FabSwingers.com forum: Young & Inexperienced

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello everyone.

Now before anyone says anything I’m very aware this is a long shot but eh, why not ask the question.

Are there any women/couples in/near the Birmingham area that are interested in a young and inexperienced male?

Let me know

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Inexperienced in what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Inexperienced in what? "

Well, everything, but what I was referring to in my post is sex and everything surrounding it.

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By *P994Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Might be better of putting this in the meets section as well

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Inexperienced in what?

Well, everything, but what I was referring to in my post is sex and everything surrounding it."

You mean you don't understand the birds and the bee's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you the best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Might be better of putting this in the meets section as well

Thanks, I didn’t think of that to be honest.

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Inexperienced in what?

Well, everything, but what I was referring to in my post is sex and everything surrounding it."

People can see your young by your profile there's people out there that like younger guys. You can have a 20 year old person that acts like they're much younger and you can have a 20 year old that acts more mature than what they are, people will make up their own mind who they want to meet. Regarding being inexperienced there is no criteria being on here or criteria having sex its not like you need a diploma.

Your young but you'll get the hang of it you'll pick it up as you go along. Chill and relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you’re along the right lines with what you’re saying on your profile and how you’re approaching this. You’ll see a very different side of life once you start going to the clubs.

Not everyone will want to play with a 20 year old, too young for us, but some will like that.

Your profile write up does sounds more mature than some of the offerings on here so just chill, go with the flow and see what happens.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you’re along the right lines with what you’re saying on your profile and how you’re approaching this. You’ll see a very different side of life once you start going to the clubs.

Not everyone will want to play with a 20 year old, too young for us, but some will like that.

Your profile write up does sounds more mature than some of the offerings on here so just chill, go with the flow and see what happens.

Good luck. "

Thank you, I am currently looking at joining Xtasia in the new year so fingers crossed i’ll get to experience some more of the swingers world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you’re along the right lines with what you’re saying on your profile and how you’re approaching this. You’ll see a very different side of life once you start going to the clubs.

Not everyone will want to play with a 20 year old, too young for us, but some will like that.

Your profile write up does sounds more mature than some of the offerings on here so just chill, go with the flow and see what happens.

Good luck.

Thank you, I am currently looking at joining Xtasia in the new year so fingers crossed i’ll get to experience some more of the swingers world.

Xtasia is fun. We are not local to there but have travelled to go a few times. Go without expectations and be friendly … and then come back and tell us all what you thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would happily go with you in the new year as we’re looking at diving into the club scene also x

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Good morning OP,

JayneRobert have given you some good advice and you would do well to heed it.

You will find that there are plenty of people interested in someone of your age, but whilst they might be looking for a young body, they are also interested in a mature mind. It's a fine balance to strike but if you get it right you'll be fine.

Clubs and/or socials is a good way for you to make an impact, people will take you more seriously if they see you in person rather than just from behind a keyboard.

It's worth entioning though that many people will not be interested simply because of your age. Most will be polite, but some will be downright nasty unfortunately. Don't fret about it, there is nothing you can do to change how old you are or their perspection, simply move on.

Good luck

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Some great advice given and if you’re thinking about the club scene and bi curious, try a bi night. I generally find those nights a bit more inclusive, so a younger guy may feel a bit more comfortable.

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