FabSwingers.com forum: Faces Why are people hung up

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

dunno about anybody else but id quite like to like the face im kissing

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

so you would be sensual with anybody ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

dunno about anybody else but id quite like to like the face im kissing "

Definitely it's about the whole package and looks are part of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

I'm not,,,,,!!!

If I was, I'd join a dating site!

But I do respect some swingers need an element of facial attraction to make it appealing...

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By *winkletoes80Woman
over a year ago

redditch

I have to be attracted to the person I'm meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This an't e harmony mate

Most on here are not looking for a deep a meaningful conversation they are looking to Fuck people they're attracted to.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"This an't e harmony mate

Most on here are not looking for a deep a meaningful conversation they are looking to Fuck people they're attracted to."

Now, that's where most men and women differ! I need to be attracted to someone I was going to have sex with!

I like to think it's called standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't see a face isn't it a blind date?

We would rather see a face than 'bits'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

silly question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met a couple of men on a dating site once without seeing their face pic first

and they were quite scarey looking.

i think you can tell a lot about a person by looking at their face.

most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My only rule is cleanliness looks size shape are irrelevant we are only here once and for a relatively short tome !!! I want to share as much fun with all different types of people as I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this place isnt some safe haven from reality. the same rules apply onhere as they do off here brah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we ever did meet we would much rather meet a face than a cock, I couldnt imagine Morrigan going around asking all the guys to flop their bits out so she could compare it to a photo!

Facial attraction would be a must sorry x

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Shape and size is kinda irrelevant for the most part with us (i wont lie its nice to have it all and if you dont ask..) but i personally have to be "facially" attracted to the person or its just not going to work and its nice to have sort of standards in this surely?!

My only gripe with this is people looking completely different in person to their photos! Drives me nuts.

Mrs x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well not everyone goes for anything. I go for personality but im not about to shag quasimodo, cause hes got a nice personality. Its a package.

Anyway no one can see if they are attracted to you or not as you dont have a picture up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having a nice face is important to me

personally i don't see any issue with people being shallow in terms of what they seek physically

outside of the forums and the friends i have made as a result, i am here for physical encounters and exchanges with like minded people

i am not here to form a loving relationships with someone with a face like a smacked arse - irregardless of how nice a person they may be !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

so could you be sensual with anybody no matter what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it less shallow to meet someone for what they look like rather than arrange a meet because you have seen they have a big cock or a big pair of tits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to be attracted to the people we're with. IF you have a body to die for but a face like a kicked in snap tin...sorry.

It might be deemed as shallow by some, but look at it the other way round..Pretty face, not the body you go for...would you?

This goes back to the ridiculous notion some people have that as a swinger, you MUST shag anyone and everyone.

People have their own likes and dislikes, and those who refuse to accept that are in our minds the shallow ones.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

For us.....face would overcome all......very important.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How annoying is this subject! Unless you are happy to fuck anything or anyone then everyone's shallow going off your statement! It's called physical attraction!

Some people don't find fat people sexy and others are the same about skinny people. That doesn't make them shallow at all! It's called having a preferance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

depends in what way you mean

In day to day like i dont care how someone looks, i dont choose my friends or who i talk to by their face

However if i'm having sex with someone i need to be attracted to them, visual is very important to geting turned on, if you dislike someones face how are you going to get turned on looking into their eyes while kissing them?

its not shallow to want to be attracted to who your having sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to be attracted to the people we're with. IF you have a body to die for but a face like a kicked in snap tin...sorry.

It might be deemed as shallow by some, but look at it the other way round..Pretty face, not the body you go for...would you?

This goes back to the ridiculous notion some people have that as a swinger, you MUST shag anyone and everyone.

People have their own likes and dislikes, and those who refuse to accept that are in our minds the shallow ones."

Spot on

I completely agree. I was messaged as part of a couple when I arranged a gangbang by someone who after I told them no they replied "why not? it's a gangbang". WTF he was implying that because it was a gangbang that it didn't matter what they looked like! What planet do some people live on??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have had some great meets with women who are fantastic at making love who are not deemed attractive by societies so called norms my moto is to keep a very open mind for me It really is about the soul lurking behind the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like people to have teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How annoying is this subject! Unless you are happy to fuck anything or anyone then everyone's shallow going off your statement! It's called physical attraction!

Some people don't find fat people sexy and others are the same about skinny people. That doesn't make them shallow at all! It's called having a preferance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like people to have teeth."

their own ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had some great meets with women who are fantastic at making love who are not deemed attractive by societies so called norms my moto is to keep a very open mind for me It really is about the soul lurking behind the face "

my moto is the first bites with the eye

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Surely you have to have some sort of attraction though I know we do.

You (OP) say that life is too short to worry but surley if you met up with someone with only one plug tooth, fag hangin from her gob and more spots than a dalmation you would not want to have anything to do with it???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like people to have teeth.

their own ?

Preferably! Not someone elses in a bag under the stairs in some weird re-enactment of 'Silence Of The Lambs'.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

The jokes about shagging people with carrier bags on their head,are just that ...jokes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This an't e harmony mate

Most on here are not looking for a deep a meaningful conversation they are looking to Fuck people they're attracted to.

Now, that's where most men and women differ! I need to be attracted to someone I was going to have sex with!

I like to think it's called standards

But if you got a pic of someone who looked like Kermit the frog. Would you stop a think hold on maybe they got a nice personality, or do you pick the best looking then see what they have to say?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Imagine god forbid you suddenly woke with a permanent facial disfigurement would you still feel as shallow personality is the real beauty and it is enhanced with time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine god forbid you suddenly woke with a permanent facial disfigurement would you still feel as shallow personality is the real beauty and it is enhanced with time "

This isn't a dating site. We are already married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

It's about being attracted to the person - I love a nice smile and beautiful eyes - both of these things can easily get me going as much as a hot body can. I don't think it's shallow at all - just natural.

Flip the coin over a second - what if someone said - face isn't important at - all I'm interested in is her body - now that would seem a little shallow to me. But then, it's a personal thing and we can't criticise others for their legitimate personal tastes can we ...unless of course they are morally reprehensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine god forbid you suddenly woke with a permanent facial disfigurement would you still feel as shallow personality is the real beauty and it is enhanced with time "

i dont understand why you think having sexual preferences is shallow?

To be honest if someone didnt find me attractive i would sooner them say no thank you to me than fuck me anyway, i would feel very unhappy if someone played with me who didnt find me attractive

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"This an't e harmony mate

Most on here are not looking for a deep a meaningful conversation they are looking to Fuck people they're attracted to.

Now, that's where most men and women differ! I need to be attracted to someone I was going to have sex with!

I like to think it's called standards

But if you got a pic of someone who looked like Kermit the frog. Would you stop a think hold on maybe they got a nice personality, or do you pick the best looking then see what they have to say?"

No, I wouldn't stop and think I wonder if he has a nice personality!

If I am not attracted to them then I am not attracted to them! It is as simple as that!

I don't pick the best looking as the chemistry need to be there as well, so as previous people have said, the 'package' needs to be there.

A pretty boy who can not stimulate my mind, most certainly will not be able to stimulate my body, so that would be a no from me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what if you meet people who you think are quite ugly because you say to yourself looks arent important then when you get to know them you find out they are not nice people at all.

so sometimes you can judge a book by its cover.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Imagine god forbid you suddenly woke with a permanent facial disfigurement would you still feel as shallow personality is the real beauty and it is enhanced with time "

I went out with a guy for two years that had awful scars, he had been through a car window screen and had 54 stitches in his face. They where very deep and visible but after a time i forgot they where there.

You have to like the look of someone and disfigaments doesnt automatically make some one unattractive. Look at katie (can remember her last name)Being attracted to someone doesnt mean they have to be drop dead gorgeous but you have to be attracted physically as well as mentally.

Im fat so am i supposed to be worried that people dont find me attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us.....face would overcome all......very important....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This an't e harmony mate

Most on here are not looking for a deep a meaningful conversation they are looking to Fuck people they're attracted to.

Now, that's where most men and women differ! I need to be attracted to someone I was going to have sex with!

I like to think it's called standards

But if you got a pic of someone who looked like Kermit the frog. Would you stop a think hold on maybe they got a nice personality, or do you pick the best looking then see what they have to say?

No, I wouldn't stop and think I wonder if he has a nice personality!

If I am not attracted to them then I am not attracted to them! It is as simple as that!

I don't pick the best looking as the chemistry need to be there as well, so as previous people have said, the 'package' needs to be there.

A pretty boy who can not stimulate my mind, most certainly will not be able to stimulate my body, so that would be a no from me as well

So looks then see what they have to say, I get what your saying they do have to have both. But first It's the pic then the personality.

If you don't like the pic, say no thanks, delete,

if you like the pic but not what their saying, say no thanks, delete,

if you like the pic and what their saying, say yes please, keep

Is that right? That's the way I do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why single guys get a bad reutation on here- we seriously cannot believe anyone would dream of such a post !

If it's a serious question then the op should be ashamed of himself - the notion that one would shag anything is repulsive to the extreme .

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Now, that's where most men and women differ! I need to be attracted to someone I was going to have sex with!

I like to think it's called standards

But if you got a pic of someone who looked like Kermit the frog. Would you stop a think hold on maybe they got a nice personality, or do you pick the best looking then see what they have to say?

No, I wouldn't stop and think I wonder if he has a nice personality!

If I am not attracted to them then I am not attracted to them! It is as simple as that!

I don't pick the best looking as the chemistry need to be there as well, so as previous people have said, the 'package' needs to be there.

A pretty boy who can not stimulate my mind, most certainly will not be able to stimulate my body, so that would be a no from me as well

So looks then see what they have to say, I get what your saying they do have to have both. But first It's the pic then the personality.

If you don't like the pic, say no thanks, delete,

if you like the pic but not what their saying, say no thanks, delete,

if you like the pic and what their saying, say yes please, keep

Is that right? That's the way I do it."

Yeap, that's about right, I don't see it as rocket science, it's just what works for me and long may it continue

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"My only rule is cleanliness looks size shape are irrelevant we are only here once and for a relatively short tome !!! I want to share as much fun with all different types of people as I can "

Or, you'll nail anything in a skirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

it doesn't matter if you're a cutie. If on the other hand you're a bit of a munter .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will think fuck anything and that's their choice. You can't complain if other people don't share that _iew every hole isn't a goal for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This an't e harmony mate

Most on here are not looking for a deep a meaningful conversation they are looking to Fuck people they're attracted to.

Now, that's where most men and women differ! I need to be attracted to someone I was going to have sex with!

I like to think it's called standards

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"This an't e harmony mate

Most on here are not looking for a deep a meaningful conversation they are looking to Fuck people they're attracted to.

Now, that's where most men and women differ! I need to be attracted to someone I was going to have sex with!

I like to think it's called standards

But if you got a pic of someone who looked like Kermit the frog. Would you stop a think hold on maybe they got a nice personality, or do you pick the best looking then see what they have to say?"

Looks ARE important whether we like it or not. How many times do you look across at a person in a bar who you aren't physically attracted to and think...'ooooh, I bet they've got a nice personality' ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now, that's where most men and women differ! I need to be attracted to someone I was going to have sex with!

I like to think it's called standards

But if you got a pic of someone who looked like Kermit the frog. Would you stop a think hold on maybe they got a nice personality, or do you pick the best looking then see what they have to say?

No, I wouldn't stop and think I wonder if he has a nice personality!

If I am not attracted to them then I am not attracted to them! It is as simple as that!

I don't pick the best looking as the chemistry need to be there as well, so as previous people have said, the 'package' needs to be there.

A pretty boy who can not stimulate my mind, most certainly will not be able to stimulate my body, so that would be a no from me as well

So looks then see what they have to say, I get what your saying they do have to have both. But first It's the pic then the personality.

If you don't like the pic, say no thanks, delete,

if you like the pic but not what their saying, say no thanks, delete,

if you like the pic and what their saying, say yes please, keep

Is that right? That's the way I do it.

Yeap, that's about right, I don't see it as rocket science, it's just what works for me and long may it continue

I should have said it that way in my first post coz that's what I meant by it lol.

I'm not too good at expressing what I mean sometimes, I kind of think oh they'll know what I thinking, I forget people an't telepathic. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well not everyone goes for anything. I go for personality but im not about to shag quasimodo, cause hes got a nice personality. "

..... but would you fuck me if I ironed me 'ump

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

are darkrooms in clubs empty ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But if you got a pic of someone who looked like Kermit the frog. Would you stop a think hold on maybe they got a nice personality, or do you pick the best looking then see what they have to say?"

Not sure about Kermy but I'd definately shag Miss Piggy. I like a woman with an attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preference is fine but people saying they wouldn't fuck someone who isn't attractive because they have standards is insulting. Is it only attractive pretty or good looking people who should have sex?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Surely you have to have some sort of attraction though I know we do.

My ex husband's 2nd wife is on Fab??? What's the profile???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personal preference is fine but people saying they wouldn't fuck someone who isn't attractive because they have standards is insulting. Is it only attractive pretty or good looking people who should have sex? "

No of course not. I think what people are saying - well I am, at least - is being attracted to the person is important and for me and others, I suspect, some one's face is an important part of that attraction. I don't think we should apologise for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think Johnny Depp and Brad Pitt are nothing special. Good thing there is at least one women out there who disagrees and would be willing to have a roll in the old hay with 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...yes with the light on. Ugly people should make sure it is pitch dark.

(to avoid any confusion this is a joke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course it's not insulting. Attractiveness is subjective. What's attractive to one person wont necasserally be attractive to someone else

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

how many of these answers are based on how you select today, all your sex life or are concerned that if you say 'you would shag someone whose face you are not attracted to' would put off potential meets on here

I think a mix of all 3 happens on these types of threads...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People saying they wouldn't fuck someone who isn't attractive is not insulting at all .

Their standards are there for them to base what will do it for them .

Fortunately we all have different perceptions as to what is attractive and we all have standards based on that .

What is insulting is the suggestion that we should shag anyone even if we feel they are unattractive !!!

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

I find it funny that this sort of thread is usually started by a single male.

Could it be he is sick of knock backs,

and considers any hole a goal

and women are here just to satisfy him

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"So looks then see what they have to say, I get what your saying they do have to have both. But first It's the pic then the personality.

If you don't like the pic, say no thanks, delete,

if you like the pic but not what their saying, say no thanks, delete,

if you like the pic and what their saying, say yes please, keep

Is that right? That's the way I do it.

Yeap, that's about right, I don't see it as rocket science, it's just what works for me and long may it continue

I should have said it that way in my first post coz that's what I meant by it lol.

I'm not too good at expressing what I mean sometimes, I kind of think oh they'll know what I thinking, I forget people an't telepathic. Lol.

No, we're not lol but you got there in the end!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I find it funny that this sort of thread is usually started by a single male.

Could it be he is sick of knock backs,

and considers any hole a goal

and women are here just to satisfy him "

Never! What on earth gave you that idea??

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"This an't e harmony mate

Most on here are not looking for a deep a meaningful conversation they are looking to Fuck people they're attracted to."

You cannot determine for people who they are interested in. This is merely your opinion. It just so happens that some people disagree with that opinion. I do not just want to fuck anyone. If I am not attracted to them - and I mean physically, facially and in terms of personality - then there will be no meet whatsoever. That is entirely MY decision. I am not looking for deep and meaningful so I feel that a little shallowness is perfectly in keeping with what this site is all about.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"My only rule is cleanliness looks size shape are irrelevant we are only here once and for a relatively short tome !!! I want to share as much fun with all different types of people as I can "

This just sounds like desperation to be honest.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

By that yardstick, anyone on this site who is not willing to shag anyone else, regardless of how they look is NOT open-minded? Thanks mate! Gave me a right laugh that did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find eyes and lips on a woman a massive turn on ,so yeah a womans face is important to me,and can tell more about a person by looking into their eyes than their bumhole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to have a nice face xx i am not laying back thinking of England ..

why should we ?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Just looked at the profile of somebody who looked at us today, and they're both scowling at the camera... so, forget it! A smile costs nothing and makes plain people look better - so why look like you've just lost a fortune on a horse-race?

Maybe some people don't have anything to smile about?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

Spose that means you would kiss male or female then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

dunno about anybody else but id quite like to like the face im kissing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how we feels at the time, we are not desperate so dont shag anything!

Its the whole package thats a turn on

But each to thier own, in our opinion singles are not swingers, but thats another argument for another time...

Just have fun however and whoever you chose "to do"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swingers site. we're here for sex. we have no problem with being shallow.

can't speak for the 'every hole's a goal' crowd tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

i will happily admit to being shallow! each to their own and all that!

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By *ekyllandHydeCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Why would you want to fuck someone you ain't attracted to - have some respect for yourself too and have some standards!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Imagine god forbid you suddenly woke with a permanent facial disfigurement would you still feel as shallow personality is the real beauty and it is enhanced with time "

for as much as personality can conquer a lot of things... if a person isn't attracted to you then they just aren't attracted to you..... it is as simple as that...

see... why would you want to play with someone that you are not attracted to, there is no "taking one for the team here".....

you are going to be attractive to some but not others, your personality is going to be attractive to some but not others... such is life!

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

"This an't e harmony mate

Most on here are not looking for a deep a meaningful conversation they are looking to Fuck people they're attracted to.

Now, that's where most men and women differ! I need to be attracted to someone I was going to have sex with!

I like to think it's called standards

I don't think women and men differ in this regard, since I agree with you!

I have to find whoever I am gonna sleep with attractive! It's called biology!!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't meaning an attraction between the two people but some on here are saying they would only fuck good looking people because they have standards. I hope someone says to them that they are below standard.

At the end it's only sex not a lifelong commitment to them. Some make it into a big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is attractive tho?

All because i look at someone and may not want to have sex with them because i dont fancy them does not mean you would think the same, you may think someone i see as unatractive nice looking

Theres no such thing as a ugly person, ugly people are just people YOU dont find attractive

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

At the end it's only sex not a lifelong commitment to them. Some make it into a big deal. "

It is quite a big deal for us. I dont think theres anything wrong that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the standards bit I object to. It implies they arnt as good as them. If you don't find someone attractive that's fine.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

You seem to be reading too much into the word standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the standards bit I object to. It implies they arnt as good as them. If you don't find someone attractive that's fine. "

Standards are subjective, They're not based on fairness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine god forbid you suddenly woke with a permanent facial disfigurement would you still feel as shallow personality is the real beauty and it is enhanced with time

for as much as personality can conquer a lot of things... if a person isn't attracted to you then they just aren't attracted to you..... it is as simple as that...

see... why would you want to play with someone that you are not attracted to, there is no "taking one for the team here".....

you are going to be attractive to some but not others, your personality is going to be attractive to some but not others... such is life!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to be in the same bed as a woman who looked like Jimmy Saville would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow.. Everyone has different tastes in what they find attractive.. Is that hard to comprehend op?

U also said u been with what society deems ugly woman but it was good sex.. Well aint gonna work for me! Most of what's good sex is finding the person attractive, if I don't I will just feel replused and I would rather be celibate than spend the rest of my life shagging people I find unattractive!

U say we only live once.. Well there is a lot more to my life than where the next shag is coming from! So I feel I am living it thanks

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

Well think probably best we all continue being shallow and getting turned on and horny with people we find attractive. and having wonderful exciting sex with them.. and you op can have all the ones that us shallow people don't find attractive.. so everyones happy no need to continue the thread now .. all sorted..

Op.. imagine you are gonna be busy as well.. so better eat your spinach ... lol

Oh we don't do sympathy shags or shag with our eyes shut.. gotta be a turn on... its not shag in the community for all the poor sods that feel their looks are stopping them getting any.. god i think i have heard it a now.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Heres a question to the op

There are three women lined up who want to have sex with you. Youve never spoken to them but can obviosly see them Your only allowed to choose one to have sex with. How would you choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heres a question to the op

There are three women lined up who want to have sex with you. Youve never spoken to them but can obviosly see them Your only allowed to choose one to have sex with. How would you choose"

the one with the biggest tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is attractive tho?

All because i look at someone and may not want to have sex with them because i dont fancy them does not mean you would think the same, you may think someone i see as unatractive nice looking

Theres no such thing as a ugly person, ugly people are just people YOU dont find attractive"

The people that I find attractive won't be the same as someone else.

A face is part of the package. Otherwise just shag people with bags on their heads?!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

on the bi guy thread, guys are posting galore saying there is no attraction to the guy, just a cock

yet on this thread... and similar to this, it is all must be attraction, must be attraction.......

the way contradiction works is bizarre

obv, not from all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all, some very interesting _iews I think what I'm trying to establish is why you place so much importance on how someone's face looks when making your selections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

A thread coming from some one with only cock pics

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Attraction is a personal thing and different people find different things a turn on or off.

It's not shallow to want to be attracted to a person you're going to have sex with.

If you were looking for someone to spend your life with and only wanting someone based on their appearance and nothing else, that would be shallow.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Thanks all, some very interesting _iews I think what I'm trying to establish is why you place so much importance on how someone's face looks when making your selections "

because there has to be an attraction a turn on to have hot horny sexy times... however what the face looks like probably doesn't matter if you just want to meet people to play scrabble with. But if you are meeting with the intention to kiss and fuck someone then i don't want to be in a position where i would rather snog the dog.. doesn't take a brain surgeon to work it out..surely..!

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"Well not everyone goes for anything. I go for personality but im not about to shag quasimodo, cause hes got a nice personality.

Damn, thats me out then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"on the bi guy thread, guys are posting galore saying there is no attraction to the guy, just a cock

yet on this thread... and similar to this, it is all must be attraction, must be attraction.......

the way contradiction works is bizarre

obv, not from all x"

Not a contridiction, men and woman think differently and if a man wants to get with a woman he needs to understand that

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

obv, not from all x

Not a contridiction, men and woman think differently and if a man wants to get with a woman he needs to understand that"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all, some very interesting _iews I think what I'm trying to establish is why you place so much importance on how someone's face looks when making your selections "

And u should have ur answer ten fold now

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By *msmithWoman
over a year ago

bristol

Face pic is like a screening process, especially for girls.. There's just so many guys on here that we do get to choose.. I'm not greedy, so, if there's 10 different apples in front of me, of course I'll only pick the best one out of the 10.. Not going to eat all of them, just because I can..

And have to say, the more picky I become the better looking the guys I meet..

And yes, as many have said, since its 'just' physical, it is quite obvious that looks and physical attraction is important.. If I wanted a boyfriend, yes I'll look at other things as well, i.e. personality, career, hair lines, etc..

But since, it's just a physical thing, the first thing I consider is going to be face pic..

And yes, as shallow and cruel as it sounds like, the truth is, people who are better looking do get more out of this site than others.. No one wants to be the one saying it, but it's the truth.. That being said, being nice also matters..

I've met some nice people and I've met some really naughty and hot men..

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

dunno about anybody else but id quite like to like the face im kissing "

Yes exactly and it's not about this person is attractive and this person is not ... it's about this person is attractive to me and that person is attractive to her and so on. Different strokes, I don't like conventionally good looking guys and have a things about nice mouths and teeth, another person might get off on blue eyes, another might like dark chaps ... blah blah blah ... this is nothing new it's just chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry atthe end of the days this is a nsa sex site. If you care about personality go to plenty of fish

If you want mates go to facebook

Me and amy have friends have each other and we are here to fuck

If the person is good looking but a cow i dont care im fucking her not taking her to see my mother

If they are cool thats great and we have mates and added ppl on facebook that we met here etc but lets be honest we are here for a fuck, for our own pleasure, so surely looks are all that matter?

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Socials and clubs are great for anyone who thinks they aren't part of the 'pretty club ' because you interact with people and an attraction based on other things than looks can and does win out.

I've played with people I've met at clubs and socials that I've passed up when just seeing a picture of them. The picture didn't attract me but meeting in a club and flirting and laughing made a previously unattractive person, attractive.

Swinging can be seen as shallow, but if you're willing to do a bit more than log on line, then almost everyone can have fun

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

"This an't e harmony mate

Most on here are not looking for a deep a meaningful conversation they are looking to Fuck people they're attracted to."

That's a bit of a sweeping statement. I don't think any of us have the poll on the percentages of who wants what, and most of the profiles I read are looking for people who they click with to have for playmates on a repeated basis and that's what I look for too. I have a collection of toys if I need to 'fill a hole', I meet people to connect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

"
Have you ever had shrek turn up with green teeth too ?. Sensual go s out the window running like hell springs to mind , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

Have you ever had shrek turn up with green teeth too ?. Sensual go s out the window running like hell springs to mind , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about the face for me sori. More important than body parts or what their like in the sack.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"How annoying is this subject! Unless you are happy to fuck anything or anyone then everyone's shallow going off your statement! It's called physical attraction!

Some people don't find fat people sexy and others are the same about skinny people. That doesn't make them shallow at all! It's called having a preferance.

You'd think so wouldn't you!

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

"Thanks all, some very interesting _iews I think what I'm trying to establish is why you place so much importance on how someone's face looks when making your selections "

Because that's how we are wired as human beings. We find people attractive based on their looks/face. It's been proven time and time again by science.

You get turned on by someone you find attractive and that's how it works..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im sorry atthe end of the days this is a nsa sex site. If you care about personality go to plenty of fish

If you want mates go to facebook

Me and amy have friends have each other and we are here to fuck

If the person is good looking but a cow i dont care im fucking her not taking her to see my mother

If they are cool thats great and we have mates and added ppl on facebook that we met here etc but lets be honest we are here for a fuck, for our own pleasure, so surely looks are all that matter?"

Thank you for telling us all how to use the site. Very kind of you.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

It's personal choice - I wouldn't find a person sexually attractive if I didn't find them attractive looking - wouldn't be able to be sensual with someone i thought to be ugly - and it's all relative and in the eye of the beholder - one mans meat is another man's poison! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im sorry atthe end of the days this is a nsa sex site. If you care about personality go to plenty of fish

If you want mates go to facebook

Me and amy have friends have each other and we are here to fuck

If the person is good looking but a cow i dont care im fucking her not taking her to see my mother

If they are cool thats great and we have mates and added ppl on facebook that we met here etc but lets be honest we are here for a fuck, for our own pleasure, so surely looks are all that matter?"

that and how good their tongue is

no good being good looking if your clusless in the sack is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be turned on by someone I didn't find physically attractive so certainly wouldn't have sex with them. To me, that's the norm so to think people have sex with others who they don't necessarily find attractive, to me is odd. Everyone is different though I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im sorry atthe end of the days this is a nsa sex site. If you care about personality go to plenty of fish

If you want mates go to facebook

Me and amy have friends have each other and we are here to fuck

If the person is good looking but a cow i dont care im fucking her not taking her to see my mother

If they are cool thats great and we have mates and added ppl on facebook that we met here etc but lets be honest we are here for a fuck, for our own pleasure, so surely looks are all that matter?

that and how good their tongue is

no good being good looking if your clusless in the sack is it

Cant tell that till during the act though :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im sorry atthe end of the days this is a nsa sex site. If you care about personality go to plenty of fish

If you want mates go to facebook

Me and amy have friends have each other and we are here to fuck

If the person is good looking but a cow i dont care im fucking her not taking her to see my mother

If they are cool thats great and we have mates and added ppl on facebook that we met here etc but lets be honest we are here for a fuck, for our own pleasure, so surely looks are all that matter?

that and how good their tongue is

no good being good looking if your clusless in the sack is it

I'm more sexually satisfied just playing with what I class a hot and him just lay there than to have someone I find unattractive who as u say knows the moves. Yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so why have pictures at all?

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

So you would fuck anything as long as it had a pulse? Do you not need to be attracted to someone to have sex with them?

Daft question, of course its important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

face pic is a must...no good having a body to die for then turning up with teeth like a burnt out fuse box

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I have to be attracted to the person I'm meeting "

Totally agree

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

For me/us to want to get naked then there has to be an attraction. If that's makes us shallow, then tough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all, some very interesting _iews I think what I'm trying to establish is why you place so much importance on how someone's face looks when making your selections "

I love sensual kissing and looking into someone's eyes as you have fun. To do this I have to be attracted to them. I am not saying they have to be drop dead gorgeous, but something has to spark for me to be interested. I do value a personality too and especially a sense of humour. So a bit of looks and personality works for me.

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

Methinks the OP is plug ugly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so ugly I have to tie a pork chop around my neck just so our dog will kiss me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Methinks the OP is plug ugly!

He he sooo profound !!!

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

"If the person is good looking but a cow i dont care im fucking her not taking her to see my mother"

Forgive me, but where's the joy in 'fucking a cow'?

If the swinging lifestyle is purely about how many women I can penetrate irrespective of their personal qualities then I'll stick to my handy Fleshlight, thank you.

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Methinks the OP is plug ugly!

He he sooo profound !!!

..been called some things in my life!

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By *itaxxxniteWoman
over a year ago

Carthage

For me, sexual attraction starts with being visually attracted to a man or couple.

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

What an odd post, the first thing you see idms the face of course you have to be attracted to it, my hubby said he fell in love with my eyes instantly, I fell in love with his smile, his cock was a bonus

if that makes us fickle, then im a fickle fairy eating figs up a fir tree

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By *ransylvesterTV/TS
over a year ago

Close enough for fun!

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

Do you fook as you put it with a bag on your head? Reality is looks count and many cant perform with someone they class as ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What an odd post, the first thing you see idms the face of course you have to be attracted to it, my hubby said he fell in love with my eyes instantly, I fell in love with his smile, his cock was a bonus

if that makes us fickle, then im a fickle fairy eating figs up a fir tree

careful figs bung you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if that makes us fickle, then im a fickle fairy eating figs up a fir tree

careful figs bung you up

so you would just shag anyone even if you did not find them attractive?...surely there has to be some kind of attraction ?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I am shallower than a frying pan. If he's not drop dead gorgeous then I'm not interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On how someone face looks how shallow society is it's all about being sensual for fook sake

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I think if you can fuck ooo ok shag ... be sensual not caring about looks ....... you would shag what ever as dont care , Sorry but its true,

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

if that makes us fickle, then im a fickle fairy eating figs up a fir tree

careful figs bung you up

Not with hubby around lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I suggest investing in paper bags.

Failing that, buy black bin liners.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"This an't e harmony mate

Most on here are not looking for a deep a meaningful conversation they are looking to Fuck people they're attracted to.

Now, that's where most men and women differ! I need to be attracted to someone I was going to have sex with!

I like to think it's called standards

perhaps a reality check is required on some opinions . Sadly we are not all as attractive as those who have the good fortune to have so called standards . By default there is going to be a pool of people no fault of their own who will be deemed below standards by the pretty people .are the pretty people really suggesting if two people left I'm the un desired poolwanting good sex get together that they are lesser people who have no standards ?

I am not suggesting anyone should meet anyone they don't want to but feel the negativity towards those that may want to.just a little demeaning and wrongly judgmental

I don't think it wrong either to suggest that there are some people on first sight are not instantly attractive however it is absolute fact that by keeping an open mind there is a section of people who become very attractive as a whole package x

it also can be said that although we have animal instincts we also have a mind that can reason beyond the basic

I felt the op was suggesting life can be more interesting if a person does not enforce a preference into an absolute criteria . There is I would suggest a grey scale between fuck me stunning and pug of ugly . And not insisting on the stunner may be quite a healthy attitude

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