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“I need to get drained”- women’s view

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t know why this phrase bothers me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Absolute turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gross! X

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

Very classy

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think it's because it suggests anyone would do ,if they were available.

That's how I see it.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Because it’s objectifying -the partner’s just there to be used, not to enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I've never heard that before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tbh I've never heard that before"

So many fellas say it on their profile updates.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"I think it's because it suggests anyone would do ,if they were available.

That's how I see it."

This.

I'm out for mutually enjoyable experiences with people that have an actual personality. Not just being a blank object.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Makes women into no more than a receptacle. Mind you I've seen women say they need to get 'filled' so ...

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

that as a status is usually a block from me

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Makes women into no more than a receptacle. Mind you I've seen women say they need to get 'filled' so ..."

Exactly . However it is more popular to ridicule and slag off single men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I've never heard that before

So many fellas say it on their profile update

s. "

I've never come across any,disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Makes women into no more than a receptacle. Mind you I've seen women say they need to get 'filled' so ...

Exactly . However it is more popular to ridicule and slag off single men on here "

Maybe those women don't care about that type of comment... Others that don't say that might tho, eh?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Makes women into no more than a receptacle. Mind you I've seen women say they need to get 'filled' so ...

Exactly . However it is more popular to ridicule and slag off single men on here

Maybe those women don't care about that type of comment... Others that don't say that might tho, eh? "

I’m not saying it’s not a crass comment I just saying that this is another of almost daily posts slagging off single men. You just don’t see posts from guys slating women or couples. I could post something everyday from the idiotic messages I receive, but I have better things to do tbh

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Makes women into no more than a receptacle. Mind you I've seen women say they need to get 'filled' so ...

Exactly . However it is more popular to ridicule and slag off single men on here

Maybe those women don't care about that type of comment... Others that don't say that might tho, eh?

I’m not saying it’s not a crass comment I just saying that this is another of almost daily posts slagging off single men. You just don’t see posts from guys slating women or couples. I could post something everyday from the idiotic messages I receive, but I have better things to do tbh "

You see, daily, men slating women and couples for not being interested in fucking them! So for not being vulgar, or at least not for them

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Makes women into no more than a receptacle. Mind you I've seen women say they need to get 'filled' so ...

Exactly . However it is more popular to ridicule and slag off single men on here

Maybe those women don't care about that type of comment... Others that don't say that might tho, eh?

I’m not saying it’s not a crass comment I just saying that this is another of almost daily posts slagging off single men. You just don’t see posts from guys slating women or couples. I could post something everyday from the idiotic messages I receive, but I have better things to do tbh

You see, daily, men slating women and couples for not being interested in fucking them! So for not being vulgar, or at least not for them "

That’s not true at all. Lots of men posting “why can’t I get a meet” threads but hardly any actually slating or ridiculing women or couples for not fucking them! Can’t find a single one in todays posts

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

What bothers some excite another, I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing i think of with that phrase is boil on the arse cheek

The second thing is blocked sink

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I did laugh

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

what does it mean,,

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I find the term very shallow pretty down grading

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Doesn't bother me. Just sounds needy and off putting.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

There's so many phrases that men use in their intro messages that does bother me alot. Instant block

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Makes women into no more than a receptacle. Mind you I've seen women say they need to get 'filled' so ...

Exactly . However it is more popular to ridicule and slag off single men on here

Maybe those women don't care about that type of comment... Others that don't say that might tho, eh?

I’m not saying it’s not a crass comment I just saying that this is another of almost daily posts slagging off single men. You just don’t see posts from guys slating women or couples. I could post something everyday from the idiotic messages I receive, but I have better things to do tbh

You see, daily, men slating women and couples for not being interested in fucking them! So for not being vulgar, or at least not for them

That’s not true at all. Lots of men posting “why can’t I get a meet” threads but hardly any actually slating or ridiculing women or couples for not fucking them! Can’t find a single one in todays posts "

One today stating people are up their own arse, seems every day I see one calling people snobby, prudish etc etc

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Makes women into no more than a receptacle. Mind you I've seen women say they need to get 'filled' so ...

Exactly . However it is more popular to ridicule and slag off single men on here "

Shhhh you'll be joining us in the outcast group soon

The one with the vag.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't like the term, nor the "I need filling" both equally a turn off.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see variations of this on the updates board quite often, and they make me heave every time

Personally I wouldn't go near someone who says stuff like this.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Makes women into no more than a receptacle. Mind you I've seen women say they need to get 'filled' so ...

Exactly . However it is more popular to ridicule and slag off single men on here

Shhhh you'll be joining us in the outcast group soon

The one with the vag."

But it's not 'slagging off single men'

is it.

It's asking a question. If it's slagging anyone off it's the minority of guys that put such statuses up, rather than each and every single male on the entire site, the majority of whom dont.

Some people do seem overly keen to put all men into the same category as each other and its usually not the person asking the initial question.

A

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

These threads are a great filter

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"These threads are a great filter "

I agree completely.

Every forum thread and comment on a post is. As is every word on a profile, every status update, every photo and every message.

If someone asks a specific question, about a specific activity undertaken by a specific individual, or tiny minority of a very large population.....then that's not an issue for 'all' people who share that gender, age, ethnicity or any other single charachteristic.

Regardless of the claims some people like to make.

A

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"These threads are a great filter

I agree completely.

Every forum thread and comment on a post is. As is every word on a profile, every status update, every photo and every message.

If someone asks a specific question, about a specific activity undertaken by a specific individual, or tiny minority of a very large population.....then that's not an issue for 'all' people who share that gender, age, ethnicity or any other single charachteristic.

Regardless of the claims some people like to make.

A

"

Totally agree

Btw it’s ‘Characteristic’ not charachteristic

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Tbh I've never heard that before"

Me neither

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I don’t know why this phrase bothers me

"

It certainly suggests that they just think having a woman to "service" them would be less work than having a wank.

In reality, I suspect that they think their "alpha" approach will be attractive to many.

Cal

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To me it sounds like they have a boil or something. Not very sexy.

And it's quite one sided. Yes, OK, I'll lance that, no, it doesn't do anything for me.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

An equally annoying and, in its own case, biologically ridiculous phrase is "emptying one's balls".

I know my bladder and rectum decrease in volume when their job is done, but my balls???

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"To me it sounds like they have a boil or something. Not very sexy.

And it's quite one sided. Yes, OK, I'll lance that, no, it doesn't do anything for me."

Now that’s something that could get my mouth watering

Dr Pimple Popper’s apprentice perhaps!

If anyone needs a boil lancing and draining - I’m meeting! Disclaimer: I’m not qualified but love picking spots.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It doesn’t bother me OP, but I don’t find it attractive either

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Absolute turn off for me."

Me too.

I'm not a bloody plumber..

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yeah mega turn off! Am sure not many would message someone say that!! Jeez and then wonder why they can't get a reply ??

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"To me it sounds like they have a boil or something. Not very sexy.

And it's quite one sided. Yes, OK, I'll lance that, no, it doesn't do anything for me.

Now that’s something that could get my mouth watering

Dr Pimple Popper’s apprentice perhaps!

If anyone needs a boil lancing and draining - I’m meeting! Disclaimer: I’m not qualified but love picking spots. "

Noooooooooooooooooo

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"To me it sounds like they have a boil or something. Not very sexy.

And it's quite one sided. Yes, OK, I'll lance that, no, it doesn't do anything for me.

Now that’s something that could get my mouth watering

Dr Pimple Popper’s apprentice perhaps!

If anyone needs a boil lancing and draining - I’m meeting! Disclaimer: I’m not qualified but love picking spots. "

You may want Fab pickers dot com for that (I was going to say pop rather than pick but... you know)

I'm not kink shaming. lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

What about "need servicing?" Lol

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"These threads are a great filter "

However will we cope!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

When the shower drain is clogged up with hair...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, some of us enjoy having our cysts drained!!

Stop being so judgemental

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"What about "need servicing?" Lol"

Also a big 'fuck off' from me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s one of Fabs many hidden filters.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"When the shower drain is clogged up with hair..."

I feel personally attacked

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