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By *onnie 90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

One for the ladies.

I know some women will like it and find it a real turn on. Fair play, we all like different things. But I personally think it's disgusting and have stopped meets because of it especially when they just decide to do it without asking. They just assume it's acceptable. Need lube? Just ask and I'll pass you some. Don't just splatter your saliva all over my genitals.

Apologies for the rant but it's a disgusting thing to do in my opinion. Surely I'm not alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate spitting altogether.

Seems to be a thing in porn now with guys spitting in the girls mouth even.

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

From a male perspective it’s not very respectful unless asked for and discussed in a wider scenario?

One for the ladies.

I know some women will like it and find it a real turn on. Fair play, we all like different things. But I personally think it's disgusting and have stopped meets because of it especially when they just decide to do it without asking. They just assume it's acceptable. Need lube? Just ask and I'll pass you some. Don't just splatter your saliva all over my genitals.

Apologies for the rant but it's a disgusting thing to do in my opinion. Surely I'm not alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be overly bothered if someone did it but surely if they are doing it right there's no need for spit. Should be wet enough!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think it's for me. I've never experienced it though so who knows? I'm not against someone spitting in my mouth in the heat of the moment but generally I'm very wet down there anyway (if I'm enjoying the potential of your fingers/mouth being there I'll be close to gushing).

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

No way wtf ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must say it all depends on the person & the scenario - as with most things there’s a time & a place for everything!… I must admit I find it rather sexy & a turn on when I’m playing the part of a dirty little cum slut or filthy whore!! No judgement please!!

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I must say it all depends on the person & the scenario - as with most things there’s a time & a place for everything!… I must admit I find it rather sexy & a turn on when I’m playing the part of a dirty little cum slut or filthy whore!! No judgement please!! "

Omg!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must say it all depends on the person & the scenario - as with most things there’s a time & a place for everything!… I must admit I find it rather sexy & a turn on when I’m playing the part of a dirty little cum slut or filthy whore!! No judgement please!!

Omg!"

Haha, too much??

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I must say it all depends on the person & the scenario - as with most things there’s a time & a place for everything!… I must admit I find it rather sexy & a turn on when I’m playing the part of a dirty little cum slut or filthy whore!! No judgement please!!

Haha nope!

Omg!

Haha, too much?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I agree, I don’t like it either. I have to make sure I tell whoever I’m going to have sex with ahead of time too, because if it happens during, I’ll want to put my clothes back on and go

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By *ornyone30Man
over a year ago

ABERDEEN

Never saw the appeal in spitting be it a man or a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must say it all depends on the person & the scenario - as with most things there’s a time & a place for everything!… I must admit I find it rather sexy & a turn on when I’m playing the part of a dirty little cum slut or filthy whore!! No judgement please!! "

Sounds to me. Girls been spitting on my dick for effect for years when sucking me off and vice versa never ever really had any issues myself or bad reviews from the lady

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Not my thing but then saying derogatory things even when asked during sex I find uncomfortable. Certainly not a turn on for me

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
over a year ago

london

I’ve seen it in porn films but I don’t get it. Is it supposed to be a turn on? D.

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

Cant say ive ever done this to be honest...think its another thing adapted from porn...dont get it really

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Never had anyone actually spit on me, I definitely wouldn't like it, I mean a lick of the fingers is all good, there's no need for a full on spit though

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit weird for my tastes.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Don’t like spitting full stop , not for me

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By *omethingDifferent4FunWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh-ish

I think this is partly porn to blame and partly a men are from Mars, women are from Venus situation also.

A lot of men I've spoken to mention loving really sloppy BJs, lots of spit and drool involved. So they probably assume the same applies in reverse.

Have to agree with those who have said this is not the case though! I'm not a fan of anyone spitting near me.

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland


"I must say it all depends on the person & the scenario - as with most things there’s a time & a place for everything!… I must admit I find it rather sexy & a turn on when I’m playing the part of a dirty little cum slut or filthy whore!! No judgement please!! "

Your poor, poor inbox

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Lube please.

No spitting here unless its been pre-agreed as part of some degradation game.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Spitting? Nah. That's just rank

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Nothing from anyone's mouth goes near my vag! Mouths are so germy have given up oral due to this much asci miss it x

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By *sh91Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

I prefer licking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube please.

No spitting here unless its been pre-agreed as part of some degradation game. "

Totally agree with you x there's no need for spitting without it being a kinda thing in a role play or whatever x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brought up to understand spitting is disgusting. Certainly have spat many times when running or physical exertion.. but never in the company of women and certainly not as part of sex. Even in a girl wanted it I'd be at least hesitant..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna be that guy and raise my hand to have done it many times.

Firstly - absolutely ask permission for anything like that before and if they say no, don't do it.

But I've personally never had anyone object. It's not even a degrading thing in my eyes and not why I do it, and it's so quick anyway. It's not like a full of hacking cough spit, it's (in my experience) just a way of lubing it up a little more ready for fucking.

Again personally and not disagreeing cause everyone's entitled to opinions, if someone goes down on you, kisses you, they are exchanging saliva with you. A little spit is no different in my opinion. And that goes both ways, a woman spitting on my dick before looking me in the eye and rubbing it is hot.

Each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also to the poster above, it's interesting because I never spit in public ever, even while running!

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By *omerset_naughtyMan
over a year ago

marmaris,Icelemer Turkey


"Hate spitting altogether.

Seems to be a thing in porn now with guys spitting in the girls mouth even."

Just want to say I totally agree spitting is horrid unless the woman asks for it. Your body is gorgeous lovely breasts and shaven pussy and love your tan lines.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"One for the ladies.

I know some women will like it and find it a real turn on. Fair play, we all like different things. But I personally think it's disgusting and have stopped meets because of it especially when they just decide to do it without asking. They just assume it's acceptable. Need lube? Just ask and I'll pass you some. Don't just splatter your saliva all over my genitals.

Apologies for the rant but it's a disgusting thing to do in my opinion. Surely I'm not alone?"

I agree, I find it gross!

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By *orkshire.ladMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Is it the action of spitting you don’t like or saliva?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i wouldnt do this, its not for spitting on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Detest spitting

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By *ewgirl42Woman
over a year ago

london

Saliva is not lube!

Yes, spitting is gross

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I don't find it acceptable when people spit in the street so why would accept it in the bedroom...just no...no...no..

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I don't wish to be accused of kink shaming but definitely not for me.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Yeah I've never really got the appeal/prevalence of it in porn, to be honest. I mean, if the pussy is right there, and my mouth is right there... just use tongue and lips instead of spitting??

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

agreed, it's horrible.

I blame porno videos...

it's lazy...

if the person I'm playing with knows what they are doing I get very wet naturally, absolutely no need for lube or * yuck * spit.

Pass the bath towel more like

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's grim, it isn't lube.

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I find it a bit strange when men do it to women , why ? it seems it comes from the US porn sites .. but doesn t look good

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By *lwaysonmymind!Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Why would you even need to. Should be wet before even getting that far.

And for the guys then a bj will be sufficient enough.

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Turns me green.

Nobody has ever done it on me and if they did it would kill the mood and end play immediately.

If I'm not wet enough please use lube. I've always got some

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"I must say it all depends on the person & the scenario - as with most things there’s a time & a place for everything!… I must admit I find it rather sexy & a turn on when I’m playing the part of a dirty little cum slut or filthy whore!! No judgement please!! "

This...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking nasty. Have some respect.

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

I don't think I could ever spit on a woman in any form or fashion I find it to be very disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never spat on a lady, I think it's very degrading. I've spat on many a guys cock, sometimes feel that it feels nice when wanking it, and aids it gliding back down your throat. Had many a guy spit in my arse, which I've kind of grown to enjoy. However I once had a meet many years ago where the guy spat in my face and down my throat. Needless to say, I didn't pay a return visit. I think the said guy must have seen it in a porn video, and assumed it made appear more dominant

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Never spat on a lady, I think it's very degrading. I've spat on many a guys cock, sometimes feel that it feels nice when wanking it, and aids it gliding back down your throat. Had many a guy spit in my arse, which I've kind of grown to enjoy. However I once had a meet many years ago where the guy spat in my face and down my throat. Needless to say, I didn't pay a return visit. I think the said guy must have seen it in a porn video, and assumed it made appear more dominant "

Some women love degradation...

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

I suppose yeah, there can be that degredation roleplay aspect to it. If asked by a play partner I'd be happy to indulge, but it's not something that comes to me instinctually. Compared to, say, holding a woman's wrists, or a hand on her throat, or pulling the hair back, biting neck/shoulder, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never spat on a lady, I think it's very degrading. I've spat on many a guys cock, sometimes feel that it feels nice when wanking it, and aids it gliding back down your throat. Had many a guy spit in my arse, which I've kind of grown to enjoy. However I once had a meet many years ago where the guy spat in my face and down my throat. Needless to say, I didn't pay a return visit. I think the said guy must have seen it in a porn video, and assumed it made appear more dominant

Some women love degradation...

"

Horses for courses I guess, never had the need to make anything wetter down there myself. But I understand where you are coming from, as I'm tending to enjoy a little degradation myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never spat on a lady, I think it's very degrading. I've spat on many a guys cock, sometimes feel that it feels nice when wanking it, and aids it gliding back down your throat. Had many a guy spit in my arse, which I've kind of grown to enjoy. However I once had a meet many years ago where the guy spat in my face and down my throat. Needless to say, I didn't pay a return visit. I think the said guy must have seen it in a porn video, and assumed it made appear more dominant

Some women love degradation...

"

Yes! You understand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must say it all depends on the person & the scenario - as with most things there’s a time & a place for everything!… I must admit I find it rather sexy & a turn on when I’m playing the part of a dirty little cum slut or filthy whore!! No judgement please!! "

This

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By *r and Mrs minionCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Uuurrrggg gross. If your doing the job properly no spit needed

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

In all my years of doing the sex, I don’t think I've ever encountered a man who tried this

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I don’t mind it tbh. I’ve had people do it to me, I’ve always found it quite hot. Quite like my A/hole being spat on and fingered too. I’m no fan of degradation though, so if I thought it was that kind of spit I wouldn’t like it. But the slow, let it fall out of your mouth kind is hot for me. I often spit on a cock during oral too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t mind it tbh. I’ve had people do it to me, I’ve always found it quite hot. Quite like my A/hole being spat on and fingered too. I’m no fan of degradation though, so if I thought it was that kind of spit I wouldn’t like it. But the slow, let it fall out of your mouth kind is hot for me. I often spit on a cock during oral too."

100 percent this!

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By *oulmanandscarCouple
over a year ago

Margate

It’s a turn on

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

No, no,no

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

Hate spitting in general, never had it happen but I can’t think I’d see it as a turn on

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By *onnie 90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Phew! It's not just me then.

On my profile I state very clearly that I'm a vanilla kind of girl and that porn isn't real. So that should be enough to drop the hint that I don't want anyone gobbing all over my foofoo.

Thank you all for your input x

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Dribble/drooling is fine. Spitting - nah

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By *aka12345Couple
over a year ago

close by


"Never spat on a lady, I think it's very degrading. I've spat on many a guys cock, sometimes feel that it feels nice when wanking it, and aids it gliding back down your throat. Had many a guy spit in my arse, which I've kind of grown to enjoy. However I once had a meet many years ago where the guy spat in my face and down my throat. Needless to say, I didn't pay a return visit. I think the said guy must have seen it in a porn video, and assumed it made appear more dominant

Some women love degradation...

"

This without a doubt degradation is a major turn on xx mrs k xx

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No thank you, I have lube if necessary. But if they feel thr need to spit on me, they're obviously not doing something right.

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

close

Never had a complaint for doing it but have to respect individuals boundries.

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