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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A little nervous about going to a club for the first time on my own. Looking for a friend or couple who can take me with them to help me settle in, preferably in the north west.

Any takers?

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)


"A little nervous about going to a club for the first time on my own. Looking for a friend or couple who can take me with them to help me settle in, preferably in the north west.

Any takers? "

im in the same boat hate rocking up to the pub on my own never mind a sex club lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be daunting but just do it

I did and never looked back

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

If you tell the staff it's your first visit, they'll look after you and make sure it's all ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the best option for me in the north west? I think the closest to me is Cupid’s

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)


"If you tell the staff it's your first visit, they'll look after you and make sure it's all ok "

oh thats really cool i didnt know that

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

They'll also give you a tour and some clubs even introduce you to their regulars so it's easier to mingle

Best of luck

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Select a club/night that suits what you're after, ie dress down club, bi night etc

Treat the night as a night out rather than a swingers club.

Talk to people in the main social areas, don't go following single ladies/couples around, or keep your hands on you're dick

The worst bit is walking through the door.

I started this life by going to a club alone many yrs ago and I've never looked back.

Good luck op

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)


"Select a club/night that suits what you're after, ie dress down club, bi night etc

Treat the night as a night out rather than a swingers club.

Talk to people in the main social areas, don't go following single ladies/couples around, or keep your hands on you're dick

The worst bit is walking through the door.

I started this life by going to a club alone many yrs ago and I've never looked back.

Good luck op"

very wise words. i will overcome my fear of the unkown in 2023

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been asked this a few times but always feel, despite their reassurances, that there will be an expectation or else we’ll feel responsible if the guy doesn’t have a good time. Hence we’ve never done it

You’re just gonna have to put your big boy pants on and go for it I reckon.

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)


"We’ve been asked this a few times but always feel, despite their reassurances, that there will be an expectation or else we’ll feel responsible if the guy doesn’t have a good time. Hence we’ve never done it

You’re just gonna have to put your big boy pants on and go for it I reckon. "

absolutely, already made an appointment with a tailor who specialises in pants for big boys

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By *rmrs95Couple
over a year ago

Chester

We were nervous first time but as soon as we got in we found that everyone is so much more sociable than a vannila pub/club and we just felt comfortable and free.

Obviously as a single guy it's a bit different but trust me, it's well worth it and once you get in you will realise you had nothing to feel nervous about, plenty of single guys in Cupid's who will make you feel at ease ( also a pool table )

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"What is the best option for me in the north west? I think the closest to me is Cupid’s"

No.3 in Chorley was my first club, and they remain one of the friendliest clubs I’ve been to, not just ignoring you once you’ve paid your entry like the majority do. I would definitely recommend No.3 for your first time mate

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"It can be daunting but just do it

I did and never looked back "

This, honestly it's not that bad, just take a deep breath & walk in, you'll be great the host/hostess normally show you round on 1st visit & would intro you to sst of friendly regulars.

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