FabSwingers.com forum: Excuses, car broken down

By *aughtyfingermagician OP Man
over a year ago

st austell

How many times have people heard the car has broken down on way to you excuse? Just had it this morning from a couple

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

May not have been an excuse

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Or maybe their car actually just broke down

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've had it as a reason once. Can't validate it, without live video, including breakdown recovery etc.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Maybe their car has broken down. It’s does happen you know. Not a good idea saying they are lying on here is it

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Makes logical sense. Cars only ever break down when you're on your way somewhere, really.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

It's cold out there. What makes you think it was an excuse?

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

This did happen to us on our way to a social.It cost over £900 to have the car fixed.We messaged the guy and explained what happened but we never did meet!

M and M

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Maybe they did break down have you any proof they didn’t before slating them on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think her car has actually broken down

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By *hantelle-La-SlutTV/TS
over a year ago

South Birmingham

my car broke down on a way to a meet and also broked down at a dogging spot too, so it does happen more often then you think.

Car break down they are a pain in the backside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the actual question, I've had it once only. Who knows if it was factual tho.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I mean, cars do break down. Sometimes people use it as just an excuse, but sometimes it does actually happen.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I had a guy bail on me because his car was nicked after returning from holiday. I was sceptical but he texted me a copy of the crime report! I am the worst for thinking the worst of people, but sometimes shit really does happen to people

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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire

I actually did break down on the way to a meet once, I felt that guilty I sent the couple a pic of me being towed away by the AA.

It does happen sometimes, not always an excuse.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"How many times have people heard the car has broken down on way to you excuse? Just had it this morning from a couple"

Did they talk about rescheduling?

Anyone who seriously wants to meet you would, in my opinion, want to reschedule as soon as possible.

Do you know it was a couple and not a fantasist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it did break down, a lot do with the cold weather we have just had

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

And you can be sure that when such a problem happens, that they will be mega stressed and upset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As it happens mine did breakdown but the day before a planned social.

And I say broke down it went snap! The drivers side coil spring decided two was better than one!

Anyway we are still chatting and plan to meet up after Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we find with Fab is ,if the person/people don't turn up on the 1st meet. There's not much chance of them turning up if you give them a second chance.

Plenty of fake accounts on here that just want to chat chat chat but they can't turn up to a meet .Because they're not who they say they are.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Op may not have been an excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy bail on me because his car was nicked after returning from holiday. I was sceptical but he texted me a copy of the crime report! I am the worst for thinking the worst of people, but sometimes shit really does happen to people "

Can imagine anyone is making excuses and not actually meeting you

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London

They're all right. Could have broken down. On the other hand, if cars often breakdown on their way to you in these specific circumstances, one does start to wonder.

I know that people get migraines, but my feeling is that a higher proportion of women get migraines as a date with me approaches than at other times. But who knows. Perhaps migraines are more common than I'd thought. (One woman did take lots of medication, drank lots of water, and made it. And pleased she was too! I think.)

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

a % of meets that dont happen will be for a valid reason not all will be messers

no shows have always been a part of the scene as annoying as it can be but alot of it is down to the selection of whom your meeting....

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By *aughtyfingermagician OP Man
over a year ago

st austell

I just ask for a photo of them next to the car of the aa text but no proof, yet they stayed online for the whole 50 mins, and then their profile was verified 30 minutes after there car broke down by another man…

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Ouch! Sounds like you were ‘Plan b’ mate! Block and move on

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London

Ouch! Sounds like you were ‘Plan b’ mate! Block and move on

He could have been plan A, and then suddenly in comes email from the guy of their dreams!

Or that was the AA guy

As for not sending proof - was this a formal investigation?

And staying online - what else would they do whilst waiting?

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By *aughtyfingermagician OP Man
over a year ago

st austell

Well if could stay online all that time could show they weren’t lying. A lot of time wasters and fantasists on here

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"Well if could stay online all that time could show they weren’t lying. A lot of time wasters and fantasists on here "

if your always being messed around then change how you look for fun as your attracting the wrong types or your attracting men pretnding to be women/couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a bank card stopped working at the garage, while putting petrol in on the way to me excuse.

It was an excuse because never heard from him again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had someone claim a relative died just so they could go to another meet

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

keep it to the forum ... or get a simple block

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By *ingerie whoreTV/TS
over a year ago

kirk hammerton

"I just ask for a photo of them next to the car of the aa text but no proof, yet they stayed online for the whole 50 mins, and then their profile was verified 30 minutes after there car broke down by another man…"
blown out by a better offer put your big girl pants on move along and suck it up shit happens get used to it

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

I was all ready to go meet a couple for a social and I was made aware my tyre was flat as I was leaving. Used the inflator and it still wasn't going up. Moved it forward a bit and the tyre had shredded... I was in such a panic of potentially letting them down. Even sent a pic of said tyre as a live pic and luckily they came to my area and ended up having a nice time.

I was always skeptical when people said things like that and then it happened to me, so could have been genuine.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Modern cars are pretty reliable i would be pretty sceptical

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

My chain snapped on my motorbike, that counts as a breakdown.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Well if could stay online all that time could show they weren’t lying. A lot of time wasters and fantasists on here "
to be fair if someone asked me to prove something I'd just delete the message. It also could be a verification from previous meet. I've not met since June... my verifications are newer than that

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"How many times have people heard the car has broken down on way to you excuse? Just had it this morning from a couple"

It is quite cold mate. A broken car is a plausible excuse.

The mr

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By *rKeefyMan
over a year ago

Ashton

Had a couple guys use death in the family for not attending a gangbangs I arranged. Another said his girlfriend suddenly arranged a day out that day.

"How many times have people heard the car has broken down on way to you excuse? Just had it this morning from a couple

It is quite cold mate. A broken car is a plausible excuse.

The mr "

In the 80s and earlier perhaps but not now. Cars are much more robust

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Modern cars are pretty reliable i would be pretty sceptical "

But they still break down. Not everyone has a brand new car

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Modern cars are pretty reliable i would be pretty sceptical

But they still break down. Not everyone has a brand new car "

I work in the motor trade; buying a new car is no guarantee it won’t break down

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