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By *burns7 OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Anyone got any advice finding a couple to join with?

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By *burns7 OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Like how do I find what I’m looking for

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Your profile needs so, so much work.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes put out a meet via the meet section with a little info

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By *burns7 OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

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By *burns7 OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Your profile needs so, so much work."
for any advice how?

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Your profile needs so, so much work. for any advice how?"

There's nothing there. If you messaged us, we'd look at your profile and move on. We wouldn't even look at your pictures if your (lack of) text doesn't interest us.

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By *burns7 OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Your profile needs so, so much work. for any advice how?

There's nothing there. If you messaged us, we'd look at your profile and move on. We wouldn't even look at your pictures if your (lack of) text doesn't interest us."
so I need to fill my profile more I’ll have a look

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Sort out your profile and if a couple interests you then fully read there profile at least 3 times and if anything is missing then just don't message them

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By *burns7 OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Sort out your profile and if a couple interests you then fully read there profile at least 3 times and if anything is missing then just don't message them "
ah okay unsure who to attract or message only wanna join a couple once or twice (if it’s good first time) for fun

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Sort out your profile and if a couple interests you then fully read there profile at least 3 times and if anything is missing then just don't message them ah okay unsure who to attract or message only wanna join a couple once or twice (if it’s good first time) for fun"

Unsure who to attract? Try who you're attracted to for a start, and respectfully chat to see if it's mutual. Knowing what you want is the first step.

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By *burns7 OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Sort out your profile and if a couple interests you then fully read there profile at least 3 times and if anything is missing then just don't message them ah okay unsure who to attract or message only wanna join a couple once or twice (if it’s good first time) for fun

Unsure who to attract? Try who you're attracted to for a start, and respectfully chat to see if it's mutual. Knowing what you want is the first step."
no sorry I know who I want to attract couple who wants someone to join

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Ahh you're talking about how to go about making yourself an attractive proposition. There is no cheat sheet, you have to treat each approach individually. But for us: a decent profile that tells us something about you, why you're here etc. An opening message that stands out from the drab we get. And the ability to hold a conversation. If you can't interest us in a conversation, you won't be able to interest us in any sort of face to face meet.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Your profile needs a HUGE amount of work.

Like, what do YOU think of your own photos. And why would your latest photo - the one people will see first - be the one it is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really hard. We've been trying to find couples for ages and have only met one from Fab.

Loads of timewasters and more often than not, we don't find them both attractive.

Socials and clubs may be better.

We're going to the Bedhoppers event in Dunstable in Feb. Up to 100 couples going. They've set up a Discord chat and we've already connected with two other couples via that. That seems like a much better avenue than Fab.

Having met quite a few people that have been on Fab for a long time their usual response is that Fab is full of timewasters and that they use Fab mainly to keep in touch with people that they meet at socials and clubs.

We have met so many lovely people at socials, its a much nicer environment than Fab.

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