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"I like to give who wants it" As a Cuck I have been humiliated a lot | |||
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"I like to give who wants it As a Cuck I have been humiliated a lot " I know the feeling well also as a fellow cuck | |||
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"Anyone like to be teased and humiliated?" I have teased and humiliated a guy who acted as my cuck for a few years and shocked myself how I enjoyed it. Also shocked that when meeting Dom people I adore it being done to me | |||
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"Anyone like to be teased and humiliated? I have teased and humiliated a guy who acted as my cuck for a few years and shocked myself how I enjoyed it. Also shocked that when meeting Dom people I adore it being done to me" Yes been humiliated many times by a BULL | |||
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"Anyone like to be teased and humiliated?" Be a privilege for you to do this to me. | |||
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"If you are kind enough to reply can you keep it on the forums please" Ask away hope we can explain | |||
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"As someone who doesn't understand what either party get from humiliation I would genuinely love to hear what it is that is pleasurable " Okay, I’ll try to explain why I enjoy this when I’m in the mood for it. I work hard, I constantly have to be the one everyone else can depend on. I have to make the decisions others don’t want to make, or say this things people shy away from saying out loud. All this falls on me. I do it because it’s all I have ever known from being a child. How does this fit into being humiliated? Well, sometimes I don’t want to be the one everyone relies on. Sometimes I like the idea of someone else being that person, mix that with my competitiveness and humiliation plays perfectly into that for me. I can be told there’s someone better, how worthless I am, how little my cock is, how I’m lucky to be even doing what I’m doing. The list is endless. It’s a release for me, I get to not have to make the decisions. I can submit in that moment. But in a weird way, it also motivates me to carry on once the session is over. It’s simply just getting that little thing out of my system for a while. We’re complex creatures. Maybe it comes from some childhood trauma? maybe I’m just wired different? Maybe I’m just looking for an excuse to live out my fantasies. Who knows! | |||
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"As someone who doesn't understand what either party get from humiliation I would genuinely love to hear what it is that is pleasurable Okay, I’ll try to explain why I enjoy this when I’m in the mood for it. I work hard, I constantly have to be the one everyone else can depend on. I have to make the decisions others don’t want to make, or say this things people shy away from saying out loud. All this falls on me. I do it because it’s all I have ever known from being a child. How does this fit into being humiliated? Well, sometimes I don’t want to be the one everyone relies on. Sometimes I like the idea of someone else being that person, mix that with my competitiveness and humiliation plays perfectly into that for me. I can be told there’s someone better, how worthless I am, how little my cock is, how I’m lucky to be even doing what I’m doing. The list is endless. It’s a release for me, I get to not have to make the decisions. I can submit in that moment. But in a weird way, it also motivates me to carry on once the session is over. It’s simply just getting that little thing out of my system for a while. We’re complex creatures. Maybe it comes from some childhood trauma? maybe I’m just wired different? Maybe I’m just looking for an excuse to live out my fantasies. Who knows! " Thanks for taking the time to explain - it's really insightful. I completely understand why you would want to assume a more submissive role: I am very similar in that regard as it sounds like our personal circumstances are similar but as soon as I feel humiliated or degraded in any way the turn off switch is flicked. As you say, we are all complex and different and life would be very dull if we were all the same! | |||
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"Anyone like to be teased and humiliated?" Love to humiliate a lady in a nice way. | |||
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"i love humiliation play now, wsn't interested when i first started dressing. But over time discovered it gets me into a subbie headspace very quickly and really gets me turned on. That being said, it has to be done right. Like many kinks, you need to build up and find your limits (both receiver and giver), reflect and have after care. " Basically this totally agree. I love it. | |||
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"got him today in asda i called him over and said to him picking up some ladies disney knickers ''oh you like these they look so cute on you'' and put them against him to see if they would fit in a packed out asda lol a few smiles and a few openned mouths " Youre some woman | |||
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"got him today in asda i called him over and said to him picking up some ladies disney knickers ''oh you like these they look so cute on you'' and put them against him to see if they would fit in a packed out asda lol a few smiles and a few openned mouths " i wish you could do that to me | |||
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"got him today in asda i called him over and said to him picking up some ladies disney knickers ''oh you like these they look so cute on you'' and put them against him to see if they would fit in a packed out asda lol a few smiles and a few openned mouths Each to their own but don't agree with public displays like this esp around people who did not consent to witness " its not flashing the was nothing sexual just banter between me and my hubs no consent needed for that as no one could be offened by so few words | |||
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"I (cuck) love it ." Yup! | |||
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"Anyone like to be teased and humiliated?" Possibly, have been tempted and enjoyed giving teasing and humiliation before. Guess it depends on the Woman and if it’s being hot and filthy enough lol xxx | |||
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"absofuckinglutely Px. " I love to tease.. humilating is only right when we know each other and consent But fuck yes! | |||
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"Anyone like to be teased and humiliated?" No! I've had enough of it in real life . | |||
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"What people outside of the lifestyle wouldn't get is that I would never tease, humiliate and cuck a guy I didn't actually like and respect outside of the bedroom. " Absolutely this. It’s play, not an opinion or prejudice, something both parties should enjoy or find erotic. I love being helpless and humiliated by someone who I know, and knows what I’m getting from the humiliation. Trust and respect is what counts. | |||
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"Genuine question, does the cuck ever switch and humiliate their partner?" your not a cuck if you can switch ? unless its fantasy stuff | |||
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"I humiliate my wife by picking her outfits for meets. I make sure she looks ready to fuck or be licked out by a lady. " I would love to lick your pussy | |||
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"absofuckinglutely Px. " | |||
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"One of the key aspects of humiliation play is sensitivity…if you’re not emotionally intelligent enough to really connect with someone, you won’t be humiliating them in a way that gets them off, you’ll just be turning them off. So it can be an extremely erotic experience for people who understand how to play with each others minds, as well as their bodies. " totally agree | |||
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"One of the key aspects of humiliation play is sensitivity…if you’re not emotionally intelligent enough to really connect with someone, you won’t be humiliating them in a way that gets them off, you’ll just be turning them off. So it can be an extremely erotic experience for people who understand how to play with each others minds, as well as their bodies. " Well said.. we don't consider ourselves into humiliation but we do love some degradation play when alone. The bond, intimacy, and respect we share makes it an intensely hot experience. Even the thought of engaging in that okay with relative strangers is a big turn off | |||
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