FabSwingers.com forum: Spotted a neighbouring couple

By *am87 OP Man
over a year ago

currently near you

Hi,

I came across a profile showing up as close to me.

I really think it's one of my neighbours.

Always fancied them.

How do I start this?

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

You don't

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By *am87 OP Man
over a year ago

currently near you

"You don't "

Fair enough

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By *_n_cfuntimeCouple
over a year ago

paisley

You do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t fab on your own doorstep

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By *_n_cfuntimeCouple
over a year ago

paisley

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t fab on your own doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t fab on your own doorstep

I'm in agreement, though I'm a great believer of boundaries.

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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago

Tonbridge

"Don’t fab on your own doorstep

Sorry but if you were my neighbour… I’d have to move away in order to fab you ?? x

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By *osmicplusMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’ve been in this situation…had a fling…now occasionally pass in the street and exchange pleasantries….not a problem

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You could send them a message?

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

"Don’t fab on your own doorstep

Fabbing on your doorstep no always a good idea. You can always try see how it works out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Message them telling them who you are (hinting that you know them is creepy) if you match their preferences and you've considered all possible consequences good and bad.

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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago

Tonbridge

"Message them telling them who you are (hinting that you know them is creepy) if you match their preferences and you've considered all possible consequences good and bad."

You could be my neighbour…

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Message them telling them who you are (hinting that you know them is creepy) if you match their preferences and you've considered all possible consequences good and bad.

You could be my neighbour…"

Yep

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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago

Tonbridge

"Message them telling them who you are (hinting that you know them is creepy) if you match their preferences and you've considered all possible consequences good and bad.

You could be my neighbour…

Yep"

Would you want me to pop over if you were..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple live opposite me who were on here.

Their profile and the reality were million miles apart. Profile pics looked ok, profile blurb was a bit thin. The reality were Wayne and Waynetta from Harry Enfield. Very loud couple, always fighting and arguing in the street, disgusting house, the pair were very dirty slobs. Always greasy hair, dirty clothes and, well, no easy polite way to say it but they were not the brightest.

They messaged me once, they didnt realise who I was but I knew who they were. The message was text speak and terrible spelling, and very hard to read. I declined. They messaged back saying I would "walk in and slinl up the wife". I blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a couple live opposite me who were on here.

(I translated as "Walk in and spunk up the wife")

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Hi,

I came across a profile showing up as close to me.

I really think it's one of my neighbours.

Always fancied them.

How do I start this?"

You don’t

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Hi,

I came across a profile showing up as close to me.

I really think it's one of my neighbours.

Always fancied them.

How do I start this?"

What makes you think they would be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message them telling them who you are (hinting that you know them is creepy) if you match their preferences and you've considered all possible consequences good and bad."

I agree sith the above.. Neighbours have besn hooking up for ages.. Thwy may be happy to, they may not. Approach like u would any other person, with respect. You may be exactly what they are looking for, or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message them telling them who you are (hinting that you know them is creepy) **if you match their preferences** and you've considered all possible consequences good and bad.

You could be my neighbour…

Yep

Would you want me to pop over if you were..?"

** Maybe the clue is here........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could send them a message?"

Agree. It seems so simple.... and yet........

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Hi,

I came across a profile showing up as close to me.

I really think it's one of my neighbours.

Always fancied them.

How do I start this?"

You don't. Be a decent neighbour. That's their family home, not a sex club.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

My advice is don't but if you do tread very carefully

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By *igtone2310Man
over a year ago

Beverley

Hi all, i spotted someone i knew, i told her straight away who i was and that we knew each other, we still meet quite regularly and have fun over a year later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Behind the bins night before collection day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You message them like anyone else on here. Because they’re on here too for the same reasons. It’s the same as “what do we do if we see someone we know at a club?” You just behave as normal, they’re there too. People think that people are going to stand outside their house and yell “THESE GUYS ARE SWINGERS”… they’re not. Think correctly everyone!!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"People think that people are going to stand outside their house and yell “THESE GUYS ARE SWINGERS”… they’re not. Think correctly everyone!!"

Precisely that has happened to a number of people on here. A number of us have also had the frustration of someone living nearby wanting to play, turning them down, and then living with that awkwardness.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Hi,

I came across a profile showing up as close to me.

I really think it's one of my neighbours.

Always fancied them.

How do I start this?"
walk over to front door naked and say hi I'm on fab too........ One of two things will happen

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You message them like anyone else on here. Because they’re on here too for the same reasons. It’s the same as “what do we do if we see someone we know at a club?” You just behave as normal, they’re there too. People think that people are going to stand outside their house and yell “THESE GUYS ARE SWINGERS”… they’re not. Think correctly everyone!!"

You know that people have been outed by others?

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Hi,

I came across a profile showing up as close to me.

I really think it's one of my neighbours.

Always fancied them.

How do I start this?

You don't. Be a decent neighbour. That's their family home, not a sex club."

But if they accommodate, it may be their family home they are choosing to meet at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people DO do that.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I stick to "don't shit in your own doorstep" too local isn't for me never mind a neighbour.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there’s some scaremongering gone on here… be your own people, if your neighbours are on here and they call you out, then who cares? What do you think will happen after that? Nothing.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Personally I stick to "don't shit in your own doorstep" too local isn't for me never mind a neighbour.

Mrs "

Everyone has their own take on this but likening it to shitting on your own doorstep suggests that what you’re doing is negative when you’re doing nothing different to your neighbour. If the OP is not what they are looking for his location will be irrelevant. If he is then why not?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"You don't. Be a decent neighbour. That's their family home, not a sex club.

But if they accommodate, it may be their family home they are choosing to meet at?"

I'm not necessarily thinking of their physical house. I mean this is their home, their family life, the place they come back to when they just want to be able to crash and relax.

Of course, they may also have NYE parties there and even host a gangbang now and again, but that doesn't take away from the fact they probably want to be able to pop round to the local shop without worrying about seeing 6 people who have made it clear that they want to fuck them.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I think there’s some scaremongering gone on here… be your own people, if your neighbours are on here and they call you out, then who cares? What do you think will happen after that? Nothing."

You keep saying that. Yet, you've been told a few times in this thread that people *have* experienced more than 'nothing.'

It's not scaremongering; it's being informed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I stick to "don't shit in your own doorstep" too local isn't for me never mind a neighbour.

Mrs

Spot on, this guy gets it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there’s some scaremongering gone on here… be your own people, if your neighbours are on here and they call you out, then who cares? What do you think will happen after that? Nothing.

You keep saying that. Yet, you've been told a few times in this thread that people *have* experienced more than 'nothing.'

It's not scaremongering; it's being informed."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I stick to "don't shit in your own doorstep" too local isn't for me never mind a neighbour.

Mrs

Spot on, this guy gets it."

You clearly don't care who knows that you fuck around but other people do. Hope if you have kids they don't get bullied because you don't care about their privacy.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Stay away it's the only decent thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I stick to "don't shit in your own doorstep" too local isn't for me never mind a neighbour.

Mrs

Spot on, this guy gets it.

You clearly don't care who knows that you fuck around but other people do. Hope if you have kids they don't get bullied because you don't care about their privacy. "

Why would our kids get bullied? And how? “Errrr your parents are swingers”… well, how do you know? Use your minds properly everyone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Personally I stick to "don't shit in your own doorstep" too local isn't for me never mind a neighbour.

Mrs

Spot on, this guy gets it.

You clearly don't care who knows that you fuck around but other people do. Hope if you have kids they don't get bullied because you don't care about their privacy.

Why would our kids get bullied? And how? “Errrr your parents are swingers”… well, how do you know? Use your minds properly everyone."

People holding different opinions to you doesn't mean they aren't using their minds properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not using logic is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not using logic is."

No point trying to explain anything to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wish you were our neighbours we can only imagine the fun we could have if we were your type x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow how horrid you did well to keep away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow how horrid you did well to keep away "

If you use the Reply + quote button we will know who you are replying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not using logic is.

No point trying to explain anything to you.

Nothing needs explaining. It’s very clear! Irrational fear stopping open minds!

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

I used to play with my neighbours across road on fab its brilliant for spur of moment meets etc its ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not using logic is.

No point trying to explain anything to you.

Nothing needs explaining. It’s very clear! Irrational fear stopping open minds!"

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Personally I stick to "don't shit in your own doorstep" too local isn't for me never mind a neighbour.

Mrs

This is my personal opinion, things can always go wrong I don't want to bump into couples with my kids down the street.

Op can do as they wish, opinions asked and this is mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to play with my neighbours across road on fab its brilliant for spur of moment meets etc its ideal

Another with sense and a free mind!

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

"Hi,

I came across a profile showing up as close to me.

I really think it's one of my neighbours.

Always fancied them.

How do I start this?"

Read there profile

Are you in there age range

Are you what there looking for

Its all there, you just need to read and be honest with yourself

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

If your interested let them know. Drop a wink or a message pointing them to your profile for their approval and leave the ball in their court. But don't be kreepy and say your neighbours or you recognise them or you know where they live. Keep that information to your self because it freaks people out and it comes across as your trying to lever some leverage over them.

If they like what they see and not bothered that your only a mile or two away they'll get back to you. If not you have your answer and can move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a hotwife neighbour but I know I'm not her type so haven't said anything, best to be discreet about these things and not risk upsetting anyone especially on your doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is definately a limit of where is too close.

Imagine you messaged them they replied, you met and it was either awful or you were terrible. Could you regularly live with the embarrassment.

There’s def something about too close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a similar situation, have a work colleague who has an openly visible cpls profile on here, I have never mentioned it and never will, unless we cross paths at a club maybe.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

I know well a couple a few doors away who are really hot and should be on Fab! However, I‘m not going to go and tell them! Discretion is important!

Personally I wouldn‘t want to meet inside a 20-mile radius - you don‘t want those awkward moments with your family in the supermarket! Just not cool!

What‘s fab stays on fab! Again, what if you meet your neighbours and you really don‘t get along at all - you‘re still going to see a lot of them in the community! Definitely not cool - keep a normal distance!

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"I think there is definately a limit of where is too close.

Imagine you messaged them they replied, you met and it was either awful or you were terrible. Could you regularly live with the embarrassment.

There’s def something about too close. "

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

how close do they live to you ??

the minimum radious is 1/2 mile

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