FabSwingers.com forum: Introductions

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So how do men break through with a message when a woman gets hundreds per day?

Women's thoughts on what gets thier attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of those you message will check out your profile before even considering opening your message (though you'll likely know nothing about is as most browse in mode) if your profile doesn't grab their interest, why should they bother to read what you've sent them, let alone reply?

A lot of guys come on the forum after a short time being here, complaining about a lack of 'success' thinking that there's some magic silver bullet or something to getting meets.

Spoiler alert! - There isn't.

What works for one person might not work for someone else.

At the end of the day, not everyone you fancy is going to fancy you back - and vice versa.

Unfortunately, most guys join fab on the assumption that there are desperate horny women just gagging for it who will fuck anyone - which couldn't be futher from the truth.

Realign your expectations.

Effort in - rewards out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No expectations here more interest but you make a lot of sense and I guess its the sane if you meet in person. Not everyone will like you and if you are here for an ego boost its not going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it interesting, grab our attention, flirt, read profile for clues.

Don’t send cock pics, requests to fuck before chatting!

Flirt your way in to these pants lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Make it interesting, grab our attention, flirt, read profile for clues.

Don’t send cock pics, requests to fuck before chatting!

Flirt your way in to these pants lol"

To be fair I've never asked to fuck at all, maybe a bit of dirty talk but that's it. I guess respectful is a balance here and that it's a tight rope between naughty and nice.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

We don't all get 100s of messages.

Read a profile first, be polite, send a face pic.

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Brad Pit would struggle on here , there s many timewasters and fakes to contend with , and the truth is , most people here are not swingers ...

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By *haz46Woman
over a year ago

Stockport

just say something interesting about yourself, what u have done or would like to do

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Get a profile pic (don’t have a dick pic as your profile pic)

Have a decent bio that says a bit about you and what you’re looking for

Have some attractive, good quality public pics on your profile

Read their bio before messaging - do you fit the criteria they’re looking for? If so…

Send a polite, genuine, friendly message (a few lines will do)

Send a couple of pics with your message (not dick pics)

Good luck

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