FabSwingers.com forum: New to hotwifing

By *nya888 OP Woman
over a year ago

London

So my bf and I really want to explore some hotwife scenarios. We'd like to meet a guy we feel comfortable with who would fuck me in front of my partner in a hotel. However, although we've played together at parties and clubs before, we usually have a few drinks and both join in on the fun.

This time I'd like less alcohol, while my partner only watches. But this also makes me more nervous. I guess when we get into it I will probably forget that I'm being watched by him. But anyone got any advise as to how to go about a first time?

A x

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

Close your eyes and enjoy

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

All I can do is just give you a view on my experience OP. I have it written on my profile now that I will only play with a hot wife alone. He can be in another room, on FaceTime in the car or receive video to his phone, but not present. And that is purely because I have experienced multiple times when the guy is there the woman just can’t seem to relax. She’s nervous, self conscious, worrying about him and if she’s doing what he wants and likes. It becomes a performance for her. Remove that pressure and she lets go, and just enjoys the sex. He often gets a much better experience overall than if he was there. Just my experience btw.

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

I'd suggest as a hotwife, you perhaps kick things off with a massage from someone who's skilled in a nice hotel room.

Partner can watch the start of the session, but then he makes himself scarce.

The hotwife can then relax, get the benefit of the massage and perhaps the waves of orgasmic pleasure letting yourself go as far as you wish.

I've seen partners sitting waiting in the bathroom, with the smallest erection and having dribbled pre-cum from the noises they've heard in the main room. It's definitely a mind game for all concerned

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By *reepass4meCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Assume the hotel has a bar, you could send hubby downstairs when you are ready and then call / text him to come back in when you are ready.

As others have said, a first few minutes can help you focus.

Another option would be to wear a blindfold (or just a thought, put it on hubby!)

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By *nya888 OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Thanks everyone! Some great tips and advise.

Excited to explore this and find out what works for us.

A x

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Thanks everyone! Some great tips and advise.

Excited to explore this and find out what works for us.

A x"

Always good to see newcomers to the hotwife lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This makes a lot of sense, and would be our preference in a perfect world. The difficulty for us has been finding a man with whom we both feel comfortable enough for E to play solo. The search continues, albeit with a high degree of wariness based on past experience.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Just meet up socially first and don’t rush into it , we met a few times with a guy my wife liked , no play took place until we all felt comfortable with each other , when my wife was sure I was ok with it , she wanted to meet alone with him first to see if she could do it , after a really successful meet , she met him a couple of more times , he still got nervous the first time I was present , but soon relaxed and she had a really good night as he was so turned on I was watching , he gave her everything and she and I had the best sex after while he was still there , 12 years on we still have meets , and when she meets him alone she is always extra horny when she gets home

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