative explanation i can think of is that you sought out this vulnerable woman to build her up, dominate and brainwash her. " | |||
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"Hoodoo .. i think its time you come clean and admit its been you talking the whole time Writing as kitty your voice and opinion have been the same as when you identify as a man The only alternative explanation i can think of is that you sought out this vulnerable woman to build her up, dominate and brainwash her. " | |||
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"Hoodoo .. i think its time you come clean and admit its been you talking the whole time Writing as kitty your voice and opinion have been the same as when you identify as a man The only alternative explanation i can think of is that you sought out this vulnerable woman to build her up, dominate and brainwash her.
Hoodoo here I know you want response, here it is, you’re a stupid selfish, cowardly little cunt. Who has never and be thankful you haven’t witnessed the things I have. To say i target vulnerable women is one of the deepest yet immature and cruelest things you could say about my character. However the reality is it says more about you than it does about me. Honour and respect which you have proven you have none. Now run along little girl, stop pretending now . We all know what you are, hence why single. Only good for a fuck not worth any investment "Narcissistic or what?? Maybe he said something underhand, but it's just shown you to think of yourself above others. The problem you're having looks like its pretty much an internal problem and nothing to do with other guys. | |||
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"After digesting the whole thread it's now clear Hoodoo Man is the biggest cuck of them all "He can't be, cucks tend to be more secure haha. | |||
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"Hoodoo .. i think its time you come clean and admit its been you talking the whole time Writing as kitty your voice and opinion have been the same as when you identify as a man The only alternative explanation i can think of is that you sought out this vulnerable woman to build her up, dominate and brainwash her. "As someone who loves and has studied languages its incredible how both Kitty and Hoodoo Man write and post in exactly the same style, with the same unique grammatical tells and repeated words and phrases. Even to the average person it's beyond obvious it's the same person trying to be both Kitty and Hoodoo Man  | |||
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"After digesting the whole thread it's now clear Hoodoo Man is the biggest cuck of them all
He can't be, cucks tend to be more secure haha." | |||
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