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First time sharing wife regrets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So has anyone ever shared there partner and regretted it. If so did you get over it? Share your experiences.

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

I did share my ex wife with a group of three at the time before hand was great feeling even when in room I was watching and she was sucking them of but when they where fucking her I was watching the wife’s face and she looked like she was enjoying it better than me.

We talked about it after and we agreed that we would either meet men at once for her or meet woman for me or play together at same time. And after that it was all fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did share my ex wife with a group of three at the time before hand was great feeling even when in room I was watching and she was sucking them of but when they where fucking her I was watching the wife’s face and she looked like she was enjoying it better than me.

We talked about it after and we agreed that we would either meet men at once for her or meet woman for me or play together at same time. And after that it was all fine."

Seeing her really enjoying herself would turn me on more lol, just shows you how each person thinks different. But glad it ended up all fine for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time we had a four way it started off good loved seeing mrs enjoy herself but took a bad turn when one of the guys told me that I get her all the time so why should I be involved instant mood killer

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By *_and_K18Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"First time we had a four way it started off good loved seeing mrs enjoy herself but took a bad turn when one of the guys told me that I get her all the time so why should I be involved instant mood killer "

He would of been asked to leave right there and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh he was in a very impolite way

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By *ancs29Man
over a year ago

oldham

good on you what bloody stupid thing to say some guys are thick and teat the hosts with respect and remember how bloody lucky you are to be invited

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First time we had a four way it started off good loved seeing mrs enjoy herself but took a bad turn when one of the guys told me that I get her all the time so why should I be involved instant mood killer "

No way!! what a pathetic thing to say.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

op only you know how strong your marriage is and how open you are with each other ..make sure your doing it because you both want too because it wont repair or make a marriage better ..it has to be rock solid before you start for swinging and more so cuckolding maybe do the swinging and hotwife thing first and see where you are as cuckolding is a very different ball game ...best of luck

30 yesr and not one regret either of us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"op only you know how strong your marriage is and how open you are with each other ..make sure your doing it because you both want too because it wont repair or make a marriage better ..it has to be rock solid before you start for swinging and more so cuckolding maybe do the swinging and hotwife thing first and see where you are as cuckolding is a very different ball game ...best of luck

30 yesr and not one regret either of us "

Hi, I'm not with anyone, I just find it curious and interesting, an maybe one day with a future partner who knows. But thankyou for your kind advice

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bicester


"First time we had a four way it started off good loved seeing mrs enjoy herself but took a bad turn when one of the guys told me that I get her all the time so why should I be involved instant mood killer

He would of been asked to leave right there and then"

Agreed, what a git! (Him, not you!)

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By *enj08475Man
over a year ago

brighton

Can I ask from other peoples experience why cuckolding is posdibly a harder dynamic to accommodate in a marrage than the other dynamics of normal swinging? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask from other peoples experience why cuckolding is posdibly a harder dynamic to accommodate in a marrage than the other dynamics of normal swinging? Thanks"

The power is passed over for the scenario to the female in cuck play.

In normal (if there is such a thing) swinging both partners play equal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this last year and it was an absolute pain in the arse.

Couple wanted a guy to join and play with the wife whilst the husband was away with work. All his idea I must add. He was quite pushy and il admit to missing the red flags early on.

The jealousy, insecurity and overthinking that went on from him was unbelievable. Started threatening me with claims of knowing my family members and turning up at my work with proof of been fucking his wife. Oh my days, i found it both really sad and quite amusing at the same time.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon


"I had this last year and it was an absolute pain in the arse.

Couple wanted a guy to join and play with the wife whilst the husband was away with work. All his idea I must add. He was quite pushy and il admit to missing the red flags early on.

The jealousy, insecurity and overthinking that went on from him was unbelievable. Started threatening me with claims of knowing my family members and turning up at my work with proof of been fucking his wife. Oh my days, i found it both really sad and quite amusing at the same time. "

Always had pleasant experiences with couples but I do always have this situation in the back of my mind that would really bother me lol . I don’t envy you in that situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First time we had a four way it started off good loved seeing mrs enjoy herself but took a bad turn when one of the guys told me that I get her all the time so why should I be involved instant mood killer

He would of been asked to leave right there and then

Agreed, what a git! (Him, not you!)"

That would have ended right there for us. The nerve of some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Always had pleasant experiences with couples but I do always have this situation in the back of my mind that would really bother me lol . I don’t envy you in that situation "

I felt more sorry for the woman, she was and is lovely. We still speak but I just avoid all interactions with he who should not be named

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

First time we played was at a party. The week after was spent analysing and dealing with insecurities on both sides. 18 years later we are now married, in love, have great sex life and happy

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