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Who on here hasn't even been swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who's just curious and still finding courage?

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I never have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still trying too find the courage to go too a club! They sound soo much fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's just curious and still finding courage?"

So your still curious after 11 months of being on the site ?

What have you found out in that time ?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We haven't done very much. We've had a couple of threesomes with a very sexy lady and we've made some nice friends, but we haven't gone all the way with a couple yet. That's more down to circumstances than courage.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Not me. I'm not a pursuant. I'm seeking other things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who's just curious and still finding courage?

So your still curious after 11 months of being on the site ?

What have you found out in that time ?"

Wow 11 months that's gone quick ! Yeah still ain't plucked the courage yet me and the Mrs. If that was the case we would be on here as a couple by now ? No rush anyway. Plenty of time

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

No never have either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No never have either "

Have you been to clubs ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No never have either "

We have not met yet and been accused of being fake due to a heavy year with lots of busy circumstances we know when we meet the couple of person we would like fun with, Kathy has tried lots before we became a couple we are certainly in no rush and want the experience to be fantastic one there is scenario’s we both want to try as a loving couple x

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By *ardboy45Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I am waiting for chance but no one is giving one

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Oh wow.. this is a perfect block list of all non swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wow.. this is a perfect block list of all non swingers "

I have a feeling your block list would be absolutely huge if you blocked non swingers on this site.

I do wonder what made non swingers sign up to a swinging site.

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Oh wow.. this is a perfect block list of all non swingers

I have a feeling your block list would be absolutely huge if you blocked non swingers on this site.

I do wonder what made non swingers sign up to a swinging site."

I wouldn’t consider myself a swinger, in my eyes a swinger or more to the point “swingers” is a pair/couple that swap and meet up with others! Me myself being single I don’t have a partner to “SWING” with so I’m here to get know people learn more about the lifestyle and hopefully meet up and possibly explore new sexual boundaries!

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By *edgirlWoman
over a year ago

Berkhamsted

I've been on the kink and swinger scene 6y now. I don't consider myself a hardened expert but I definitely have some good stories to tell lol

My early experiences and memories weren't all amazing, or what I'd imagined.

But later ones, after I became a little more 'choosy' and specific in my list of required attributes, in addition to taking time to find out more about potential play partners* led to waaaaay more satisfying and delicious experiences!

* By this I mean moving the conversation to an easier platform eg kik, WhatsApp, having more indepth conversations and, more often than not, meeting for a social before playing.

Or my ultimate fave... meeting at a swingers club. If there's no connection, u can both move on to have fun elsewhere!

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By *edgirlWoman
over a year ago

Berkhamsted


"No never have either

We have not met yet and been accused of being fake due to a heavy year with lots of busy circumstances we know when we meet the couple of person we would like fun with, Kathy has tried lots before we became a couple we are certainly in no rush and want the experience to be fantastic one there is scenario’s we both want to try as a loving couple x"

Probably worth explaining this. Your profile says you're new but this reply says she, at least, isn't. More depth in your profile might help.

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By *edgirlWoman
over a year ago

Berkhamsted


"I am waiting for chance but no one is giving one"

My profile is openly kinky and says what I like. Yours screams newbie who has no clue what he's into. It certainly doesn't say experienced kinkster.

Anything u can add to demonstrate experience will help.

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By *edgirlWoman
over a year ago

Berkhamsted


"Oh wow.. this is a perfect block list of all non swingers "

Think I just fell in love with u lol x

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By *he couple nextdoorCouple
over a year ago

grangemouth

I understand ppl being nervous

Or not finding right people

But it's a nightmare taking then they say not meeting

Perhaps people should say when they are looking for,or not meeting

We won't just meet anyone for the sake

We know what we like

It's trying to get like minded people, that are actually going to meet

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I understand ppl being nervous

Or not finding right people

But it's a nightmare taking then they say not meeting

Perhaps people should say when they are looking for,or not meeting

We won't just meet anyone for the sake

We know what we like

It's trying to get like minded people, that are actually going to meet "
love your pics very sexy x

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Who's just curious and still finding courage?

So your still curious after 11 months of being on the site ?

What have you found out in that time ?

Wow 11 months that's gone quick ! Yeah still ain't plucked the courage yet me and the Mrs. If that was the case we would be on here as a couple by now ? No rush anyway. Plenty of time "

.

Took us a lot longer than that to pluck up the courage to visit our first club lol

You're quite right, it's not something to rush, wait until you're ready for it,

all we can say is that once we did we loved it and everyone does their best to

put you at ease when they know it's your first time and still new to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand ppl being nervous

Or not finding right people

But it's a nightmare taking then they say not meeting

Perhaps people should say when they are looking for,or not meeting

We won't just meet anyone for the sake

We know what we like

It's trying to get like minded people, that are actually going to meet "

Chatting to someone doesn't guarantee a meet. They may just be polite, or chat then realise there's no attraction.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I understand ppl being nervous

Or not finding right people

But it's a nightmare taking then they say not meeting

Perhaps people should say when they are looking for,or not meeting

We won't just meet anyone for the sake

We know what we like

It's trying to get like minded people, that are actually going to meet

Chatting to someone doesn't guarantee a meet. They may just be polite, or chat then realise there's no attraction. "

I used to do that alot and realised they only chatting hoping i fuck them so now i just ignore most

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

Had a really bad meet that’s knocked us sideways a bit, want to start concentrating more on the friendships and let the play happen naturally going forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand ppl being nervous

Or not finding right people

But it's a nightmare taking then they say not meeting

Perhaps people should say when they are looking for,or not meeting

We won't just meet anyone for the sake

We know what we like

It's trying to get like minded people, that are actually going to meet

Chatting to someone doesn't guarantee a meet. They may just be polite, or chat then realise there's no attraction.

I used to do that alot and realised they only chatting hoping i fuck them so now i just ignore most"

Same. Even when I say I'm gay, not looking for anyone and my age range is stupidly tiny they still think my "no thank you" response means I want their cock in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a really bad meet that’s knocked us sideways a bit, want to start concentrating more on the friendships and let the play happen naturally going forward "

It gets better. Trust your gut and walk away if they seem odd. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been here a while and didn’t fuck anyone one from the site. Simply because I don’t just fuck anyone and I’m probably not spending enough time and effort on here.

There are a lovely people on here who I love to try with, but there is always something in the way, they are to fare, or not interested, or the age not right and so and so….

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