FabSwingers.com forum: Married but playing

By *aughtywifeandhim OP Couple
over a year ago

bedford

Have any of you ever thought of discussing swinging with your partners , I for one thought my wife would never be up for introducing anyone else into our sex life , I plucked up the courage when we were having a naughty night in , we were watching porn , she admitted watching other women turned her on , and it did ,I admitted I would love to watch her fuck another guy , we had amazing sex after 20 years of marraige , we decided that night to try some new things , we went to a social , we had a soft swing meet with single guy and couple , she then asked if she could try a social with a guy , which ended up her coming home smiling , we then attended our first party , it has done wonders for our sex life , we got to parties when invited and club when we can , we both have the odd solo meet . I just wished I had brought the subject up earlier , I bet a few more couples would enjoy if they had the courage , we also found a few more friends during swinging that we wouldn’t have expected to be on the scene too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any of you ever thought of discussing swinging with your partners , I for one thought my wife would never be up for introducing anyone else into our sex life , I plucked up the courage when we were having a naughty night in , we were watching porn , she admitted watching other women turned her on , and it did ,I admitted I would love to watch her fuck another guy , we had amazing sex after 20 years of marraige , we decided that night to try some new things , we went to a social , we had a soft swing meet with single guy and couple , she then asked if she could try a social with a guy , which ended up her coming home smiling , we then attended our first party , it has done wonders for our sex life , we got to parties when invited and club when we can , we both have the odd solo meet . I just wished I had brought the subject up earlier , I bet a few more couples would enjoy if they had the courage , we also found a few more friends during swinging that we wouldn’t have expected to be on the scene too "

Love a happy ending. It can work really well for some couples.

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

I (mr) plucked up the courage to tell Rane my thoughts and 18months later our sex life and relationship is stronger than I could of ever imagined

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over a year ago

"I (mr) plucked up the courage to tell Rane my thoughts and 18months later our sex life and relationship is stronger than I could of ever imagined"

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

About 8 years ago, I suggested to my wife, the possibility of visiting a swinger club together. Her response was less than positive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 9 years ago I would have said my wife would be the last person in the world to let another man touch her but I dropped little hints when we fucked using toys etc and then one day I just came out and told her I'd love to watch another man fuck her, after the shock she rightly wanted some time to think about it, I never pestered her and just waited until she was ready to give me an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re pretty similar, after 21 years together we talk ended up having a conversation about swinging and decided it’s something we’d both like to try. So far, we’ve met some great people and had a couple of great threesomes, now looking to play with a couple. I guess the moral of the story is to communicate honestly with your partner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication and honesty really is the key to a happy and successful marriage. You need to be able to be honest and tell your partner everything. It's the only way otherwise you're not being true to yourself, let alone your partner.

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By *r and Mrs minionCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Communication and honesty really is the key to a happy and successful marriage. You need to be able to be honest and tell your partner everything. It's the only way otherwise you're not being true to yourself, let alone your partner."

I Mrs M am new to all of this, Mr M was on here previous to us meeting. I've got to say, it is very much a turn on for me

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

When I was with my first wife, we talked and fantasised about it for years almost from the start, read 'readers'stories' and looked at porn mags (that long ago). After we had had our children, and she realised other men did fancy her, we decided to try it and she was the first off the blocks by a long way. Then we tried 3somes and that's been my lifelong obsession.

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