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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Anyone goes through this? I create hotlists every week with the guys I chatted to and hopefully want to meet....then they say or do something that's off putting so they come off my hotlist. My hotlist is like Waterloo station atm

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

We’re a bit like that, there’s no one on our hotlist right now, we chat some people, get along great, we hotlist them, only for things to fizzle out, they get removed, rinse and repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think that's because you've been on here for quite a long time, and your patience and tolerance has been pushed to the limit??

Because you've been let down so many times by guys in various ways, now the slightest misdemeanour gets them removed

If so, i think that's completely understandable

If you'd only been on here a few months, you might be more tolerant!!

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Same here. We’ve quite a few on ours, but we tend not to approach them until we know we’ve got some free time coming up to meet. Many hot conversations have fizzled out when you’re waiting two months for a free day in the diary

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

My hotlist is more for couples who aren't looking for single guys, or people who's not shown any interest in messages etc. It's just so I can enjoy they're profiles... quietly in the corner.

Once chatting people migrate to friends list instead

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"My hotlist is more for couples who aren't looking for single guys, or people who's not shown any interest in messages etc. It's just so I can enjoy they're profiles... quietly in the corner.

Once chatting people migrate to friends list instead "

anyone i might know? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is just to perv

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Do you think that's because you've been on here for quite a long time, and your patience and tolerance has been pushed to the limit??

Because you've been let down so many times by guys in various ways, now the slightest misdemeanour gets them removed

If so, i think that's completely understandable

If you'd only been on here a few months, you might be more tolerant!!"

Yes due to my experiences with an very long list of men, I have too many red flags to watch out for

Wish I was young and naïve. Would I have similar problems or more? Does make me sometimes think this

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

My list is more of a perv list ...you being choosy is your perogative...is your friend list growing? That's the important list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yes due to my experiences with an very long list of men, I have too many red flags to watch out for

Wish I was young and naïve. Would I have similar problems or more? Does make me sometimes think this "

Hmmm, an interesting question!!

If you were young and naive..wouldn't the reality be that eventually you'd end up where you are now anyway??

Im guessing you started your swinging journey full of hope and trust!!

Its easier for me...older, daft, not naive, but realistic, (id add desperate, but im probably best keeping that to myself)

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I use mine for the people I like to perv at

Then if we get chatting they normally make it in to my friends list.

Don’t worry about it OP. There’s no limit on how many you can add and remove

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"Anyone goes through this? I create hotlists every week with the guys I chatted to and hopefully want to meet....then they say or do something that's off putting so they come off my hotlist. My hotlist is like Waterloo station atm "

Yeah ours is similar, often changing. We get chatting and then it fizzles out so we move on....

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By *oulmanandscarCouple
over a year ago

Margate

Ohhh we certainly have a hot list

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Mine is for my visual enjoyment only

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By *oulmanandscarCouple
over a year ago

Margate


"Mine is for my visual enjoyment only"

I know that feeling lol

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m a little bit Thumper and a little bit Littlebird.

(Hey, that could be quite a threesome …)

I put people on my hotlist if I think they’re hot and fun and I want to keep up with their photo posts (aka perv on them). Sometimes, if I’m super-lucky, we chat and end up shifting to the friends list instead.

Then there’s room on the hotlist for new hotties …

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"My list is more of a perv list ...you being choosy is your perogative...is your friend list growing? That's the important list "

Nope I only add female friends and couples on that

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Hot list is for the guys I like looking at and eventually like to meet

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We tend to use ours as a maybe list for each other.

If I am browsing and think someone might be interesting to us I stick them on the hotlist so that Mrs can check them out and vice versa.

Then if we see someone on the list that we didn't add and decide we aren't keen, off they pop again.

If people stay on our list, then they have potential

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I’m a little bit Thumper and a little bit Littlebird.

(Hey, that could be quite a threesome …)

"

You bet your life it would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone goes through this? I create hotlists every week with the guys I chatted to and hopefully want to meet....then they say or do something that's off putting so they come off my hotlist. My hotlist is like Waterloo station atm "

Similar don't have many on mines atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone goes through this? I create hotlists every week with the guys I chatted to and hopefully want to meet....then they say or do something that's off putting so they come off my hotlist. My hotlist is like Waterloo station atm "

Add me to your next list please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have few on there but don’t tend to do much about it tbh.

You are on mine so I can access your stories before bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is for my visual enjoyment only"

How big is this list?

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland


"I’m a little bit Thumper and a little bit Littlebird.

(Hey, that could be quite a threesome …)

"

It's not a horrible idea...

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Ours is mostly a would like to meet but whether we will or not is a different matter, happily perve over type list.

Tinder x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I’m a little bit Thumper and a little bit Littlebird.

(Hey, that could be quite a threesome …)

It's not a horrible idea... "

Big vote of confidence there Thumper

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

All the time. There is only so many times you can look at the same tits and vag over and over from different angles before it becomes boring. That’s why we tend to add the couples who make an effort with pictures. You get more variety.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotlist seems to be the kiss of death - lots of chat so I add to the hotlist and that’s when they seem to fizzle out

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland


"I’m a little bit Thumper and a little bit Littlebird.

(Hey, that could be quite a threesome …)

It's not a horrible idea...

Big vote of confidence there Thumper "

Ha, I forget there's no "tone" in text. It was meant nicer than it possibly could have been read. Honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist comes and goes, I’d say it’s usual if it’s for people you’d like to meet.

Unless it’s for perving, then I’d add absolutely 100s to it.

At the moment it’s 2

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"All the time. There is only so many times you can look at the same tits and vag over and over from different angles before it becomes boring. That’s why we tend to add the couples who make an effort with pictures. You get more variety.

The mr "

I'm no longer a site supporter so haven't uploaded photos for ages. As when I tried, they asked me to delete over a 100 lol

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