FabSwingers.com forum: never had a meet

By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

how many men on here have still never had a meet on here. and feel like there stood outside the restraunt looking in at everyone else eating

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Depends on the food.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like takeaway

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I can recommend the dumplings...

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I like the sausages

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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

lol

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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

spam purse for moi

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By *iver_iew1Couple
over a year ago

gourock

glad you dont know what happens to your food when you snap your fingers at a waitress

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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

ok any serious comments now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok any serious comments now"

have u tried any of the usual suggestions we give to guys who want advice on getting meets?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the 3 similar pictures are a bit grim looking, the others give you a softer image ( in a non poncy way )

good luck tho, hope you have fun on the site

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way. "

What he said!!

Also what _iew said too

Good luck to you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way.

What he said!!

Also what _iew said too

Good luck to you!!

eh?- they just copied me really!!!

wheres my thanks!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way.

What he said!!

Also what _iew said too

Good luck to you!!

eh?- they just copied me really!!!

wheres my thanks!

I agree with Paddy

OP... also never become needy

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Im in an agreeable mood,im agreeing with everyone today

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way.

What he said!!

Also what _iew said too

Good luck to you!!

eh?- they just copied me really!!!

wheres my thanks!

But I did ot with more style and a fantastic bum pick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been kissed and I am still a virgin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never been kissed and I am still a virgin.

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way.

What he said!!

Also what _iew said too

Good luck to you!!

eh?- they just copied me really!!!

wheres my thanks!

And what paddy said too!!!

Luv ya paddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im in an agreeable mood,im agreeing with everyone today

get on the table honeypot, prepare for a game of spin the honepot..my 5 ginger leprechaun gangbang pals are gonna pump u on rotation

still agreeable?

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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

what clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way.

What he said!!

Also what _iew said too

Good luck to you!!

eh?- they just copied me really!!!

wheres my thanks!

And what paddy said too!!!

Luv ya paddy

bout time...hovered over the block button!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Im in an agreeable mood,im agreeing with everyone today

get on the table honeypot, prepare for a game of spin the honepot..my 5 ginger leprechaun gangbang pals are gonna pump u on rotation

still agreeable? "

I need 6 paper bags first

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"what clubs "

Have a look at the club section at the top of the page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im in an agreeable mood,im agreeing with everyone today

get on the table honeypot, prepare for a game of spin the honepot..my 5 ginger leprechaun gangbang pals are gonna pump u on rotation

still agreeable?

I need 6 paper bags first"

Take some spare ones, just incase!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP are you verified by cam then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bird tells me you have met someone from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im in an agreeable mood,im agreeing with everyone today

get on the table honeypot, prepare for a game of spin the honepot..my 5 ginger leprechaun gangbang pals are gonna pump u on rotation

still agreeable?

I need 6 paper bags first"

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww BABE! I think ur gorgeous...u dont need a bag at all! xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i havent had one yet. got afew things in the pipeline tho

its harder when ur after specifics

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Im in an agreeable mood,im agreeing with everyone today

get on the table honeypot, prepare for a game of spin the honepot..my 5 ginger leprechaun gangbang pals are gonna pump u on rotation

still agreeable?

I need 6 paper bags first

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww BABE! I think ur gorgeous...u dont need a bag at all! xxxx"

I do!! I don't want to see incase one of their bags falls off too!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Maybe you'd have better luck in another place OP? I dunno... Walsall maybe?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I've never had a meet either. Not one. Not a sniff... not even licking a still warm seat after a lady has stood up... naff all...

Anyone for a sympathy shag then?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"the 3 similar pictures are a bit grim looking, the others give you a softer image ( in a non poncy way )

good luck tho, hope you have fun on the site"

Which ones are the most recent? The ones with facial hair or without?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

My Disingenuous Detector is in the red here for some reason... wonder why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Disingenuous Detector is in the red here for some reason... wonder why?

The OP has disappeared...hmmm.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never been kissed and I am still a virgin.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"the 3 similar pictures are a bit grim looking, the others give you a softer image ( in a non poncy way )

good luck tho, hope you have fun on the site

Which ones are the most recent? The ones with facial hair or without?"

Ah this guy again. I asked him that last time and was told that he has a variety of styles and wants to show them all. Personally if I arranged to meet someone and they turned up looking like someone else I'd be a smidge miffed.

Sometimes you just got to pick a look and stick with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!

Where are we going wrong??

Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the op is a fibbing swine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the op is a fibbing swine

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Well if we're all fessing up I have never met a man from here, nor had a gangbang. So ner.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I don't meet....I date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a man

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I'm a man

...I'm really as gay as a tree full of monkeys on gas.

Wanna fuk?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!

Where are we going wrong??

Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!

I'm hoping to meet you in the future...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a man

...I'm really as gay as a tree full of monkeys on gas.

Wanna fuk? "

Cool dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!

Where are we going wrong??

Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!

I'm hoping to meet you in the future...

Join the queue love

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

POP!!!

Sorry OP, I think your bubble just burst.

No sympathy shag for you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!

Where are we going wrong??

Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!

I'm hoping to meet you in the future...

Aw really?? We would like to meet you too !!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!

Where are we going wrong??

Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!

I'm hoping to meet you in the future...

Join the queue love

Is there a queue?? Bugger... How far back am I? I live dead close tho!! Lol x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!

Where are we going wrong??

Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!

I'm hoping to meet you in the future...

Join the queue love

Is there a queue?? Bugger... How far back am I? I live dead close tho!! Lol x x "

You are no 2, we are no 1, maybe we should all get together

lolxx

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!

Where are we going wrong??

Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!

I'm hoping to meet you in the future...

Join the queue love

Is there a queue?? Bugger... How far back am I? I live dead close tho!! Lol x x

You are no 2, we are no 1, maybe we should all get together

lolxx"

Ooh now you're talking... Xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"You are no 2, we are no 1, maybe we should all get together

lolxx"

Could be the OPs first meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are no 2, we are no 1, maybe we should all get together

lolxx

Could be the OPs first meet!

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!

Where are we going wrong??

Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!

I'm hoping to meet you in the future...

Join the queue love

Is there a queue?? Bugger... How far back am I? I live dead close tho!! Lol x x

You are no 2, we are no 1, maybe we should all get together

lolxx

Ooh now you're talking... Xx

Sounds Like a very good plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy chatting be patient and see what happens no good stressing as this is what I've found personally

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

So someone is giving him that sympathy shag!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!

Where are we going wrong??

Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!

I'm hoping to meet you in the future...

Join the queue love

Is there a queue?? Bugger... How far back am I? I live dead close tho!! Lol x x

You are no 2, we are no 1, maybe we should all get together

lolxx

Ooh now you're talking... Xx

Sounds Like a very good plan

I love it when a plan comes together

Shall we invite Viccie along for a sympathy shag haha

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"ok any serious comments now"

Yes, OP, some good advice here;

Don't forget verifications work both ways. If you hide yours then those you have left for others might well still be a matter of public record on their profiles, thus showing you to be somewhat disingenuous with your claims perhaps...

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"ok any serious comments now

Yes, OP, some good advice here;

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Just like on facebook walls

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"how many men on here have still never had a meet on here. and feel like there stood outside the restraunt looking in at everyone else eating "

Not 'eating' just 'meeting' presumably. I'd also like to join some sort of queue....not a bus queue....I'm just a little apprehensive about being last in case the guys in front all finish but then stand back and nudge each other and snigger.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how many men on here have still never had a meet on here. and feel like there stood outside the restraunt looking in at everyone else eating

I wouldn't want to join a que either! I would rather just be 1st!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"ok any serious comments now"

Id say keep your chin shaved ... it doesnt suit you.

Id say keep your hair well maintained too.

Poeple go on first impressions and as much as some people like the rock look - the majority dont. If youre looking to attract then go with the majority and tidy yourself up a bit.

Id even deleve the pics with the chin really (if you shave it that is).

It makes you look like you never left Glastonbury which, when people are looking for 'clean guys who make the effort' ya pics just dont jump out as being that way.

Just my opinion mate

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

I think if I had been here for 4 years (as stated on another thread!) and not a sniff, I might have left or tried a different approach!

Guess I am just lucky...?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"how many men on here have still never had a meet on here. and feel like there stood outside the restraunt looking in at everyone else eating

I wouldn't want to join a que either! I would rather just be 1st!!

Apparently I'm second in the queue but I can live with that!!

I've not been around long x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

" I've not been around long x "

Just 33 gorgeous summers

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

" I've not been around long x

Just 33 gorgeous summers

Oooh smooth talker! Xxx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

hehh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, all the time. Thing is, just one meet would probably sort me out. I nearly had one, and then she moved away! How unlucky is that!

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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

For me this site seems to be a good way to pass 3 emails and build up a friends list that never talks to you. Started to wonder if a females are fakes pretending to be males. And the makes psychologists studying women's sexual behaviour would explain alot. Either that or is natures way of saying to my gene pool "as an outsider what do you think of the human race"

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"For me this site seems to be a good way to pass 3 emails and build up a friends list that never talks to you. Started to wonder if a females are fakes pretending to be males. And the makes psychologists studying women's sexual behaviour would explain alot. Either that or is natures way of saying to my gene pool "as an outsider what do you think of the human race"

There are plenty of blokes on here that have has lots of meets. Not always the best looking guys either. Lots of different factors go into people's selection process. Have you been to clubs? This seems to be the most popular bit of advice I've seen x

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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

Nope never been to a club and that's cause I don't have anyone to go with that's why I want to make good friends at first nothing more who can give me advise and guide me.

As a total newbie to those clubs I'd be shit scared of getting anything wrong the do's and do not's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Been here for over a year and still not had a meet.

Made plenty of friends but think i should stop waiting for individuals to ask me for a meet and me just ask them 'do yoy want to meet'.

Patience is a virtue and all that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch that's tough buddy!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Nope never been to a club and that's cause I don't have anyone to go with that's why I want to make good friends at first nothing more who can give me advise and guide me.

As a total newbie to those clubs I'd be shit scared of getting anything wrong the do's and do not's

You can go as a single male and from what I've seen if you tell them it's your first time when you get there they show you round and tell you what's what.

Unfortunately I don't think people really come on here to just make friends. I've made a few as a result of being on here but it was more as a by product (for want of a better word) and by lots of chatting in the forums. And I'm pretty sure that's the same for lots of others. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like takeaway"

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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

"Same here. Been here for over a year and still not had a meet.

Made plenty of friends but think i should stop waiting for individuals to ask me for a meet and me just ask them 'do yoy want to meet'.

Patience is a virtue and all that x

If you get really good at patience you will be like me 4 years waiting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily i've dined a few times. It's just a case of grasping opportunity when it arises and a little bit of persistence and patience. Not to mention a bit of luck being in contact with the right people, in the right area at the right time.

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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

As you say you can just ask outright coldly "do you want a meet" to which the reply you will get is "fuck off I don't know you we have not chatted first" then if you chat you get ignored cause your boring you can't win. Maybe sheep lovers have it right after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As you say you can just ask outright coldly "do you want a meet" to which the reply you will get is "fuck off I don't know you we have not chatted first" then if you chat you get ignored cause your boring you can't win. Maybe sheep lovers have it right after all"

I wouldn't suggest asking someone to meet on a first message, however you responses indicate that you are chatting to some, so why not ask them if they would like a meet.

Your profile is verified, so unless its a webcam/phone veri it indicates you have had a meet in the past,which differs to your opening post.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

If someone has been trying for a year and not got anywhere maybe the time has come for them to accept that swinging isn't for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. then if you chat you get ignored cause your boring you can't win. "

Stop being boring then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are couples out there looking for meets, I've met them, so maybe you need to try harder ?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"ok any serious comments now

Yes, OP, some good advice here;

...or to put it another way OP;

pants on fire!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok any serious comments now

Yes, OP, some good advice here;

...or to put it another way OP;

pants on fire!

I'm trying here...and my maths is on fire!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience.

You might want to lose the bullet points in your profile too.

Just a suggestion. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One main distinguishing point to guess is the starting message. Some prefer you to talk about non-sexual things and build rappor beforehand. However there are some that find that boring and want you to get straight to the point.

The hard part is working out what the individual you're aiming for is looking for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how many men on here have still never had a meet on here. and feel like there stood outside the restraunt looking in at everyone else eating "

I felt like that for awhile and couldn't understand what the problem was - howvever, it quickly became obvious - several major factors, in my case:

First and foremost, I'm male - this makes me a member of the overwhelming majority on here . Second but by no means least, I'm straight - thus the overwhelming majority of those constantly seeking meets - men - are going to have no luck with me ... it was a lonely few months ... but I got there in the end - you will too. One word: Patience.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

don't name and shame you'll get banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its difficult.

if your nice it can mean people take advantage and treat you just as bad.

if your mean and nasty some like it some dont.

just dont give you phone number out until youve meet is planned or you'll have a texter which is going to lead to nothing.

and finally.never get your hopes up that why when your let down its not so bad.

the only right time is when they are face to face.

then you know they are genuine.

everything else is talk.

firm but fair mate.

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Or me but what's the rush

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