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Asking for STI test clearance

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By *averockrock OP   Man
over a year ago

purton

Hi all, do you ask others before meeting up or during the meet if they get tested and last result? Or do you prefer not to check? Does it sound rude to ask?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Extremely easy to fake it. And they could have had a bareback orgy since taking the test.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Hi all, do you ask others before meeting up or during the meet if they get tested and last result? Or do you prefer not to check? Does it sound rude to ask? "

Put it this way.

Like a car MOT a test result is only as good as they day it was taken.

They may have toddled off from the gum clinic straight to a gang bang. They may have met several people in the short space of time between the test and any result notification.

If you ask and someone says a date and a clear test what proof would you accept?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

If this is a big worry maybe do not meet as there's no guarantee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this is a big worry maybe do not meet as there's no guarantee! "

Totally this.

Be careful, but if you’re really worried, best you sign up at the local monastery lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think it's rude to ask, it's not too long since we all needed to show clear covid tests to get out of the country or attend hospital appointments.

The jury's out on how useful the information you receive might be

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By *uyForeLadiesMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Or they say "I'm clean, I'm married"

As though that's the magic bullet.

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

My last two tests results they have phoned me, so even though I got the all clear what proof that I have ???

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Or they say "I'm clean, I'm married"

As though that's the magic bullet. "

You'd be amazed how many single men assumed they didn't need condoms with us because we were a married couple

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

No I don’t ask as the test is only good the day they took it So you have no idea what’s happened after date of test to meet you.

Equally you don’t know if they tested were they within incubation windows etc.

If you are in doubt of someone then don’t meet for play and just meet socially. Can bring it up at end of that if the feeling to progress is mutual later

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By *averockrock OP   Man
over a year ago

purton

Basically is a massive gamble then!

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We just get an ‘all clear’ text message, no real proof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the point ,its like a MOT on the car , its only correct at the test centre

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only


"Hi all, do you ask others before meeting up or during the meet if they get tested and last result? Or do you prefer not to check? Does it sound rude to ask? "
I never ask as to be honest its pointless. I use condoms anyway. So

.it only shows me that at the time of the test they were not testing positive with anything.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester


"Basically is a massive gamble then! "

Yes but it’s still very low odds of getting something based on population numbers

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We just get an ‘all clear’ text message, no real proof. "

It proves that in the 26 days leading up to when the screen was done, you weren’t showing any sti markers. The NHS title and date on the text gives authentication, and is about as good as anyone can provide

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only


"We just get an ‘all clear’ text message, no real proof.

It proves that in the 26 days leading up to when the screen was done, you weren’t showing any sti markers. The NHS title and date on the text gives authentication, and is about as good as anyone can provide "
many clinics now don't send you an all clear message. Mine only contacts me if there was an issue x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Hi all, do you ask others before meeting up or during the meet if they get tested and last result? Or do you prefer not to check? Does it sound rude to ask? "

Why would looking after your personal health make you look rude?

If you’re chatting with someone with many veris, you can’t just assume they take regular tests. Same with those who only show the green tick on their profile, and choose to hide the hundreds of veris. Ask to see them. If they decline, it’s your choice whether you go on to meet them

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We just get an ‘all clear’ text message, no real proof.

It proves that in the 26 days leading up to when the screen was done, you weren’t showing any sti markers. The NHS title and date on the text gives authentication, and is about as good as anyone can provide many clinics now don't send you an all clear message. Mine only contacts me if there was an issue x"

The one I received in September said ‘All clear’. This was from the Gillinggate clinic in Kendal

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By *averockrock OP   Man
over a year ago

purton

Well I am glad it doesn’t sound bad to ask!

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