FabSwingers.com forum: Meet Outfits??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do. Get an idea of what the guy likes and base my outfit on that.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I got a fab meet tonight and it's freezing cold so I'm going to wear crotchless body suit underneath my winter thermals and woolen jumper lol

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??

Yeah, I know I'm not a lady but...

I find that guys either aren't interested in an outfit or just want generic black lacy underwear with stockings and suspenders, or...

They want the school uniform.

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??

Yeah, I know I'm not a lady but...

I find that guys either aren't interested in an outfit or just want generic black lacy underwear with stockings and suspenders, or...

They want the school uniform.

I agree.

Over the years the majority only want stockings and suspenders.

Next choice is naked.

Even when we ask if they're sure they never change.

Only once did someone suggest some sexy dresses

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got a fab meet tonight and it's freezing cold so I'm going to wear crotchless body suit underneath my winter thermals and woolen jumper lol"

Brilliant

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By *94meeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I always ask for a body stocking or stockings

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

French maid x

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??

Usually something classy and a bit teasing...

cheeky smile and red lipstick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this thing where I ask the female to meet me for a social, dressed as if she wants me to fuck her. Most usually have high hem lines and low cut top, however there has been one or two more adventurous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys want lingerie&stockings but only plan to do basic clothes&boxers themselves!

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I have to confess, much to many ladies disappointment, I don't wear the full latex on a social date!

As a guy I will put on a shirt, smart jeans and shoes. Depending on the style of meet, if it's a potential sub or lady/couple interested in exploring the world of submission I may set them a task of wearing a desired item of clothing at my request. This is never anything extreme, you don't want a lady walking in dressed like a h**ker when you are at the local Starbucks!

For me, it begins the fun and the play, it's more for me than just the meet for play to have the mental stimulation and desire.

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By *dmundwilsonMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

Summer dresses are it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always ask for a body stocking or stockings

Great choices

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"French maid x"

Oh sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??

Usually something classy and a bit teasing...

cheeky smile and red lipstick. "

Love thid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some guys want lingerie&stockings but only plan to do basic clothes&boxers themselves!

What do like the guy to wear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arse like pow and boobies that make me grin like Cheshire cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CFNM

Not sure if dressing gown, stockings and suspenders count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guys want lingerie&stockings but only plan to do basic clothes&boxers themselves!

Some guys do lingerie and stockings too.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If I find out someone particularly likes something, I'm more likely to wear it. For one, it turns them on/they enjoy the sight. And I love that feeling of being desired, the way their eyes light up when you're wearing something they love.

Something I've never had that I'd love would be for someone to say Meli, I really want to see you wearing x, y or z. It would be hot to have someone tell me exactly what they'd like in that sort of way. And a big part of me would love to dress as they wanted.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I rarely dress up for a meet. Leather trousers or black jeans usually.

I have found that men so often expect women to dress to impress, but don't make any attempt themselves.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I always look like I've dressed up. But I wear the fishnet stockings and suspenders even if it's just a work day with no plans afterwards. I like to feel sexy and they do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always look like I've dressed up. But I wear the fishnet stockings and suspenders even if it's just a work day with no plans afterwards. I like to feel sexy and they do it for me. "

Amazing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rarely dress up for a meet. Leather trousers or black jeans usually.

I have found that men so often expect women to dress to impress, but don't make any attempt themselves."

I'm always smartly dressed for my meets. I never expect anything. If the lady has dressed up then it's a lovely bonus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"CFNM

Not sure if dressing gown, stockings and suspenders count. "

Haha brilliant

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"CFNM

Not sure if dressing gown, stockings and suspenders count.

Haha brilliant "

TBF, I did my first proper meet in a black satin dressing gown, a basque, stockings and 4 inch heels.

He was... obviously impressed if you get my meaning... and gave me a good hard fucking.

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I like my crotchless body stocking it's good for going to a club

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By *poolfunswingcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I will always dress nicely for the occasion and will have sexy heels on but will normally have a ‘play’ outfit to change into. x

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??

It would be smart casual as it would be a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't often dress up more because of time factors but if have more time then tend to do at lest nice undies.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It depends on the kind of meet and the venue.

We tend to go for casual smart for a social and smart/sexy for clubs and sex meets.

I also expect those we meet to make an effort. Anyone who thinks joggers or work wear are acceptable will not get past first base with me.

Nita

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I will always wear classic lingerie, and always fully fashioned stockings and heels … how far I’m going to walk will determine how high!!

…..Will always wear an elegant dress … always with a back zip!

…. And always expensive perfume. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??

Always for a planned play meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really love dressing up on a meet. Sexy underwear, dress and heels. Itsal part of it for me and helps build the excitement and horniness levels.

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I love dressing up if the meets at ours or a hotel then it’s totally slutty but if out and about then just teasing slut!!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Depends on the type of meet and location etc. For a 1st social meet, smart casual with a hint of sexy appropriate for a public location as 1st meet always public, usually short skirt, v neck blouse or top, heels, stockings unless it’s a heatwave!

For a 1st fun meet more sexy/risqué and we’ll know each other fairly well at this point so I’ll take into consideration their likes, which may be colour or style or “vibe” wise.

Subsequent meets depending on the person various lingerie, maybe fancy dress/role play. Rarely totally naked as I’m a little self conscious about certain areas.

“And always expensive perfume”

Well I’m not made of money! But yes nice scent is good too and makes me feel more confident.

“I have found that men so often expect women to dress to impress, but don't make any attempt themselves.”

Yes this happens rather too often. They’re all “I love your pics and that you like lingerie” etc and then they turn up in scruff order barely a comb through the hair! Guys you have FAR less effort to make in order to appear presentable, takes me a good 2-3 hours to look my very best and it’s not cheap either! So you need to make the effort too.

The people I meet more than once will be the ones that make the effort themselves and understand that’s the least they can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes this happens rather too often. They’re all “I love your pics and that you like lingerie” etc and then they turn up in scruff order barely a comb through the hair! "

Yes! My last social, the guy was walking towards me and he genuinely looked like he’d just got out of bed. Scruffy. The rest of the night I was thinking to myself - why did I bother putting that intensive conditioner on my hair and varnish on my nails

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

It’s an occasion for dressing super skimpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cee always dresses to impress for meets in full lingerie

Lee

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By *aughty L 69Woman
over a year ago

hull

I love to dress up so will find out what kind of things the guy likes and go from there and I can safely say they are always more then happy lol

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??

Both of us always dress well for meets. Shower, change, smart sexy clean clothes. It’s amazing how some people forget the basics!

for Mrs SW: jeans, heels and a slightly see through blouse.

For Mr NH: smart shirt, belt, smart jeans.

Once we’ve met people once, we’ll know how to dress for future dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a fab meet tonight and it's freezing cold so I'm going to wear crotchless body suit underneath my winter thermals and woolen jumper lol"

Hahaha love it, I always love the wonder of what might me underneath...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always dress for meets. If it becomes a regular thing and we become friends then I might not always be dressed, dressed up but effort is important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to look smart, polo shirt, jeans, no rips in them, I have found smelling nice is good too! In the summer I wore tailored shorts, she was impressed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"CFNM

Not sure if dressing gown, stockings and suspenders count.

Haha brilliant

TBF, I did my first proper meet in a black satin dressing gown, a basque, stockings and 4 inch heels.

He was... obviously impressed if you get my meaning... and gave me a good hard fucking.

That's so hot.

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

My wife loves to dress up , makes her feel sexy and also the lads find it a turn on !

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Always dress for meets, especially if they’ve requested something specific. Knowing that you’re dressing to please others is like an aperitif to the main course

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

"If I find out someone particularly likes something, I'm more likely to wear it. For one, it turns them on/they enjoy the sight. And I love that feeling of being desired, the way their eyes light up when you're wearing something they love.

I love that idea, that someone would find it a turn on to wear what I'd really want to see them in. I would equally find it a turn on wearing what they would like to see me in too!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I won't turn up like a scruff

Or wear stuff I'm not especially comfortable in just because a guy likes it

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Had meet last light with fab friend, at pub. Long boots, opaque suspender tights, shortish denim skirt, black off shoulder jumper.

Sexy undies.

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We both always make an effort and have been put off when its clear the guy we are meeting couldn't be bothered. A polo shirt and jeans just does not cut it.

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

"Had meet last light with fab friend, at pub. Long boots, opaque suspender tights, shortish denim skirt, black off shoulder jumper.

Sexy undies."

That sounds great....I'd be impressed!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??

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I would hope she'd dress up for me, certainly a dressed suit or a tailored jacket would do

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I wear what I am comfortable wearing at time. Plus it depends if it’s a social or a fuck meet

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