FabSwingers.com forum: How Long Had You Been A Member On Here Before Your First Meet?

By *alleyDave OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Only realised today that I've now been on Fab for five months, and although I've spoken to one couple via messages I've yet to actually meet anyone, even for a social meet. I have to admit I'm not a constant messager, in fact I think I've only sent about ten during the time I've been here. So I was wondering what's others experiences are about how long you had been a member on here before you had your first meet, social or for fun.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

About a year - but the wait was worth it.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I think it was about 2 weeks when I made my first single profile.

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

Couple of months, waste of time

Lesson learned

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

A week or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a year or so….good things are worth the wait

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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago

DUMFRIES

The first time I joined about 6 Yr ago I think I was on here mebbe 2 or 3 months before I had my first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been here a few months and nothing yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined on a Friday night. The next night I went to a “party”. The following week I also had two separate meets. Ooopssyyyyy

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bicester

Originally joined years ago and got regular meets pretty quickly.

More recently it has proved more challenging but in recent weeks I’ve had a couple of really lovely meets.

Time, patience and thoughtful approach to potential partners is required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined on a Friday night. The next night I went to a “party”. The following week I also had two separate meets. Ooopssyyyyy

Whatcha like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined a month after lockdown originally so not great timing but only waited 2-3 weeks before my first meet who I stayed seeing just him for many months to lower covid risks of meeting others too

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Joined after being told about it by a lady I met on my first club visit. Can't think how long it was before I arranged a meet purely from fab.

It is all a game of luck and chance. Recently started chatting to a lovely lady after a forum post she made. Been chatting a few weeks now and looking to arrange a meet soon.

It does happen

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

About a week or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was about a month before I bumped into someone at a club that I was speaking to on fab, that night we only had a brief conversation and then met at the club about a month later, every one else I normally meet at the club first then message on here after, I've yet to actually go on a social with someone purely from fab

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By *loth280Man
over a year ago

Caversham

I had been on and off here for about 5 years before i had my first actual meet

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

3,6 months, because we were both extremely busy, became available at a last minute late at night. Was well worth it whole night fuckery followed by early morning before leaving

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

3-4 weeks, I think, but I was in no rush.

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By *stro0121Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I had my first meet in the first week I joined.

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By *eff4000Man
over a year ago

Camberley

A week or so

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

Been on here years, mainly to chat, spoke to loads of lovely people, but did have one couple that we spoke about meeting up. Sadly the mrs passed away before we could from covid, and haven't really connected with anyone else on the same level tbh.

Have been to a club once or twice, but never asked anyone for Verai's

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

None I'm afraid. I joined just before lockdown and my marital status (although she has no problems) and my age don't help. No problems if I don't though, more important things to worry about.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Less than 2 weeks, but not directly from a site meet. I went to a club, met people then found them on Fab afterwards.

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By *imher8587Couple
over a year ago

Kingswinford

About 5 months for us. Left the profile stagnant for a few months tho until we spoke about it lots & lots until we were sure enough

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

best go to your local club , swinging is a niche activity and most people here are not swingers .. or genuine ...

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

A few hours. Still chat to him occasionally but never managed to arrange another play date ... yet

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Few weeks, after night of chatting.

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By *cotsman269Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

People actually meet here

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"People actually meet here

Dunno about Falkirk but in London? Yes.

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By *cotsman269Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

"People actually meet here

Dunno about Falkirk but in London? Yes."

No wonder everyone moves down there then ha ha

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Just over a month

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

About a week. Then started club visits which have been amazing so not many off here now as too many time wasters

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

About 3 or 4 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 years now. My 1st meet was a good social couple of drinks etc x the girl was a good looking sexy girl x we flirted in the pub and we ended up going back to my house because we were both horny x i normally don't have sex on the 1st night but a standing cock has no conscience lol xxx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Was about 3 weeks for us I think on our old profile.

Mrs

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Been on over a year and only had a social never a meet

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

This profile a few months, and I think our first profile was very similar

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We was on nearly a year til our 1st meet

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Around 6 months for us

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"Around 6 months for us"

So long you both must have been very picky then would of said a few hours before you was bombarded with offers

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yip…..still waiting!!!!

We must be scary! We are not scary, are we? Who said that?You? Me? Yeah you?

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

Dudley

Joined during lockdown when meeting was forbidden, joined because of boredom

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

About 6 months before my first meet and after verification another meet a couple of months later

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We joined three sites four months ago. One site cut off after a month. Other is restrictive with free profile. We paid fir Silver on here as cams are not our thing. We have had a few messages that we have replied to and had replies back. No friend requests from couples.

As a couple we have been together 20 years. We have a great sex life and are not in any rush to share or swap, It is something we both want to add.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

2 days, stuff a dress on and for some reason straight men want to fuck you.. its a funny world x

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We were pretty quick on the first meet. Decided to try it at the beginning of the week and went to a club by that same weekend.

Took a few more weeks to meet and actually play, but we were keen to get on with it (before nerves got the better of us).

Once we got the initial meetings out the way, we went years without doing anything else though

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

First account 6 years ago I had 2 socials,1 hotel meet and then deleted in the first 8 weeks because of the actions of the woman in the hotel.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

This time around 2 weeks - for a social meet.

Last time, 2 days

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Mine was crazy was the first night I signed up my mate got me to go sign up for a laugh after broke up with an ex..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of months x

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I had a meet before I joined here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within 3 weeks had my first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t met anyone yet

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

7 months here!!!

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Four days

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

A couple of weeks I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3-4 months joined just as covid started unfortunately

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Well over a year, but then using fab to open doors to club events has proved more productive

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Not sure, afew months for sure. After a million messages. I found a guy to meet then he let me down by cumming within seconds of touching him, took me home straight away and ghosted me...terrible. should of held out longer for a better quality meet

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I think it was about 3 months, but it was as we were coming out of lockdown. So still wasn't really allowed when I first joined up.

I did a few socials to start with though.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

join pretty much as fab was born was meeting with-in the first week can still remember that meet very well

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"best go to your local club , swinging is a niche activity and most people here are not swingers .. or genuine ..."

I went to two clubs. Clubs aren't even guaranteed sex. Wish people stop selling it as it's a mass orgy where everyone can get action. Not true at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"best go to your local club , swinging is a niche activity and most people here are not swingers .. or genuine ...

I went to two clubs. Clubs aren't even guaranteed sex. Wish people stop selling it as it's a mass orgy where everyone can get action. Not true at all "

Your absolutely right at no club are you guaranteed sex nore should you go with the exception of having sex it's just a bonus if it does happen, but if you are social enough you can meet some great people show who you really are and what you are like in person, then down the line in the future you might just fine yourself with a great bunch of friends some you play with some you don't, organised social events also work in the same way apart from you are guaranteed not to have sex

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

10 months from joining to our first meet through here.

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By *orfolk777Man
over a year ago

Norwich

About 3 years I reckon, and now been about 8 years since my last meet off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been on here a few months feeling our way.

We’re not in any rush to meet but may do it at some point.

We’ve enjoyed the cam sessions we have done recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet through fab? A week

I was swinging before I was on fab going to a club…

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

"Only realised today that I've now been on Fab for five months, and although I've spoken to one couple via messages I've yet to actually meet anyone, even for a social meet. I have to admit I'm not a constant messager, in fact I think I've only sent about ten during the time I've been here. So I was wondering what's others experiences are about how long you had been a member on here before you had your first meet, social or for fun.

2 days

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