FabSwingers.com forum: Secret or open?Xx

By *arkhelga OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx

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By *r kink8585Man
over a year ago

ireland,

Secret 100%

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Bit of both… some friends know and fully accept it, others would run for the hills

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

At the min we prefer our privacy but that may change down the road as such

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't make a secret of it. But I don't rub it in people's faces if they disapprove.

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Secret

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Secret

Very secret

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

…

I’ve only spoke to two of my close friends about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% secret..... that's makes it all the more fun

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

We are always open with each other, but keep our fun private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret and also never kiss and tell, even with other swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is secret.

Nikki x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to keep it secret

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By *EfellaMan
over a year ago

long eaton

Depends with who..

My mum, no..

My aunty, yep.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Most people know about it.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Obviously friends here are fully aware of how filthy we are.. But otherwise a few very close friends of D's and a much higher number of Y's..

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

London

Secret.

Only because it’s part of my own satisfaction. My buddy from the army doesn’t even know. He ribs me at the gym saying how longs your sex drought been now?

I stand there thinking if only you knew what in was doing at a club the other night

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Secret - it makes it more enjoyable for me

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

We have talked about it with our closest friends and they were all fine with it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nobody except Mr N and the people we meet. It involves other people and talking about it invades their privacy and is indiscreet in our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx"

There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We’re a bit of both, some friends know what we’re into but we don’t discuss details just that we go to clubs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx

There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla. "

I don't talk to my friends about sex except in a general way, I'd never go into detail.

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

My secret x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx

There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla.

I don't talk to my friends about sex except in a general way, I'd never go into detail. "

That’s the same. So I don’t really need to keep anything from them.

‘Guess what I did last night?!’ Is never a thing of start with.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never had a conversation with a work colleague or vanilla friends about my sex life or theirs.

I have made some very good friends through the site and they are the only ones I have those conversations with.

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

Secret but would discuss with the people I trust

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx

There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla.

I don't talk to my friends about sex except in a general way, I'd never go into detail.

That’s the same. So I don’t really need to keep anything from them.

‘Guess what I did last night?!’ Is never a thing of start with.

Friend :did you see that great documentary last night?:

Me : no. I was being gang banged in a village hall just outside Bognor:

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By *r kink8585Man
over a year ago

ireland,

"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx

There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla.

I don't talk to my friends about sex except in a general way, I'd never go into detail.

That’s the same. So I don’t really need to keep anything from them.

‘Guess what I did last night?!’ Is never a thing of start with.

Friend :did you see that great documentary last night?:

Me : no. I was being gang banged in a village hall just outside Bognor:"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

secret, its part of the fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our town know as someone screenshot mine and the wifes profile that had our face pics on it, then it went round all the pubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx

There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla.

I don't talk to my friends about sex except in a general way, I'd never go into detail.

That’s the same. So I don’t really need to keep anything from them.

‘Guess what I did last night?!’ Is never a thing of start with.

Friend :did you see that great documentary last night?:

Me : no. I was being gang banged in a village hall just outside Bognor:"

*The Queue for the till in Asda stopped moving forward for a moment….

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I am a totally open book

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

The clandestine nature of escaping for a naughty weekend away to visit a club is a part of the attraction for us lol

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

I'll likely not use it as a topic of conversation with my granny on Christmas day, but it's not anything I'm ashamed of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll likely not use it as a topic of conversation with my granny on Christmas day, but it's not anything I'm ashamed of "

As a man its ok to chat openly about it but as a couple with 3 kids and a grandchild then it's top secret for us ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blog about it and I’m face out. It’s my life so I don’t see the need to hide it. X

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By *rs Classy SlutCouple
over a year ago

selby

Close trustworthy friends know

Most are jealous lol

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Bit of both… some friends know and fully accept it, others would run for the hills

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..... Don't you worry that , as you have face pics on here, the run for the hills mob might spot you. I was searching "see who's near" button once when staying away and came across a girl well known to my old friends. Now, my best friend knows I perv porn sites, he also knows I've bumped into a couple dogging once, but he doesn't know about my full FAB membership, or my cross dressing, or my bi side. But we now know, but aren't surprised, by the local girls photos. Apparently she used to flash the postmen, delivery guys etc on a fairly regular basis when she was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One friend knows and we might tell more if feels right.

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Open, I am single and very open, although very discreet, people know I swing, but not who with!

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"I'll likely not use it as a topic of conversation with my granny on Christmas day, but it's not anything I'm ashamed of

As a man its ok to chat openly about it but as a couple with 3 kids and a grandchild then it's top secret for us .. "

Granted I've not git grandkids but I do have kids, a business etc to think about. I don't see this lifestyle as something to hide. But I get that everyone has their own view on things

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Secret ,I wouldn't want people at work to know ,I work with some v narrow minded people sadly.

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla. "

But it's swingers who most need to be secretive about their sex lives. So you never know for sure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

secret

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Apart from one friend, it's an absolute and necessary secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to both our employment we both need to be discreet. So it's our sexy little secret...

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By *rincess Peach xxCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx"

Open to some but not family

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I have a couple of friends that know

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By *olfiewv14Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Used to work at foxy adult cinema so most people know never hid the fact where I worked just the fun I had is secret

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

It's my guilty pleasure which I keep complete separate from normal life, so 100% secret. Can be quite funny when out with friends and they talk about sex, threesome fantasies etc and I sit there thinking if only they knew.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Spoke to just one (beautiful but vanilla) female friend about our swinging, and within an hour we were all naked together while I enjoyed some lovely girl on girl time.

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

2 of friends know but mostly secret. I do like having someone to chat about my fun on here.

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By *rmrshorny2Couple
over a year ago

Seaside

Secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open. I have no problem with those I work or socialise with knowing I play in somewhat different circles than them. The more you try to hide from people the more it will end up coming back on you.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Mix of both, I have friends that know and a family member but the rest don't.

Mrs

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It is, and will probably always remain secret for us, unless we happen to bump into anyone we already know through chats, meets of clubs.

I'm not particularly 'ashamed' of it, it's just easier to keep it in its own box and not have it out in the open.

Plus I think me and Mrs sneaking away for naughty nights and weekends and having this secret between us adds something to it in some ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret, no one's business what I do in my private life

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half and half,some family&friends know some dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret

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By *rangarCouple
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

We are fairly open to most especially if they ask....we are poly too so that is obvious from our fb even to non poly/swing/fet friends....dont believe in secrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret for us, not embarrassed one bit just don't think many would understand

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By *rmrshorny2Couple
over a year ago

Seaside

Sometimes that’s very true.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

One or two friends know. Most would judge though. Once out of the box, the secret is impossible to get back in.

Family definitely don't know!

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By *euve4usCouple
over a year ago

Teddington

Secret and very discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Secret and very discreet "

100% agree, with my job I cannot be anything else

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Top secret stuff

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

100% secret stuff due to family and work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t hide it, but I haven’t really “told” anyone in detail

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By *urAlterEgosCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I think our username answers the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to keep private due to jobs

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"I don't make a secret of it. But I don't rub it in people's faces if they disapprove."

Same way really...

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