FabSwingers.com forum: Dating sites vs fab

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I read on here some of you are on both sites but intrigued to know fabbers experiences of both? Pro and cons of using the sites.

For me, I love the fact I can see a potential match naked with a hard cock before meeting on fab.

Men don't really chat properly or arrange dates on vanilla dating sites

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I only use fab

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By *illbe9999Man
over a year ago

Holmfirth

I'm on a number of dating apps.

In my experience, people tend to be less truthful on their profiles...being a lot older and heavier in real life.

I've also had people cone on dates just for a night out or free meal. Don't slate me - its true

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Men don't chat because some sites are £30 a month and there's the old % women liked your profile (pays up) only to find out that zero women liked your profile.

A lack of forums is a big thing.

Paying for something and being lied to sucks.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"For me, I love the fact I can see a potential match naked with a hard cock before meeting on fab.

Men don't really chat properly or arrange dates on vanilla dating sites

On dating sites you can see a potential match holding a large fish or standing next to a car, for some reason.

I found the opposite to you - chatting and arranging dates was much easier on dating sites. Fab is really hard for blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating sites and fab should be treated as completely different.

This is for sexual related meets.

Dating sites and apps are for - dates. Which 70 percent on the single population use and so is going to be alot more vanilla and mainstream for the purposes of actually dating.

Some apps are more kink focussed but it's a myth that tinder is only used for sex and loads of people DO actually meet people from it. I know 3 couples alone who are at least engaged from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf fabs the worst but most entertaining..

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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I've been a serial dating / fabber for years. A very recent experience sums up entirely the difference as a female.

Guy sends me a message on fab, wanna shag, cock pic etc (the usual) quite rude and arrogant.

Same guy few months later matches on a dating site (he has no idea its me) polite, well mannered.

Went on a few dates before I disclosed that I was indeed on "that site" at which point he said, "I didn't realise you were one of "those types" and that was our last date.

I can assure you, most of my fellow single females get more sex from dating sites, than I choose to on fab

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

I don’t use dating sites at all, I have my hubby for dates, I use fab to find potential cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read on here some of you are on both sites but intrigued to know fabbers experiences of both? Pro and cons of using the sites.

For me, I love the fact I can see a potential match naked with a hard cock before meeting on fab.

Men don't really chat properly or arrange dates on vanilla dating sites

I find it the opposite. Women will actually have a conversation on dating sites and dates can be arranged.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I've been a serial dating / fabber for years. A very recent experience sums up entirely the difference as a female.

Guy sends me a message on fab, wanna shag, cock pic etc (the usual) quite rude and arrogant.

Same guy few months later matches on a dating site (he has no idea its me) polite, well mannered.

Went on a few dates before I disclosed that I was indeed on "that site" at which point he said, "I didn't realise you were one of "those types" and that was our last date.

I can assure you, most of my fellow single females get more sex from dating sites, than I choose to on fab

Wow interesting how some men try to play the game with their behaviour. I find the rudeness on fab outstanding from the word go where if I met someone elsewhere, their rudeness comes out in time. Lol maybe I just naturally attract rude and arrogant men. I definitely don't want one. The best meets so far have been from fab or meeting someone randomly in real life. I haven't been on an online date for over 3 years now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men don't chat because some sites are £30 a month and there's the old % women liked your profile (pays up) only to find out that zero women liked your profile.

A lack of forums is a big thing.

Paying for something and being lied to sucks."

110%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t use dating sites at all, I have my hubby for dates, I use fab to find potential cock"

Honesty best policy! Well stated. Abit of extra need. And you have guts to admit it openly.

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By *ce cream poke man 2Man
over a year ago

Newark

Deleted that Tin der app. Was waste of time for me there. Match wasn’t much better. Not had any luck on here either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found dating apps to be not unlike this site, really. You spend a lot of time trying to match or message and it can take 50 tries before someone responds. The main difference is I'm looking for a relationship on the app I use, whereas I'm just openly trying to have kinky fun on here.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I read on here some of you are on both sites but intrigued to know fabbers experiences of both? Pro and cons of using the sites.

For me, I love the fact I can see a potential match naked with a hard cock before meeting on fab.

Men don't really chat properly or arrange dates on vanilla dating sites

Not sure if I would ever agree to a date through Fab, I suggest clubs where I will be anyway. If potential meets say hi and my couple likes them then maybe that's a getting-to-know-you but if we don't click there's still a whole building full of sexy people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is far better than any dating apps I've ever seen x it's always nice to hear that girls like yourself like to see horny things like that rather than trying to find a match kinda thing

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

The chase in dating sites is as fun as the emotionless sex from Fab

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I don’t date (not in the traditional sense anyway) but I use Tinder if I am seeking something/ someone in the realm of ENM/ solo poly/ short term NSA fun. Am upfront with the people i match with about that.

I use Fab for exploring sex-forward experiences and kinks within the lifestyle.

I use reddit primarily for meeting cuckold couples.

All platforms are very different scenarios, and i approach them as such.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Deleted that Tin der app. Was waste of time for me there. Match wasn’t much better. Not had any luck on here either lol "

But you had a better time as a couple on fab? Most women prefer more info on a profile you see

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I read on here some of you are on both sites but intrigued to know fabbers experiences of both? Pro and cons of using the sites.

For me, I love the fact I can see a potential match naked with a hard cock before meeting on fab.

Men don't really chat properly or arrange dates on vanilla dating sites

I'm guessing people don't really say it's a date apart from a practical perceptive.

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By *old HoopsWoman
over a year ago

Near Chester

I'm currently on dating sites looking for a relationship and it's a bit of a slog.

Most of the men I've matched with are only after hookups which makes me think I might as well be on here where the profiles are more detailed and you can find out what they really want.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I'm currently on dating sites looking for a relationship and it's a bit of a slog.

Most of the men I've matched with are only after hookups which makes me think I might as well be on here where the profiles are more detailed and you can find out what they really want. "
yes I am going through similar experience. It's extremely difficult finding a long term partner. I heard witb men, it comes with maturity when one day they realise it's unfulfilling just having random hook ups, noone there to care for them and think they're special. Obviously they seem not as emotional "needy"?

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By *old HoopsWoman
over a year ago

Near Chester

"I'm currently on dating sites looking for a relationship and it's a bit of a slog.

Most of the men I've matched with are only after hookups which makes me think I might as well be on here where the profiles are more detailed and you can find out what they really want. yes I am going through similar experience. It's extremely difficult finding a long term partner. I heard witb men, it comes with maturity when one day they realise it's unfulfilling just having random hook ups, noone there to care for them and think they're special. Obviously they seem not as emotional "needy"?

No, they must get those needs met in other ways.

My age range goes up to 55 and I haven't met these mature men yet... Actually let me be fair. They may be the smokers that I don't date or the ones with the really negative profiles moaning about not meeting anyone.

Trying speed dating next though.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I'm currently on dating sites looking for a relationship and it's a bit of a slog.

No, they must get those needs met in other ways.

Trying speed dating next though. "

I been on one speed date. Most of the time, it felt very uncomfortable talking to someone I clearly not attracted to. It ended up a good night. I got with 4 people, we went clubbing at Fabric and snogged the best looking and funniest guy there. So definitely try speed dating for an experience. I just not keen on spending 2 minutes with someone I have nothing in common or physically don't fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm currently on dating sites looking for a relationship and it's a bit of a slog.

No, they must get those needs met in other ways.

Trying speed dating next though.

2 minutes. Oh the torture!!

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I'm currently on dating sites looking for a relationship and it's a bit of a slog.

No, they must get those needs met in other ways.

Trying speed dating next though.

2 minutes. Oh the torture!! "

Times that by 11 guys in one night. Maybe it was 5 mins we got! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm currently on dating sites looking for a relationship and it's a bit of a slog.

No, they must get those needs met in other ways.

Trying speed dating next though.

2 minutes. Oh the torture!!

Times that by 11 guys in one night. Maybe it was 5 mins we got! Lol"

Ah fair point, it adds up!

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

If anyone done speed dating, from a female point of view, probably agree with me, it's pretty uncomfortable experience. Think most men who go there are really desperate to date as their social skills are pretty poor. It was like trying to pull teeth out of some of them

I would never do it again. It was about £30 to do it as well

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By *old HoopsWoman
over a year ago

Near Chester

"If anyone done speed dating, from a female point of view, probably agree with me, it's pretty uncomfortable experience. Think most men who go there are really desperate to date as their social skills are pretty poor. It was like trying to pull teeth out of some of them

I would never do it again. It was about £30 to do it as well"

Dammit.

Well it's booked now so I guess I'll have to see how it goes.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

"I'm currently on dating sites looking for a relationship and it's a bit of a slog.

Most of the men I've matched with are only after hookups which makes me think I might as well be on here where the profiles are more detailed and you can find out what they really want. "

I agree. I've done many dating sites and paid the £30 a month, and find they are mostly all hook up sites, though of course there are exceptions to any rules.

Might as well be on fab for a fiver every so often for hook ups rather than paying for a so called dating site.

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By *lan4FFUUNNMan
over a year ago

Genoa Italy and Liverpool

I use Fab, Badoo and Tinder, Fab has the naked pics so you can see what you are getting first, with Badoo and Tinder after a few whats app messages etc you can easily find out what the other is looking for and swap naked pics if taking things further x

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'm tired of the endless swiping on dating apps. There's some right bunny boilers on there too! Not to mention the fakes & bots.

With Fab you can chat, have a laugh & it seems a much more relaxed experience. The fact it's on here means you can be a lot more open about things too.

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By *MattyMan
over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

"I read on here some of you are on both sites but intrigued to know fabbers experiences of both? Pro and cons of using the sites.

For me, I love the fact I can see a potential match naked with a hard cock before meeting on fab.

Men don't really chat properly or arrange dates on vanilla dating sites

Over the years been on both (obviously as here now lol). Hardest thing I found was me remembering which site I was on and not message the same way you may on here on dating sites shall we say

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I personally hated the vanilla dating scene, in the clubs all the pressure is off. Last week I was stood at the bar in a pair of tiny boxers chatting to a girl in a bunny outfit. We were both there to have fun and we laughed like drains. If it was the same situation at regular bar whilst fully clothed we wouldn't have been within 10 feet of each other.

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

I only use fab, the thought of vanilla bores me to death. I want a bad girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some good meets using apps, unintentionally too.

Arranged a date with one lady, coffee and cake. The day of the date I got a message saying she doesn't have too much time so would just prefer cake and sex. Dream scenario!!

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"I had some good meets using apps, unintentionally too.

Arranged a date with one lady, coffee and cake. The day of the date I got a message saying she doesn't have too much time so would just prefer cake and sex. Dream scenario!!"

What type of cake was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had some good meets using apps, unintentionally too.

Arranged a date with one lady, coffee and cake. The day of the date I got a message saying she doesn't have too much time so would just prefer cake and sex. Dream scenario!!

What type of cake was it? "

Lemon drizzle

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For us Fab is the antithesis of a dating site. We're here for nsa fun, not for meaningful relationships. In fact we rarely meet through fab but swing in clubs where, more often than not, names are not even exchanged.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I'm on fab and other another dating site as well the other one is about as useful as a lighthouse in a bog

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"I had some good meets using apps, unintentionally too.

Arranged a date with one lady, coffee and cake. The day of the date I got a message saying she doesn't have too much time so would just prefer cake and sex. Dream scenario!!

What type of cake was it?

Lemon drizzle "

Lucky you on both counts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes on dating sites something will pop up indicating that women are interested in me, but for me to chat with them I need to pay.

Yeah right

If they really want to chat they can reply to my messages. I would never pay to use a dating site.. there are plenty you don't need to pay for.

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By *ornynwukCouple
over a year ago

blackpool

Fab is not a dating site it’s not Facebook it’s a swinger site for liberated people who like having consented sex with other people it’s that simple

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Fab is not a dating site it’s not Facebook it’s a swinger site for liberated people who like having consented sex with other people it’s that simple "

You’ll be amazed how many people have met on fab and started dating. There’s been a good few weddings too.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Fab is not a dating site it’s not Facebook it’s a swinger site for liberated people who like having consented sex with other people it’s that simple "

I read on this forum lots of couples met through swinging and married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is not a dating site it’s not Facebook it’s a swinger site for liberated people who like having consented sex with other people it’s that simple

I read on this forum lots of couples met through swinging and married"

It's still statistically rare compared to how most couples get together. I think you'd have to be very lucky to have a long successful relationship based on someone you met on here. Not impossible, but very lucky.

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By *enedict2020Man
over a year ago

London

"I read on here some of you are on both sites but intrigued to know fabbers experiences of both? Pro and cons of using the sites.

For me, I love the fact I can see a potential match naked with a hard cock before meeting on fab.

Men don't really chat properly or arrange dates on vanilla dating sites

I get more "action" from dating sites.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Fab is not a dating site "

Correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read on here some of you are on both sites but intrigued to know fabbers experiences of both? Pro and cons of using the sites.

For me, I love the fact I can see a potential match naked with a hard cock before meeting on fab.

Men don't really chat properly or arrange dates on vanilla dating sites

I get more "action" from dating sites. "

Men can't be trusted on any sites. They will just say they want to date to get a fuck.

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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

Men can't be trusted on any sites. They will just say they want to date to get a fuck. "

I can be trusted to say that I want to date to get a fuck

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I read on here some of you are on both sites but intrigued to know fabbers experiences of both? Pro and cons of using the sites.

For me, I love the fact I can see a potential match naked with a hard cock before meeting on fab.

Men don't really chat properly or arrange dates on vanilla dating sites

I get more "action" from dating sites.

Men can't be trusted on any sites. They will just say they want to date to get a fuck. "

Men just want sex what ever social media they use. I get alot of advances on FB and IG too

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Fab for more than 1 and 1on1 meets in London. When I am travelling elsewhere in the UK and particularly abroad Tinder works a treat for me

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"Fab is not a dating site it’s not Facebook it’s a swinger site for liberated people who like having consented sex with other people it’s that simple

I read on this forum lots of couples met through swinging and married

It’s actually more common than you think.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I like dating ladies and have met many nice ladies on here and tinder.

I know it's not the norm on here but I like a dance and a flirty night out if I can.

Tinder is obviously less of a NSA sex site but I choose my words carefully ...

And fab is fab.

I've found the ratio of men to women much better on tinder , I have had a lot of coffees that was as far as it went..but also some very nice ladies who would periodically go dancing with me, shag me senseless and then drive me home in the morning after a full english ...never had that on fab.

I've also met ladies on here and had couples profiles ..and a more formal relationship...but that I have found tricky ...

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By *ellparty123Couple
over a year ago

telford

We got married from Tinder

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"We got married from Tinder

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I like dating ladies and have met many nice ladies on here and tinder.

I know it's not the norm on here but I like a dance and a flirty night out if I can.

Tinder is obviously less of a NSA sex site but I choose my words carefully ...

And fab is fab.

I've also met ladies on here and had couples profiles ..and a more formal relationship...but that I have found tricky ...

That's sad that some fabbers don't want that. I had some lovely fab meets which felt more normal like going to the cinema, meals out then crazy sex afterwards. Way more natural and fulfilling. But I also had quick shags too. So variety is the spice of life.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"We got married from Tinder

Yeah I know loads of couples met online and marrying. When you pigeonhole everything, you can stop alot of amazing experiences from happening. I married a guy, fell hopelessly in love with another from meeting online. And of course, had crazy wild sex with others so anything is possible.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

It doesn't matter what site you are on at least fab is more honest but all meets centre around attraction, sex and personality so fab is as honest as you will get

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"I like dating ladies and have met many nice ladies on here and tinder.

I know it's not the norm on here but I like a dance and a flirty night out if I can.

Tinder is obviously less of a NSA sex site but I choose my words carefully ...

And fab is fab.

I've also met ladies on here and had couples profiles ..and a more formal relationship...but that I have found tricky ...

Oh I've done all sorts , love an adventure..try anything once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read on here some of you are on both sites but intrigued to know fabbers experiences of both? Pro and cons of using the sites.

For me, I love the fact I can see a potential match naked with a hard cock before meeting on fab.

Men don't really chat properly or arrange dates on vanilla dating sites

Am on here also dating sites I'd leave this one if/when I find a relationship.

Also on Grindr but that's its own animal.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"It doesn't matter what site you are on at least fab is more honest but all meets centre around attraction, sex and personality so fab is as honest as you will get

I can’t tell if this is sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met about 6 women for sex on a very well known dating site. We both wanted the same thing..no strings sex!

The type of women I was attracting were attractive women that I would normally attract in day to day life...on fab I have met none for whatever reason. The type of women I would normally go for I have no chance with in here which is hard to take but that's fab.

I would never meet anyone on here if I wasn't attracted to them just so I can get some action...it would have to be someone that I would pursue a relationship with...

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