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Bulls - Levels of Control of HW.

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By *ansduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

How much control of a HW do bulls actually want or need?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

As much as the HW will allow them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we get more confident this is something I'd like a dominant bull to slowly progress until he has a significant amount of control over our sex life. I wouldn't want him to control anything about our normal life etc.

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By *ansduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As we get more confident this is something I'd like a dominant bull to slowly progress until he has a significant amount of control over our sex life. I wouldn't want him to control anything about our normal life etc. "

Can see that being a grey area. No pun intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm newer to this but it feels like most HWs want me to have total control in the bedroom.

I don't think too much about this - I just want to have fun

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

For me it absolutely depends on the couples preference and desire, some want zero control at all.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"How much control of a HW do bulls actually want or need? "

Isn't every situation different.? Whatever gives the situation most pleasure and will undoubtedly evolve over time as the relationship grows.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

Is it not decided by the HW at the start?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely evolves as trust develpes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we get more confident this is something I'd like a dominant bull to slowly progress until he has a significant amount of control over our sex life. I wouldn't want him to control anything about our normal life etc.

Can see that being a grey area. No pun intended. "

Yeah it is really but it comes down to regular discussion between all involved and being comfortable with each other. An very difficult balance to get right if you want a long term bull in your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not decided by the HW at the start?"

But it involves the cuck too as well as what the bull wants. If anyone isn't happy it won't work for long. It can also change as the relationship progresses.

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By *ansduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As we get more confident this is something I'd like a dominant bull to slowly progress until he has a significant amount of control over our sex life. I wouldn't want him to control anything about our normal life etc.

Can see that being a grey area. No pun intended.

Yeah it is really but it comes down to regular discussion between all involved and being comfortable with each other. An very difficult balance to get right if you want a long term bull in your life. "

I'm not convinced 99% of "bulls" have the emotional intelligence to actually fill the role.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm full of Emotional Intelligence!

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"As we get more confident this is something I'd like a dominant bull to slowly progress until he has a significant amount of control over our sex life. I wouldn't want him to control anything about our normal life etc.

Can see that being a grey area. No pun intended.

Yeah it is really but it comes down to regular discussion between all involved and being comfortable with each other. An very difficult balance to get right if you want a long term bull in your life.

I'm not convinced 99% of "bulls" have the emotional intelligence to actually fill the role. "

Possibly. I think much of the trouble comes from the label and expectations sites such as put out there. Surely its not overly complicated and requires the agreement of all parties. Even one being cuckolded has their wants and needs and they should be part of the evolution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we get more confident this is something I'd like a dominant bull to slowly progress until he has a significant amount of control over our sex life. I wouldn't want him to control anything about our normal life etc.

Can see that being a grey area. No pun intended.

Yeah it is really but it comes down to regular discussion between all involved and being comfortable with each other. An very difficult balance to get right if you want a long term bull in your life.

I'm not convinced 99% of "bulls" have the emotional intelligence to actually fill the role. "

I'd tend to agree unfortunately

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By *ansduo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As we get more confident this is something I'd like a dominant bull to slowly progress until he has a significant amount of control over our sex life. I wouldn't want him to control anything about our normal life etc.

Can see that being a grey area. No pun intended.

Yeah it is really but it comes down to regular discussion between all involved and being comfortable with each other. An very difficult balance to get right if you want a long term bull in your life.

I'm not convinced 99% of "bulls" have the emotional intelligence to actually fill the role.

I'd tend to agree unfortunately "

Still 1% of however many men is still a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as the HW will allow them."

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the bedroom/sex life he should have more control over the Hotwife than her hubby.

Of course this is built up to over time with trust and boundaries being pushed/explored

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"How much control of a HW do bulls actually want or need? "

A hotwife is someone free to have sex with whoever they like. So if realistically it depends how many bulls she wants to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much control of a HW do bulls actually want or need? "

I love a hot wife and when it comes to control I also make sure everyone is happy with what is going to happen.. I personally like 1 on 1 connection and to just enjoying with out to to many stop starting

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
over a year ago

Salford

Have one that came to see me the night before her wedding for me to fill her.

Sent me wedding day pics of her big day.

Lies to her fella where she going to see me. Has her gfs cover for her.

Fella dont know.

I share her with my friends.

I use all holes and degrade her.

Show her off scantily clad publicly

Remote controlled toys in her holes when I take her out and she dresses to my taste

Cooks for me at mine

Happy to my side chick with girls I'm actually dating as long as I fuck her often and cream her

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By *eiled VixenCouple
over a year ago

Bath

Absolutely depends on the bull x

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Ultimately submission is always gifted to the dom or bull, so it's really the sub or the hotwife that dictates the amount of control.

That is my experience anyway

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

It depends on the couple and what trust is built

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

It's down to whatever level feels comfortable and horny for the HW.

I'm not into one offs so when its an option I prefer to take my time and establish trust over a period of time.

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By *ulldipadovaMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam

Indeed

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