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By *ilverfox for you OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Done.

Sent the link to the website to all my Facebook friends, family and a few WhatsApp school parents groups.

You’re welcome

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 500 men to 1 woman"

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland


"Done.

Sent the link to the website to all my Facebook friends, family and a few WhatsApp school parents groups.

You’re welcome "

Do I detect a slight hint of sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done.

Sent the link to the website to all my Facebook friends, family and a few WhatsApp school parents groups.

You’re welcome "

Hahaha!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Done.

Sent the link to the website to all my Facebook friends, family and a few WhatsApp school parents groups.

You’re welcome

Do I detect a slight hint of sarcasm "

Moi? Never

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman"

Actually it’s about ten to one. There are several reasons why sites like fab struggle to attract female members - the principal one being society’s condemnation of openly sexually active/non monogamous women. Promiscuous women are still judged far more harshly than promiscuous men - and many forum guys on various relationship threads have openly stated that they’d never date a woman from fab.

I know most of my vanilla friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and I’d imagine some would terminate the friendship. X

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s ok OP I’m sure it’ll be easy just to ask all my female friends to join a swinging site

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By *ittall2020Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Also, all guys must promise not to email the new females, as most seem to post "I've had 400 messages in the first day, I can't keep up" then leave.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Do we get a finder's fee?

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By *hoenix_1Man
over a year ago

richmond


"Done.

Sent the link to the website to all my Facebook friends, family and a few WhatsApp school parents groups.

You’re welcome "

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

Just the other day all my female friends were saying if only there was a website where you can receive a neverending supply of unsolicited dick pics in various poses (toilet bowls and lynx cans being preferable)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just the other day all my female friends were saying if only there was a website where you can receive a neverending supply of unsolicited dick pics in various poses (toilet bowls and lynx cans being preferable) "

Ohh damm.. atleast I now know what too do with my unwanted Christmas lynx giftsets this year! Haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman

Actually it’s about ten to one. There are several reasons why sites like fab struggle to attract female members - the principal one being society’s condemnation of openly sexually active/non monogamous women. Promiscuous women are still judged far more harshly than promiscuous men - and many forum guys on various relationship threads have openly stated that they’d never date a woman from fab.

I know most of my vanilla friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and I’d imagine some would terminate the friendship. X"

Pretty much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have a group of open minded people.. if you wish you can join it

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

its always been the case that couples and women have been in short supply when we first started before we had a computer it was male heavy but more around 10 male to every couple/female and there were men even then that could not break thru..

but back then there were alot more couples than now they got older and slowly stopped and the ''new'' joining were far n few between then the internet and the ''groups'' like yahoo xcite aol and others the was 1000s of little groups where swinging online was born and slowly took off but sadly in a male only way when the swinging sites started and there were many before fab was born when the couples and women started to slowly decline ...

why well as with everything internet the trolls/bullys had a platform loads left until fab restored the interest even tho the trolls n bullies were still there .... but we never recovered those amounts that were there before.. all it did was year on year increase more men joining and alot more fustration for them ..

covid the one single advent that i think at least doubled maybe even tripled men joining whiles 100s of couples left the scene online .. go back 30 years before the majority of clubs were born then the nearest back then (from sw) was the midlands the owners of gems were still doggers if you drove to a then big dogging spot near bath m4 junction there would be out dogging anywhere from 50 to 100 couples dogging and single women and all night til 4 or 5am there would be a constant flow of men driving around and then there were invites back to private parties where house's were packed full of couples..

roll forward to today we have a club scene thats good but nowhere near the numbers of yesteryear ... dogging is dead compared to what it was (tho i see this becoming big again due to todays living expense) nowhere near as many house parties and apart from some very good private sites ie niche ones theres only one very good swinging site ie fab even tho the numbers/% are wildly out of sorts ..

how to get others interested is a game that cant be played its sex its about how people feel about sex its about couples agreeing it just not something that can be promoted so it will continue to be men joining at a much higher rate and by that it will create frustration and anger and the negative affect of that is more women and couples leaving sadly .... i dont think theres a answer all we can do is keep using fab and move on ..

for most of us fab is easy we mostly know the pit falls .. the to avoid .. its like everything in life today you have to move mountains to find what you want i dont think we've seen the peak of men on here yet with the decline of relationships and face to face social life and more and more online then more and more men will join sadly not the case with couples and women,,

also swinging is very watered down to what it used to be swinging used to be sex orientated with socials here n there ... now its socials orientated with sex here n there

opps thats alot of blab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I like my friends?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman

Actually it’s about ten to one. There are several reasons why sites like fab struggle to attract female members - the principal one being society’s condemnation of openly sexually active/non monogamous women. Promiscuous women are still judged far more harshly than promiscuous men - and many forum guys on various relationship threads have openly stated that they’d never date a woman from fab.

I know most of my vanilla friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and I’d imagine some would terminate the friendship. X"

I'd love to date from here. Imagine all the socials you could go to together.

I'm not a judgemental twat though. I put that down to age, and not giving a hoot anymore

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman

Actually it’s about ten to one. There are several reasons why sites like fab struggle to attract female members - the principal one being society’s condemnation of openly sexually active/non monogamous women. Promiscuous women are still judged far more harshly than promiscuous men - and many forum guys on various relationship threads have openly stated that they’d never date a woman from fab.

I know most of my vanilla friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and I’d imagine some would terminate the friendship. X

I'd love to date from here. Imagine all the socials you could go to together.

I'm not a judgemental twat though. I put that down to age, and not giving a hoot anymore "

its no where near 10 to 1 its at least 100 to one and in some area alot lot more than that

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I really don't see this ratio ever changing too much as long as the female experience of the world is vastly different to the male experience. If you want the ratio to change you need to change society and make this a very different world to be a woman in.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman

Actually it’s about ten to one. There are several reasons why sites like fab struggle to attract female members - the principal one being society’s condemnation of openly sexually active/non monogamous women. Promiscuous women are still judged far more harshly than promiscuous men - and many forum guys on various relationship threads have openly stated that they’d never date a woman from fab.

I know most of my vanilla friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and I’d imagine some would terminate the friendship. X"

I don’t think society’s view of non-monogamous women has much bearing on the amount of single female profiles in Fab? The one place you would imagine these ladies would be prevalent is in swinger clubs, and yet there are hardly any when you go, even with the ‘discounted’ entry fees…..

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Done.

Sent the link to the website to all my Facebook friends, family and a few WhatsApp school parents groups.

You’re welcome "

Do any of them work in a bakery? Asking for a friend

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By *hicDragon08Man
over a year ago

Woodbridge

I could do with some suggestions x

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman"

I tried, but your mum didn't take it well.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman

I tried, but your mum didn't take it well. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman"

I would tell them not to join a sex site!!

Best way to even up the numbers would be to get rid of most of the men.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"its always been the case that couples and women have been in short supply when we first started before we had a computer it was male heavy but more around 10 male to every couple/female and there were men even then that could not break thru..

but back then there were alot more couples than now they got older and slowly stopped and the ''new'' joining were far n few between then the internet and the ''groups'' like yahoo xcite aol and others the was 1000s of little groups where swinging online was born and slowly took off but sadly in a male only way when the swinging sites started and there were many before fab was born when the couples and women started to slowly decline ...

why well as with everything internet the trolls/bullys had a platform loads left until fab restored the interest even tho the trolls n bullies were still there .... but we never recovered those amounts that were there before.. all it did was year on year increase more men joining and alot more fustration for them ..

covid the one single advent that i think at least doubled maybe even tripled men joining whiles 100s of couples left the scene online .. go back 30 years before the majority of clubs were born then the nearest back then (from sw) was the midlands the owners of gems were still doggers if you drove to a then big dogging spot near bath m4 junction there would be out dogging anywhere from 50 to 100 couples dogging and single women and all night til 4 or 5am there would be a constant flow of men driving around and then there were invites back to private parties where house's were packed full of couples..

roll forward to today we have a club scene thats good but nowhere near the numbers of yesteryear ... dogging is dead compared to what it was (tho i see this becoming big again due to todays living expense) nowhere near as many house parties and apart from some very good private sites ie niche ones theres only one very good swinging site ie fab even tho the numbers/% are wildly out of sorts ..

how to get others interested is a game that cant be played its sex its about how people feel about sex its about couples agreeing it just not something that can be promoted so it will continue to be men joining at a much higher rate and by that it will create frustration and anger and the negative affect of that is more women and couples leaving sadly .... i dont think theres a answer all we can do is keep using fab and move on ..

for most of us fab is easy we mostly know the pit falls .. the to avoid .. its like everything in life today you have to move mountains to find what you want i dont think we've seen the peak of men on here yet with the decline of relationships and face to face social life and more and more online then more and more men will join sadly not the case with couples and women,,

also swinging is very watered down to what it used to be swinging used to be sex orientated with socials here n there ... now its socials orientated with sex here n there

opps thats alot of blab lol

"

Pretty much spot on. Our experience of first being on here with no filters was being bombarded with very high counts of messages being a new cpl we tried being respectful and replied to the guys messages only to be bombarded with more messages trying to. Convince us to meet. These messages turned abusive and nasty when we very polietly said no thank you. Then you had the guys we liked who we messaged about meeting up to play with who after several messages just bottled it and backed out. Our view on clubs is also slightly tainted but also had a few really good expetiences due to three cpls who we really clicked with who took the time to show us around. We did find though that there is a very cliquey feeling which is due to the people there knowing each other who attend regularly which we can understand but as new people single or cpls attending this can feel very daughnting and can put most off going again. If it was not for the first cpl showing us around and taking time out after their play session with a guy they arranged to meet there i doubt we would have gone the second time which got us to meet with two other very nice cpls there. The club scene is not as easy as we thought ot would be but we keep plugging away and try to chat to others there if they are approachable. I feel for quieter guys, ladies and cpls who go to clubs as some get put off very quickly by the enviroment. Also the wanking zombies and gropers have this effect as we experienced this ourselves there. The gropers should be banned perminanyly i feel as it is sexual assault if not wanted or agreed to the touching. Joanne.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman

Actually it’s about ten to one. There are several reasons why sites like fab struggle to attract female members - the principal one being society’s condemnation of openly sexually active/non monogamous women. Promiscuous women are still judged far more harshly than promiscuous men - and many forum guys on various relationship threads have openly stated that they’d never date a woman from fab.

I know most of my vanilla friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and I’d imagine some would terminate the friendship. X

I'd love to date from here. Imagine all the socials you could go to together.

I'm not a judgemental twat though. I put that down to age, and not giving a hoot anymore

its no where near 10 to 1 its at least 100 to one and in some area alot lot more than that"

I did 2 forum surveys years ago - asking fellow forumites from many areas in the uk to go on ‘who’s near’ and count the couples, single males, single females, TV’s etc. people from around 70 different areas responded. Overall the ratio was 10:1

Without asking admin (and understandably I doubt they’d tell us) for the number of fabbers in each group - it’s about the only relatively reliable way of working it out.

Whilst those ratios may have changed since I last did it I very much doubt they’ve changed tenfold.

When I can be arsed I’ll do it again - probably in the new year now. X

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

No different to real life. Make an effort, be genuine and friendly, opportunities will come a knocking

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman"

If I had any female friends I probably wouldn't be on this site

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman

Actually it’s about ten to one. There are several reasons why sites like fab struggle to attract female members - the principal one being society’s condemnation of openly sexually active/non monogamous women. Promiscuous women are still judged far more harshly than promiscuous men - and many forum guys on various relationship threads have openly stated that they’d never date a woman from fab.

I know most of my vanilla friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and I’d imagine some would terminate the friendship. X

I don’t think society’s view of non-monogamous women has much bearing on the amount of single female profiles in Fab? The one place you would imagine these ladies would be prevalent is in swinger clubs, and yet there are hardly any when you go, even with the ‘discounted’ entry fees….."

I’d disagree. Being on fab for a single female - especially a more mature one - can be construed as being a ‘risk’. If she was outed - and we all know that sadly this happens - she would be far more likely to be condemned by friends and family. Also few men in the ‘real’ world would be keen to date a swinging female - even if she’s willing to be monogamous thereafter.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only way to check would be to understand the popularity in Your area because Im sure it's going to differ per area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"recommend a female friend . the ratio on here must be 100 men to 1 woman

Actually it’s about ten to one. There are several reasons why sites like fab struggle to attract female members - the principal one being society’s condemnation of openly sexually active/non monogamous women. Promiscuous women are still judged far more harshly than promiscuous men - and many forum guys on various relationship threads have openly stated that they’d never date a woman from fab.

I know most of my vanilla friends would be horrified if they knew I was a swinger - and I’d imagine some would terminate the friendship. X

I don’t think society’s view of non-monogamous women has much bearing on the amount of single female profiles in Fab? The one place you would imagine these ladies would be prevalent is in swinger clubs, and yet there are hardly any when you go, even with the ‘discounted’ entry fees…..

I’d disagree. Being on fab for a single female - especially a more mature one - can be construed as being a ‘risk’. If she was outed - and we all know that sadly this happens - she would be far more likely to be condemned by friends and family. Also few men in the ‘real’ world would be keen to date a swinging female - even if she’s willing to be monogamous thereafter. "

Didn't realise it was so hard for a good looking mature woman to find suitable meets on here x

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"

I did 2 forum surveys years ago - asking fellow forumites from many areas in the uk to go on ‘who’s near’ and count the couples, single males, single females, TV’s etc. people from around 70 different areas responded. Overall the ratio was 10:1

Without asking admin (and understandably I doubt they’d tell us) for the number of fabbers in each group - it’s about the only relatively reliable way of working it out.

Whilst those ratios may have changed since I last did it I very much doubt they’ve changed tenfold.

When I can be arsed I’ll do it again - probably in the new year now. X"

i can see the problem right there lol you asked the forums ? the 1%'ers of fab there is no way on earth youll get a correct number from the forums and there is no way youll get a correct number from snap shots of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soon come

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"

I did 2 forum surveys years ago - asking fellow forumites from many areas in the uk to go on ‘who’s near’ and count the couples, single males, single females, TV’s etc. people from around 70 different areas responded. Overall the ratio was 10:1

Without asking admin (and understandably I doubt they’d tell us) for the number of fabbers in each group - it’s about the only relatively reliable way of working it out.

Whilst those ratios may have changed since I last did it I very much doubt they’ve changed tenfold.

When I can be arsed I’ll do it again - probably in the new year now. X

i can see the problem right there lol you asked the forums ? the 1%'ers of fab there is no way on earth youll get a correct number from the forums and there is no way youll get a correct number from snap shots of time"

It's impossible because you always have to calculate if their going to find you attractive then height a suitable length

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

And not everyone will show up on who is near because they don't want to give permission

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