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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening all was looking to see if anyone could give me any advice .... i no i shouldnt come on here with expections of sex etc ..

But iv been back a few weeks now and havnt had a single realistic chat with the chanve of a meet let alone to actually meet any .

Iv looked hard at my profile a spent over a week making the profile bio better and took some advice about leaving penis images off my page ...

And yet i still dont sewm to be able to link with anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try going to clubs and socials in the new year.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Ratios, ratios and..... ratios.

Like above said, just go to a club if your that serious about the lifestyle.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

If not a club...look for a munch or social. Turn up looking like you made an effort and we can't stress this enough, be a nice guy and not a perv!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Uv been on and off here for last 10 years had some wonderful mewta un the past and struck great relationships with couples and single females bur this last yeat the sites just gone way out of control with fake accounts women selling etc ....

Iv because really self confident and not in a good way and the rejection constantly takes its tool im no brad pitt ripped guy so i no ita hars to stand out ao i fear going a club amd getting the same rejection face to face

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Uv been on and off here for last 10 years had some wonderful mewta un the past and struck great relationships with couples and single females bur this last yeat the sites just gone way out of control with fake accounts women selling etc ....

Iv because really self confident and not in a good way and the rejection constantly takes its tool im no brad pitt ripped guy so i no ita hars to stand out ao i fear going a club amd getting the same rejection face to face"

If you were here and successful before op what worked for you then ? What's different now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Uv been on and off here for last 10 years had some wonderful mewta un the past and struck great relationships with couples and single females bur this last yeat the sites just gone way out of control with fake accounts women selling etc ....

Iv because really self confident and not in a good way and the rejection constantly takes its tool im no brad pitt ripped guy so i no ita hars to stand out ao i fear going a club amd getting the same rejection face to face

If you were here and successful before op what worked for you then ? What's different now."

Honestly i truely believe its due to the footflow of men on here . The ladt tine i was on wad 4 yeats ago i had a few single female meets but mainly couples and had a regular couple i met often . Begore that was about 7 yeard ago and it wad epic but well less recognised as a site to meet for sex .....

But i feel iv gotten better looking with age but im recieving alot of really nasty comments but again think thats down to morw people atw just more vile online now adays ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Uv been on and off here for last 10 years had some wonderful mewta un the past and struck great relationships with couples and single females bur this last yeat the sites just gone way out of control with fake accounts women selling etc ....

Iv because really self confident and not in a good way and the rejection constantly takes its tool im no brad pitt ripped guy so i no ita hars to stand out ao i fear going a club amd getting the same rejection face to face"

As I said to you in another thread, you don’t need to look like Brad Pitt or be ripped to get a meet.

People are attracted to all different looks. It’s your personality though that will take you further.

Perhaps it’s your approach?

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

It's hard on everyone to get meets and if you are a single male even harder a the site is swamped with the "But it's a sex site so here's me knob" gang nowadays and going to clubs seems to the only advice on offer ?? but we'd try a social event ?? as you might be like us not be into the whole club scene ??? but best of luck and some nice ones still on here just harder to find xx

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I think op you are expecting too much from here. I would deffinately try the club scene? What type of messages do you send. I would get rid of the emoji pictures just crop them if you need to hide things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" It's hard on everyone to get meets and if you are a single male even harder a the site is swamped with the "But it's a sex site so here's me knob" gang nowadays and going to clubs seems to the only advice on offer ?? but we'd try a social event ?? as you might be like us not be into the whole club scene ??? but best of luck and some nice ones still on here just harder to find xx"

I am looking into club scene but id ideally in a perfect world love to go with someone who wants to go along with me and enjoy each other for the first meet as id be extremly nervous and worried id not have anyone attracted to me which i aporeciate sounds bad like im using the lady taking me but as i say ideal world it would someone who actually wanted me also

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think op you are expecting too much from here. I would deffinately try the club scene? What type of messages do you send. I would get rid of the emoji pictures just crop them if you need to hide things "

I dont have any expetactions of this site much anymore and i try to taylor all my messages individually to the profile whom im chatting to ... i was given the advice of emojis as it woukd look a horrid picture chopping my head and was also told to many cock pics arnt nice and i needed some body pictues evem tho im not body confident its hard to please everyone and i value ur opiniom amd surgestion but i think the public images i have up atm have a better responces then before but thank you hun xx

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I think op you are expecting too much from here. I would deffinately try the club scene? What type of messages do you send. I would get rid of the emoji pictures just crop them if you need to hide things

I dont have any expetactions of this site much anymore and i try to taylor all my messages individually to the profile whom im chatting to ... i was given the advice of emojis as it woukd look a horrid picture chopping my head and was also told to many cock pics arnt nice and i needed some body pictues evem tho im not body confident its hard to please everyone and i value ur opiniom amd surgestion but i think the public images i have up atm have a better responces then before but thank you hun xx"

Your body shot looks fine to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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APPRECIATE IT HUN X

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We are a couple and struggle to get meets on here , either together or solo ,so we go to club or parties to meet actual real people , there are so many fakes on here , seriously try a club or social to start , much more fun and great facilities to get you in the mood and playing ??

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"We are a couple and struggle to get meets on here , either together or solo ,so we go to club or parties to meet actual real people , there are so many fakes on here , seriously try a club or social to start , much more fun and great facilities to get you in the mood and playing ??"

Have to agree. I rarely meet now outside clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are a couple and struggle to get meets on here , either together or solo ,so we go to club or parties to meet actual real people , there are so many fakes on here , seriously try a club or social to start , much more fun and great facilities to get you in the mood and playing ??

Have to agree. I rarely meet now outside clubs "

Which club miss blue . Will have to accidently on purpose bump into you as i cant see your profile hehehe xz

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