FabSwingers.com forum: Women feeling insecure

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's amazing how so many beautiful women feel so insecure about things us men can't even see

What are your insecurity and why ?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

there are 1,000s of insecure men on here too ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you really wanting to make this an entertainment thread. Good god..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you really wanting to make this an entertainment thread. Good god.."

Was wondering why too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you really wanting to make this an entertainment thread. Good god.."

Some people need a confident boost and told that their imperfections are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"there are 1,000s of insecure men on here too ..."

Don't take it so hard its only a post not a cock x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you really wanting to make this an entertainment thread. Good god..

Some people need a confident boost and told that their imperfections are beautiful "

Not by a stranger on the Internet.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"It's amazing how so many beautiful women feel so insecure about things us men can't even see

What are your insecurity and why ?"

1. Is it really that amazing? If so, I'd suggest that you're not really paying attention to the world around you.

2. The forum is 50% full of men asking if their dick is big enough and whining that they can't get meets. Insecurity is par for the course on fab.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Any one of us is hiding a thousand insecurities and our physical appearance can have no bearing on our mental wellbeing. There is a specific person I am thinking about who to me is a paragon of physical beauty, but seems to be really suffering from a lack of confidence. I won't name them, or attempt further to pat them on the shoulder and reassure them, but they know who they are and I'm here if they want to talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sorry but that doesn’t work for me

Insecurities are in most people and being deemed beautiful doesn’t mean no one else has them.

If I decide to open up my vulnerable side of insecurities then the last thing I want or need is someone else saying they can’t see them. Especially someone I don’t know.

That’s the whole thing. It’s not about how others see us but how we see ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs is very insecure, this site has helped her a bit though

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"there are 1,000s of insecure men on here too ...

Don't take it so hard its only a post not a cock x"

hahahahahah can assure you im not taking anything hard ... well not until around 9 pm tonight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"there are 1,000s of insecure men on here too ...

Don't take it so hard its only a post not a cock x

hahahahahah can assure you im not taking anything hard ... well not until around 9 pm tonight "

That's what I want to hear confidence is a beautiful thing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Being secure in yourself has very little to do with being beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being secure in yourself has very little to do with being beautiful"

Secure equals confidence that equals beauty to me remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Wouldn't say I was insecure, maybe slightly self conscious after having my 2nd, mum tum and all.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Mrs is very insecure, this site has helped her a bit though "

Mrs is stunning, pleased fab has helped.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't say I was insecure, maybe slightly self conscious after having my 2nd, mum tum and all.

Mrs "
exactly the same x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Being secure in yourself has very little to do with being beautiful

Secure equals confidence that equals beauty to me remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder "

Yep.

You're saying that you find secure women beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being secure in yourself has very little to do with being beautiful

Secure equals confidence that equals beauty to me remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Yep.

You're saying that you find secure women beautiful

Yes do amongst other things

Do you find a confident secure man attractive

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Being secure in yourself has very little to do with being beautiful

Secure equals confidence that equals beauty to me remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Yep.

You're saying that you find secure women beautiful

Yes do amongst other things

Do you find a confident secure man attractive "

I do but I like to find men physically attractive too if we're going to be more than friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's amazing how so many beautiful women feel so insecure about things us men can't even see

What are your insecurity and why ?

1. Is it really that amazing? If so, I'd suggest that you're not really paying attention to the world around you.

2. The forum is 50% full of men asking if their dick is big enough and whining that they can't get meets. Insecurity is par for the course on fab."

More than 50% I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're insecure they're hardly going to post it in public. Nobody really wants to share their weaknesses.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"there are 1,000s of insecure men on here too ..."

Beat me to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being secure in yourself has very little to do with being beautiful

Secure equals confidence that equals beauty to me remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Yep.

You're saying that you find secure women beautiful

Yes do amongst other things

Do you find a confident secure man attractive "

So why ask women to disclose their insecurities, is it some kind of filter for you. Seems an odd thing to ask for tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im too overweight for my height, But not big enough to be a bbw. When i am not standing up i look like a shar pei!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being secure in yourself has very little to do with being beautiful

Secure equals confidence that equals beauty to me remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Yep.

You're saying that you find secure women beautiful

Yes do amongst other things

Do you find a confident secure man attractive

So why ask women to disclose their insecurities, is it some kind of filter for you. Seems an odd thing to ask for tbh. "

I don't mean to cause any offence just a topic that affects everyone

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By *nicornExplorersCouple
over a year ago

north east

This is a popcorn and watch kind of post, no understanding of how to approach insecurity subject by comments read of the author of this post....

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Most people find that being told how amazing they are on here doesn't really alleviate their insecurities because it's mostly hot air.

They also find that being told they shouldn't be insecure because of self perception patronising.

That applies to men and women and the nature of this site with the disparity in numbers means that it usually adds to insecurities rather than relieve them.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"there are 1,000s of insecure men on here too ...

Beat me to it."

I think you kind of re-enforce the point i made on another thread last night about its easy to understand a lot of men on here being insecure when it's easy to spot the direct link between guys with the toned, ripped gym bodies, and the verications and meets they have had compared to the rest of us with flabby bits and dad bods.

With respect, it's easy to say 1000's of men on here are insecure when you have the body of Mr Universe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there are 1,000s of insecure men on here too ...

Beat me to it.

With respect, it's easy to say 1000's of men on here are insecure when you have the body of Mr Universe. "

A person's confidence/insecurity is not linked to how you think they look. It goes way deeper than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with one of the comments to this thread. Any woman who is insecure about anything at all isint obviously going to tell anyone on her profile or whatever x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Are you really wanting to make this an entertainment thread. Good god..

Some people need a confident boost and told that their imperfections are beautiful "

I think you will find that a constant supply of being told your value is in your appearance (boobs, face, body, pretty, beautiful etc) by strangers on the internet is the major cause of insecurity , not the cure for it

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"It's amazing how so many beautiful women feel so insecure about things us men can't even see

What are your insecurity and why ?"

Fuck it, I answer your question without argument....mine is the size of my boobs and having a dark pussy. I hated not being anything like Barbie

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

I'd say if you have any insecurity this site or any sex site is the last place to be.

Bit like attending a swinging event if your marriage is a bit ropey.

Like putting petrol on flames.

I get random men saying how sexy I am, how they love my photos etc etc

It's meaningless, funny maybe.

I can understand it's a hook up site for sex and a place where the insecure and vulnerable can get a good kicking, it's sad but just is.

It's a indictment of society as a whole.

For me, the site gives me exactly what I want, recreational sex and contacts for parties, holidays and clubs, nothing more and the last place I'd discuss any insecurities or personal problems I'd be extremely worried of being targeted as a vulnerable shag.

Dress the replies in caring, understanding empathy but it's just to get into my knickers.

Get into my knickers by all means but leave the other stuff.

Be careful out there.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I'd say if you have any insecurity this site or any sex site is the last place to be.

Bit like attending a swinging event if your marriage is a bit ropey.

Like putting petrol on flames.

I get random men saying how sexy I am, how they love my photos etc etc

It's meaningless, funny maybe.

I can understand it's a hook up site for sex and a place where the insecure and vulnerable can get a good kicking, it's sad but just is.

It's a indictment of society as a whole.

Dress the replies in caring, understanding empathy but it's just to get into my knickers.

Get into my knickers by all means but leave the other stuff.

Be careful out there.

Yes men's compliments on here are so empty and meaningless

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I'm enjoying men saying what gorgeous body I got and greats photos....but I have only one avatar pic showing so how do they really know...then I know they're bullshitting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll tell you why I feel insecure. Being let down time and again. It's a bugger.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I'll tell you why I feel insecure. Being let down time and again. It's a bugger."

I don't feel great insecurity about that. It just diminishes the faith I try to develop for fab men. But tbf their chat ruins that! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone has insecurities, but women are more vocal about it.

I'm probably most insecure about my tits but only when they are unsupported because they look alright in a bra. I hate my face too. I'm comfortable with everything else and have learned to accept most of me.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I'm enjoying men saying what gorgeous body I got and greats photos....but I have only one avatar pic showing so how do they really know...then I know they're bullshitting lol"

We remember before you hid them, but you're right that nothing we say will change your mind because we are bias or have some kind of angle. I just hope one day you do look at yourself and think "fuck it, I am gorgeous". I promise I won't say "I told you so".

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I'm enjoying men saying what gorgeous body I got and greats photos....but I have only one avatar pic showing so how do they really know...then I know they're bullshitting lol

Not the men who messaged me today. They never seen me before. One apologised for his bad copy and paste. Another guy called me Mrs... seriously too much copying and pasting and sending to just random people.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"I think everyone has insecurities, but women are more vocal about it.

You look fine to me, my only issue is you are straight.

We've spent the last month in the Canaries and believe those tits bobbing in the surf would be a wonderful sight.

We should take lessons from the Spanish ladies here, fuck me they must get lessons in being sexy at school.

No matter what shape or size they work it.

I've picked up a few tips.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll tell you why I feel insecure. Being let down time and again. It's a bugger."

I will never understand that game it take them forever to get a meet and when they do they don't turn up ffs

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