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By *ussykobi OP   Man
over a year ago

telford

Why do some people cancel meetings appointment last minute without letting you know In advance

Guys have you encounter such problems before and how did you deal with it especially the hotel cost

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Happened a few times just very annoying, time, travel and cost all to waste

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Guys often moan about the cost of clubs but weigh that up against no shows and picking up the hotel plus any travel cost, surely a club in more cost effective especially if the person you're planning to meet doesn't show there's always plenty of other people there.

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

Been chatting for a few weeks, arranged a meet 20 miles away with just postcode, with me to contact when there. Messaged to say I’m there. Smiley face reply from the couple then blocked!! Waste of time

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

guys are you sure they were real couples and women ?? as there alot of fake accounts of couples and women run by single men for wanks and trolling ..

if its always happening then you need to change how you look for meets because your attracting the wrong ones ..

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

When I was on here as a single woman, I would say about 50% of arranged meeting would result in a no show. Most with no message or explanations as to why.

I ones had a message from a guy saying that he was really sorry but his work meeting ran over so would be an hour late would that be a problem. I replied that it was fine thanks for letting me know and seeing you soon. I then got a message about an hour later saying he was on his way. Three months later he has still not turned up. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was on here as a single woman, I would say about 50% of arranged meeting would result in a no show. Most with no message or explanations as to why.

I ones had a message from a guy saying that he was really sorry but his work meeting ran over so would be an hour late would that be a problem. I replied that it was fine thanks for letting me know and seeing you soon. I then got a message about an hour later saying he was on his way. Three months later he has still not turned up. Xxx"

I think you were chatting to Chris Rea he driving still

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd always recommend meeting somewhere for a social first op,never just book a hotel without knowing they're a real couple.If they stand you up you've lost half an hour and not £80 or whatever it cost.

Sadly this type of thing happens regularly,people book a room and the woman/man/couple is a no show.

Please report them to admin too op.

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By *sh91Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

I meet for a coffee first or a drink then take it from there

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Meet for a social first never book a hotel for people you haven't met in person. It's not a guarantee that they will show but they tend to be more likely to.

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By *ussykobi OP   Man
over a year ago

telford

Yes you are right in the club at least they’ll be plenty of fish in the club

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Mate I once drove to York and was kept waiting in a service station car park for about 5hr!! Ended up with a fine of £60 for being there too long and a wasted day / petrol . Very infuriating!

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By *ussykobi OP   Man
over a year ago

telford

I don’t think I am attracting the wrong ones I am an open minded person I literally message everyone I come across but few people that message me back and I don’t know why

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By *ussykobi OP   Man
over a year ago

telford

Sorry about that dear I know people like me would never cancel I will always show up on my meeting because I really love to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of times I've booked and paid for a hotel for the guy not to show up or cancel last minute is pretty ridiculous. People wonder why I only meet at clubs these days, this is the main reason why.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"The amount of times I've booked and paid for a hotel for the guy not to show up or cancel last minute is pretty ridiculous. People wonder why I only meet at clubs these days, this is the main reason why."

That is just rude and disrespectful. Should at least tell you in advance and if real reason Kate pay for your hotel. I always respect people. What I would expect so treat others same xxxx

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Been chatting for a few weeks, arranged a meet 20 miles away with just postcode, with me to contact when there. Messaged to say I’m there. Smiley face reply from the couple then blocked!! Waste of time "

Did they have good veris

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"The amount of times I've booked and paid for a hotel for the guy not to show up or cancel last minute is pretty ridiculous. People wonder why I only meet at clubs these days, this is the main reason why."

clubs are much easier for this absolutely I dont mind so much no shows/cancels at hotels I have paid as simply I am making my money back by filming adult content earlier in the day anyway the room , and usually I will have always arrange to see a mate if I get a no show anyway .. so for me its worst case scenario I just enjoy a hotel night with food and a mate over to watch telly/movie hang out

I am moving more towards though just going to a club I guess ..

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Why do some people cancel meetings appointment last minute without letting you know In advance

Guys have you encounter such problems before and how did you deal with it especially the hotel cost"

Some people are cunts with no respect for others or their time.

It takes no time at all to be considerate and let them know you aren’t going to show up…. But cunts will be cunts! Just consider it a bullet dodged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only problem is that I get little nervous just before the meet. I believe its a good sign lol

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

Met with a couple we wish had cancelled

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"Met with a couple we wish had cancelled "

See I just leave if I dont like the meet/vibe or instantly know its not going to go anywhere .. no point wasting my time or the other person/s I find .

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I had men say they meet but then not show up but i never speak to them again to know why....but equally had many meets and had amazing time too. So you win some and you lose some

Just don't put too much effort into first meet.

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

It’s just happened again , couple contacted said they wanted someone to watch them !! No touching.

Hotel they were in wasn’t far away, showered changed, traveled to hotel messaged as agreed , no F’ing response.

Travelled home disappointed!! Am I that gullible!! Yes seems to answer that

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"When I was on here as a single woman, I would say about 50% of arranged meeting would result in a no show. Most with no message or explanations as to why.

I ones had a message from a guy saying that he was really sorry but his work meeting ran over so would be an hour late would that be a problem. I replied that it was fine thanks for letting me know and seeing you soon. I then got a message about an hour later saying he was on his way. Three months later he has still not turned up. Xxx

I think you were chatting to Chris Rea he driving still "

So you think he will be here for Christmas,well he will be out of luck as I am going away lol. Xxx

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Never book until last moment when I've met

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By *andyAndeeMan
over a year ago

Burton

I arranged to meet a couple a while ago in a hotel. There were messages galore going back and forth, they even told me what drinks they wanted so I bought the beer and vodka they asked for. They kept messaging until the evening we had planned to meet …. then radio silence and no show!! Total waste of time and money! The most bizarre thing is we are still ‘friends’ on here! I’ve never allowed myself to be caught like that since!

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