FabSwingers.com forum: Want people want to see?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is the general feeling around picture of him? The Mr in a couple? We don’t really post any, most profiles don’t seem to have any but I don’t understand it really, as a female I’m super keen to see the Mr in a couple, I want to get an idea of the whole couple not just the ladies! I’m not suggesting lots of dick pics although one would be nice as reference, they don’t all look the same as the cliche suggests the same way our bits don’t! Anyway what say you? Ladies in particular would love to know your thoughts? x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I like to see a picture that shows body shape and size. I don't really care about the cock. A pose that suggests confidence is always nice.

The things that are a personal dislike are penises poking through flies or out the bottom of pants and camera pointing upwards with face frowning down. Apart from that just show me the guy so I know if I find him my type or not.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I like to see pics of the male, I don't reply to profiles without them as I don't want to ask to then say no sorry not for me.

My view is we come as a pair our profile is us both, I understand some people don't like pics of the male halfs for whatever reasons but it's definitely off-putting to me. It feels like a blind date or I assume the males ugly.

Mrs

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"What is the general feeling around picture of him? The Mr in a couple? We don’t really post any, most profiles don’t seem to have any but I don’t understand it really, as a female I’m super keen to see the Mr in a couple, I want to get an idea of the whole couple not just the ladies! I’m not suggesting lots of dick pics although one would be nice as reference, they don’t all look the same as the cliche suggests the same way our bits don’t! Anyway what say you? Ladies in particular would love to know your thoughts? x"

The one pic you have got of him shows he's in good shape! As a couple's profile you could definitely benefit from showcasing him more. What about him do YOU find sexy? Try and capture that in pics and use those. Some full body shots, some close-ups of his best features, some clothed, some naked, some halfway inbetween... anything that shows his personality coming through as well.

Oh! And also, because I remember reading it recently on here - one of him smiling/laughing as well. I think other ladies/couples would like to see that? Maybe? Single gent here so might not be the best perspective on this.

But just have fun it, whatever you decide!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

For a couples profile alot of couples post alot of her in there pics.

Some couples profiles dont even have him in there profiles pics.

But at least have both of you in them together, Theres no excuse as many things have timers.

I can understand the men not liking there photos being taken, to a degree.

After all you showing yourselves as a couple, It really seams many profiles are profiling the female as the main person of interest.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As long as it shows his body/shape I don't mind

It's got to be better than the token cock pic only that many couples include.

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

All our pics are posted because we enjoy taking them together and to show the trust we have in each other.

Just like on our singles profiles we post what we like ourselves and not for others but if people appreciate them that's a bonus.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We like to see full pictures, dressed or undressed is not important and if there’s enough of the face showing to give a hint that there may be some attraction then that’s perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin down pic so can check for beard lol, one topless pic, one dressed nice, a few with you together also is good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a face picture I couldn't meet someone if I didn't know what they looked like. Other pics anything apart from a dick pic as I'm really not keen.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We are only interested in seeing the photos that the couple themselves want to post, be they all of her, of him or of both of them. That, rather than pandering to other people's likes and dislikes,tells us more about the couple.

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London

Writing also as part of a couple, it's common sense that there should be photos of him, for a variety of reasons. My partner certainly wants to see, and if I'm going to see them together I also care what the guy looks like.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

If you're in this as a couple, show the couple. Rob tends to be more at ease behind the camera but we try and keep it reasonably balanced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree, and most couples are female focussed. As I play potentially Bi, I really want to see the guy. Even if didnt I still want to know who I am playing with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only have a couple nof pictures of me (lee) on our profile, but that is because we are only looking to meet men which is why all our pictures are of Cee.

Lee

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I hear that the best pics of males on the profile is taken with the woman so it proves that they are a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just want to see decent spelling and manners..

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (West Oxfordshire)

Interesting post.

We deliberately don't have any pictures of the male because we're only looking for straight men. We have pictures of us together in private but perhaps a few of the male might be warranted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Valid point. Most of our pics are of me, female, as it’s never the male that is the selling point of the profile. There’s nothing more off putting that profiles having 100 pics, and 99 of them are taken by the male of his own cock or torso after he’s been to the gym..

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (West Oxfordshire)

"Valid point. Most of our pics are of me, female, as it’s never the male that is the selling point of the profile. There’s nothing more off putting that profiles having 100 pics, and 99 of them are taken by the male of his own cock or torso after he’s been to the gym.."

Completely agree but it has provoked the thought that no photos of the male could be off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Main reason not so many pics of me , Mr W&W , is i have a lot very recognisable tattoos , yeh we are pretty open with our pics but rather keep as private as possible ID wise.

A few of me in freinds and one or 2 in public with tats blured out but thats not easy to do with the amout of tattoos.

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"Most of our pics are of me, female, as it’s never the male that is the selling point of the profile."

I'd say that it's always the male that is the selling point. Women tend to have very strong ideas about who they will and won't play with, while men tend to be a bit more flexible.

We tend to have more pictures of Em just because I'm the one who takes the pictures. But that's not ideal.

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London

"Most of our pics are of me, female, as it’s never the male that is the selling point of the profile.

I'd say that it's always the male that is the selling point. Women tend to have very strong ideas about who they will and won't play with, while men tend to be a bit more flexible.

We tend to have more pictures of Em just because I'm the one who takes the pictures. But that's not ideal.

It's a good point. We are more flexible. So clearly the guy should be visible.

But I think men are also more visual, and women are "objectively" (should be italics) more aesthetically appealing. Women are more often used to sell things, for example. They're the glamorous gender.

But maybe we should be breaking down that structure!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Writing also as part of a couple, it's common sense that there should be photos of him, for a variety of reasons. My partner certainly wants to see, and if I'm going to see them together I also care what the guy looks like. "

It's common sense that people should use their profile as they want to.

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London

It's common sense that people should use their profile as they want to."

Well obviously that's common sense. But it's also common sense that people who look at questions like this on the forums are interested in people's views.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"The things that are a personal dislike are penises poking through flies "

But the penis fly traps are so hot! It's like they're so ready to fuck you senseless they've just about managed to find a bit of brain power to get their penis out through the zip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re not looking for couples (at least not to play with) but have photos of both of us on the profile because…we’re a couple, and any guys we chat to need to understand that Mr is a very real part of any future dynamic.

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By *inger_the_NinjaMan
over a year ago

Frome

"The things that are a personal dislike are penises poking through flies

But the penis fly traps are so hot! It's like they're so ready to fuck you senseless they've just about managed to find a bit of brain power to get their penis out through the zip. "

Hahaha - I've never fallen fowl of catching myself in the zip, but it does look like photos of idiots putting their heads into a lions mouth. There's danger and there's stupidity.

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"We’re not looking for couples (at least not to play with) but have photos of both of us on the profile because…we’re a couple, and any guys we chat to need to understand that Mr is a very real part of any future dynamic."

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By *inger_the_NinjaMan
over a year ago

Frome

Anyway, what were we talking about?

Oh yeah. So guys should have equal weighting photo wise if in a bi couple where both play.

Hotwives, no need for the guy to feature at all

Cucks, just a photo of him jacking off in the corner is fine

Straight couples, use your discretion. There's a reason Ewan McGregor if the face of Star Wars, let the star shine in your couple.

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