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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is everyone's preferred male body type? I was wondering because my hubby is a competitive bodybuilder which I know that's definitely not for everyone,

But his changes all the time dependant on if he's competing or not, so he can be 250lb round and chunky but then also 200lb ripped and chiselled,

My preference is when he's big and chunky more man to grab onto lol

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Dad bod or naturally average guys. Not in to gym guys or toned. We all have different tastes thats what makes us all unique on here. Nothing wrong with your hubby by the way so please do not thing it's a personal dig of any kind. Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I don't at all!!

We know it's not for everyone, even I don't like it when he's getting ready for a comp lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod for me or chunky guys.

I couldn't handle the ripped look, I'd be too insecure!

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Fit and proportionate. Would say athletic but basically someone who keeps in reasonable shape. The range could be wide but wouldn't include overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twink, lightly muscled or average. Not into very large or very muscular men. I lift myself so I like to be stronger

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I prefer an average guy rather than gym fit or particularly overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any body type as long as they're comfortable in their own skin. If I was Pushed to pick, I'd say rugby player build with a bit of squish

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

not a fan of ripped gym bods personally, or too thin either... somewhere in between.. don't mind a bit of a belly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Loving how everyone's different but so far I'd say you all like average built men,

But I suppose its difficult because to one person's average is another person's large/small

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any body type as long as they're comfortable in their own skin. If I was Pushed to pick, I'd say rugby player build with a bit of squish "

Yeh I agree completely that's my type also,

I fully support what my hubby does but I do get scared of how big he might get.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

dad bods seem to be popular

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fit and proportionate. Would say athletic but basically someone who keeps in reasonable shape. The range could be wide but wouldn't include overweight.

"

What would you class as overweight?

Only asking cause Chris is technically morbidly obese according to doctors.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Loving how everyone's different but so far I'd say you all like average built men,

But I suppose its difficult because to one person's average is another person's large/small "

Yeah I don’t get what a dad bob is or if I have one, body fat % would be more useful and there are lots of examples to help you work it out

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

exactly i dont know what a dad bod is,,

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Dad bod for me or chunky guys.

I couldn't handle the ripped look, I'd be too insecure! "

Me to as i am not slim.

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By *um-41Man
over a year ago

bradford


"Any body type as long as they're comfortable in their own skin. If I was Pushed to pick, I'd say rugby player build with a bit of squish "

I used to play rugby so I guess I’m rugby kinda build? Haha

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon


"Fit and proportionate. Would say athletic but basically someone who keeps in reasonable shape. The range could be wide but wouldn't include overweight.

What would you class as overweight?

Only asking cause Chris is technically morbidly obese according to doctors."

It's not about weight really, it's about being fat.

I am fat, and under the fat I'm a naturally big guy too. I quite like the way I look at about 18 stone yet some people would look very overweight at that weight.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Big burly guys with some fat on them - Xeno

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I like a dad bod one that feels good to cuddle.

I don't like too muscular

Mrs

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I'm built for comfort not for speed

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By *urvyaliciousWoman
over a year ago

Bradford

I’m a curvy girl so not a fan of slim/athletic men, preference is a stocky build, but we are all different!

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By *riendly BiMan
over a year ago

h

I’m a larger size guy and I’m quite happy with the way I am. The docs told me to lose weight and I lost 6 stone but I was miserable as sin. Back to chunky chunky now and very happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m a larger size guy and I’m quite happy with the way I am. The docs told me to lose weight and I lost 6 stone but I was miserable as sin. Back to chunky chunky now and very happy"

If that's what makes you happy then it will show in your confidence and that's sexy in itself I think.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"exactly i dont know what a dad bod is,,"

Man boobs and a beer belly, that's why I describe myself as having a dad bod.

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Average Joe bod for me. Abs n arms popping aren't my thing. I like a soft man who's hard in the right places...

Lmp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a serious soft spot for slim gym fit…. But there’s more to a guy than body type.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve a serious soft spot for slim gym fit…. But there’s more to a guy than body type. "

Yes 100% agree with you, I was just being nosey to see what type of guys people we're into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is everyone's preferred male body type? I was wondering because my hubby is a competitive bodybuilder which I know that's definitely not for everyone,

But his changes all the time dependant on if he's competing or not, so he can be 250lb round and chunky but then also 200lb ripped and chiselled,

My preference is when he's big and chunky more man to grab onto lol "

Putting my head above the parapet here, but I’m assuming my body type is fairly attractive?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"exactly i dont know what a dad bod is,,"

Pretty self explanatory, the body a number of dads adopt when they can’t be ss active as they usually would be, die to spending more time looking after their kid(s)

Think a bit more of a gut, not as toned overall. Google Images should give you some good visuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to a few sharp tongued ladies (and gents) after my latest pic upload, my body type is not the preference and not what Fabbers want to see. Yes. Somebody really to the time to message me and tell me haha

Ah well, I'd rather be fat and happy anyway haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve a serious soft spot for slim gym fit…. But there’s more to a guy than body type.

Yes 100% agree with you, I was just being nosey to see what type of guys people we're into "

That’s wasn’t a dig, more a disclaimer from me

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

I don't know what body type I am anymore, I always lose wait in the run up to Christmas so I think I'm slim/skinny at the moment.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"According to a few sharp tongued ladies (and gents) after my latest pic upload, my body type is not the preference and not what Fabbers want to see. Yes. Somebody really to the time to message me and tell me haha

Ah well, I'd rather be fat and happy anyway haha

"

These threads aren’t indicative of anything other than people’s individual preferences. It certainly doesn’t poll the majority of Fab. There’s someone and something for everyone. If you are happy in your own skin, then that’s what matters the most.

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

For me it’s definitely in the upper chunky area with no sign of muscle bone or definition what so ever. Body hair is a bonus

It’s not because I’m insecure about my own body I just love love love a large one

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Slim, average, reasonably fit. Just not curvy/ample/large.

He looks great, but due to my own physical restrictions, I can't cope with built guys anymore.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

A guy who.can look down and see his toes and cock. Don't care for the 6 pack, some degree of fitness for the bedroom though

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"According to a few sharp tongued ladies (and gents) after my latest pic upload, my body type is not the preference and not what Fabbers want to see. Yes. Somebody really to the time to message me and tell me haha

Ah well, I'd rather be fat and happy anyway haha

"

I wouldn't call you fat. Solid is better ??

Lmp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to a few sharp tongued ladies (and gents) after my latest pic upload, my body type is not the preference and not what Fabbers want to see. Yes. Somebody really to the time to message me and tell me haha

Ah well, I'd rather be fat and happy anyway haha

"

Well you look mighty fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore big chunky guys,strong arms and thighs

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I don't have a body type preference... I need to like the face and the bloke.. If I like those, I like the rest

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By *laymate321Woman
over a year ago

Angus

Dad bod

Not into ripped

Not fat

Not overly hairy

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By *hiregirl76Woman
over a year ago

Scotland


"I don't have a body type preference... I need to like the face and the bloke.. If I like those, I like the rest"

This exactly, once i fancy someone their body type is irrelevent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to a few sharp tongued ladies (and gents) after my latest pic upload, my body type is not the preference and not what Fabbers want to see. Yes. Somebody really to the time to message me and tell me haha

Ah well, I'd rather be fat and happy anyway haha

"

What the hell. I've seen guys with worse bodies than yours on Fab and they seem to do just fine. Ignore the haters. I think we all know well enough how many people on Fab are show ponies but can't run the distance when needed!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't think I have a physical type, from beanpole to adonis to dad bod to chonky, if I find a person interesting I'll find their body interesting too.

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By *otfun999Man
over a year ago

a

Just a dad bod here and happy with it

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

For myself slim smooth and even better very defined muscle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t they used to call it middle aged spread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer an average guy rather than gym fit or particularly overweight. "

Must be me then lol

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

My ideal jaw dropping gaze is for strongman types

Big, beefy and muscled, but not rock hard like body builders

The type of guy that can yeet me with ease and is squishy enough for nice cuddles

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France


"I’ve a serious soft spot for slim gym fit…. But there’s more to a guy than body type. "

Nice to know, shame I can’t message you x

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