FabSwingers.com forum: DEEPTHROATING

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just a quick question I have a fuckbuddy who was a really bad gag reflex,she gives me good blowjobs but she cannot deepthroat, shes tryed the usual myths of the toothbrush and doesnt work.

We just wondered if the throat sprays you get EITHER typical deepthroat numbing spray OR your normal throat numbing spray actually works?

is throat numbing spray (that you can buy in your local pharmacy) too strong to give blowjobs as it may numb my cock? or is it the same as deepthroat numb spray you get from sex shops?

thanks

no stupid messages serious replies only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not something i can do for exactly that reason - but i do love to feel his cock in my mouth so not sure id want to numb the effect anyway - just do what we can - not hearing any complaints so far

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Does she want to deep throat you or is it you pushing for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely would not suggest mouth spray.

Practice and look up on google for techniques, lots of articles about.

But by the sounds of it, you are ramming it in every orifice and that might be the issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

but she cant go deep, about half of my cock is the max, she WONT take my cum neither, aparently its warm,sour :L

but the numbing may numb her gag reflex so i can deepthroat her? that aswell would possibly mean i could ejaculate down her throat as its past her taste buds and she doesnt need to swollow/asmuch anyway lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"but she cant go deep, about half of my cock is the max, she WONT take my cum neither, aparently its warm,sour :L

So you want to numb her throat so you can do something she has expressly told you she doesn't like?

Hope she is reading this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she doesn't want it, then stop right there, no point giving out advice when the lady in question doesn't even want to do it or have your cum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I definitely would not suggest mouth spray.

Practice and look up on google for techniques, lots of articles about.

But by the sounds of it, you are ramming it in every orifice and that might be the issue."

its just not annoying but i dont know you hear/see of these girls who are still young/ 20's and can do anal deepthroat dp etc etc, i understand it comes with practise,but shes 25 and can only really do normal vagina sex thats pleasurable for her,

blowjobs is a thing she does for me, cant deep because her reflex,

and alan cos it hurts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but she cant go deep, about half of my cock is the max, she WONT take my cum neither, aparently its warm,sour :L

So you want to numb her throat so you can do something she has expressly told you she doesn't like?

Hope she is reading this

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely would not suggest mouth spray.

Practice and look up on google for techniques, lots of articles about.

But by the sounds of it, you are ramming it in every orifice and that might be the issue.

blowjobs is a thing she does for me, cant deep because her reflex,

and alan cos it hurts."

Oh dear

Age is nothing to do with it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

not atall doing stuff she doesnt want to do, things she cant do but wants to do!

it makes her not want to do it because she cant do it, shes asked me as im linked to the site to ask for advise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"but she cant go deep, about half of my cock is the max, she WONT take my cum neither, aparently its warm,sour :L

Why does she have to? If she doesn't like it then she should not be manipulated or coerced. I don't like it and that's the end of it. My fb would not dream of pursuing it now he knows. It's called mutual pleasure and respect.

I am not sure you realise that with your threads you are coming across as very sexually aggressive and really only interested in where you can shove your 'huge cock'. You may consider if this may be part of your problem. If your fb is showing reluctance to do certain things perhaps she is politely saying 'no, don't do that'. If you respect her, you should listen.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"not atall doing stuff she doesnt want to do, things she cant do but wants to do!

it makes her not want to do it because she cant do it, shes asked me as im linked to the site to ask for advise."

But you just said she won't swallow cum because she doesn't like the taste so you wanted numbing spray so you could shove your cock further down her throat and cum there so she can't taste it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day everyone is different some people can deep throat some can't n if u live up to ur user name it's probably due to ur size so ur unfortunately disadvantaged for not bein mr average nothing much u can do bout it! Between this n ur anal thread I'd say ur fb is getting a lot of abuse n I'm sorry it does read like u r the one pressuring her into these things, which in my OP means one of two things. Firstly u hav become more of a fb to her n she's doin these things to keep u or secondly u keep forcing the situation n u will be in the market for a new fb

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

I was told to just keep going even if I gag push past it so to speak and it works for me. However maybe you badly wrote it but it does come across you are forcing the issue. Why not just enjoy doing what gives you both pleasure instead of just you.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I will hive some actual advice now......if, and I mean IF, this is something she wants to do to please you then patience is the key....don't just expect to shove it in and expect her to get used to it.

Let her take her time, relax and take more gradually. It night take a few blow jobs before she can take more of your cock.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

How old is your fb, and how experienced? If she's young and/or inexperienced then she may be trying too hard to please you and thinking of her own needs less. You come across as exploiting that. I may be wrong but that's what it comes across as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the question for the OP and not get in a high horse about things. A good help is Strepsils lozenges in any flavor. This will reduce the gagging reflex and relax the throat without affecting sensations on the cock too much.

I am quite thick and this has worked for a couple of my fb getting over that last couple of inches. It works so well for them that they are usually sucking on a few when I arrive for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

shes a few years younger than me, shes only ever had sex a handfull of times being 1night things, were not in any ways partners or friends, we simply text/call meet for a drink go back and play, shes not deepthroated before, but given head, its only advise she wants to be able to deepthroat but as i say she cant before she GAGs as alot of people do, im not saying shes screaming of pain and im fourcing it in her, im saying she WANTS to but her gag reflex just wont let her without her feeling like shes going to be sick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To answer the question for the OP and not get in a high horse about things. A good help is Strepsils lozenges in any flavor. This will reduce the gagging reflex and relax the throat without affecting sensations on the cock too much.

I am quite thick and this has worked for a couple of my fb getting over that last couple of inches. It works so well for them that they are usually sucking on a few when I arrive for a meet."

thanks, really??

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"shes a few years younger than me, shes only ever had sex a handfull of times being 1night things, were not in any ways partners or friends, we simply text/call meet for a drink go back and play, shes not deepthroated before, but given head, its only advise she wants to be able to deepthroat but as i say she cant before she GAGs as alot of people do, im not saying shes screaming of pain and im fourcing it in her, im saying she WANTS to but her gag reflex just wont let her without her feeling like shes going to be sick."

Then she shouldn't be doing it. Our bodies give us messages for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you have you huge cock made smaller then she would have no problem with deep throating you and gagging

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I am quite thick and this has worked for a couple of my fb getting over that last couple of inches. It works so well for them that they are usually sucking on a few when I arrive for a meet."

Think you will find he has had answers given to him. As well as advise around not forcing something that cannot be done.

Or should all women who can't deep throat a monster cock or don't want to be forced to try it every which way??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you have to untie her so she could ask for this advice? i woulda bit half yer cock off problem solved!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

is it for her, yours or both's pleasure

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I watched a movie last night I'm which a girl was deepthroating I saw nothing in it that made me want to try it. Basically it seemed that you just keep shoving it in regardless of whether she's gagging or not obviously she was an actress and had been paid to gag, have tears streaming down her face and saliva all down her face and chest but I honestly can't see what the attraction would be for a woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I watched a movie last night I'm which a girl was deepthroating I saw nothing in it that made me want to try it. Basically it seemed that you just keep shoving it in regardless of whether she's gagging or not obviously she was an actress and had been paid to gag, have tears streaming down her face and saliva all down her face and chest but I honestly can't see what the attraction would be for a woman."

blimey im not sure what kind of movie you was watching? lol :L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am quite thick and this has worked for a couple of my fb getting over that last couple of inches. It works so well for them that they are usually sucking on a few when I arrive for a meet.

Think you will find he has had answers given to him. As well as advise around not forcing something that cannot be done.

Or should all women who can't deep throat a monster cock or don't want to be forced to try it every which way?? "

I think most of us on this site have a respect and follow a duty of care to our playmates. Some of us when playing in a submissive role want to push our boundaries as part of the sexual exploration this site is part of. It is not a case of being forced or coerced by anyone at all. If a partner says 'no' during play then the play changes to a more mutually agreeable scenario.

As a bi guy I love to deep throat cock but the gag reflex does inhibit me sometimes. But if a throat lozenge helps me get over that gag reflex. I will gladly do it because a. I enjoy giving deep throat and b. I know how fantastic it feels for my playmate. I am not being bullied or cajoled into give deep throat I am having intense sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is just practise and tbh i think it slides down easier...the more you enjoy it, best position is prob 69, and tell to keep her chin up, lengthens the throat, if you eat pineapple in your dailly diet yer cum will taste mega, anything really that is eaten often and high in natural sugars should work.... but if she feels rushed, her throat will kick you the fuck out, go at her pace....its only way you both will enjoy it! hope this helps!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I am quite thick and this has worked for a couple of my fb getting over that last couple of inches. It works so well for them that they are usually sucking on a few when I arrive for a meet.

Think you will find he has had answers given to him. As well as advise around not forcing something that cannot be done.

Or should all women who can't deep throat a monster cock or don't want to be forced to try it every which way??

That's all well and good and kudos on the respect you give etc but on this, and other threads by the op there have been glaring signs of being in this just for him.

On this thread he has sais he wants to numb her throat so he can get past her taste buds and cum in her mouth even though she doesn't like it.....where is the respect there?

I am sub myself and know all about pushing boundaries and having new experiences. But they are always done with mutual trust and respect.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

blimey im not sure what kind of movie you was watching? lol :L"

Just a basic porno really it was more for the benefit of my two gentlemen companions as porn bored me most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.......

That's all well and good and kudos on the respect you give etc but on this, and other threads by the op there have been glaring signs of being in this just for him.

On this thread he has sais he wants to numb her throat so he can get past her taste buds and cum in her mouth even though she doesn't like it.....where is the respect there?

I am sub myself and know all about pushing boundaries and having new experiences. But they are always done with mutual trust and respect. "

Point taken and accepted.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

attraction would be for a woman."

And obviously I'm not suggesting for a minute that you try it like this.

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