FabSwingers.com forum: Being a bull....

By *osh bloke OP Man
over a year ago

hereford

Hi guys read a post on here earlier relating to a guy from a couple who loved hugging and kissing his wife while she was fucked by another guy. The topic moved to cucking and I wondered what it takes to be a bull. I've been the 3rd person in a mfm scenario previously and loved the part I was, but how is it different to being a bull?

By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

From what I gather there is no difference, the "bull" is merely the invited male who "services the wife" while hubby is looking on, the cuckold.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think main mis conception is that bull is purely there to fuck wife.

In my experience there's alot more to it. Alot of it is psychological aswell as physical. It's not straight forward.

Its knowing when and how to be assertive Whislt always respecting boundaries.

Obvously it can be over complicated but communication EARLY on is key

By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Anyone can claim to be a bull, but there are certain expectations… if you know what you are doing.

You aren’t just there to fuck someone’s wife/gf. Remember the cuckold scenario is a fantasy for both parties. So for starters, you are walking the tightrope of satisfying both the hotwife and the cuck.

What form that takes, depends on the couple, and should be discussed extensively beforehand. The below is a non-exhaustive list:

Do they want creampie? Will the cuck clean up? Does the cuck want to see you flirt with the hotwife before sex? Is there a humiliation kink in there? Will the bull be verbally involved in humiliating the cuck? (Will this be dirty talk or degrading?) Will the cuck be present and watching? If not, does he want pics or video, or for the hotwife to text him during the act? Any additional role play involved? Will the bull be an on-going boyfriend, with bf perks, or will the bull just be available for ad-hoc requests? Will the cuck be able to “reclaim” immediately or later after the bull has gone?

So yeah, it isn’t about just rocking up to shag the missus.