FabSwingers.com forum: FWB

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

a question, how many can you have

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10 "

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

How many do you want?

I reckon that’s the only question that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

Because they are a FWB not your boyfriend haha You can have as many or as few as you like! Cheek of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

Because they are a FWB not your boyfriend haha You can have as many or as few as you like! Cheek of it.

Sorry, I just assumed boyfriend! Should have said partner

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

As many as you want OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

Just tell him He's misunderstood the assignment and you're searching for his replacement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t know there was a limit?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Just one would be my dreams come true, thank you!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't be able to juggle more than 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't be able to juggle more than 1"

Is one even juggling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on what you and the other is looking for. Communication is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Divided current age by 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" a question, how many can you have

How many do you want?

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

As many as you like OP. I'm still trying to find my first! Didn't realize I was that ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you can have too many...

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By *69meMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I love to have one!

(hopefully more)

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I (Mrs) have 4 FWB, 3 for the last 10 years and another for about 4 years.

I don't see the problem in fact it has lead to some very interesting times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just one would be my dreams come true, thank you!

Me too!

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Would settle with one but if I had looks like you OP I would have as many as I need

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" a question, how many can you have

How many do you want?"

I've one lovely one, but I was just asking how many people thought was acceptable

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By *r DeliveryMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Would love one !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" a question, how many can you have

How many do you want?

I've one lovely one, but I was just asking how many people thought was acceptable

For me a FWB is someone I've know for sometime and meet many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" a question, how many can you have

As many as you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 is the magic number - perfect little triad

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

3/4 I can count on

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

from a womans point of view they are extremely hard to find just finding a regular guy you like is mission almost impossible finding one thats a friend is even harder after all there has to be the sexual attraction for both and then the lines drawn in the sand of whats not on offer so even tho the site is saturated with men its still very very hard ....

those who want to be exclusive dont understand what swinging is (unless you both want exclusive then that of course is right)

good luck and stick to your guns ive had a couple of guys whop i thought oh hell why not come back to bite me on the ass stick to your gut feelings stick to your rules .... and if its any help all 3 of my regular fwb have come from club meets ive never got a guy from any online activity to be regular let alone a fwb ...

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

3 to 5 is doable. Much more than that would be difficult to juggle timewise.

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

As many as you can get if they’re good

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

Sounds like possessive behaviour

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I keep losing mine which is really careless of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

Sounds like possessive behaviour "

Possibly, but he still wants to meet me

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By *nexpscouserMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Boll-ocks to them. Have as many friends as you want with as many benefits as you can get,as long as your enjoying yourself,don’t worry about what anyone thinks/says!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to all that sent a message, maybe I'll get a couple more now lol

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Thank you to all that sent a message, maybe I'll get a couple more now lol

I think you should beautiful. The only limit to FBs is having the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you to all that sent a message, maybe I'll get a couple more now lol

I think you should beautiful. The only limit to FBs is having the time

You know who one of them is, don't you Sweetie x

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

"Thank you to all that sent a message, maybe I'll get a couple more now lol

I think you should beautiful. The only limit to FBs is having the time

and distance

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Thank you to all that sent a message, maybe I'll get a couple more now lol

I think you should beautiful. The only limit to FBs is having the time

You know who one of them is, don't you Sweetie x

I sure do

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

Sounds like possessive behaviour

Possibly, but he still wants to meet me

personally id avoid if hes asking those questions now its a big red flag to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

How does he know you have a FWB?

He might not be a swinger or not want to meet someone with an existing FWB. Just means you're not compatible.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I think you should beautiful. The only limit to FBs is having the time

I dunno, sometimes geography gets in the way a bit too.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Whatever works for you. I have a lover, and did have one FWB and a FB.

FWB got jealous, so stopped seeing him.

FB, rarely had time to meet, so fizzled out.

Would love a new FWB. Guess I'll have to see how things go with my new fab friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

Sounds like possessive behaviour

Possibly, but he still wants to meet me

personally id avoid if hes asking those questions now its a big red flag to me"

I've been thinking, actually it's none of his business really,

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

Sounds like possessive behaviour

Possibly, but he still wants to meet me

personally id avoid if hes asking those questions now its a big red flag to me

I've been thinking, actually it's none of his business really,

just that none of his business

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"I wouldn't be able to juggle more than 1

Is one even juggling?

point!

What I'd like to ask is, for those that said they have more than one, how often do you meet with each?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I think you should beautiful. The only limit to FBs is having the time

I dunno, sometimes geography gets in the way a bit too."

Yes it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness it’s up to you how many fwb your require

If this bloke can’t handle this move on sure there are plenty more on subs bench

Enjoy life live it x

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

"I wouldn't be able to juggle more than 1

Is one even juggling?

point!

What I'd like to ask is, for those that said they have more than one, how often do you meet with each?"

In my case, it was whenever we were both free to meet. Could be once a week for overnight stay, or once a month for quickie in car. Few times we've had entire weekends together.

Tended to play a bit on cam in between

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

" a question, how many can you have

I have a few mostly all in the states as it's not something that guys understand over here.. there isn't a limit that's why it's Friends with benefits.. once either of the two requirements stop so does the status

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I have one lovely FWB but we don't meet up as often as I would like. I am hoping to find another two, possibly one FB and one FWB. One reason I want others is that I don't want to rely on one guy for my sexual needs, and meeting others also means less chance of developing feelings for him. But what works for you, is very much an individual thing and everyone's circumstances are unique.

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

"I wouldn't be able to juggle more than 1

Is one even juggling?

point!

What I'd like to ask is, for those that said they have more than one, how often do you meet with each?"

One I haven't seen in 5 years.. he's in the states £1600 flight 13hrs away, but picked me up from the airport when I arrived and we had a few nights together like it was just yesterday

One I haven't seen in 6+ months who lives 45 min away he says distance time is a factor.

So it very much depends on a lot of factors that both you decide and they decide

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

Sounds like possessive behaviour

Possibly, but he still wants to meet me

personally id avoid if hes asking those questions now its a big red flag to me

I've been thinking, actually it's none of his business really,

It's sounds like you consider him more of a FB than a fwb. If he was a friend you would have chatted with him and discussed what you both wanted.

There is nothing wrong with you wanting more than one just like there is nothing wrong with him wanting to only meet you. It may be just that what you both are looking for is different.If he was actually a friend ye should be able to discuss this together without involving the forums and kinda having a wee laugh at his expense. If he is a friend then chat to him if he is just a fuck buddy then let him know that as well.

I have an amazing fwb and no at the moment I am not doing any new meets due to personal circumstances.If I wanted to though I would tell him before I would even look because he first and foremost a friend.

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10

Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB

As many as you want, he is clearly insecure and threatened by you having the option of other lovers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep losing mine which is really careless of me

Must be death by snu snu

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I had one for about three meets. I don’t think there should be a number. It just depends how the relationship with your FWB goes.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We'd love a couple of couples as fwb but can't see it happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id love one

good company good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still struggling to find one fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one and she is all that I need

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I have a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest one fb or fwb would do me happy Friday you sexy lot x

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By *uchislife66Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm still struggling to find one fwb "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one would do me atm

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"Just one would be my dreams come true, thank you!

I'd have to agree

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"3 is the magic number - perfect little triad

I tend to juggle with three but not always the same three..

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