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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys/girls,

whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm?

whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best technique i know is a pair of jimmy choos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"best technique i know is a pair of jimmy choos"

That or a decent handbag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys/girls,

whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm?

whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??"

Mate; if you've got to 27 and you have to ask....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi guys/girls,

whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm?

whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??

Mate; if you've got to 27 and you have to ask...."

ASKING FOR YOUR VIEWS ON WHAT YOU GUYS THINK, NOT A SCHOOL LESSON....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys/girls,

whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm?

whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??

Mate; if you've got to 27 and you have to ask...."

He's not asking how to make a woman orgasm, he's asking which is your fave way... which you enjoy the most

I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes thankyou, must have actually read it rather than assuming loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys/girls,

whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm?

whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??"

I'd say - the same way that I bring a woman to orgasm - it just depends upon what species of female you've got in mind.....

But the exact details are - my secret!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi guys/girls,

whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm?

whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??

I'd say - the same way that I bring a woman to orgasm - it just depends upon what species of female you've got in mind.....

But the exact details are - my secret!!!!

"

LOL COME ON YOU CANT COMMENT ON HERE WITH A SECRET NOT TO TELL!! LOOL

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi guys/girls,

whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm?

whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??"

The best way to make this female orgasm is to ask me, to take time with me finding out what I like and build up slowly. Start out in the mornig with soft touches and gentle words build up slowly through the day and by evening time you might be getting there

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

theres no set "formula " to pleasure a women lol ! women are all very indervidual and different touches,sensations ,intensity ect have different effect dependent on that woman.we are not like the simon game where you just hit the buttons in certain sequence lmao!

i find those who take time to read partners reaction, take note of what they enjoy and get to know their partners body are the best at making me cum.

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By *iamp86Man
over a year ago

preston

My favourite way is making them cum with my tongue or fingers - love to see them squirming from multiple orgasms

Get them nice and wet before I fuck them ....

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"best technique i know is a pair of jimmy choos"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find something that vaguely represents a clitoris and punch it repeatedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many women are so self-conscious about taking too long that they end up faking orgasm or deciding to go without. The solution? Stop obsessing over orgasms—yours and hers. A recent brain-imaging study by Swedish researchers shows that relaxation is the single most important factor in bringing a woman to orgasm.

So tell her she has all night. The better you convey not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but also appreciation of her sexual pleasure—orgasm or not —the easier it will be for her to unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reach orgasm. Going somewhere?

2

The best sex starts long before the clothes come off. Talent—more than rugged good looks or a chiseled midsection—is a powerful aphrodisiac, according to research by my colleagues at The Kinsey Institute. (Less surprisingly, poor hygiene and a messy home are among women's biggest turnoffs.)

So nail "Paradise City" during karaoke. Or make her die laughing at your self-deprecating display of atrocious dartsmanship. Yes, humor is a talent, too.

3

Women who worry about the way they look down there are less likely to orgasm easily during oral sex, according to my research. And a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research suggests that women who feel embarrassed or ashamed about their bodies have less sexual experience and are less sexually assertive.

Clearly, you have everything to gain with flattery. If you love the way she looks naked—and you do, right?—share the news.

4

During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You'll kickstart the bloodflow and lubrication down below, starting her slow buildup

5

One thing many women love during manual stimulation: a slow buildup. Here's how to do it: Lie next to her, lightly bracing the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. Cup the area around her clitoris with your palm to add indirect stimulation—most women are too sensitive to receive direct contact early on. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons—her pubic mound, the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone—and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand.

6

Play Ponce de León and explore various types of penetration to figure out what turns her on most. Your first stop: her G-spot, located about 1 to 2 inches up the front wall of her vagina. This spongy region swells during arousal. Try massaging the area slowly with your fingers. A lot of women find it mind blowing. Not her thing? Just move on.

7

To maximize her pleasure, increase the amount of contact you'll have with her most sensitive parts. Here's one move that will drive her wild: Ask her to lie on her back, with her legs stretched out. Now climb on top. Curl your arms around her shoulders, supporting yourself with your elbows and moving your chest up by her chin. The goal is to bring the base of your penis in contact with her clitoris. Thrust slowly, focusing on up-and-down movement instead of in-and-out penetration.

Another great trick: Move your pubic mound in a circle or up and down against her clitoris. You'll get a break from high-intensity stimulation, and she'll receive focused attention where it often matters most.

8

Ease into oral sex—don't just attack. First kiss her inner thighs and her inner and outer lips, then work your way inside using firm, broad strokes with your tongue. Watch her hips for a clue to the rhythm she likes. Listen to her gasps and moans as you experiment with different techniques.

And watch for signs she's close to climaxing, such as a subtle deepening in the color of her labia caused by increased bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her stomach and feel for the muscular contractions that immediately precede her orgasm.

9

Once you reach your point of no return, you'll climax even if you're interrupted by a tuba-playing, thong-clad Bea Arthur. But your lady could hit the "off" switch if you stop or change moves midway to orgasm. We love it when you try new things, and it's important to vary your technique, but once you've found a winner, stick with it until she crosses the finish line.

10

Stalking the elusive tandem orgasm is an admirable goal, but many women—especially those with sensitive clitorises—respond better to a "ladies-first" strategy. If you rub the clitoris for a long time—during thrusting, for example—it can become too sore or desensitized to respond to manual or oral stimulation later. So satisfy her before intercourse.

Bonus: A woman's orgasm threshold drops after her first one, so it's often easier to bring her to climax through penetration after she's already had one. How does that sound for an encore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys/girls,

whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm?

whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??

Mate; if you've got to 27 and you have to ask....

ASKING FOR YOUR VIEWS ON WHAT YOU GUYS THINK, NOT A SCHOOL LESSON...."

Haha relax

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"many women are so self-conscious about taking too long that they end up faking orgasm or deciding to go without. The solution? Stop obsessing over orgasms—yours and hers. A recent brain-imaging study by Swedish researchers shows that relaxation is the single most important factor in bringing a woman to orgasm.

So tell her she has all night. The better you convey not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but also appreciation of her sexual pleasure—orgasm or not —the easier it will be for her to unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reach orgasm. Going somewhere?

2

The best sex starts long before the clothes come off. Talent—more than rugged good looks or a chiseled midsection—is a powerful aphrodisiac, according to research by my colleagues at The Kinsey Institute. (Less surprisingly, poor hygiene and a messy home are among women's biggest turnoffs.)

So nail "Paradise City" during karaoke. Or make her die laughing at your self-deprecating display of atrocious dartsmanship. Yes, humor is a talent, too.

3

Women who worry about the way they look down there are less likely to orgasm easily during oral sex, according to my research. And a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research suggests that women who feel embarrassed or ashamed about their bodies have less sexual experience and are less sexually assertive.

Clearly, you have everything to gain with flattery. If you love the way she looks naked—and you do, right?—share the news.

4

During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You'll kickstart the bloodflow and lubrication down below, starting her slow buildup

5

One thing many women love during manual stimulation: a slow buildup. Here's how to do it: Lie next to her, lightly bracing the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. Cup the area around her clitoris with your palm to add indirect stimulation—most women are too sensitive to receive direct contact early on. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons—her pubic mound, the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone—and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand.

6

Play Ponce de León and explore various types of penetration to figure out what turns her on most. Your first stop: her G-spot, located about 1 to 2 inches up the front wall of her vagina. This spongy region swells during arousal. Try massaging the area slowly with your fingers. A lot of women find it mind blowing. Not her thing? Just move on.

7

To maximize her pleasure, increase the amount of contact you'll have with her most sensitive parts. Here's one move that will drive her wild: Ask her to lie on her back, with her legs stretched out. Now climb on top. Curl your arms around her shoulders, supporting yourself with your elbows and moving your chest up by her chin. The goal is to bring the base of your penis in contact with her clitoris. Thrust slowly, focusing on up-and-down movement instead of in-and-out penetration.

Another great trick: Move your pubic mound in a circle or up and down against her clitoris. You'll get a break from high-intensity stimulation, and she'll receive focused attention where it often matters most.

8

Ease into oral sex—don't just attack. First kiss her inner thighs and her inner and outer lips, then work your way inside using firm, broad strokes with your tongue. Watch her hips for a clue to the rhythm she likes. Listen to her gasps and moans as you experiment with different techniques.

And watch for signs she's close to climaxing, such as a subtle deepening in the color of her labia caused by increased bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her stomach and feel for the muscular contractions that immediately precede her orgasm.

9

Once you reach your point of no return, you'll climax even if you're interrupted by a tuba-playing, thong-clad Bea Arthur. But your lady could hit the "off" switch if you stop or change moves midway to orgasm. We love it when you try new things, and it's important to vary your technique, but once you've found a winner, stick with it until she crosses the finish line.

10

Stalking the elusive tandem orgasm is an admirable goal, but many women—especially those with sensitive clitorises—respond better to a "ladies-first" strategy. If you rub the clitoris for a long time—during thrusting, for example—it can become too sore or desensitized to respond to manual or oral stimulation later. So satisfy her before intercourse.

Bonus: A woman's orgasm threshold drops after her first one, so it's often easier to bring her to climax through penetration after she's already had one. How does that sound for an encore?

"

'kin 'ell how long does that take you? My missus would be snoring like a Manx Norton after 10mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you reach your point of no return, you'll climax even if you're interrupted by a tuba-playing, thong-clad Bea Arthur. But your lady could hit the "off" switch if you stop or change moves midway to orgasm. We love it when you try new things, and it's important to vary your technique, but once you've found a winner, stick with it until she crosses the finish line.

Oh god thats soooo important for me.... There's nothing worse when a guy stops abruptly when I'm right in the middle....it ruins the whole thing. I want to ride that wave till the very last twitch and spasm, which can be quite a few seconds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh - Dr Chaos!!!

You've just proved a suspicion that's been passing though my mind for a few years...

I just KNEW that there must be some sort of "Haynes Manual" on how to please a women...

So many guys seem to have read it and just go onto autopilot, convinced that if you "play with this", and then "twiddle that", followed by "lick that funny thingumabob" then a woman is automatically going to enter spontaneous orgasm....

Well, actually guys, we are all different, and we so wish that at least one or two of you would try to find out - or at least ask us....

Please.....

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Ohhh - Dr Chaos!!!

You've just proved a suspicion that's been passing though my mind for a few years...

I just KNEW that there must be some sort of "Haynes Manual" on how to please a women...

So many guys seem to have read it and just go onto autopilot, convinced that if you "play with this", and then "twiddle that", followed by "lick that funny thingumabob" then a woman is automatically going to enter spontaneous orgasm....

Well, actually guys, we are all different, and we so wish that at least one or two of you would try to find out - or at least ask us....

Please.....

"

Why bother asking when they can Google it mid-thrust?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhh - Dr Chaos!!!

You've just proved a suspicion that's been passing though my mind for a few years...

I just KNEW that there must be some sort of "Haynes Manual" on how to please a women...

So many guys seem to have read it and just go onto autopilot, convinced that if you "play with this", and then "twiddle that", followed by "lick that funny thingumabob" then a woman is automatically going to enter spontaneous orgasm....

Well, actually guys, we are all different, and we so wish that at least one or two of you would try to find out - or at least ask us....

Please.....

Why bother asking when they can Google it mid-thrust? "

An ex of mine could cum just from me being behind her kissing her neck ...I knew the exact spot and it worked every time

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"many women are so self-conscious about taking too long that they end up faking orgasm or deciding to go without. The solution? Stop obsessing over orgasms—yours and hers. A recent brain-imaging study by Swedish researchers shows that relaxation is the single most important factor in bringing a woman to orgasm.

So tell her she has all night. The better you convey not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but also appreciation of her sexual pleasure—orgasm or not —the easier it will be for her to unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reach orgasm. Going somewhere?

2

The best sex starts long before the clothes come off. Talent—more than rugged good looks or a chiseled midsection—is a powerful aphrodisiac, according to research by my colleagues at The Kinsey Institute. (Less surprisingly, poor hygiene and a messy home are among women's biggest turnoffs.)

So nail "Paradise City" during karaoke. Or make her die laughing at your self-deprecating display of atrocious dartsmanship. Yes, humor is a talent, too.

3

Women who worry about the way they look down there are less likely to orgasm easily during oral sex, according to my research. And a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research suggests that women who feel embarrassed or ashamed about their bodies have less sexual experience and are less sexually assertive.

Clearly, you have everything to gain with flattery. If you love the way she looks naked—and you do, right?—share the news.

4

During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You'll kickstart the bloodflow and lubrication down below, starting her slow buildup

5

One thing many women love during manual stimulation: a slow buildup. Here's how to do it: Lie next to her, lightly bracing the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. Cup the area around her clitoris with your palm to add indirect stimulation—most women are too sensitive to receive direct contact early on. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons—her pubic mound, the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone—and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand.

6

Play Ponce de León and explore various types of penetration to figure out what turns her on most. Your first stop: her G-spot, located about 1 to 2 inches up the front wall of her vagina. This spongy region swells during arousal. Try massaging the area slowly with your fingers. A lot of women find it mind blowing. Not her thing? Just move on.

7

To maximize her pleasure, increase the amount of contact you'll have with her most sensitive parts. Here's one move that will drive her wild: Ask her to lie on her back, with her legs stretched out. Now climb on top. Curl your arms around her shoulders, supporting yourself with your elbows and moving your chest up by her chin. The goal is to bring the base of your penis in contact with her clitoris. Thrust slowly, focusing on up-and-down movement instead of in-and-out penetration.

Another great trick: Move your pubic mound in a circle or up and down against her clitoris. You'll get a break from high-intensity stimulation, and she'll receive focused attention where it often matters most.

8

Ease into oral sex—don't just attack. First kiss her inner thighs and her inner and outer lips, then work your way inside using firm, broad strokes with your tongue. Watch her hips for a clue to the rhythm she likes. Listen to her gasps and moans as you experiment with different techniques.

And watch for signs she's close to climaxing, such as a subtle deepening in the color of her labia caused by increased bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her stomach and feel for the muscular contractions that immediately precede her orgasm.

9

Once you reach your point of no return, you'll climax even if you're interrupted by a tuba-playing, thong-clad Bea Arthur. But your lady could hit the "off" switch if you stop or change moves midway to orgasm. We love it when you try new things, and it's important to vary your technique, but once you've found a winner, stick with it until she crosses the finish line.

10

Stalking the elusive tandem orgasm is an admirable goal, but many women—especially those with sensitive clitorises—respond better to a "ladies-first" strategy. If you rub the clitoris for a long time—during thrusting, for example—it can become too sore or desensitized to respond to manual or oral stimulation later. So satisfy her before intercourse.

Bonus: A woman's orgasm threshold drops after her first one, so it's often easier to bring her to climax through penetration after she's already had one. How does that sound for an encore?

"

I can tell you been practicing.. Ohhh that anyone would take their time... sounds good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The easiest way to get me to cum is def oral if u can give good lick outs it a keeper lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhh - Dr Chaos!!!

You've just proved a suspicion that's been passing though my mind for a few years...

I just KNEW that there must be some sort of "Haynes Manual" on how to please a women...

So many guys seem to have read it and just go onto autopilot, convinced that if you "play with this", and then "twiddle that", followed by "lick that funny thingumabob" then a woman is automatically going to enter spontaneous orgasm....

Well, actually guys, we are all different, and we so wish that at least one or two of you would try to find out - or at least ask us....

Please.....

"

Communication is key.

Research helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I just like fingers sometimes, a gentle rub while having soft kisses on my neck drives me insane!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shoes.

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By *usted99Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Hahaha!!! So true

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

A trip to Tiffany's in an Aston Martin to be shown the diamonds i can choose by a naked Daniel Craig ..... Yep I'm done

T xx

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By *athfindersCouple
over a year ago

Hull

2 words... Yoni Massage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A trip to Tiffany's in an Aston Martin to be shown the diamonds i can choose by a naked Daniel Craig ..... Yep I'm done

T xx "

yup, totally agree on this one, excuse me while i wipe down the leather sofa

although i would add a limitless credit card in my name to buy anything i wanted into that fantasy!

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay


"A trip to Tiffany's in an Aston Martin to be shown the diamonds i can choose by a naked Daniel Craig ..... Yep I'm done

T xx

yup, totally agree on this one, excuse me while i wipe down the leather sofa

although i would add a limitless credit card in my name to buy anything i wanted into that fantasy!"

oh God yep thats me gone again lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys/girls,

whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm?

whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??

Mate; if you've got to 27 and you have to ask....

ASKING FOR YOUR VIEWS ON WHAT YOU GUYS THINK, NOT A SCHOOL LESSON...."

stop shouting for start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

let me have a go!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Kiss and nibble my neck and watch for the signs. One man I meet can tell just by looking at my breasts and adjusts what he is doing when he sees the signs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so its money,handbags and shoes.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"so its money,handbags and shoes.

"

I haven't tried those yet. Maybe I am missing something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so its money,handbags and shoes.

"

i wouldnt thank anybody for bags and shoes - guess im not typical female

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By *picer07Woman
over a year ago

CARDIFF


"many women are so self-conscious about taking too long that they end up faking orgasm or deciding to go without. The solution? Stop obsessing over orgasms—yours and hers. A recent brain-imaging study by Swedish researchers shows that relaxation is the single most important factor in bringing a woman to orgasm.

So tell her she has all night. The better you convey not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but also appreciation of her sexual pleasure—orgasm or not —the easier it will be for her to unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reach orgasm. Going somewhere?

2

The best sex starts long before the clothes come off. Talent—more than rugged good looks or a chiseled midsection—is a powerful aphrodisiac, according to research by my colleagues at The Kinsey Institute. (Less surprisingly, poor hygiene and a messy home are among women's biggest turnoffs.)

So nail "Paradise City" during karaoke. Or make her die laughing at your self-deprecating display of atrocious dartsmanship. Yes, humor is a talent, too.

3

Women who worry about the way they look down there are less likely to orgasm easily during oral sex, according to my research. And a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research suggests that women who feel embarrassed or ashamed about their bodies have less sexual experience and are less sexually assertive.

Clearly, you have everything to gain with flattery. If you love the way she looks naked—and you do, right?—share the news.

4

During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You'll kickstart the bloodflow and lubrication down below, starting her slow buildup

5

One thing many women love during manual stimulation: a slow buildup. Here's how to do it: Lie next to her, lightly bracing the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. Cup the area around her clitoris with your palm to add indirect stimulation—most women are too sensitive to receive direct contact early on. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons—her pubic mound, the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone—and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand.

6

Play Ponce de León and explore various types of penetration to figure out what turns her on most. Your first stop: her G-spot, located about 1 to 2 inches up the front wall of her vagina. This spongy region swells during arousal. Try massaging the area slowly with your fingers. A lot of women find it mind blowing. Not her thing? Just move on.

7

To maximize her pleasure, increase the amount of contact you'll have with her most sensitive parts. Here's one move that will drive her wild: Ask her to lie on her back, with her legs stretched out. Now climb on top. Curl your arms around her shoulders, supporting yourself with your elbows and moving your chest up by her chin. The goal is to bring the base of your penis in contact with her clitoris. Thrust slowly, focusing on up-and-down movement instead of in-and-out penetration.

Another great trick: Move your pubic mound in a circle or up and down against her clitoris. You'll get a break from high-intensity stimulation, and she'll receive focused attention where it often matters most.

8

Ease into oral sex—don't just attack. First kiss her inner thighs and her inner and outer lips, then work your way inside using firm, broad strokes with your tongue. Watch her hips for a clue to the rhythm she likes. Listen to her gasps and moans as you experiment with different techniques.

And watch for signs she's close to climaxing, such as a subtle deepening in the color of her labia caused by increased bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her stomach and feel for the muscular contractions that immediately precede her orgasm.

9

Once you reach your point of no return, you'll climax even if you're interrupted by a tuba-playing, thong-clad Bea Arthur. But your lady could hit the "off" switch if you stop or change moves midway to orgasm. We love it when you try new things, and it's important to vary your technique, but once you've found a winner, stick with it until she crosses the finish line.

10

Stalking the elusive tandem orgasm is an admirable goal, but many women—especially those with sensitive clitorises—respond better to a "ladies-first" strategy. If you rub the clitoris for a long time—during thrusting, for example—it can become too sore or desensitized to respond to manual or oral stimulation later. So satisfy her before intercourse.

Bonus: A woman's orgasm threshold drops after her first one, so it's often easier to bring her to climax through penetration after she's already had one. How does that sound for an encore?

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Top Tips Guys!!

And yep I do believe in two way streets

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over a year ago

Never really thought about techninques for making women orgasm to be honest - I've always found that if you have chemistry with someone, and simply enjoy the actual sex, then the orgasms for both of you will take care of themselves.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Never really thought about techninques for making women orgasm to be honest - I've always found that if you have chemistry with someone, and simply enjoy the actual sex, then the orgasms for both of you will take care of themselves."

If only it could be like that. I'm fairly responsive but sometimes someone you are turned on with just doesn't make it happen for you.

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds

Call me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue , everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diamonds do it for me lolxxx

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

my swinging friend has it down to a tee

he takes his time, being gentle, sensual, focus's on all of my body and is just wow. Never had anyone like him for taking their time to please me before themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its gotta be using the tongue for me. That control you can have directly on her clit, especially when you take your time and learn the direction and pace she likes her to be licked. Then always a bonus if i time her first tongued orgasm with slipping my cock into her and riding the bucking of her hips then when she digs her nails into my back and clamps her pussy around my shaft I like to go deep and try fuck another one out of her ...

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