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"Why do us fellas think sending a dick pic will work? Has it worked in the past? Have any women gave a positive reaction to an unsolicited dick pic? Is it just in our nature to think it's a good idea? Why don't women send fanny pics?" Whoa their nessie. I sent my first dick pic today following a request. It's not all men that send unsolicited dick pics. | |||
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"I don't send them unsolicited but I imagine the mentality is probably to do with the fact that most men would love an unsolicited titty pic or similar. Do gay men enjoy unsolicited dick pics? That might shed some light on the answer." I'm bi and unsolicited dick pics I block straight away. I don't even want solicited dick pics. It's alright in my mouth, not my cloud. Haha they're just funking ugly aren't they. | |||
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"Haha they're just funking ugly aren't they." Not all of them, no. | |||
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"Haha they're just funking ugly aren't they. Not all of them, no. " Alright apart from yours. | |||
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"Haha they're just funking ugly aren't they. Not all of them, no. Alright apart from yours. " Haha, not what I was going for but, I'll take it | |||
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"I don't send "fanny pics" because their ugly plus it's actually illegal to send unsolicited nudes. Don't understand the dick pic mentality, I've started rating them before blocking when received. Mrs " What a great idea! | |||
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"I don't send "fanny pics" because their ugly plus it's actually illegal to send unsolicited nudes." ok i going to ask the question and its a genuine question i know in everyday life that sending a naked pic would be illegal that i totally understand plus new social media laws cam in i think last week .. but what i dont get is how does this apply to being on a adult swinging site and again i may be wrong but when you join this site the surely your accepting there will be lots of adult pics ? or is the illegal bit in the private sending ?? also like said genuine question .. my stance is i like to see a cock pic of the person im meeting (nothing to do with size) but i do agree its to be asked for rather than shoved into your face thats my take ... hopefully someone understands the law of consent with pic sending on a adult site ?? please dont pretend to know lets get the truth so people know the truth | |||
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"I don't send "fanny pics" because their ugly plus it's actually illegal to send unsolicited nudes. ok i going to ask the question and its a genuine question i know in everyday life that sending a naked pic would be illegal that i totally understand plus new social media laws cam in i think last week .. but what i dont get is how does this apply to being on a adult swinging site and again i may be wrong but when you join this site the surely your accepting there will be lots of adult pics ? or is the illegal bit in the private sending ?? also like said genuine question .. my stance is i like to see a cock pic of the person im meeting (nothing to do with size) but i do agree its to be asked for rather than shoved into your face thats my take ... hopefully someone understands the law of consent with pic sending on a adult site ?? please dont pretend to know lets get the truth so people know the truth" Probably the same reason people think it's ok to feel someone up in a Swingers club. That's what they're there for right. | |||
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"I don't send "fanny pics" because their ugly plus it's actually illegal to send unsolicited nudes. ok i going to ask the question and its a genuine question i know in everyday life that sending a naked pic would be illegal that i totally understand plus new social media laws cam in i think last week .. but what i dont get is how does this apply to being on a adult swinging site and again i may be wrong but when you join this site the surely your accepting there will be lots of adult pics ? or is the illegal bit in the private sending ?? also like said genuine question .. my stance is i like to see a cock pic of the person im meeting (nothing to do with size) but i do agree its to be asked for rather than shoved into your face thats my take ... hopefully someone understands the law of consent with pic sending on a adult site ?? please dont pretend to know lets get the truth so people know the truth Probably the same reason people think it's ok to feel someone up in a Swingers club. That's what they're there for right. " ??? what has that to do with my question ? being groped in a club is clear it sexual assault and needs to be called out i just wanted someone in the know what the difference would be if any between a adult web site and social media or any other internet site ? nothing else | |||
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"I'm just trying to understand why. I haven't got an answer but it's pretty common for men to think sending a picture of their cock will get them positive attention. " There are also men who think that virtue signalling will get them positive attention. | |||
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"It’s a useful filter. Basically the digital equivalent of standing in a park with dirty raincoat flashing women as the walk by. " or a swinging club ...oh wait thats ok ..but is it youve not consented to seeing them naked or have you just by going to a swinging club ?? thats why i ask the question of a online adult swinging site ... someone must know or is it a case of greay areas of the law yet again ?? | |||
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"It’s a useful filter. Basically the digital equivalent of standing in a park with dirty raincoat flashing women as the walk by. " | |||
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"I'm just trying to understand why. I haven't got an answer but it's pretty common for men to think sending a picture of their cock will get them positive attention. There are also men who think that virtue signalling will get them positive attention. " You cynic | |||
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"It’s a useful filter. Basically the digital equivalent of standing in a park with dirty raincoat flashing women as the walk by. or a swinging club ...oh wait thats ok ..but is it youve not consented to seeing them naked or have you just by going to a swinging club ?? thats why i ask the question of a online adult swinging site ... someone must know or is it a case of greay areas of the law yet again ??" I think assumption would be at a club you are going to see naked people, you have to reasonably expect it. They still have to respect your boundaries etc. On here, similarly, you expect to see naked people even if that is just profile pictures. Messages including pictures is different though, someone has gone out their way to show you something you didn't ask to see. | |||
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"My gallery has pictures of what I LIKE I don't like having unsolicited dick pics sent and if that's all he has of him I'm not interested. I think guys think that's all they are good for and it works for some women because that's all they want. I enjoy more on a guy than just his dick " would never meet a guy because of his dick but i will turn one down some dicks to me are no go the ones that look like they need a dr / std clinic ...i meet because in my eyes the guy is sexually hot to me | |||
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"Interesting discussion topic OP; everyone is different, we all enjoy what we enjoy and we look for others who may enjoy the same. Some women and couples enjoy stranger fucks, gbs, hotwifing…etc many of whom make judgements based on size, look, of a man’s cock. So comments like ‘…why do guys think anyone would interested in a dick pic..’ are judgemental; actually some do, so if it’s not for you then just delete and move on, making judgements about the man is not really fair, in my view. " You should be a lawyer for the dirty mac park flashers. | |||
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"I'm just trying to understand why. I haven't got an answer but it's pretty common for men to think sending a picture of their cock will get them positive attention. There are also men who think that virtue signalling will get them positive attention. " Absolutely bang on mate. It really is desperate behaviour | |||
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"I'm just trying to understand why. I haven't got an answer but it's pretty common for men to think sending a picture of their cock will get them positive attention. There are also men who think that virtue signalling will get them positive attention. Absolutely bang on mate. It really is desperate behaviour " I'll have you know I've had sex with over 5 women and some of them even had their own teeth. Some people really have to put others down to feel better about themselves. It's sad really. | |||
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"I'm just trying to understand why. I haven't got an answer but it's pretty common for men to think sending a picture of their cock will get them positive attention. There are also men who think that virtue signalling will get them positive attention. Absolutely bang on mate. It really is desperate behaviour I'll have you know I've had sex with over 5 women and some of them even had their own teeth. Some people really have to put others down to feel better about themselves. It's sad really." A little ironic don't you think? | |||
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"Why do us fellas think sending a dick pic will work? Has it worked in the past? Have any women gave a positive reaction to an unsolicited dick pic? Is it just in our nature to think it's a good idea? Why don't women send fanny pics?" It works for some, not for others. Depending of course on who you send it to. Many profiles clearly state not to send them, or that they're not fans of public dick pics, so ignoring a clear statement in a profile isn't going to do you any favours. Others say they actively want to see them, have preferences for certain sizes or cut/uncut for example. The key is to check a profile for any clues - but many don't. People can help themselves by simply reading rather than just looking at pictures and thinking 'ooh I fancy her/him/them - ill send them a cock shot' assuming it'll be well received. Personally I have nothing against a nice, well taken cock pic. Sending one in a message though won't boost anyone's chances or make us more likely to want to meet. We'll make a decision based on a profile in it's entirety rather than just the content of an opening message. Everyone is different of course and you'll never please everyone, so little point in trying. A | |||
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"I'm just trying to understand why. I haven't got an answer but it's pretty common for men to think sending a picture of their cock will get them positive attention. There are also men who think that virtue signalling will get them positive attention. Absolutely bang on mate. It really is desperate behaviour I'll have you know I've had sex with over 5 women and some of them even had their own teeth. Some people really have to put others down to feel better about themselves. It's sad really. A little ironic don't you think? " Can you explain where the irony is here? | |||
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"I’m not sure why men think we want to see 20 pictures of their dick from different angles " Only 20 There are profiles of all genders full of very similar pics, hardly a change of angle or setting. It’s very dull! | |||
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"Why do us fellas think sending a dick pic will work? Has it worked in the past? Have any women gave a positive reaction to an unsolicited dick pic? Is it just in our nature to think it's a good idea? Why don't women send fanny pics?" I don't send .. why would I need to | |||
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"Why do us fellas think sending a dick pic will work? Has it worked in the past? " Clearly so. "Why don't women send fanny pics?" They do, or are you just naive? | |||
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"If we get a message, we like to see a doc pic included either in the profile or with any pics sent. Dick picks are good " Brilliant comment x it's nice to see a re ally sexy horny couple like yourselves on here who are not afraid to speak their minds x | |||
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"I haven't sent one for years. Never get asked and to be honest I don't see the appeal in sending one because I feel its nothing a woman hasn't seen before and besides they must be sick of receiving them online. I know there are size Queens who want to see a big one and I could make mine look huge with angles lol but that would just be false advertising." Bless ya | |||
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"I haven't sent one for years. Never get asked and to be honest I don't see the appeal in sending one because I feel its nothing a woman hasn't seen before and besides they must be sick of receiving them online. I know there are size Queens who want to see a big one and I could make mine look huge with angles lol but that would just be false advertising." Trust me so many men lie about their cock sizes. But luckily I seen nearly a million dick pics to be able to tell when they're lying lol | |||
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"I don't send "fanny pics" because their ugly plus it's actually illegal to send unsolicited nudes. ok i going to ask the question and its a genuine question i know in everyday life that sending a naked pic would be illegal that i totally understand plus new social media laws cam in i think last week .. but what i dont get is how does this apply to being on a adult swinging site and again i may be wrong but when you join this site the surely your accepting there will be lots of adult pics ? or is the illegal bit in the private sending ?? also like said genuine question .. my stance is i like to see a cock pic of the person im meeting (nothing to do with size) but i do agree its to be asked for rather than shoved into your face thats my take ... hopefully someone understands the law of consent with pic sending on a adult site ?? please dont pretend to know lets get the truth so people know the truth" I guess it's expected to be seen on an adult site doesn't bother me at all on someone's profile but as I've withdrawn consent on my profile and requested they are not sent via private messaging I would see as inappropriate. Mrs | |||
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"If I never see another unsolicited dick pick again I will be a happy woman. It’s the reason I’m taking a break from this place and reduced my profile completely. I wish Fab would filter and block first messages that were solely of a dick. " If you delete 'men' off your looking for list it takes you off their searches. | |||
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"Why do us fellas think sending a dick pic will work? Has it worked in the past? Clearly so. Why don't women send fanny pics? They do, or are you just naive?" I meant in the same context as random dick pics and you know that. You just wanted to have a little dig at the lad who's much less attractive than you. Hope you feel great about that. There's lots of nasty people on here isn't there? | |||
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"Why do us fellas think sending a dick pic will work? Has it worked in the past? Have any women gave a positive reaction to an unsolicited dick pic? Is it just in our nature to think it's a good idea? Why don't women send fanny pics?" When I was single, I received numerous unsolicited dick pics, which I found just tasteless and irritating. Guys seemed to think that becasue I was single I must be gagging for it and would take up any random offer of a fuck. I didn't even know it was technically against the law. If I don't find some sort of connection with a guy, then anything other than chat is out. J and I chatted for a good couple of months before the convo turned a bit fruity, and it was another few months after that before we went down the explicit pics and vids route, I guess once we knew we trusted each other. Don't get me wrong, I love perving at pics on Fab, but being sent uninvited pics is such a turn off Mrs | |||
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"I haven't sent one for years. Never get asked and to be honest I don't see the appeal in sending one because I feel its nothing a woman hasn't seen before and besides they must be sick of receiving them online. I know there are size Queens who want to see a big one and I could make mine look huge with angles lol but that would just be false advertising. Bless ya " Yeah and it's surprising how many men with short, skinny little average size cocks think they're "hung" | |||
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"I tend to ignore messages that don’t have one on profile or attached….. " Love that attitude | |||
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"If I had a penny for every unsolicited dick pic I've received..... well I'd almost be able to afford my utility bills " | |||
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"I'm just trying to understand why. I haven't got an answer but it's pretty common for men to think sending a picture of their cock will get them positive attention. " Well OP I looked at your profile and you do have nice dick pics (which I like to see generally, kinda what's underneath the bonnet)... But TBH I'm more impressed by your hairy chest... So manly! | |||
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"I'm just trying to understand why. I haven't got an answer but it's pretty common for men to think sending a picture of their cock will get them positive attention. There are also men who think that virtue signalling will get them positive attention. Absolutely bang on mate. It really is desperate behaviour " Is that an example of virtue counter signalling? | |||
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"My gallery has pictures of what I LIKE I don't like having unsolicited dick pics sent and if that's all he has of him I'm not interested. I think guys think that's all they are good for and it works for some women because that's all they want. I enjoy more on a guy than just his dick would never meet a guy because of his dick but i will turn one down some dicks to me are no go the ones that look like they need a dr / std clinic ...i meet because in my eyes the guy is sexually hot to me" Same experience has taught us to check in advance. There's a number of dick photos on here where it's absolutely clear that an immediate trip to the GP or GUM clinic needs to happen asap. Also if you have seen 1 you have seen them all is utter bollocks. Some cocks are very aesthetically pleasing whilst some are....well let's just says they's no fucking way you put it anywhere near your mouth. Size is not the main reason (at all) why we want to see a dick picture in advance. You can see from many of the photos wether the guy takes pride and care down there or as in many cases on here doesn't. So add us to the list who don't mind dick pictures and consider it vital before any potential meet. Experience has taught us that guys those who totally refuse to send one it almost always turns out there was on obvious reason (not necessarily size) why they would share. KJ | |||
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"I don't see the point in sending one as I have them on my profile. But women definitely send their fanny pics without asking and it doesn't bother me" Those women know their audience... Or they are other men, sending fanny pics in the hope of a little wank chat... Then they disappear into thin air! | |||
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"I don't see the point in sending one as I have them on my profile. But women definitely send their fanny pics without asking and it doesn't bother me Those women know their audience... Or they are other men, sending fanny pics in the hope of a little wank chat... Then they disappear into thin air! " No doubt most if not all of them who are sending those pics are men with female accounts | |||
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"My gallery has pictures of what I LIKE I don't like having unsolicited dick pics sent and if that's all he has of him I'm not interested. I think guys think that's all they are good for and it works for some women because that's all they want. I enjoy more on a guy than just his dick would never meet a guy because of his dick but i will turn one down some dicks to me are no go the ones that look like they need a dr / std clinic ...i meet because in my eyes the guy is sexually hot to me Same experience has taught us to check in advance. There's a number of dick photos on here where it's absolutely clear that an immediate trip to the GP or GUM clinic needs to happen asap. Also if you have seen 1 you have seen them all is utter bollocks. Some cocks are very aesthetically pleasing whilst some are....well let's just says they's no fucking way you put it anywhere near your mouth. Size is not the main reason (at all) why we want to see a dick picture in advance. You can see from many of the photos wether the guy takes pride and care down there or as in many cases on here doesn't. So add us to the list who don't mind dick pictures and consider it vital before any potential meet. Experience has taught us that guys those who totally refuse to send one it almost always turns out there was on obvious reason (not necessarily size) why they would share. KJ" Good point. | |||
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"If I get a dick pic in my inbox before either I ask for it or they ask consent to send it, I assume that they think it is the most interesting thing about them and block them for being dull." This is spot on. | |||
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"Why do us fellas think sending a dick pic will work? Has it worked in the past? Have any women gave a positive reaction to an unsolicited dick pic? Is it just in our nature to think it's a good idea? Why don't women send fanny pics?" Because a lot of guys think with their dick and want to show how big their brains are. But seriously, most messages we get are sent with a dick pic even althoughit states on our profile no dick pics, it gets tiring, would rather see their face. Most of the time we block these people even couples send sick pics | |||
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